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Family › Re: The Possibility Of Divorce According To The Bible by Dheartless(op): 10:03pm On May 30, 2015

Silvofitz:
Let it be clear that God does not encourage divorce.
However, according to God, the Author of marriage, and according to His Word as contained in the Holy Bible, the only valid grounds for divorce are:
1. Pretence: (EZRA 10). Any marriage under deceptive identity is not valid. If anyone is deceived into marriage, such marriage does not count before God. Some unbelievers pretended to be children of the light, and deceived Israel to marriage, until those strange wives were sent packing, the anger of God was upon Israel.
2. Immorality: (Matthew 5:32). Unfaithfulness on the part of either of the couple is also a valid ground for divorce.
3. Irreconcilable differences that could endager the lives of the couple: ( Matthew 19: .

I think I want to agree to this post , even though many people will not agree to your point number 3.

nice post
I would still like to get an insight of your last point if you don't mind

Family › Re: The Possibility Of Divorce According To The Bible by Dheartless(op): 9:23pm On May 30, 2015

okotv:
What type of marriages do you guys get into today. I would never get into that situation.

how can you tell if your spouse will remain faithful?
how can you tell if your spouse won't want to end you to gain freedom and possess your wealth?
how can you tell if your spouse will not seek for divorce in the future?

since even some well known and anointed pastors of these days and their wife's commits adultery and some even ended their union.

Family › Re: The Possibility Of Divorce According To The Bible by Dheartless(op): 9:07pm On May 30, 2015

okotv:
A lot of 21st century folks aren't meant to be married. We marry for the wrong reasons and so we must face all these consequences. By the way, has anyone seen were a man divorced his wife in the scriptures

Let me add, no woman can commit the type of offence that Eve did but Adam forgave. So it can handle.

these days the events that goes on in a bad marriage are different so don't you think we need amendment?

which would be a better news?

a man beats an unfaithful wife to death.

a woman stabbed a cheating husband to
death

a court granted a man/woman appeal for
divorce.

you decide.

Family › Re: The Possibility Of Divorce According To The Bible by Dheartless(op): 9:04pm On May 30, 2015*

Maccoy1:
Stop giving ur self or other people hopeless assurance, jesus christ has amended every law or reason soliciting divorce,
he said "HE THAT MADE THEM IN THE BEGINING, Made THEM MALE ND FEMALE...there is no escape route as far the better-for-worse vow has been taken...remember until death do them part.

did you read the part where the bible state "except for marital unfaithfulness"?

do you know God also understands that it is better for a man to stay on the roof top than bear a nagging wife?
Yes, because the bible also states that.

lastly which would be a better news?

a man beats an unfaithful wife to death.

a woman stabbed a cheating husband to death

a court granted a man/woman appeal for divorce.

you decide.

Family › Re: The Possibility Of Divorce According To The Bible by Dheartless(op): 8:33pm On May 30, 2015

bukatyne:
Directing your posts to men is very strange

Men have always divorced their wives for infidelity; infact, a man forgiving infidelity is an exception

Your posts should be directed to women instead.

As for why people do not divorce unfaithful partners, I do not know.

I meant to address the issue base on pastors insisting on continuation of an abusive and an unfaithful marriage.

I think at the end of the op, I stated that no one should be forced to remain in a bad marriage.

but do you think it's right for pastors to insist on continuity of a bad marriage?

Family › Re: The Possibility Of Divorce According To The Bible by Dheartless(op): 8:27pm On May 30, 2015

kelvyn7:
i have always had dis thought too

but its usually not talked much abt so dat it will not be rampant

agreed .
but even at that,
why do most of this pastors insist that a crumbling, abusive and unfaithful marriage continue even while the evident are obvious.

Family › Re: The Possibility Of Divorce According To The Bible by Dheartless(op): 8:15pm On May 30, 2015

kelvyn7:
,

why now? it concerns you whether married or not.

Family › Re: The Possibility Of Divorce According To The Bible by Dheartless(op): 8:04pm On May 30, 2015

Silvofitz:
Booked

did you booked in agreement?
that no one should suffer in marriage, even as a Christian all in the name of "happy ever after"?

Family › The Possibility Of Divorce According To The Bible by Dheartless(op): 7:58pm On May 30, 2015*

I wonder why won't pastors talk about the possibility of divorce, instead they advocate for a never ending marriage between a man and a woman, even in cases when it is obvious that one partner may die before time while trying to endure believing the union will eventually work.

I will leave the old testament out of this because people might say "it was before the birth and teaching of the lord jesus, so those rules were amended by him"
But according to Mathew 19:9, a man is allowed to divorce his wife under the reason of unfaithfulness/adultery.

my belief is, I won't die or suffer unnecessarily in a marriage for a partners misbehavior, not only in cases of adultery but any intense level of insanity introduced into the marriage by my partner, Nobody, no pastor can talk or preach me out of divorce.
it is better for me to take that chances of committing a sin ,"which to an extent I don't believe is a sin", than bear hell given to me by my partner.

