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Please I will need nairaland ladies to give their advise too,,it will help me!!!

[quote author=Ketapu post=109034330][/quote]It isn't my fault,I tried everything possible to get my interest across to her, and again I was trying to investigate her. I asked her direct questions too..I was also waiting for her to reveal her intentions
Thanks for the advice I will do as you said,,
You are right,,,,,I just need to forget about this girl

Pabloesman:
Face your damn studies young lad, and “we need to talk” isn’t a word it’s a sentence. You need to really face your studies man.

Na Bros I be

bigcee:
I am just laughing . I swear that girl is highly manipulative. If you don't have sense, you won't understand. Guy, it's a bait, don't fall for it. Focus on your books.

I understand and I have taught about her being manipulative and me used as a bait..
That was when I started ignoring her messages.

olamoses75:
But since you guys have not started dating, why do you have issues seeing her with guys?

If she had told me her stand that she was in a relationship, I would have just moved away....

I actually don't relate with girls the way she is relating to me... and I don't pretend too

olamoses75:
But since you guys have not started dating, why do you have issues seeing her with guys?

I don't have issues seeing her with guys..
I asked her if she is in a relationship just to know her stand,,, because I was interested in her she didn't give me reply.
I am not a jealous type..I relate with people fine.
Seeing her with other guys doing that same romantic shit makes me feel she wants to friend zone me or have a Situationship relationship with me....I don't want to be in that kind of relationship..at least she would have been honest with me.... please read up sorority11 write-up it expresses how I feel ...

sorority11:
You are definitely a lady. You are not gay.

I wish everyone can be like me that sees people and situation without seeing gender.
From his narration he is a fragile human that is afraid of being in a relationship with a girl that will not be into him.
He is mostly interested to make it right, to get a true love without making mistake. He is afraid of reading signal wrong. So he is very cautious to terminate anything that will trigger that, as he is in doubt.
He is fragile. Nobody should deserve anybody. Stop objectifying people.
Let me give you a little secret
Relationship is all about interest, though some people says it's transactional, if you have no interest in someone no need to lead the person on again.

You are a wise man,,,,,,,,, you are blessed with understanding,,, GOD bless you greatly...
You just said exactly how I am feeling, you express me in your write-up,,,,.

helinues:
My brother, don't complicate things for yourself this new year

Face your studies

My studies is very important than anything for now o

FernandezPablo:
Also she might have been abused like sexually maybe that's why she's been secretive..
If you love her go for it..

Yes I do love her,,,,I just needed her to be honest that's all... that is why I asked her if she is in a relationship

[quote author=Nozino post=108991823][/quote]How ? I just have to express my self

FernandezPablo:
Then you need to chill.. relationship doesn't work that way..you have to understand her.. ignoring her won't do no good aiit..

Well said maybe it is because I don't understand her
Yeah that is the reason for the talk,,I don't really understand her...
And I will tell her when we actually talk that I do not understand her,,,

tayewomi:
leave girls alone and face your books,Before u invest your emotion in a girl be sure if she assurely want you..

Well said,,,,that is y I wanted to be sure

FernandezPablo:
Seriously leave her cos you don't deserve her..from your speech of words as an alien relationship expert that I am it's easy to point out that you are a dictative boyfriend..you can't control yourself and respect her when you see her around a man really speaks a lot about you...
Most of you shouldn't be in a relationship to be sincere..

My brother you are not analyzing me ,,I am not a dictative boyfriend,,,,,,,,,,all I need was for her to defined our relationship,,,,I don't want to be in a friend zone, Situationship relationship,,,,,,,I don't want someone to play with my feeling that is it,,,,,,,,I cannot dictate for her,,,,I just need her to be honest that's all,,, and by the way I don't make friends like that the way she approached me. It looks like she is a flirter

There is this girl I met around July(first week)..
She picked interest in me all of a sudden..so I reciprocated same interests...then we started talking she requested to know where I stay which I brought her to my place eventually..
I was wondering what will make her sudden interest in me and I wanted to ask her why the interest but my friend advised me not to do so that it sounds somehow to her..
This girl was being romantic to me in words and actions which I wasn't comfortable because I am not in a relationship with her we just recently knew each other..the first time she came to my place I couldn't entertained her because I was writing exams and my mind is so into my books...so I decided to postpone it after my exams I will invite her proper proper... when I finally invited her she was giving me excuses like kind of playing me...all this didn't got me..what got me is,...
I asked her if she is in a relationship she never replied me�..she stays along my street. I haven't seen her in my compound before and I don't know her before she approaching me was the first day I noticed her presence in my neighborhood
We talked about personal things about me and I discovered she is kinda secretive she never talked about herself more when asked direct question
This girl, I am not dating her.the most annoying thing to me is why is she romantic to me but in words and actions that is what makes me asked her position...my friends told me that with time she will reveal herself
Note: I don't relate with girls at this level ooO. except there is something going on already
What breaks the Carmels back.... I discovered that she is a random bitch, that flocks around the guys in my street.. surprising to me I was on my way out I say her with a guy in our street discussing. Immediatly she saw me she discharged the guy immediatly.. another day with the guy she saw me before I could come close she disappeared...
Now I am seeing her with another guy.... this girl get mine fa ..�
What does she take me for Am option??
Mhen I didn't relate with random bitches at relationship level
I have no choice but to ex- communicate/block her from this platform and also delete her digit.
I have forgotten about this girl but she keeps on sending me messages,,,,,I started ignoring her messages since September,,
Anytime we see in our street and greeted she will say she is not fine.when I asked why she replied it is because she don't use to see me
Another time we saw and greeted...when I asked how she was doing she said she is not fine,,,, I asked why she replied "we need to talk" "we really need to talk"
This word "we need to talk" are mostly used by people in a relationship,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,....
She requested to come to my house let's talk,, but I didnt let it happen. I told her we will fix a day so we can talk...... Since then we have not talked.
She travelled for Xmas,,,, when she comes back we will have that conversation
I need your advice nairaland

