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RomanceRe: No Longer Finds Spouse Attractive by DExplorer1: 2:39pm On Sep 10, 2012
mekaboy: [b] EVEN THOUGH THIS SOUNDS LIKE A MOVIE SCRIPT U POSTED HERE BUT FOR REAL THIS WHAT.MOST MARRIED MEN FACE TODAY.

NOTHING LASTS FOREVER, I WOULD ADVICE UR FRIEND NOT TO CHEAT ON.HER INSTEAD TALK THINGS OVER WITH HER AND MARRY A SECOND WIFE IF HE CAN AFFORD IT.

I WAS SITTING SOMEWHERE YESTERDAY WHEN A MAN WITH HIS WIFE AND THREE KIDS CAME IN. I NOTICED THAT THE MAN AND WOMEN GAVE ALL THE ATTENTION TO THEIR KIDS AND NOT THEMSELVES. I JST KNEW ITS THE KIDA THAT ARE KEEPING THEM TOGETHER.

THEN I ASKED MYSELF. IF I GET MARRIED AND IT GETS.TO THIS LEVEL, WILL I JUST REMAIN FAITHFUL AND BE IN BONDAGE OR DO I DO SOMETHING NEW LIKE TAKE A NEW WIFE AND REVIVE MY SEX AND LOVE LIFE?

I HAVE HEARD ALL THAT.CRAP ABOUT REKINDLE YOUR LOVE. I MEAN IF I HAVE ONE SHOE THAT I WEAR ALWAYS AND I POLISH IT AND IT SHINING . DOES THAT MAKE IT NEW? IN MY MIND ITS THE SAME SHOE.

THE ONLY WAY I CAN REKINDLE MY LOVE FOR THAT SHOE IS IF.I BUY.ANOTHER ONE AND STOP WEARING THE.OLD ONE FOR A WHILE, WHEN NEXT I WEAR THE OLD ONE IT WILL FEEL NEW[/b]
It's terrible some does think like this. You could have 20shoes and keep changing and buying more.
RomanceRe: No Longer Finds Spouse Attractive by DExplorer1: 5:49am On Sep 10, 2012
bonysmile: What could possibly be responsible for someone no longer finding his/her spouse or partner attractive?

Recently a colleague couldn't hold it back any longer as he let out his mind. We were at the bar this past friday after work; just the both of us when he started pouring out his heart. Well neither of us was drunk because we had just arrived and ordered our first bottles.

No sooner had the drinks arrived than he said to me: "man I hardly look forward to going home after each day's work." At first I thought it was about a normal boys thing to want to hang out sometimes after work, but he went on.

He said he doesn't find his wife attractive and infact she has to beg him for sex before he has it with her. They've been married for less than 3 years with 2 lovely kids. According to him, his wife truly loves him and shows it but he can't give back to her in the same measure. He provides for his home like every responsible man should, but he'll rather find sexual pleasure and satisfaction outside. He has tried to love her back the way she loves him but something keeps putting him off. As far as he is concerned, it's the kids that keep him coming home everyday and they are the very reason he is still sharing same roof with her. They have sex (not love-making) once in a long while and she's usually the one to initiate it. He gives in according to him, just to please her. And even while doing it he wishes it was another woman. Mind you his wife is exceptionally beautiful; she is a paragon of beauty.

Nairalanders please let's leave out all abusive comments, what's your advice to this man.
Dude, tell your friend to shut up. He's the boring person in that relationship. What happens to a visit to "Night of a thousand laugh" or even "Stand up Nigeria" with the kids? What happens to a dinner in a serene atmosphere with the kids outside the home? What happens to those romantic things they both did before marriage? Is marriage a cell? Tell him to shut the hell up and make his wife look 16 again. Damn!
RomanceRe: How Did You Propose To Your Wife? by DExplorer1: 5:25am On Sep 10, 2012
cdamsel: make una no vex abeg,who b dis cindy?she is really famous oh,wen do I get 2 meet her? grin
Look up there, she fit cause traffic for benin-ore road grin
RomanceRe: A Kim Kardashian Or A Michelle Obama? by DExplorer1: 4:44am On Sep 10, 2012
[quote author=c.fours]^ that's just the way I see them. they are both successful but totally different and in different worlds.



