₦airaland Forum

sharone21:
She and her husband in this case, he too might have committed multiple abortions, both known and unknown( some women won't tell a man they dated that they are pregnant for him).

And how is that the man's fault? What the heck, he never even knew the woman was pregnant

allthingsgood:
Which oil East get oil?? You are ignorant. It's only how to insult people u know

Use your head bro. Biafra consists of the south South that is Rich in oil. The south east isn't leaving alone; the region is leaving with the southsouth. The civil war was about oil. Have you ever read what Benjamin Adekunle wrote about the civil war?

Your comment is out of your dumb senseless mind, a senseless mind devoid of knowledge but psychologically enslaved to the north.

Education is supposed to liberate people's minds, but education seems to have no benefit on your life. What a shame.

keepingmum:
whilst the "men" on this forum are advising and advocating for 2nd wife or sidepiece runs; i hope when the case is reversed and a woman in her 40's & 50's comments that her husband has gone limp/cant keep and erection/has zero libido, you will all rally round to offer her your d$cks for free or atleast give her advise on starting meaningful relationships with men (older/younger)

As for the other male species commenting, be reminded that when you encourage ANY man to step out on his marriage, the person he could choose to cheat with might just your babe/boo/wife/sister/cousin/crush

A man with permanent sexual impotence has no right to ask the woman to remain in the marriage with him.

This woman said she isn't fucking anymore. What do you expect the man to do? If this man is your elder brother, will you advice him to also stop sex totally?

You are too emotionally blinded to make sensible comment here.

bogdaddy:
You willingly followed her like a bouncer or what? To what reasons my brother to watch football like everyone does or another reason

The guy doesn't want to ignore signs that the girl is cheating on him. You are free to ignore signs that your girl friend is cheating on you; it's your choice.

dawnomike:
Take it all to God in prayers... Prayers changes things.

She may also need to confess some dark secrets of the past, like multiple abortions

amarachi06:
I have been married for 6years without a child. it has been the worst time of My life to be married without a child.

Anytime we argue, he will shout at me with scorn and hateful words but he can never speak to his family members that way.

lf l try to talk with him over some issues or advice which will benefit us, he will shot me down, only for us to suffer later.

l have tried to Know my wrong to him but he doesn't wanna tell me. l am in deep pains cos he has told me "that anytime l want to leave, that am free to do so".

On Monday, he came back around 12am, and l was worried till that time. He came back without explaination and l asked him, whether l am that invisible to him, and his reply was "if l am tired, that l should leave". l now replied, "if l have a child, will you send us out?" he didn't say anything but l know that his attitude is cos of that.

The day l had my Last miscarriage was in 2016, and the tears l had in My eyes was not about my baby but knowing that l will Not be loved again by my husband.

l am tired! l almost went Into depression, and sucide, cos of his attitude to me. l don't Know how to handle him, cos my presence irritates him.

Please Sound advice.

Did you commit abortions before you married him? How many babies did you kill this way? Repeated miscarriage is usually consequent of multiple abortions.

Did you tell him about those ugly pasts? Did the two of you go for medical examination before you got married?

It may be the ghost of the past coming to haunt you.

kayusely70:
The president is on a "private visit" to London not for medical treatment.

May God turn your life and destiny to what buhari has turned Nigeria to. Amen.

kibraaminase:
I grown up in Ondo State precisely Ore in Odigbo L/G.Throughout my staying there, whenever they Ikales or Ondo wanted to call to peoples from Oyo or Osun they'll call them Ko lo lo(tan ba ti ni ko lo,ko lo lo)I thought this is how they derified the word.Sometimes I felt embarrassed because we from Oyo/Osun sees them as the one to be called instead, we spoke Yoruba Language that is more clearer than that of them.They're to be called that particular name because their own version of Yoruba is not clear like ours.Then why we?

What a very bad English you write! I doubt if you passed SSCE.

allthingsgood:
This is not trying to be tribalistic. But everything we have today is because the north shed their blood to preserve our unity and integrity


At the end of the day there's only one tribe that has been preaching hate, war and disunity, while the other fought for peace and unity.

Sir, I thought Nigerians are sensible, but your comment proves otherwise. Did you rewd anything at all about the civil war? No you didn't. Do you know that the civil war was fought because the north wants control of the oil?

Your monicker shouldn't be allthingsgood; it should be allthingsdumb

johnmartus:
Buhari is a perfect gentle man who obye the law and not intervene on court issue.

Please I need to know: the dumb comments you make on this platform, are they intentional or you are naturally like this?

I think FFK is right; you hailers have very low IQ.

johnmartus:
what do you want to gain from shattered my good image. If you are to forex trade we could become a friends.

You need to wean yourself of your political blindness first. It is unreasonable to praise evwrything this government does, both good and bad.

seunmohmoh:
He should visit Buhari then say it to his face .....If he can't then he is a coward .

He should go to hell with his tweet.

Are you saying buhari is an abuser of human right?

