₦airaland Forum

Hahnemann:
U are completely out of your mind here, I'm going to report this your comment to the appropriate authorities so you can face the full rot of the law.

na wa for you o...all the whole politicians wey you see for Nigeria , you no fit find one to report so he or she faces the full rot of the law.

na me "Dheartless" on a faceless forum trying to help reduce baby mamas production you dey pursue.
na me produce the drugs?

You don't have conscience.

Tajbol4splend:
Wetin she go take am do

last last na free she go give am out maybe not to a human but to something more simpler like a cucumber

UyaiIncomparabl:
Whatcha tryna say?
Well, to replying you, I'm not pregnant! I'm just familiar with 'em names. And what rule are you breaking?

now I have a second thought ...you really didn't get an idea what I am driving at?

sorry
good morning
bye

hanked:
When a wife refuses to see reasons with the husband , after so much explanations about the situation of things, despite the facts that the husband provides the basic needs of the family except the luxury ones, she still insist that the husband is being stingy, that the house will not be peaceful for him , and the feelings she had for him are dead. Is this the right time to call on the inlaws to call their daughter to order?

No ...but it's right time to give your in laws their daughter .
otherwise she will bring you death with her dead feelings ....I hope you're reading death by marriages news on nairaland front page almost every hour? if not, better start and save your dick being cut off.

UyaiIncomparabl:

Hmm. Bad guy. How you take know 'em name?
You don help your babe conduct am before, ba?

Don't support the motion o!
It's a very bad thing to do.

I don't flirt but I will break this rule tomorning/tonight.

you look good ....if it(the pregnancy) is in you I will never think of abortion..

please help to me repent forever.

thanks in advance

Although I think it's currently a crime to do abortion in Nigeria but...
NO need to debate on this whether it is allowed or not allowed there's is a simple option for abortion so...
just get cytotech,cypotech cyprotech ...infact any drugs starting with cy and ending with tech...contact me and I will give you prescriptions..
up to 6 months pregnancy abortion possible at 98% safety...


these slay mamas need it ...otherwise they'll produce more slay mamas.

what else do you think these generation of Nigerian girls are capable of?

delectablegyal:
p square don become upcoming artiste now. i think greed was responsible for their separation.

have you considered your own life and that of your entire family?
are you sure there's nothing wrong?
do you think your family wouldn't want half of psquares success?
think

The man that was arrested along side is a fool ...
The Lady committed a crime.
Nigerian police is garbage .

tell you if he is cheating ?

Op abeg no vex I no mean to spoil your thread delispot I will no longer reply on this thread

[quote author=Dcholeric post=62543559][/quote]delispot
here you go...report me again.

your foolishness brought out a thread
all for me ?
thanks but like I said I can't read a word from a prostitute.
your foolishness is legendary.
you're a legend in foolery.
read and type (always make it lengthy so I won't recognize a word of it before I place my reply)

delishpot:
Oh thank you, I will post something lengthy at least the length will compensate for the small length of your down below (Yeah, I finally found out why you so obsessed with length )

Okay, we strike a deal, you teach me to wrap women and I post 2 pages reply. That is a fair trade don't you think?
Hurry up, this is your one chance to have something lengthy to think about anytime you pull down those briefs of yours

I tried not to type this word "fool".
but I doubt if the blood of Jesus can redeem you from this outstanding foolishness..

ok I kept my promise ..I read the above post .
I really don't know how to wrap women because I am not a woman wrapper like you suggested ..but the right meaning in this context should mean "to wrap your hands and leg around something or someone".
webstar : to put (your arms, legs, etc.) around someone or something.
so use your brain this one time, think out a meaning from the above definition.
as for me I was only replying the woman wrapper thing you posted by saying I wrap women of virtue..so tell me what do you mean by woman wrapper? I accept my fault perhaps that is what I should have asked
you're becoming fun but whatever woman wrapper is I won't give it to you/(won't wrap you).
read and type again
make it very lengthy.. I do not promise to read but I prise to reply randomly

coward you had to report my post to mods I'm order for me to pick a ban..

I will copy that post and repost it here

TAGComics:
For those sending me emails, please include a functioning phone number in your email.

kfreelancing1@gmail.com
I do mine with pencils and pen hope you don't mind, I will do something before the of today just for sample.

These people are the same anywhere and everywhere they reside , because of this religion I keep checking my dictionary to get the correct meaming of peace.

Ugole2013:
Is it only male criminal that supposed to be stripped? Crime is crime,irrespective of gender and should be handled accordingly without bias.

I wonder why these females don't find anything wrong in stripping male criminals

Very sweet

johnson232:
hope u aren't the op's wife?

why are all your comments lopsided?
shame for u...

He is looking for a means to blame the op

rahymat:
is it me because i dont just seeing anything abnormal with having a k leg i find it more attractive tho

It is you ....my sister.

emeijeh:
All these girls sef......
When will they have sense?!

Only God knows

Just be yourself and don't try to overplease anyone , don't also try to be over perfect.

But if you have tried over 10 men and you have never been loved in sincerity, then if it is not a spiritual problem, it has to be "(fill in the gap)..........." because all men can't be jilters and all men can't hate you .