I never accepted Paris Hilton and I doubt I will ever accept KimK. I'm seriously tired of seeing or hearing about her. lol[/quote]grin grin grin
RomanceRe: A Kim Kardashian Or A Michelle Obama? by DExplorer1: 4:20am On Sep 10, 2012
[quote author=c.fours]^
Let's stick to the topic please. This was the question --->



and my answer was:
An educated, upwardly mobile, mature man will prefer a Michelle Obama.
an uneducated prole or teenage hormonal guy will prefer Kim K.

as a woman, I much rather aspire to be a michelle obama.

of course Kim K will sell more magazines than Obama. You are arguing for quantity (made in china) while I am arguing for quality (made in italy).
again, no hate for Kim K but to me, she is the poster child for American decadence lipsrsealed[/quote]Hahahahahaha. You are a clown! Just as stated in my very first comment on this issue, i'd said i'll go for a Michelle because her kind befits my profession...and even my lifestyle. Due respect to all Kims' and Michelles', they sure know what makes them tick grin
RomanceRe: A Kim Kardashian Or A Michelle Obama? by DExplorer1: 3:53am On Sep 10, 2012
[quote author=c.fours]Michelle Obama before becoming the FLOTUS was:
Associate Dean of the University of Chicago
Executive Director of Public Allies
Executive Director in the University of Chicago Hospitals system
Board of Directors, Treehouse foods
she first met Barack while working as an attorney in a law firm.

Just because she is not on TMZ or E! doesn't mean she is a nobody.But proles think that way. The most powerful and influential people on earth may never appear on cheap tv/magazine covers or appear only rarely . In fact, they shun those outlets. u only hear their names in magazines like Forbes or Bloomberg and maybe the New York times. they are celebrity among elite circles. regular people don't read those magazines. they only know who is influential in music, tv or sports or as dictated by Peoples magazine (aka Proles magazine). In case of Kim K, her fame is based on reality tv sort of like Paris Hilton who is also low class even though she comes from a rich family.
I suggest you pick up and read something by Vance Packard.

next,we will be comparing Lil Wayne to Larry Page *roll eyes*[/quote]We prolly would have been on the same page if not for your emphasis on low class and what tabloid KimK makes. Lets keep this straight KimK has been in the news before Michelle started her political career and when you talk about the 'elites' it makes me wonder if these so called elites are really boring. KimK is a money machine and best believe she has got brains and ways. Most people or rather elites you're talking about are secret lovers of Kim and that's because she will sell any magazine faster than Michelle. Been the first lady is not a pass for general 'like' and the last time i checked, Michelle will only make frontpage more on politics related magazine and for other magazines (Vogue and co) if she does makes frontpage, check again, she must be sharing her family life or maybe she has a new dress on. Truth be told dude, KimK is news from head to toe, her controvesies sells big time, even the 'highclass' wanna read (they sure do make money from it). Pls., don't judge KimK by the sextape thingy, that's what a controversial celebrity does. Many people believed Kim indeed wedded Kris to live with him...hell no! Accept KimK personality and you will appreciate her more.
RomanceRe: A Woman's Height by DExplorer1: 9:50pm On Sep 09, 2012
vivian chinaza: Lmao....and u said I shouldn't cry? So who aRe u leaving ur fellow midgets foR?
*the cRying tuRns to scReaming*
Let me leave you for future sake. Lets have mercy on our generation grin
RomanceRe: How Did You Propose To Your Wife? by DExplorer1: 9:25pm On Sep 09, 2012
[quote author=Mynd_44]When I propose to Cindy, I will come back here and tell yalll how I did it[/quote]Keep dreaming!
RomanceRe: How Did You Propose To Your Wife? by DExplorer1: 6:26pm On Sep 09, 2012
[quote author=Maria-G]Lol, chai, men. My guy, by their answers you shall know if they have wife or not. Listen to more reasonable ones or better still, tagg it, "for married men only".[/quote]So your dinner tonight depends on the quality of response? I'm not used to insulting women i just might have said you're so dumb.
RomanceRe: How Did You Propose To Your Wife? by DExplorer1: 6:14pm On Sep 09, 2012
Dude, it was treated before but you're still on point. Mine was pretty romantic. It was right at the middle of Lagos/Ibadan expressway.
RomanceRe: A Woman's Height by DExplorer1: 6:07pm On Sep 09, 2012
vivian chinaza: Hello....I'm a midget......is there any hope I cud get picked?
*cRying*
C'mon babe, don't cry! Am also a midget with a sweet dream of having a woman 6.2tall. I won't mind climbing a stool to kiss her cheesy
RomanceRe: Relationships And Phone Calls. by DExplorer1: 3:55pm On Sep 09, 2012
Wislet: u be guy and u dey disagree.

