diamondbank:
eh I am interested but I am green one.

ohis4:
I want to date a white girl 4real but non yet.i hope 2 get one now and i will treat her like a queen

@OP
what you are IS: too young to be so scared of marriage when you are not even dating.
your fear is the problem and you will never succeed unless you remove them from your mind. right now you are in a prison (and may never get out) because you confine yourself within a limited range of action. the less you fear, the more power you will have over your r/ship and the more fully you will live, in order to find the one.

also, you put too much standard too early, when the first thing you should be looking for is simple attraction....and discover your partner from there. if relationships and/or marriage was easy then we wouldnt have so many people failing at it....so give RESPECT to marriage and stop putting the carriage before the horses.

spicykev:
Hello nairalanders, I need a Godly man for a serious relationship. I have been very lonely for some time and want to attempt love again. I am 26 phc based, working from delta state. need a serious and sincere man for a serious relationship. he can be between the 33- 37, educated and responsible, Christian, phc and environs would be ok.pin is 52c25728

myomy:
Please don't crucify me.

I am a Christian and a faithful woman who unfortunately got married to a womaniser. I never enjoyed him once because he prefers to use his free time outside the home with either single girls or married women. I think is case is somehow spiritual (he needs serious prayers). He even resorts to violence when I accused him of cheating, I mean he has started beating me because of other women!He doesn't pay attention to me nor even touch me for weeks. To even pay a simple complement is wahala.

Now I'm bored with it all. I need a friend of the opposite sex not for sexual intimacy nor for extra marital affair but someone I can talk to, turn to for companionship, somebody I can call and he will be there when he wanders away. Somebody I can look up to. Do you understand? I'm talking about a kind of relationship that existed between Jonathan and David. Do you know why? I dint want to develop hypertention thinking about him and his escapades.

Or is there anything wrong with a married woman having a male friend especially if you married a man who is highly irresponsible and doesn't have time for you? I wouldn't have been looking for somebody like that if i had married a decent man. Most times I am lonely even when he is around his presence doesn't make much impact because he is either watching TV or playing with his phones.

frankmoney:
HUSBAND SCARCITY...a must read
This may not be the best time for me to write on
this because of misinterpretations, but I can no
longer resist the push. "Husband Scarcity" has
become one of the challenges faced by many
women today. If
you go to prayer houses,
majority of the intentions are prayer for a life
partner. And this calls for concern. Casting our
minds back to the time of our mothers and
grandmothers, was there really much of a
"Husband Scarcity" problem? Or, maybe there
were more men than women then, or there was
an adequate corresponding numbers of both
genders. I don't think so. Maybe then, the
women
had values and were prepared to build a home
and not park into a built home. Then, once a
young man comes of age and can at least feed
himself and his wife, he goes out in search of a
wife and the woman really appreciates him and
helps him to build a future.
What am I really trying to insinuate? We created
what we now see as
"Husband Scarcity"
for ourselves. Today, the reverse is the case. Ask
an average girl to define her dream husband;
you
get things like "he has to be tall, handsome, fair,
and rich, own a house at least, and be
presentable" and then she adds "God fearing" in
order not to sound so worldly. Then, check the
number of girls around you and the number of
men that meet that standard, and you will see
the problem.
You would be hearing girls say, "I cannot suffer
in my father's
house and then go and start suffering with a
man." What a
wonderful dream! What if from the beginning, you
have
everything you want and there is no suffering,
and later in the
marriage, the table turns around, then comes
suffering? Will
you run away? No one prays for suffering, but it
is good to start
small and end big, than start big and end small.
The problem is
that the description majority of ladies give of
their ideal man is
virtually the same. When 50 ladies want the
same kind of man
and the man that fits what they want is just 1
man, and the
man can only pick one. Then, what becomes of
49 others?
They simply start
lamenting of "Husband Scarcity".
Another irony of our time is that it is hard, due
to the face of
our economy to find a man who is of marriage
age who
possesses all those things
these ladies want, legally (except those involved
in Internet
fraud); even the number of those in Internet fraud
is not
enough to match all those searching for already
made
husbands. If you look around, majority of the
ladies of
substance, of good value and virtue, who are
ready to build a
home with a man who has prospects, are
married and not
complaining of
husband scarcity. The easiest way to find a
husband now, is to
change your view of who a husband is. A
husband is that man
God made and then saw that it may be hard for
man to really
actualize the purpose for making him, without a
help mate and
then made the woman and gave to him, and he
felt complete
and fulfilled. MARRIAGE IS NOT A POVERTY
ALLEVIATION
PROGRAM. It is a
mission of building the family that will serve God
here on
earth.
For those who see marriage as a way out of
poverty, it is a way
into bondage.
Women are
HOME BUILDERS, not HOME WARMERS... DON'T
CONFUSE A
MAN'S PATH WITH HIS DESTINY.
Where he is today, may only be a route to where
God has
destined him to be tomorrow. Another truth is
that YOU MAY
BE THE ONLY FAST MEANS TO THAT HIS
DESTINATION. Join in
alleviating "husband scarcity". PICK UP THE
RIGHT VALUES.
I am not saying that you should pick anyone that
comes your
way and talks of marriage, not all men are
husband materials.
What I am insinuating is that you should stop
setting your
standard on material acquisitions or physical
appearances.
Look metaphysical (beyond physical).
WHAT MAKES A MAN IS WHO HE IS, IS NOT
WHAT HE OWNS OR
HOW HE LOOKS, IT IS WHAT HE IS MADE UP OF.
And that
which he is made of is, most times, not seen
with the
physical eyes, only its effects can be seen.
Marriage is a permanent thing. Whatever is seen
is temporal
and that which is not seen is
permanent. Relax and go to God in prayer.
God did not just make Eve for making sake; He
made her for
Adam's need.

