xtervaganza:
She brought a guy home? Are you joking?



You have to be joking. I'm married and if my wife comes home with another man I'll kill the man 1st before throwing her out



I would never chest kn her though

Adasun:
yeah i had thought abt da divorce thing.bt how do i start?what would be my excuse For da boarding skul stuf,


i don't want them in boarding skul,i have a big sis who can take care of them.

Tanks for ur care dear

Sarang:


She won't because she's a good woman.
Your type are the people that remain in an abusive relationship for marriage namesake.
If my husband cheats on me,heaven knows thats the end.
That woman she has a kind heart and this husband of hers is just poo.

Im surprise to see some women still thinks themselves as nothing in this century.

Mamatee07:


She thinks every woman will accept rubbish just to be Mrs. She's a disgrace to women, a woman with very low self esteem. That's the type that makes these men think they can do anything

Joy1706:

Its obvious ur just a glorified maid who thinks herself to be a wife. Your husband must have really done a number on ur self esteem. Your comments disgust me

bebe2:


Me think my self as nothing ? Far from it .

I have a man who adores me and has been doing dat for 20yrs. Treats me the same he treated me wen i was 17. There will always be issues, but one needs widom to handle it.

she has taken it too far. She had my sympathy until she brought a stranger to her matrimonial home.

For me dats a No No. On no account shud dat happen. That type of anger can make her sleep with someone else just to punish her husband . She is very vulnerable at this stage and men love that they will happily take advantage of the situation.

OK, wen all this dies down wat does she tell the stranger?

U live and learn, u dat is acting like untouchable, the day u hear ur husband is cheating on u , divorce him, take the kids and marry another man. Wen dat one cheats divorce him too, add the new kids to old from previous fathers. Search for another. Let's see how far that will take you.

uckennety:

Noooo let her gt matured!dz z not d 1st time a man v cheated on his wife! Let her deal wid it!unless she wants to quit d marriage!men cheats n so doesn't women!v she asked y he did it!

Adasun:
dis one u are quoting and bashing my every comment is nt fair.even tho she is a woman like u


did u look at it frm another pespertive.did knw hw i had beg

njiasi30:

U re right, even if she wants to revenge nt by bringing in a stranger ...op is d soft type, some men will fight d man and injure d wife 2 nt minding dat he was at fault. 2 wrongs don't make a right, since she's still interested in d marriage. Unless she came back 4 revenge but she will end up hurting herself and destroying her marriage with her own hands.
I once had a neighbor,with d same issue. In her own case she so much luv d man and wants to keep d marriage by all means. I advised her to pretend dat nothing happened, live her normal life ,b more loving to him and never deny him anything. It wasn't easy 4 her, but she never brought up d issue.
D hubby was surprised and scared at d same time BC d wife didn't react. He was so worried and restless. He called a meeting, his family, d wife's family and his pastor. Told dem to beg his wife, confessed everything to dem and swore never to cheat on her again.
Till 2day,d man worship's d feet d wife steps on. People are envying her, some are saying she used juju on him.
Back to d topic, op ur wife luvs u but u Ve broken d trust. Maybe,she over reacted but u need to build d trust back. It won't b easy, only God can help u. I wish u d best.

egobetatoday:


Joy1706, u have my respect! I actually puked at her comments.

uckennety:

Aunty wussy!pls let Em divorce HENCE she can't Grow pass it!mayb d nxt guy won't cHEat!

bebe2:


Tnk u jare,

I sorry for young men of these days,

Have u seen Wat some young girls are saying here.

Shey here na India wey woman dey pay man bride price

And to think I have 3boys, so na did type dem go marry?

My poor babies

Adasun:
Hellow fellow,am in a big mess right now.



My pervetious heart lead me to cheat on my wife and unfortunately i got caught red handed.i woun't explain dat awkward experience for now.



My wife trusted me so much,but i broke those trust.now my own home is broken too.


When da deed happened and i was caught,she cried nd cried and later left my house.due to pleads frm those she respected so much because i ask them for help.she later came back to da hwz bt not in gud terms


we no longer greet,she hardly talks to me,she cook when she wants to.once she did not cook,i had to buy fud for da kids


most of all,she now started acting wield nd free.she picks suspicious calls right under my nose.laugh anyhow when charting.


When it first started,i thought it's just a plot to get me jealous so i dance to da tone.i use my body language to atleast show her am jealous and want her badly.