Iamgrey5:
FFK the shameless Old man that behaves like a toddler has spoken.

FFK says only people with low IQ can support buhari; is it true? When did you check your IQ last?

sarrki:
It shall never be well with wailers and enemies of the state

Mr Hailer, Is it the wailers that place Kyari above osinbajo?

Is it wailers that asked Kyari/Buhari to sack osinbajo's aids?

Very soon, you will be confused about which side to support between buhari/Aba Kyari and osinbajo/tinubu

plaindealer:
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That's all....

Have you come to terms with the reality that Aba Kyari sacked osinbajo's aids?

Monogamy:
People are just exaggerating the power and position of Kyari.

Me personally, no matter how rich I am, my sister is the only person which I think can make me do and undo some certain things..

Same way Buhari have so that trust in Kyari..

NUJ in Nigeria is now Nigeria Union of Junkies

Kyari doesn't have power, yet he has his way with the SGF and VP.
I hope you will have the honor to call yourself a fool when revelation exposes the power wielded by Aba Kyari on buhari
and osinbajo?

CanadaOrBust:
The point is that the Chief Justice is his hand-picked Sharia-loving brother

Stop wasting your time replying that johnmartus person or whatever rubbish name he calls himself. Some of them comment as if they are dead and disconnected from reality.

johnmartus:
Understand the fact that we are operating presidential system of government. Not totalitarianism. Start use your head

It looks like you are the one refusing to use your head here.

Monogamy:
Afenifere should first help themselves so that they can be taken seriously.

Ride on Osi bobo

Now that the sacking have been debunked, Social media regulator should please take effects jare..

All the manufacturer / composer/ originator of false news must be sent to jail for brain resetting

Looks like you haven't recovered from self deceit.

Very soon you will be confused about which one to defend between buhari/Aba Kyari on one side and osinbajo/tinubu on the other side.

popsy2:
He is either docile like Goodluck or has a card up his sleeves. Let's wait and see.

He has nothing up his sleeves.

The north will keep on taking Yorubas for granted because Yorubas always fail to learn from history

jayfolarin:
This boy is a tribal bigot and would want you think the reason his mother gave birth to such deformity is because of the yorubas. Ignore him

Back to the topic: buhari is destroying Nigeria with his non stop unconstitutional actions. He must to be stopped!

It's time for mass protests guys. Mass Civil disobedience! Mass disruptions! It's time!

Nigerians are too scared to do that

festacman:
Surprising that Bloomberg fell for this mischievous narratives inspired by the opposition. In US, does the Economic Advisory Council advise Pres. Trump or VP Pence? The answer says it all.

It is important to emphasize that the influence, which VP Yemi Osinbajo enjoyed and exerted during first 4 years in office was largely due to Pres. Buhari's ill-health and loyalty. It is this influence that people are mistaking today as convention rather than conscious concession. Let's face it. How influential was VP Jonathan under Pres. Yar'adua or VP Sambo under Pres. Jonathan. Pres. Obasanjo who conceeded too much to VP Atiku regretted it. I am sure while sincere supporters moan on his behalf and mischievous haters display their mockery, VP Osinbajo will remain grateful to Pres. Buhari for that rare 'freehand' opportunity, which endeared him to Nigerians and catapulted his political worth.

The fact remains that in Presidential System of Government, the VP is an appendage of the President. The President is the executive Head of Government and Commander-in-Chief. This is captured in the constitution. I am sure that as someone who taught and practised law, VP Osinbajo knows his place. It is so in United States from where we borrowed the system.

Now, take a look at what some former United States VPs said about the post they once occupied:

“I am not in a leadership position. I am supporting the president. He can exert the leadership and I can support him.” — Nelson Rockefeller, the 41st vice president

The vice presidency is “not worth a bucket of warm piss” and “the worst damn fool mistake I ever made.” — John Nance Garner, the 32nd vice president

“The vice presidency is the most insignificant office that ever the invention of man contrived or his imagination conceived.” — John Adams, the 1st vice president

“Look at all the vice presidents in history. Where are they? They were about as useful as a cow’s fifth teat.” — Harry Truman, the 34th vice president

“I would a great deal rather be anything, say professor of history, than vice president.” — Theodore Roosevelt, the 25th vice president

"You shut the door, you tell the boss exactly what you think. But when the door opens, the job of the vice president is to stand right next to the president and implement the policy that he's decided. And I'm prepared to do that. - Mike Pence currently serving as the 48th vice president of the United States

“I do not propose to be buried until I am really dead.” — New Hampshire Sen. Daniel Webster, on rejecting an offer to be future President William Henry Harrison’s running mate in 1839

This shameless one is still blaming opposition for his party's total failure.

By the time APC disintegrates totally, that's when you will realize that your problem is not from the PDP; that's when you will know that your party's problem is internal.

Plaindealer, how market?

Which one will you support now between buhari/Aba Kyari on one side and osinbajo/tinubu on the other side?