(with reference to the bible) I really don't know about how possible it is for a woman to divorce her husband.

But in all, I still think no one deserves to bear and suffer for their partners misbehavior and/or abuse [so long it is not an illness of the body organ(s)], SINCE EVEN ON JUDGEMENT DAY EVERYONE WILL BE JUDGED SEPARATELY/ INDEPENDENTLY.

if you don't agree, state your reasons .

I meant no insult to anyone else's belief.

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Family › Re: Women Are Their Worst Enemies by Dheartless: 11:14pm On May 21, 2015

ehen! the mad child has healed, guys please continue with your discussions, I am learning....honestly speaking. ..I am learning

Family › Re: Women Are Their Worst Enemies by Dheartless: 10:57pm On May 21, 2015

VictoriaBee:
Are you not done quoting me?

I struck a nerve?

You are ugly. deal with it.

when I am done,
you won't be mad anymore

flat screen forehead with a hole in the middle that looks like remote sensor grin

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Family › Re: Women Are Their Worst Enemies by Dheartless: 10:52pm On May 21, 2015*

VictoriaBee:
Not forgetting your ugly face on your d.p.

is that a hole on your forehead? grin

well I think you need an intimacy gadget.....like maybe buzz of toy story, maybe a miracle will let you give birth to Mario .....fucking man hater ..

yet she wishes science will provide a way to cut men d*cks and sell them as real intimacy gadget..

get mortar pestle it will be able to do the job and keep you a bit relax

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Family › Re: Women Are Their Worst Enemies by Dheartless: 10:41pm On May 21, 2015

VictoriaBee:
Not forgetting your ugly face on your d.p.

so pain you?
sorry o,
I thought you were mad and you know mad people usually don't understand some statements That's why I made that statement.

the thing is that you've been displaying traits of madness on this thread.

ugly?
the guy that told you "you look good" , must be the father of the devil grin

foolish pickin!! grin

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Family › Re: Women Are Their Worst Enemies by Dheartless: 10:30pm On May 21, 2015

VictoriaBee:
Says a bloody hideous hypocrite that attacked cococandy without an altercation, wishing her evils in marriage.
You are an old hag, hence your hate.

You are a pretentious devilish being.

I also dare you to upload your face.

see your forehead wey be like 100 inches flat screen TV grin

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Family › Re: Women Are Their Worst Enemies by Dheartless: 11:32am On May 21, 2015

on this thread:
and someone was comparing the number of females in disagreement to the number of males with in disagreement.....

females
you see a couple on one side, another couple on one side and yet another on neutral or (confused)

males
you see erm...er... a man on one side, and you see men on the other side.

quite a nice thread, please guys keep it alive grin

(I love to see the challenge come through grin

)

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Family › Re: Women Are Their Worst Enemies by Dheartless: 8:11am On May 21, 2015*

what!!
did I just read " unconscious feminist"?
so many types of feminism keeps emerging grin

when omotola will say a man is the head of the home and wife should submit to her husband.

you will hear she has "slave mentality"
grin

women are wonderful

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Family › Re: Women Are Their Worst Enemies by Dheartless: 8:03pm On May 20, 2015

in fact I hate to generalize o, but the aggressiveness and senselessness of a particular female on this thread is enough to tag women enemies .
she has made into a "kill me or i kill you issue" this common online argument that should most probably be seen as a discussion to laugh out stress.

grin

it is unfortunate I can't just generalize

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Family › Re: Women Are Their Worst Enemies by Dheartless: 7:50pm On May 20, 2015

njokusboy:

let them say what they want....
we don't have time to worry about who hates our success or to worry about who our worst enemy is between men and women.

I think this thread was opened on guilty conscience of an hateful mind.
and of course for someone to be thinking who her enemy should be between men and women.....tells you a lot about that person.

I said it before , I don't care
grin

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Family › Re: Women Are Their Worst Enemies by Dheartless: 6:20pm On May 20, 2015

from this thread, it is safe to say women are their worst enemy.

I see couple of them in resentful dispute.

and most men seem to agree with each other, except for one man, who has been "the man against real men" since the creation of the world

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Family › Re: Women Are Their Worst Enemies by Dheartless: 11:03pm On May 19, 2015

bukatyne:
If they kill themselves, who would you and your hommies marry?

nice dish

there will certainly be some few others who are not ready to kill each other over settleable issues and I am sure those species can make a good meal for a brother.
otherwise they are not qualified to own a home with a hard working brother.