Bt it got worse,she now comes home late and even brought a guy home.and when i saw dis guy in da sitting rum,he introduce me as her cousing.


i was mad,but i myself i guilty.how do i show her dat am in charge when i myself was caught cheatingshould i send her out?on what ground

should i continue to make peace reign?bt i have tried my best.i need ur help my fellow landers.help a brother to make da right decision.

bebe2:


U can sun teeth all u want.

Pls define a gud marriage for me.

I won't argue with u. I Dont have a slave master relationship.

My point remains on no grounds should a married woman bring another mam in to her home. It's not done. It's a no no.

Instead of running ur mouth just learn, u don't know it all.

Curse him, fight him, starve him of food and sex, seize his fone BUT Pls Never bring another man to ur home.

Its Friends like u that advised her lady to the kids and leave her husband of 15yrs because he slept wit a girl while he was on holiday in Africa.

The man begged and begged for over a year the woman refused to come back home.

Next thing we know the man cuts divorce papers for the woman, went home and married a 24yr old.

Two months ago the 24yr old arrived and now lives in the ladies matrimonial home. We sometimes see her and the man kids running up and down in the park.
Who lose??

But those frds dat were advising her and feeding her information are still with their husband and we all know way they get upto but they keep a blind eye but can advise rubbish.

Infidelity is wrong on both sides, but revenge cheating is even worse.

Girl grow up and learn.

Joy1706:

Advice like this, show him more love, ignore bla bla bla is the reason why men won't stop cheating on their wives. Cos there are no consequences whatsoever for their action. Check well, that man is still cheating on his wife. He just learnt to cover his tracks better

Jaywilzee:
u ar so full of shit!!!....I cnt blive dis shit got 2 fp......MOD u F-up

who is dis one,take a plier and pin ur tongue or i wil do it for u.


Are u da one dat knw beta than da mods,ar u even gud in ur own job if u have one?


get a life dude

Joy1706:

Advice like this, show him more love, ignore bla bla bla is the reason why men won't stop cheating on their wives. Cos there are no consequences whatsoever for their action. Check well, that man is still cheating on his wife. He just learnt to cover his tracks better

haba joy why all dis

Do u want me to use an axe and break my heart bfor u knw dat it's da first and last tym i did those shamful act?

Listen i was somehw polluted in da heart dats what lead me to da heart.

Even right at it i was regreting okay.hw i wish u knw me wel

am nt dat bad as u thing.am nt even egocentric

all i want is to get confidence and controlled of my hwz again

egobetatoday:


she may not even remarry

bebe2:


Men of these days are so Weak, so my husband cheated, so I will bring a strange man to his living room?

Or go out and come back late or neglect his kids?

Which day I start to fly? Well with some men u can get away with many things.

And all those saying she won't sleep with this or dat,
Pleassssseeee , take several sits. U don't know if she is or not.

Adasun:
haba joy why all dis

Do u want me to use an axe and break my heart bfor u knw dat it's da first and last tym i did those shamful act?

Listen i was somehw polluted in da heart dats what lead me to da heart.

Even right at it i was regreting okay.hw i wish u knw me wel

am nt dat bad as u thing.am nt even egocentric

all i want is to get confidence and controlled of my hwz again

Kaycee625:
she dey craze ni? To bring a man to your house, thats abomination, if i were you, i would give her a dirty slap in front of the so called man.
If she is tired of being married ahe should go back to her father's house. Rubbish

egobetatoday:


Have she asked why he did it? funny! so there is a good reason for cheating on ur woman? this is a new one on me!

bigiyaro:
gbam. Moreover over in Africa we can Mary Mary wives.

Kirinwa:


You are immature.

Op you need time alone with your lovely wife. Take a break with her. Just you and her alone. I repeat ALONE.
Be honest with each other.2-5 days tins. You can get some family members to stay with the kids if they are quite grown up like 4years.

Otherwise she should drop 1 of her breasts at home.

Joy1706:

Okay. It's been confirmed. This guy na confam dunce. Can't even come up with sound arguments

Joy1706:

My point is you marry the side chick. She marries you as well

Joy1706:

If you like don't train them well. If u like teach them that a man that is not weak is one who cheats on his wife and she dares not complain. Their wives may not be like you who will sit down as a tenant in her husband's house and chop poo. Their wives may be worse than this one o. Better train them well. Don't just run ur mouth here

YelloweWest:

How can they hate their mum when you are the one who broke the family by cheating? ?

Swissheart:
Not giving the kids food is totally bad and uncalled for.... .. We all sin and since you claim to have apologized and even repented she should get it go. I dislike ppl with you did and I do attitude. Anyways talk to her again and again. ..... Show her you won't ever do such again. Make her understand you won't like her bring problems home because of a sin you v repented over.