diamondbank:
:-) She's very cute and attractive to me.You don't know how to look at a woman probably you are not fashioned for that cos u a awoman.IN check d pic cos of what u said.

ireneony:
but you are not close to fine talkless of cute, yet u need a cute guy , keep dreaming when u are done please wake up

cutehally:
...... this the first am gonna meet one tooo... smiles, that's nice

damekings:

Have had lotta opportunity to sex a girl buh I dint, cuz I dnt think am ready for that now..some people let their penis control them instead of them controlling it..

Tabh:

So we are this many

ireneony:
the bible says that God will give us our heart desire

diamondbank:
Pls how many of such have you produced in ur family?Charity begins at home !You have an expectation that is unfair on humanity and it isngoing to stretched them until they break,then instead of being sorry,you willnfind offence in them that they are too weak.Only one person with unfair expexctation is needed by d devil in amarriage to make a spouse that is not greatful who will therefore not get any restrain to crush a relationship.What u just listed talks volume about ur world view.You a still single.You an immense and greatnopportunity to make adjustment.You still dreaming,if you d fulfil,ent of ur dream,u must end ur sleepi.e.wake up.

ireneony:
First of all, holier than thou keep off. I really need a boyfriend before the end of this end. Last year new eve I celebrated it alone, but this year I can't
here are my kind of taste in man;
caring
must have pink lips
handsome
fat accounts
tall
confident
smart
caramel skin tone
must have six packs
faithful
shy but bold
God fearing
a giver
humble
respectful


NO INSULT

....

ireneony:
First of all, holier than thou keep off. I really need a boyfriend before the end of this end. Last year new eve I celebrated it alone, but this year I can't
here are my kind of taste in man;
caring
must have pink lips
handsome
fat accounts
tall
confident
smart
caramel skin tone
must have six packs
faithful
shy but bold
God fearing
a giver
humble
respectful


NO INSULT

....

diamondbank:
.1.you need to be specific.2.marry when you meet the right person not because of ur self and not because 2015.If people who are now victims of similar mistakes read ur thread,they will just give ur big craving a very small smile.The situation u a in now,you can handle ur self.Just look for a mentor u can trust who is a genuine spirit filled christian(I guess u a too)who u can open up to any extent to,and promise ur self to follow the person's advice even when it goes against ur wish.You may not believe it,with ur current situation,it is hard to discern a man who will mary u just to ruin you.Wishing the best innlife but if u proceed like that just don't forget that someone once advised u on nairaland.I understand and respect how u a feeling but know that donig what we feel sometimes could be more damaging to our world than nuclear bomb.Look for someone who feel what u feel not people that are together with u in the heat of what u a going tru.

Am4real20:
I created this account to search for love,2015 is around the corner and I don't want to remain single.

I need a man that will genuinely love me,be a brother,Sister,Father and everything. I need someone who is real,someone I can pour out my heart to. Please I don't need scammers,I am real. You must be a christian and ready to settle down. Contact me please.

cutehally:
Feb 19