I didn't read through, the first two complains made me stop.

It should be more like " a man slaps me , he gets arrested , I slap a man , I am a hero" .



I think my poem sounds more in touch with reality .

The man come ugly join

crackhaus:
Hmmm, this your list is inconclusive.

Our so-called Nigerian feminists still dey give list and collect brideprice before person fit marry dem na...why the confusion?

Your Category 5 should be:

[size=18pt]THE POST-MODERN CONFUSIONIST[/size]

This one is truly sweet to be noted

Mindfulness:
Is desperation / insecurity not one of the most off-putting traits?

For certain it is?

But to be honest most women are desperados when it concerns relationship future plans o.

Na so some these ones wan put chain for my neck, now a days I dey fear to even say I love you talk more to press b... Erm something.

even in the era of the stone age man.....(which my writing is based upon)
woman gets pregnant , after some months becomes almost inactive to physical activities and also may be affected in the way of reasoning.
question: the above is defined by nature or nurture?
during this stages who leads and fend for the Union?

woman gives birth to a child, she has 2 options , 1 throw the child away , 2 feed and look after the child. it means the woman has been forced to carry the child for nine months and after then, look after the child by feeding it , bathing it , clothing it, until the child can fend for itself.......assuming the absence of the man after the pregnancy.
nature or nurture?

during all this it would be hard for a woman to face herself and her child talk more hustle for living in thickness of a forest e.g get wood for heat and cooking, get meat for food.........

if the man was present , who takes these roles automatically?

nature or nurture?

I can go on...but...

today woman should be glad that civilization has climbed a high ladder which is given by much help from men and the society out of simple morals of the human mind and not because it was so from the very beginning of nature, if anything was at all nurtured , it is the "better leadership of men and husbands over the decades to form the society we now live in" that was nurtured.
e.g man shouldn't abandon : a pregnant woman or wife, a nursing mother or wife .......e.t.c

lezz:
[b] We live in an age in which women have earned complete independence. So do they need men at all?


According to Dr NICK NEAVE, an evolutionary
psychologist from Northumbria University, not only do they need men, they are fundamentally programmed to depend on them.

Here, Dr Neave, 41, explains his provocative thesis: You're a successful woman with a job to die for, a fabulous home and a supportive husband, but do you ever get the urge to check his mobile phone for love messages? Or his bank statements for intimate meals a deux that you didn't share? And do you lie awake at night worrying how you'll cope if the worst happens, your fears are proved and your husband walks out?

Don't worry. Your suspicion is only natural. At the risk of sounding extraordinarily sexist, I'm convinced that women, even in the happiest of relationships, are programmed to worry their men are going to abandon them.

And they're terrified - in a way that most men find it frankly impossible to imagine. What's more, if their forebodings come true, women are more inclined to forgive an affair than a man if the shoe is on the other foot. That's not because they're nicer, more easygoing individuals. It's simply because their primeval urge to hang onto a male provider is so strong.



Women in the 21st century may boast that they are truly independent for the first time in our social history. They may tell themselves and each other that they don't need a man. They can even start a family on their own thanks to IVF techniques.

But, while feminists may argue this proves women have finally kicked off the shackles of dependence on men, I'm afraid they're wrong.

In evolutionary terms the huge cultural changes over the past generation amount simply to the merest blink of an eye. It could take another 10,000 years for women to change their thinking.

Quite simply, women are preprogrammed to feel dependent on men. Even today women may be richer and enjoy all the trappings of success but, deep down in their psyche, they fear they can't survive alone.


These women may be shooting up the career ladder and earning more than the men in their lives, but when it comes to relationships men still hold the trump card.

As an evolutionary psychologist, I study patterns of behaviour dating back to the first human societies, and constantly analyse evidence that demonstrates the key differences which have developed between the sexes since men were hunter-gatherers and women were child bearers.

Females are smaller and weaker than males so, in prehistoric times, women and their offspring were prone to being the victims of predators, and violence.

They needed the support and protection of men who didn't just have brute force but also had social status in the group, either through their sheer physicality or the strength of their personality.

That's why women still look for a mate of higher social standing.

If a woman had a relationship with a socially dominant male, she would immediately get greater access to resources because her social standing would be elevated, too.

As we shall see, modern surveys consistently show that women today ape those inherent characteristics by looking for partners who are socially dominant and have the respect of their peers, paying close attention to how men interact with, and are treated by, other men.

Men have a different reason for choosing a mate. The caveman needed to be sure he was raising a child who was genetically his. The best way of doing this was to secure a mate and guard her so she didn't get the chance to stray.

A man's natural instinct may be to have sex with a different woman every day, but to safeguard his relationship (and secure his progeny), he has been forced into a pattern of monogamy. don't even realise what's happening. When couples meet at speed-dating evenings, typically a man will judge a woman on her looks and youth. His priorities are whether she's healthy, interested in sex and can give him children one day. He doesn't care how much she earns or her social status.



Typically, however, a woman's first question will be: 'What job do you do?' It sounds a friendly overture, but what she really wants to know is his social position and earning capacity. Is he an industrious, hard worker, capable of providing for her and their children?