De man no lie joor. Na confirm occurrence wey small pikin know sef.
You might be right...maybe to those without airtime undecided
RomanceRe: -- by DExplorer1: 3:51pm On Sep 09, 2012
monalicious: If Christ spoke to anyone in dis manner,I'm pretty sure he wldnt have had any followers
grin grin Funny!
RomanceRe: Relationships And Phone Calls. by DExplorer1: 3:17pm On Sep 09, 2012
igbsam: True or False! Boyfriend / Husband / Men dey suffer when it comes to phonecalls
Call summary.
Boy to Boy = 00:01:00
Boy to Mum= 00:02:30
Boy to Dad = 00:02:00
Girl to Girl = 00:04:44
Boy to Girl = 00:25:59 (when battery is low they end call)
But, ......
Girl to Boy = 00:00:05.(Pls cal me back)
Especially in 9ja grin
I 'like' your post because it's hilarious but you are so wrong. Maybe you need to change your friends and your girl.
RomanceRe: What Can Make You Hit A Woman? by DExplorer1: 8:10am On Sep 09, 2012
[quote author=Mynd_44]And assuming you only have senior sisters and you attended an only boys school?[/quote]Not specifically blood related. Anything female.
RomanceRe: Furstrated by DExplorer1: 7:38am On Sep 09, 2012
Dyt: Baby
Wat is shockin u na
Wat else can she do, cheatin is out of it
And oyinbo has made things easier

Woman abeg, tk 2 my advice oooo
C'mon babymama, make she dey use vibo? At her husband's face? Haba.
RomanceRe: Relationships And Phone Calls. by DExplorer1: 7:31am On Sep 09, 2012
If i've something going on, let her call 10times, it's a pleasure but if none, your 3rd call at a stretch could be a stress to me.
RomanceRe: Furstrated by DExplorer1: 7:23am On Sep 09, 2012
Dyt: Ehn its so easy na
Wen u both on bed n u feelin lyk being humped
Touch him n if he ignores u
Take out ur toys n do ursef wat u desire
I mean ryt 2 his face
Tell him 2 use it on u since he can't satisfy u
I bet no one ll teach him wat 2 do
shocked shocked shocked
RomanceRe: What Can Make You Hit A Woman? by DExplorer1: 7:11am On Sep 09, 2012
[quote author=Mynd_44]As long as you do it with your body and apply, a force, you hitter her.[/quote]LOL. Mynd park well grin . Women can be crazy sometimes. Away from that, i think hitting a woman starts from hitting your sisters.
RomanceRe: What Can Make You Hit A Woman? by DExplorer1: 6:57am On Sep 09, 2012
[quote author=Mynd_44]And what is a push back? Did I define "hitting her there" a push back can also be called hitting nah nah[/quote]Yeye person grin A push back isn't a hit. I could do that for self defence.
RomanceRe: A Kim Kardashian Or A Michelle Obama? by DExplorer1:
[quote author=c.fours]last time I checked, Michelle Obama is a more influential celebrity!...and I don't need to explain why she's high-class because it's self evident.