May God not make us Sai Barbarians in Jesus name.

Vincent88:
Hello NR I'm very sorry for bothering you again. I have a big problem and really need your advice please , no insult. My life has been destroyed lately by a woman with whom I had a one night stand on the 3rd of October. I was stressed out because my wife left me so I went out to night club to drink and met the lady there. I wore protection and did everything safely , I didnt enjoy her but I pretended I did , I didnt even like her and wished to hear no more from her , she then texted me 2 days ago to say she is pregnant, her text shocked me within seconds and I texted her that there was no way she could be pregnant. She said she 1000% I'm responsible for her pregnancy and she needed money for antenatal. I rang her and suggested to meet and talk and I suggested to take her to hospital, she refused this and said she needed the money for hospital that she would go on her own. She said she needs 250k and I must pay up fast. I telephoned her to talk everything but she just kept shouting and threatening that if I didn't pay up quickly she would expose me to my wife and in laws which I dont want her to do that because I'm trying my best to bring my wife back and I dont want her to know about this. I told my close friend in desperation and he thinks that this girl Is lying and blackmailing me. I have agreed to pay her 250k and for her to leave me alone until the baby is born they we do DNA, but my friend told me to not paying her yet but I'm scared she will go to my wife but u want to pay her and sorted. I'm destroyed and stressed out to bits over all this and it has been the worst 2 days of my life. I know it was very safe sex and I regretted it, I wish I didn't go out or get drunk on that day.

A blackmailer always come back. If you pay her this time, she will still ask for more. Do not even be deceived by her promise not to disturb you again because she will.

This is my suggestion: confess to your wife and ask for her forgiveness. Or report the girl to the police and sue her for extortion and blackmail.

Acidosis:
He collected all your savings to add to a project (a personal apartment??).

I don't understand why people rush to build apartments. It is absolutely needless when you still struggle to meet your basic needs.

Advise your husband to;

1) Quit daydreaming about a juicy political offer. This venture never ends well when you don't have a job/business, trade, skill, etc. After 4 or 8 years of tasting little money as a counselor or special adviser (assuming he gets the offer), the situation will get worse. I've seen too many examples.

2) Sell off the uncompleted project.

3) Use the proceeds of the sales for business (this should be your focus and priority).

A house project won't put food on your table. A lot of Nigerians make this mistake. The urge to be called a landlord push many into shanty houses that ordinarily should be left for poultry and pig farming.

There's so much ignorance in the land. Tenancy is not bondage. Stop attending churches where tenants are demonized. There's no glory in being a broke landlord. Remain where you are and divert your money to a productive venture. That's how to grow. Your personal apartment may help you save a little (assuming you pay a lot on rent) but it won't put N1 on your table.


N.B: Please ignore the above if my interpretation of "project" differs.

When some landlords show you pepper, you will agree that tenancy is a curse in Nigeria.

healthserve:
Fake

Your reason being that.....?

Xcelinteriors:
6000 per roll.

We buy it 5k per roll here in ilorin. Why do you want to exploit people?

References:
https://punchng.com/osinbajo-fails-to-delay-35-aides-sacking/

Plaindealer, have you seen now that you are living in self deception?

Patrioticman007:
Another wailing wailer spotted. " Averroes the Islamic philosopher said, Your enemies will always seek you down fall no matter your good intention, and your friends will always want your prosperity, no matter your intension ".
That of the 16 years of evil PDP governance?. What has been our gain as a nation ?. If truly we have gained anything, why the cries against PMB that he is yet to take us to the promise land.
Ipobian should go and wait for year 2023 please.

Mr Mediocrity Hailer, you are still blaming the PDP after 5 years in government?!

As expected, a bad farmer will always blame his tools.

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn

As a real niggarrr
I don't do politics

But one thing i love about this government is their ability to

Bring treasury single account( although this was Jonathan's idea)
And integrated payroll system( same Jonathan's idea)

Including this border closure

There is always light at the end of the tunnel

Las las we go dey alright

Like i will always say Nigerians don't really hate corruption
They only hate the fact that they are not the one carrying out the corruption

Shouldn't you also love the way this government has reduced your country's foreign reserve:https://punchng.com/external-reserves-sink-to-five-month-low-of-43-67bn/

Abfinest007:
Twitter var is correct here bcuz I can see groundnut in the water

Looks like many Nigerians are not mentally sound. Imagine this one calling grains of beans groundnut! And to think 4 other people liked the comment!! Most Nigerians are so annoyingly mentally unstable!!!

seunmsg:
The president should take charge of the situation. News like this will continue to fuel the insinuation that he’s not fully in charge of his presidency. This is the time for every member of the presidency to work together and deliver all the electoral promises made to Nigerians before the 2019 election. This is not the time for a silly and worthless power tussle that will only end up distracting the administration.

See who is talking. How many electoral promises did buhari fulfill between 2015 and 2019?

And do you really need anyone to enlighten you that buhari is not in charge of the government? Please stop commenting like a sissy.