Because of his power, even the ugliest politician on the planet has women lining up to go to bed with him. Were he the local rat catcher, his love life would be a good deal quieter. As American statesman Henry Kissinger put it: 'Power is the ultimate aphrodisiac.'



One might argue that it's only natural for today's women in their 30s or 40s to feel dependent on a man. After all, the vast majority were raised by mothers who by and large didn't have careers and were forced to rely financially on their husbands.

Yet study after study proves that today's women in their 20s are just as insecure. In a recent study, two American researchers, John Marshall Townsend from Syracuse University and Gary Levy from the University of Toledo, presented women with photographs of men.

The first group, described as doctors, wore designer ties, smart shirts and sported Rolex watches. The second wore plain shirts and Swatch watches and were described as teachers. The third group wore Burger King uniforms.

Women repeatedly picked doctors as potential boyfriends - even though many of the men in the third category were actually more handsome. Quite simply, to women a man's looks are less important than earning power and social standing.



In another study, male and female medical students were asked to pick their ideal mate from a selection of careers. The majority of men chose nurses. Women, however, picked hospital consultants. This demonstrates that, although every bit as financially successful as their male colleagues, these young women still feel they need men to confer power and social standing to a superior male.



It's no surprise to me that another study this year by sociologists at Virginia University found that couples are happiest in traditional marriages run on old-fashioned gender lines, where the man is the main breadwinner. The report showed conclusively that women who worked were more dissatisfied with their husbands than those who stayed at home.


One of the experts, W Radford Wilcox, said: 'Regardless of what married women say they believe about gender, they tend to have happier marriages when their husband is a good provider.'

Happiest of all were women whose husbands brought in at least two-thirds of the household income, regardless of how much they helped with domestic chores.


In short I suspect women will never feel truly comfortable earning more than their men. The need to rely on a man is driven by such a deep-seated biological urge, I cannot see it ever being eradicated completely.



Only last week, a survey by the Skipton Building Society concluded that many women who are the main breadwinner hold it against their partner for contributing less to the household budget than they do.

While those women might like the material rewards of their high salaries, they also dislike the financial responsibility - perhaps reflecting the inbuilt genetic imperative to rely on someone else.
( Hello Pinkettedawn )

It is that instinctive need to rely on a man which makes women so afraid of abandonment. Perhaps that is why women are more attuned to their partner's moods and curious about tiny aspects of his life. And they are much better than men at spotting liars.

Evolutionary psychologists are convinced that these are in part throwbacks to a woman's need to maintain her relationship at all costs.

It's completely irrational for women, who can earn as much as men, to have a terror of being abandoned. Even if she can't work, the welfare state means she's not going to starve. Yet it's a real fear for many women. We have anecdotal evidence of women lying awake at night worrying how they'd cope.

Women are terrified of abandonment. They fear a drop in status or social standing that might come with divorce in a way men - who are driven by very different priorities - simply don't understand.

Even extremely wealthy, successful women have these vestigial anxieties which bear absolutely no relation to the reality of their lives, but are throwbacks to caveman society.

Ironically, although men actually fare less well after divorce and are often less happy, women typically are more frightened of living alone.

Men find it extremely hard to forgive an affair. This dates back to early man's horror of unwittingly raising another man's child. However, women are predisposed to be more tolerant of affairs. It comes down to brutal economics. The thought of your husband having sex with another woman may be devastating. But even worse is the prospect of him pouring all his financial resources her way.

Quite simply, women are so programmed to feel dependent that their subliminal urge to safeguard the home often outweighs the fury of being sexually betrayed.

Terror of being abandoned even drives the beauty industry. Eating clinics report a four-fold rise in the number of middle-aged women seeking help for anorexia and bulimia because they're desperate to look slim and youthful. These problems were once the province of teenage girls.

And while women may claim they are having cosmetic surgery and Botox treatments purely to feel better about themselves, I believe the reason is much more complex. Women are driven by a primeval urge to keep their men by looking youthful and fertile. Sexist? Maybe. True? I fear so.




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Source: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-420513/Sorry-women-dependent-men.html

where ever did this came from, it is sincerely an unsentimental piece, and it is sincerely based on reality than personal fantasies.
nice and educative one bro.

PunterTim:
.That's laughable.
It motivates 'the others'.
Dheartless,don't lose heart,go on and get that lass..
It's a good thing she's creamy!

this is my kind of guy .....yeah creamish is always a tasty status.
I promise to take every bit of your advice ......

Creamish:
Yes I am married with kids. ...so our relationship will be as innocent as a newborn..

heartbroken I am, why didn't let me know from the very start but you allowed me to build up hopes .
this is saddening , if only it were morally right to seduce another mans wife ........ right now I am beginning to consider the truth that "God always forgive us our sins" to my advantage and sanity .

Creamish:
Lolz... which includes..?

I been no wan talk o, but since you asked a question, it would be rude of me not to answer.
........which includes unharmful intimacy....

sorry I wanna ask you this question.
are you married ?
one of lezzes post to me suggests that you maybe married with kids ...
you don't have to mind the second section of this reply