If you poll people to ask who they look up to, those who mention Kim K will be disproportionately low class, low life proles, while those who choose Michelle Obama will be disproportionately educated and sophisticated. Need I say more?
The fact that you dIDN'T even know that Michelle Obama is a celebrity shows what kind of media you consume.

That a topic like this even exists is a testament to peoples' stupidity.[/quote]Dude, the insult isn't neccessary. Present your opinion and halt the jabs!

I think you need to understand that showbiz is different from politics. In showbiz you also need to understand that some celebrity choose to be controversial to earn or keep on the fame. It all works in any field.

Now, at bolded, you crack me up. You calling her a low class makes you sound ridiculous and don't forget that the low class lass is getting the best of guys in her kitty. Hahaha
Michelle won't survive in Kim's world, Kim can't fit Michelle's world. Their world powers their actions and attitude. No FLOTUS gonna act like Kim if she still want the political ambition of her husband intact and Michelle will never gonna make frontpage the way Kim does. Dude, don't let your hatred for Kim K defile your sense of judgement...and again, the last time you checked, you checked the wrong date. Michelle is more influential because she's presently in power, what's her track record before now? Give her more years, she will go the way of every FLOTUS and later adopt charity to remain in the news. Don't get it twisted, i'm no Kim's advocate, i root for a Michelle anytime because her kind befit my profession.
RomanceRe: What Can Make You Hit A Woman? by DExplorer1: 10:46pm On Sep 08, 2012
[quote author=Mynd_44]If she uses excessive force against me, she might get it.
If she is committing a violent crime again someone else I might try to restrain her. Any other thing, I will sit and watch you[/quote]A push back would be good to earn your space, to hit her shouldn't be among options.
RomanceRe: Never Dated A Nigerian Man Before by DExplorer1: 8:19pm On Sep 08, 2012
Hey people! I think you both need a break. The exchange isn't neccessary. We could remain on the topic without jabs. Pls., ok
RomanceRe: How Long Can U Engage A Girl B/4 Marriage by DExplorer1: 8:07pm On Sep 08, 2012
[quote author=Mynd_44]Something smells of fish[/quote]You smell right. Cindy got good hands cheesy
SportsRe: Liberia V Nigeria: 2013 AFCON Qualifier (2 - 2) On September 8th 2012 by DExplorer1: 7:22pm On Sep 08, 2012
oyejohn: what are you saying Liberia scored in d 9th minute stop misleading joor
Guy cool down, your body too hot grin
SportsRe: Liberia V Nigeria: 2013 AFCON Qualifier (2 - 2) On September 8th 2012 by DExplorer1: 7:16pm On Sep 08, 2012
Now Liberia 1 - Nigeria 0
RomanceRe: Do Your Password Your Cellphones And Hide The Password From Ur GF/BF? by DExplorer1: 7:06pm On Sep 08, 2012
cindyrella: He understands!
Me sef understand 50/50things. LMHO. Beta start confessing now grin
RomanceRe: Never Dated A Nigerian Man Before by DExplorer1: 6:36pm On Sep 08, 2012
[quote author=Mrs..Chima]No thanks. I am content with Mr. Chima. wink wink[/quote]Young woman, save the future! Don't decieve yourself for too long and later wake up to realize that your moniker has chased away potential partners wink grin grin
RomanceRe: Do Your Password Your Cellphones And Hide The Password From Ur GF/BF? by DExplorer1: 6:16pm On Sep 08, 2012
cindyrella: I lock my phone and keep the password to myself.
It is my phone, and I can do whatever I want with it!
if my Bf is not comfortable with it, he can hug transformer for all I care... undecided
Chai shocked Mynd don suffer undecided
RomanceRe: My Boyfriend Is Too Archaic It Worries Me by DExplorer1: 6:00pm On Sep 08, 2012
I think i can reply now grin Young woman, don't waste your time with that guy. Infact the way you're complaining shows you're fed up. The picture is clear. That guy needs a woman that will love him for who he is and not someone that will think of changing him. He lived all his life that way, we're talking about a 29yrs old dude. Whatever made you endure him for 3years should make you stay with him else you move on.

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