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FamilyRe: My Wife Misbehaves Because I Cheated On Her. by Dheartless: 10:10pm On Mar 03, 2016
Timbuktou:
Men are getting weaker, as a result women are getting bolder. Me, I don't understand the sort of liver that will make a man come into my home and my wife will introduce me as her cousin, in my house fa grin. Na police go end that matter finally. The guy himself will be stretchered out. I will buy him beer while digging his grave. The woman can forget about the marriage. She has shown she's ready for other men. So be it. I fùcked up, but I will not be dragged in the mud. So, because husband cheated children will suffer? Adasun, it is possible your wife has snapped. Take her to a psychiatrist for mental evaluation.
me tire for all these weak men oo
shebi if the woman nor want again she go divorce?
if you no divorce me and you think say you go Dey my house to make me and the kids mad after I am have accepted my fuckup and I am sincerely remorseful and also willing to make things straight by all sincere options, na to begin give you the madness you Dey find go be the next option o, and definately I won't think twice about divorce rather than kill a boy my wife will bring home or kill my wife herself .
FamilyRe: My Wife Misbehaves Because I Cheated On Her. by Dheartless: 10:03pm On Mar 03, 2016
oloyede252:
from your posts one can see you're not married..cos you dont have that wisdom a real woman should have.you are always angry,always insulting people.then one can blame you cos it seems you came from an abusive home..
grin
FamilyRe: My Wife Misbehaves Because I Cheated On Her. by Dheartless: 1:31pm On Mar 03, 2016
Oga if she doesn't divorce you ,
and she continues with the present attitude 
the best solution is to divorce her.

Abi what else do you want to do?
you said you've begged.

Abi na when una go begin plan death wish against each other naim some of this angry women want ??

na wa o

I nor support you at all, but I wonder why she no just divorce you and move on with her sweet life than to continue dey kill herself and you and the kid because of anger .
the best thing I would have advice an unforgiving man on this issue is divorce and that is what she should also do, if not this whole thing go result to a bigger issue and violence will be involved just Pray say one of the both of you don't loose your lives .

unless she decides to forgive or divorce you, there will soon be a bigger problem.

some of these angry women here are hypocrites!!
if na the woman cheat the man, they should tell me what they would advice the man to do .
will they advice the man to be behaving like a child and abandon his family ?
will they tell him to divorce?
or will they tell him to forgive?
70% will probably advice the man to forgive .
30% will probably advice him to divorce.
I bet none will advice him to go with the first option.

me will tell anybody who was cheated on to separate at all times, unless that person just want to forgive on his or her own reasons .
FamilyRe: My Wife Misbehaves Because I Cheated On Her. by Dheartless: 10:05am On Mar 03, 2016
Oga if she doesn't divorce you ,
and she continues with the present attitude
the best solution is to divorce her.

Abi what else do you want to do?
you said you've begged.

Abi na when una go begin plan death wish against each other naim some of this angry women want ??

na wa o

I nor support you at all, but I wonder why she no just divorce you and move on with her sweet life than to continue dey kill herself and you and the kid because of anger .
the best thing I would have advice an unforgiving man on this issue is divorce and that is what she should also do, if not this whole thing go result to a bigger issue and violence will be involved just Pesu say one of the both of you don't loose your lives .

unless she decides to forgive or divorce you, there will soon be a bigger problem.
FamilyRe: My Wife Misbehaves Because I Cheated On Her. by Dheartless:
Adasun
if a woman cheats on a man, I would have advice the man to divorce her and move on.

please help me tell your wife to quickly divorce you and move on, because if she was the one with this post that's exactly what I would have said to her.

time nor Dey to kill oneself over love issues .
FamilyRe: Counter Thread: Why Do Single Girls/ladies Go After Married Men by Dheartless: 9:22pm On Feb 29, 2016
it should be, " why do single girls agree to date married men?"



let me answer first :
love of money

greed

laziness
FamilyRe: Should I The Man Still Apologize After All This??? by Dheartless: 10:53am On Feb 29, 2016
yvelchstores:
That is what d bible says. Sorry u CANT change it.


