@ Poster, You don't need a virgin guy, you need God's direction concerning who to marry.

Pray to God to give you the Grace to walk in His Will for your life, and you will be at the right place at the right time, doing the right things, you will know what to say per time how to do what you need to do per time. Jesus says the HolySpirit will teach you all things. He will give you discernment (His ways are not our ways).

A virgin man may even be worse in terms of attitude and other important factors in marriage. Your fulfillment in life may be tied to God hooking you up with an "informed man", who knows?

Every one is going as it is written of them, and a virgin man may not be His ultimate plan for you. That does not rule out the fact that you can marry a virgin man, it's just intended to give you a broader perspective of how God relates with us.

Cheers!

The greatest mistake you can make as a xtian is to think that your own denomination is the best wherever you go, especially when you change location. If you really know The Truth like the Bible says, it will make you free, where the spirit of God is, there is liberty).

What you need to do is to look around for a Church or Pastor that preaches The Truth (we still have some exceptions and you can even find a place better than your own) and start worshiping there. You have the right to move on, once you discover any hypocrisy, life is by choice.

Why not look for a more suitable way to advertise your life coaching biz. instead of describing yourself like God.
Be very careful & avoid using God's attributes to describe yourself; He is a jealous God.

'Break the YOKE' & find other options. Too much of it is not good 4 ur health.

Yes they can be rich, but not with their meager wages.

The solution is that each individual should plan for their own future & not make the mistake of depending on the govt. They must get Financial Intelligence (understand financial planning) & know that pension cannot sustain them when they're out of service.

They must understand the importance of having at least four sources of income & shouldn't be ashamed of starting small.

Yes, I will participate, as a xtian who loves the progress of my country. The Bible encourages us to pray for our country and our leaders.

The problem with ignorant xtians like this poster is that they don't study The Bible on their own, but only live by anything their so called 'Daddy' says.
@ Davmor, you're simply the ignorant one here, if you have not studied your Bible enough to understand what Jesus said in Matt. 23:9 - And call no man your father upon the earth: for one is your Father, which is in heaven.

I will simply advise you to go start reading your Bible all over again (especially, all the Words of Jesus Christ and The Entire New Testament), so as to come out of the bondage of deception that so many "God's Generals" have created for their followers, both consciously & unconsciously.

, study to show yourself approved unto God, a workman that need not be put to shame, rightly dividing the Words of Truth - 2Tim.2:15
- note approved unto God & not your G.O.
- most xtians are being put to shame because they only follow their G.O's explanation & not that of d HolySpirit.
- you can't divide rightly when you've been confused!

, let the Words of Christ dwell in you richly in ALL WISDOM, - Colosians 3:16

Don't be one of d people perishing because you lack KNOWLEDGE OF THE REAL TRUTH.

Used to wear them when I take a bike, but soon noticed pain in my eyes, especially in the afternoons. I guess it has to do with the materials used to make them. I think some of them allow radiation thru to your eyes - my opinion.

@May Kelly & Tasma, kindly learn how to be considerate & empathize with others. Not going to a brothel, avoiding the loose girl in your neighbourhood or avoiding the numerous girls in your church (you don't have feelings for most) is totally different from, avoiding intimacy with the one you truly love , it takes a lot of grace (let him that thinks he's standing be careful lest he falls).

@Lacrissa, soak yourself deeply into more of study, meditation, worship when your mind begins to stray, remind yourself of the fear of God and his promises to those who stand, win the battle from your mind, continue to pray for Grace. Nothing shall separate us from the love of God, and finally like I said earlier, start planning for your marriage with all seriousness, to avoid the guilt that follows each time you give expression to your intimacy.

I wish good luck, but be detailed in your planning.

@ Toba, counselling is what she's get here (some Counsellors & Pastors are 'cancellers' of destiny). You must be careful how you send people for counselling.

@Lacrissa, follow @Image123's advice. Pray for forgiveness, have a deep discussion with your loved one and get married, so as to get rid of the guilt. You don't need to spend too much (don't follow society's opinion & don't try to impress or please anybody - it's your life, your future & your relationship with God that's at stake here).

Wedding is for a day (few hours); Marriage is for life - It's the understanding you have with your loved one, how you communicate and the life you spend together that matters.

All the best.

No not too small. It depends on your passion and determination to start something.
Consider @Alldone's advice or do more thinking on your own.
The first thing you have to do is to get rid rid of shame and focus on the result you want to get. That all-important 3k can take you places beyond your wildest imagination.

I know of a guy who started a 'now booming' biz by buying a bicycle with less than 2k just few years ago, he got a jobless boy on his street to supervise lending it to small boys, he went on to buy three more, sold the three to the boy at a point in time and bought an okada, to cut the story short, he's now having five danfo buses aside other sources of income.

Like I said earlier, get rid of shame, and you'll keep moving forward & upward.

Don't forget to commit it to God (he says whatever we do shall prosper).

All the best.

This might help you get a relief, pending when you get a lasting cure: Pls make sure you take water first thing in the morning & a lot of it thru the day. Make sure you feed mainly on fruits and vegetables. Find time to take a nap during your break time, in case you're the type that wake up early & gets home late everyday, you may need to move closer to your work place or get a job closer to your house, or you still go to some schl / on weekends (just increase your rest time). Always take a shower b4 you go to bed (it's a must). Reduce your alcohol intakes (if you drink), stop smoking (if you smoke). Don't squander your health to get wealth & qualifications. Plan your and understand what your body, spirit & soul needs. Study and meditate on The Word of God (Especially The New Testament), Listen to cool music, read or listen to jokes everyday (laughter is medicine to you), tell it to God in prayers. That's the advice I'm led to give you. Cheers!

Too bad, such a sad ending. Politicians in power should take a cue from this, instead of using the nations resources to settles personal scores and not paying attention to issues that affect the populace, because they will be out of power one day soon and will become a part of the insecurity they ignored.

This is a very good stress killer.

Let us not be tired of doing good, for in due season, we shall reap if we faint not - Galatians 6:9

To him/her that knows how to do good and he/she doesn't do it, it's a sin - James 4:17

I pray for more Divine Ability and Grace for Guv. Fashola.

I love Gospel raps, especially when it conforms with Ephesians 4:29 - Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister Grace unto the hearers. Cheers!

The question is whether the proceeds will be judiciously used and the multiplier effect of the toll on commuters, as transporters will definitely take advantage of this to increase transport fare again. I know that one day, this country will be ruled by considerate leaders.

If u're married & u don't share d same room with your wife, it simply means what u have is what xtians call d 'permissive will',  because wen u're married to d 'perfect will' , nothing in dis world will make u want to sleep in a separate room from your second-half (if u're truly one). When u start talking about privacy in marriage, u're breaking d bond.

'Life is by choice'. U have d right 2 choose d medium thru which ur first fruit goes 2 God (whether thru ur Pastor or thru ur 'parents'), but remember dat we have biological parents & spiritual parents & know dat evry covenant practice u partake in comes with its sure reward.

I believe that life is by choice, you can still choose to give ur first fruit to God (Apstl Paul taught that those who don't do somethings should not condemn those who do). Since you can't see God, you do it thru ur own trusted Pastors. All firstfruits belong to God (Including ur first son, he must serve God). Thank you.