Amebong:
Wow that's awesome. I'm from ikumtak

Wow Okay
Our people are great!, We are hardworking and our women are beautiful too,,,,guy our women can cook,,,that is one of the beaty about them and I don't won't to miss out,,,

My both parents are from mbube(ogirim),,, And i want to marry from there,

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Hello doctor,, pls I will need your advice on this...
I was born with a normal visions on both eyes. but by the time I was 12 years old someone pushed me with force and her finger hit my right eye and tears was coming out of it but thank God there was no physical damage on my right eye From that moment my right eye became blurry.
That is I see blurry images from a distance but at close distance let say 25mm I see object clearly. When in school sitting at the back sit i can see what is on the board with my left eye but blurry with my right eye and I am not comfortable with it that makes me to move to the front sit to enable me see clearly and not stretching my eyes..

So I did research and I saw Anisometropia a medical condition where one have a normal vision on on eye and blurry at the other..

I am yet to do eye test.
Advice please.......
Optm

Joysticks:
Up till now,I cannot tell who is Peter or paul,but I can identify Jude because he is bigger in size among the brothers.

oboy paul keeps dreedlock..while peter keeps low haircut.

[quote author=Vulcanheph post=105357946]My brother , please I beg you in the name of God , BE CAREFUL...... Naija girls like "shakara" and will never be the first to make a move on you even if she likes you... She'll instead give you subtle green lights and wait for you to make the move , so that she can form?? .... That's how it is with them.
I have some theories why she's being too receptive...

1. She's pregnant for another useless Mofo and is looking for a more responsible guy to hook the pregnancy on.

2. There's something you have which she wants , and is looking for a means to get it from you.

3. She's secretly a baby mama and is just looking for a guy to put responsibilities on.... If this is the case, She'll only reveal the kid after you've tasted her Honeypot and will use the sex as emotional blackmail to stop you from leave[quote]that number 2 really got me...thanks you really state the girl's probably intentions

Mr100Dollars:
The girl wanted to have your joystick for fun sake, but your curiosity and your naivity spoil the whole thing, i guess you're new to woman something, enjoy the cruise as e dey hot.


With time you will understand woman something, but that time will be too late bro.

bros i understand women..i like girls that have the guts...na to open up make i give her 1:0

arthurwillia:
Op na send they send her come

My brother i tought of this too...i started giving her distance and avoiding her

There is this girl I met around July(first week)..
She picked interest in me all of a sudden..so I reciprocated same interests...then we started talking she requested to know where I stay which I brought her to my place eventually..
I was wondering what will make her sudden interest in me and I wanted to ask her why the interest but my friend advised me not to do so that it sounds somehow to her..
This girl was being romantic to me in words and actions which I wasn't comfortable because I am not in a relationship with her we just recently knew each other..the first time she came to my place I couldn't entertained her because I was writing exams and my mind is so into my books...so I decided to postpone it after my exams I will invite her proper proper... when I finally invited her she was giving me excuses like kind of playing me...all this didn't got me..what got me is,... I I asked her if she is in a relationship she never replied me�..she stays along my street. I haven't seen her in my compound before and I don't know her before she approaching me was the first day I noticed her presence in my neighborhood
We talked about personal things about me and I discovered she is kinda secretive she never talked about herself more when asked direct question
This girl, I am not dating her.the most annoying thing to me is why is she romantic to me both in words and actions that is what makes me asked her position...my friends told me that with time she will reveal herself
Note: I don't relate with girls at this level ooO. except there is something going on already
What breaks the Carmels back.... I discovered that she is a random bitch, that flocks around the guys in my street.. surprising to me I was on my way out I saw her with a guy in our street discussing. Immediatly she saw me she discharged the guy immediatly.. another day with the guy she saw me before I could come close she disappeared...
Now I am seeing her with another guy.... this girl get mine fa ..
What does she take me for An option??
Mhen I didn't relate with random bitches at relationship level
I have no choice but to ex- communicate/block her from this platform and also delete her digit

HE died of active service

timesup234:
One by one they will all die until Christianity is eradicated from Nigeria

remember that GOD will raise someone even among the moslem fox to do his work.

dahnimoh:
At the end no arrest will be made

No arrest as ever been made bro