“They must turn from evil and do good; they must seek peace and pursue it.”
‭‭1 Peter‬ ‭3:11‬ ‭NIV‬‬
http://bible.com/111/1pe.3.11.niv

“A fool's wrath is quickly and openly known, but a prudent man ignores an insult.”
‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭12:16‬ ‭AMP‬‬
http://bible.com/8/pro.12.16.amp
ignore insult doesn't suggest that you appologise or continue to make relationship with a person, it means to avoid trouble and the best way is to go your way and go very far from what will spoil your peace.
FamilyRe: Should I The Man Still Apologize After All This??? by Dheartless:
them go still stab this one


nonsense

the poster above, didn't the bible say it is better to stay on the roof top than with a troublesome woman?
na so una go they advice people to they suffer and smile untill they visit the grave early na then una go begin say the man was weak .

make e reach when the man go turn into wife beating monster now, na then you go see this same poster go lay curse untop im head and also will advice the woman to run for her life, that if she doesn't she is a fool .
then imagine if they hear that the woman wants to go and apologise in that kind of situation will this same poster above call her a wiser woman?

nonsense!
FamilyRe: Guys Should Step Up And Deliver & Stop Requiring Half From The Woman by Dheartless:
mhiz:
Tell me what the work of a man then is?.
If the woman cooks, cleans, takes care of the children and house hold, and now is supposed to contribute financially to the family, what then is the use of the man, sperm donor?
The woman salary should be used to care for herself nd maybe buy stuffs for the kids and then invest the rest.
men I am tired of this sh*t
when I was young my dad provided for my family but my mom did her part too e.g my dad drops 50k for food stuffs every month but when he has some project to run and drops 40k for that month my mom dont complain but when we ask her for pocket cash, she only tell us "I don't have money to give to you, I added 10k to the monthly food money because your dad gave me less, you can ask your dad he may give you or wait when I have I will give you", we were use to asking my mom for little pocket cash instead of my dad, because my dad will pay for your fees and other high pay stuff so when you come for pocket money he wouldn't give you face, unless when he is happy.

my mom was all with the domestic chores but she doesn't move our chairs, fridge, she doesn't kill and butcher animals, she doesn't turn on gen, she doesn't take house applainces like tv, gen for repairs, she doesn't change bulbs, she doesn't clean the inside of the bore hole water tank and many more, guess who did all these ?
my dad.

my mom contributed to an extent financially depending on what she could, and my dad contributed domestically to an extent depending on what he could.
all these wasn't done just because they wish to do it, it was done because they needed to do it.
men it is stressful typing a long post, I won't write on this again .
thank you .
phew!!
FamilyRe: 1 by Dheartless: 1:52pm On Feb 26, 2016
Sparklequeen:
Ur moniker says differently oh
no mind that moniker/Monica jor the woman too Dey lie for person head.
FamilyRe: Good fellows by Dheartless: 11:35am On Feb 26, 2016
ahnie:
Mehn Boy o boy,the church stood still.the bandboys had to stop the beatin of the drums.pheeeew,mehn i felt like the ground shud burst open and devour me....Brethrens my Wrappin skirt Fell of my waist oh.come n see drama,i was on my mimi birthday suit.the kind of pant i wore,it has one hook by the left side.....i cudnt even bend down to pick my wrappin skirt again o.i was just starrin sheepishly.it was a fellow co- kwaya..oops sorry choir that bent down and picked my skirt n fixed it back on my waist.i cudnt even wait to kontinue the service of songs with my fellow kwayas..sorry choir members,i jex stood up,with wobbling legs like a weather beaten hyena,i left the church that sunday.when i came home,my Dad was like...Ahnie what happen'dhuhi was like...papa we dey on break,dad was like...break as how?that was why i left assemblies of God church oilfield road,warri.trust me,i never passed that street again,because the news did go viral.....!brb time for morning devotion.
this one na die o
FamilyRe: Help A Desperate Friend Is Taking Over My Marriage by Dheartless: 9:21am On Feb 26, 2016
sorry
I am not too spiritual
but I hope no be all thief thief church you Dey o
I also don't suggest white garment
find a well praying and sincere church
mfm, redeem etc. (an effective branch o)
(Abeg if I offend anyone with the above "church" post, just know It's my opinion and belief )

still try going for more test and seek medical help.
I pray you have speedy and perfect recovery in Jesus name .
amen

see me don turn pastor sha.
FamilyRe: Hilarious Photos Of What Could Happen When You Let Dad Care For Babies by Dheartless: 8:58am On Feb 26, 2016
funny