Family › Re: Women Are Their Worst Enemies by Dheartless: 2:09am On May 19, 2015

they can kill themselves, I careless.
me and my homies just want to put heads together and strategize more ways of making cash and achieving success.

no time to fight each other when we can be of help to ourselves by working together.
that doesn't mean we won't break him, if the person that wants our downfall is a man.
but it also means if he is willing to offer his virtues and be apart if our success, even though he was our great enemy, we will accept his offer and work together.

and that is how me and my home boys roll.

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Family › Re: His Ex-wife And His Friends by Dheartless: 1:15am On May 19, 2015

RiffRaff:
Are you by any chance named, Wayne Bridge? And is your friend's name John Terry?

Omo, she is your Ex-wife.. She has the right to visit/Date or Bleep whosoever she wants.
She owes you no explanation or obligation. If you are unhappy, that is your own problem. You are not married anymore & she has moved on with her life. Do the same so you stop worryin about who she is fuuckin now.

If Some Nigerian men have their way, they wouldnt let any other guy Bleep their Ex. Na wa oh.

as in !!!
the guy thinks he can dictate for a free man and a free woman.
whether or not it is morally wrong (as long as it is not a crime against the law), the feeling that anyone owes you a thing to forfeit their own happiness for yours is just annoying to me.

they have their lives to live

just forget about whoever does not want your happiness, watch your back and live a happy life.

Family › Re: His Ex-wife And His Friends by Dheartless: 1:11am On May 19, 2015

RiffRaff:
Are you by any chance named, Wayne Bridge? And is your friend's name John Terry?

Omo, she is your Ex-wife.. She has the right to visit/Date or Bleep whosoever she wants.
She owes you no explanation or obligation. If you are unhappy, that is your own problem. You are not married anymore & she has moved on with her life. Do the same so you stop worryin about who she is fuuckin now.

If Some Nigerian men have their way, they wouldnt let any other guy Bleep their Ex. Na wa oh.

Family › Re: What Is The Effect Of Not Having Sex On Men? by Dheartless: 10:53pm On May 16, 2015

tpiaT:
I AM A VERY MAD WOMAN AND I AM PROUD OF IT

this is the first proud mad woman I have interacted with grin

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Family › Re: What Is The Effect Of Not Having Sex On Men? by Dheartless: 10:26pm On May 16, 2015

me??

I am sure you prefer other women's sons and husbands
grin

Family › Re: What Is The Effect Of Not Having Sex On Men? by Dheartless: 10:22pm On May 16, 2015

don't you have a son?,
or a husband?,
or a boyfriend?,
or even a sugar son?,

I am sure they will have the perfect answer,
seriously ma'am, they will.

Family › Re: Wife Brutalized By Her Husband (picture) by Dheartless: 10:15pm On May 16, 2015*

please!! women, please take responsibility for yourselves, please.

Nobody wants to see things like this and the annoying part is that the woman will go back and stay with her husband.

sometimes when some of us criticise some of these women, it will look as if we are heartless,
but NO!!
it is annoying to see a girl put all her hope in a man because of what he has, I will keep on preaching it, even to my younger sisters, don't be chasing men around because of money, "it makes you vulnerable to abuse both physically and otherwise".

get well soon madam.

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Family › Re: I Am Angry by Dheartless: 9:53pm On May 16, 2015

I hear about GPA
who needs to work on h.. GPA?
sincerely I don't know the person o, but I must confess, I see one "olodo" on this thread.
grin

^^^^
modified
poster above thanks for the remainder

with all sympathy, I say may the departed gentle soul rest in perfect peace.
God grant the op fortitude to bear her loss.
Amen

Family › Re: Girl 9 Stabbed Herself to death To Stop Being Married Out In Sokoto See Photo by Dheartless: 5:37pm On May 16, 2015

she doesn't have blood?
I refuse to believe that pics.

if it's true,
may her soul rest in perfect peace

Family › Re: I Am Angry by Dheartless: 3:36pm On May 16, 2015

crackhaus:
Lmao, she's angry!

Ode, who is a tiger offline and a dove offline?

You think I'm as phony as you? Lol.
Biitch I'm this intense and tiger-ish everywhere, deal with it or kill yourself... can't fake that.
Are you Seriously gonna deny that you don't feel it from behind your phone screen, Lol... I know it turns you on else you would be ignoring me by now.

I can't understand how someone I keep trashing almost every time we encounter on this forum still wants to make reference to or quote me, even after deactivating and reactivating more than five times.

I'm just not interested in you, period!
Child abuse/paedophile is not something I want to be charged with.

brutal

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Nairaland General › Re: See The New Toy That Lets Women Pee Like Men by Dheartless: 7:50pm On May 15, 2015

why these females wanna be men by all means? undecided

Nairaland General › Re: See The New Toy That Lets Women Pee Like Men by Dheartless: 7:49pm On May 15, 2015

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