but me too fit they guilty of this kind thing o
FamilyRe: Guys Should Step Up And Deliver & Stop Requiring Half From The Woman by Dheartless:
mhiz:
This ur statement is so myopic
a) So because a man does his job and provides for family he calls the shots in the home? the importance of the wife depends on how much she contributes to the family? Dude if I want my money to give mi a voice I'll go and buy a large amount of shares in a company, it will give me a voice and its more profitable self.
b) Dude if they didn't sign a prenup she entitled to half of all he owns, don't decieve ur self, she leaves with both her luobittonsnd half of all he owns.
c) No sensible and responsible man will need or insist on his wife to spilt the bills with him, except on circumstances when the man is broke and the woman is financially buoyant, then I'll say its okay for the woman to assist.
A woman should contribute to the upkeep of her family only if she wish to and not because she needs to, to have a say in her marriage, or so that she can have properties yo take with her in the inventuality of a divorce or what ever story/reason you cook up.
Where did this bull shit came from
"a woman should contribute to the upkeep of her family if she wish not because she needs."??
so if a man is working and his wife is also working the woman should not contribute??
lol this is funny.
I agree to your statement only if she is not working , but even at that she is killing herself big time if she has no way to earn her own money even while still married , no one knows what will come next .
no wonder most Nigerian men keep treating Nigerian women like they got no say and when the woman tries to resist they get sent out of the house and a new woman takes position.
FamilyRe: 1 by Dheartless: 8:09am On Feb 26, 2016
Tritri:
@Dheartless , Are you from warri? Ur username says it all.May God forgive you for all the Heartless stuff you've done.Amen.
I am from delta , isoko, not warri precisely.
lol, can't just imagine you think warri is cold , I think deltans are very warm, unless when they get angry they may act violently but they get angry when they feel their rights is been violated, well there must be good and bad from all tribes, so the guy in the original post MAYBE just may be bad .

to your prayers
amen my bro/sis, I really do appreciate.
FamilyRe: 1 by Dheartless: 10:08pm On Feb 25, 2016
Tritri:
Is wale a Benin boi or warri boi? If yes Just take things easy and avoid him if he refuse to pay.
wetin na??
ah come from delta o
this one you asked specifically if he is from benin or warri/delta..
we are very unsentimental and easy going people, well I can't speak for Benin sha
FamilyRe: Help...i Am Finished!the Devil Has Ruined Me. by Dheartless: 10:13am On Feb 25, 2016
adapeter:
how can u conclude am not real when u haven't reached out.u haven't done any check on me.I have given every info asked of me,I have gone to two organizations that said I can bring the child after is born like a motherless babies home.I am still online cos am searching for any help I can get till I birth.Someone gave me access to internet so I can reachout to people.how else do u want me to prove am genuine.I sent pics,home address,phone numbers whatever I was asked to the few who wanted to confirm so pls don't discredit what u are not sure of.u may not have help to render yes I understand and still rank u for reading but pls don't close my option of help because I am just struggling in every way I can to get help even if I have to stay online all day or go to Amy organization.Thanks
ok
FamilyRe: Help...i Am Finished!the Devil Has Ruined Me. by Dheartless: 8:00am On Feb 25, 2016
ifyalways:
She carefully avoided links giving to her for organizations that would help her, why is that?

The times she's spent typing online is more than enough to go out and meet those organizations who have structures in place and means of helping her, if she's for real.
I have followed her first thread closely and made conclusions that she ain't genuine

I know you have involve in helping people online on a good number of occasion and therefore you've also been a victim of fraud at some point .

but I know if It's genuine the likes of you and some others still won't hesitate to help if you can .

she ain't real .
FamilyRe: Help...i Am Finished!the Devil Has Ruined Me. by Dheartless: 6:13am On Feb 25, 2016
ifyalways:
Lily registered Jan 2016 has become the OP's mouthpiece, mind reader and senior advocate. Hehehe.

Jokers.

Dheartless, why waste your time ? Not worth it biko
lol I saw that too
the op is just to suspicious
I will do as you have advice
FamilyRe: Help...i Am Finished!the Devil Has Ruined Me. by Dheartless:
lily12:
She probably just quickly copy pasted the original post to call attention to the story one more time. Give the lady a break.
what more does she intend from this post, a better advice ??
I don't think so .
she wants money and that is why everything that was posted in the other thread made no sense to her .
if you truely claim not to be an accomplice but that you are sure of the story and you really want to be of help to her then you have to find a way to present concrete proofs for verification.
checkout this thread
https://www.nairaland.com/2949413/please-save-sisters-life-story
not just you but other well known nairalanders need to be involve and possibly if you can also give real proof to a nairaland mod, it means you need to convince these set of people using real and genuine proofs in other for your claims and hers to be rightly verified.
untill then I will be far from this thread.
someone that needs help doesn't want to reveal her state, not to talk of other important info to proof her geniuness .
FamilyRe: Help...i Am Finished!the Devil Has Ruined Me. by Dheartless: 5:47am On Feb 25, 2016
CoCoLav:
how are you even sure it's a girl? The stories on nairaland these days though...everyone needs money.
you may be right , my exact thought
FamilyRe: Help...i Am Finished!the Devil Has Ruined Me. by Dheartless: 10:33pm On Feb 24, 2016
https://www.nairaland.com/2932640/help...i-finished-contemplating-abortion-five

this girl is a scam
please guys click this link and go through all the coments and how she responded.

she has this post on the 14th of this month here on nairaland and advices have been given to are even help on how to connect her to organizations that will take care of her pregnancy as she suggested but she gave dubious replies.

I thought you said your dad have agreed to accommodate you and the only thing you need now is money, how come your post still solicit for an accommodation?
PoliticsRe: Buhari Arrives Medinah For Lesser Hajj (Photos) by Dheartless:
for this heat this baba leave this country go pray instead of finding a way to stabilize electricity in the country .
God don give us sun already shey this baba still Dey pray make God come give us electricity ?
na wa o
before I Dey sleep with pijamas on.
later na only the pijamas trousers I come dey sleep with
now na only boxers I Dey use sleep.
before I begin sleep na.ked , Oga leave that medinah come attend to our electricity and economy
faith without work is a waste of prayers.
PoliticsRe: Army Sacks Police Station In Umuahia by Dheartless: 12:03am On Feb 24, 2016
Dollyak:
I wouldn't be rejoicing just yet if I were you. Nigerian army is not above the law.
Bigger picture...
and the DPO should break the law he is meant to uphold.
PoliticsRe: Army Sacks Police Station In Umuahia by Dheartless: 12:02am On Feb 24, 2016
Kenai:
And who are you going to thank for all the Nigerians the soldiers have massacred? From the women to the infants, peasants to the elderly, young and old? Who are you going to thank for all the defenseless people the soldiers have gone in to murder, in their towns and in the streets, in their homes and in their sleep?
Who are you going to thank for all the unaddressed cases where soldiers who are meant to defend us are killing us like rats, and wiping out ENTIRE villages simply because one of their operatives was killed by unidentified people?

You thank these soldiers for this BARBARIC show they put up here? Believe me, I hate the police MORE than you possibly could, but are they wrong in this case?
Was the soldier right to have parked at an unauthorised area?
People with your attitude encourage dictators, despots and people with zero respect for diplomacy simply because of their posts.
Don't let your emotions blind you.
The soldiers were WRONG.
and the dpo was right .
FamilyRe: Am Beginning To Lose Faith In Marriage by Dheartless: 8:04pm On Feb 23, 2016
I jor like men wey nor fit take control . guy remain a push over till you become an armed robber.

nanshence!
RomanceRe: Photos: Guys Which Size Do U Prefer? Ladies where do you belong here? by Dheartless:
medium and thick
but if them allow me to test the first and last, then why not? .
but that bbw get as e be o
RomanceRe: 10 Statements That Hurt Girls But No One Realise by Dheartless: 1:43pm On Feb 23, 2016
wetin them construct those sentences for before?
na to chop them Abi ?

no be only never say "I never meant that"

see as full grown up men they give themselves uneccessary rules while the girl is busy being real and saying all she wants and have to say.
FamilyRe: Girls Have Started Confessing... There Is Indeed Husbands Scarcity by Dheartless: 1:15pm On Feb 23, 2016
engrfaruq:
am waiting for them... FYI I am a husband material however they want to define a husband.... financially, spiritually, morally, bedically and of course perfectly.
since you ready
no problem, I been wan Jez inform you before.
FamilyRe: Women And Pregnancy This Days. What Is The Way Forward. by Dheartless: 12:49pm On Feb 23, 2016
rubyradiance:
My observations and not trying to spite you,,,it is heat not Hit,worsen not worsting please modify and correct because you never can tell where your write up will take you to
you forgot to add "making, not marking"


op I quite agree with you, before some of these love birds even think about getting a job or getting married, them go don drop like 2.
I know like a dozen couples who because they own a little businesses that fetch them feeding allowance, they won't even wait for the youngest child at hand to complete two years before dropping another, the thing they piss me off eh!.
after one year of owing house rent one is stil currently begging for more time to pay house rent that he could conveniently pay before.
FamilyRe: Girls Have Started Confessing... There Is Indeed Husbands Scarcity by Dheartless: 12:29pm On Feb 23, 2016
op, they are coming for you and mariam
just wait , you never chi chom chin
RomanceRe: Photos Of A Woman With An "Extraordinary" Makeup Spotted At An Event by Dheartless: 11:24pm On Feb 22, 2016
see wili wili
honestly na horror film be this o

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