Politics › Re: RESIDENCY CARD: Ondo Breaks New Ground by Dindondin: 11:04am On Jul 12, 2015 |
theAtheist101: Why did you say Amosun's project is bad? And is there ever a right time for anything? Yes, there is a right time for a thing. Even the Bible states it that there's time for everything. Amosun has lots of unfinished projects. he claimed that they were delayed due to lack of funds. where ll he get the money for railway when he claimed there s no money to finish those he started. some of the roads he hasn't finished v been damaged. they ll very to start all over again. eg, the road linking iyana mortuary to Idi aba |
Politics › Re: RESIDENCY CARD: Ondo Breaks New Ground by Dindondin: 10:59am On Jul 12, 2015 |
Ademat7: calm down boss! So railway frm lagos to Abk is not needed? U must b kidding and childish in economics matter I m not a baby in economics, town planning, community development or whatever you call it. Amosun has lots of unfinished projects and uncomissioned ones. He claimed the projects were delayed due to lack of funds. Where ll he get the funds to do the proposed railway? Are you conversant with development in Ogun State? |
Family › Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by Dindondin: 12:33am On Jul 12, 2015 |
freelance777: Dear Nairalander's
How are you all doing? I hope you guys are doing well? I am writing this post to express my fears of the unknown, because I have been a very trusting and reliable husband to my wife.
Before marriage, my wife have once told me about his ex who is supposedly his best date ever in her life before she met me, that apart 2 years into our marriage, we had an arguement in which she confronted me about a number saved with a lady's name on my dialled list. I openly and honestly told her it was my old school mate whom I missed her call and had called back. But she wanted to know more like I was doing something shady, that got me all roused up and I just told her to leave me be.
A week later, I received a call from her straight from work that my daughter had a serious cut on her lips due to an accident, I quickly rushed down to the school, but met them at the nearest clinic where my daughter's lip was being stitched, few mins later I walked down to her school where she works nearby to pick up her car key then bring her car nearby so we could all go home, surprisingly, I found her wedding ring inside the glove compartment. A ring she wore out to work that very morning.
I didnt question her immmediately until the night of that day, I asked her why she had removed her ring and kept it in the glove compartment knowing fully well that the wore it out that very morning, she said it was because I have had mine removed since the past 1 month, so she also had the same reason to remove her's.
A week later, she opened up to me that she has been talking to her ex whom I described above, I asked her about what? She said she has been taking advise from him whenever we have issues. I kept shut and moved on.
2 more years into this marriage, I recently found out that her ex had sent her a whatsapp message, but she didnt respond, so I opened up a discussion with her based on ex's. I asked her if keeping contact of ex's or communicating with ex's is good for married people be it the man or woman, she said its a no no, that infact she will never accomodate such and that its wrong for anybody to do that. I immediately told her to open up her whats app, she did and I showed her her ex's whats app message, she at first was scared, wanted to cover up the phone somehow, but due to fear, she slowly relaxed herself and she said well that I can see that he is just talking and she has not been responding, and that its possible for someone you do not have on your contact list to send you a whatsapp message, I agreed, but countered her saying you also have saved his number with Abbreviation, if you never intend having future communication with him, why then did you save his number thereafter? I didnt get an answer, until later after two weeks when she told me she was in communication with him in order to secure a job for his younger brother. ( Very hard to believe) I moved on.
A few days later again, I was on my way to help her fix her iphone which she has abandoned like a year and the half, something just prompted me to dial his ex's number on that phone, behold she had saved the number as 'rsif' someone who bears Williams. Anyway I kept quiet still. The the final incident that gave me a final warning that this my wife might be cheating on me unknowingly was just a month ago when she told me she had met this dude on the same estate we reside, that he was into business and had also gave her his complementary card, I asked what he does, said he is an estate agent, I responded saying estate agency does not correlate with what you do, she said at least he can provide us good offer for housing by the time we are ready to move. When all of a sudden, she said that same guy had asked her to help cook since his own wife had travelled to the USA to give birth. She asked if it was right for her to go ahead and do the cooking, I immediately denounce that move that it is wrong, and that the guy has another motive entirely. I told her to tell him that he should ask his own family member to cook for him, and that she should immediately cut communication with him if she wants to last long in the marriage.
My wife responded by saying, she does not think the guy has bad intentions and that he is a cool and nice person with a very mild personality,that if the dude has such intentions, that it would be the most surprising occurence to her. I said well just do as I have said. Lo and behold, I investigated her phone and I found out that she had already cooked for this dude even before she asked me the question. I confronted her, and she said it was because I might not find it funny and thats the reason why she kept it a secret at first. I then promise to show her that the dude was infact a cheater whom is planning to cheat on his wife with my own wife. One day, I impersonated my wife, and started sending text as such as that am ready to give him what he wants, lo and behold, this dude was responding and was even asking where I was at, that he is ready to heal my wounds, a hug and everything that I needed. I showed my wife the text message, and she acted all surprised, but I was not, because based on the conversations that I have seen, it seems to me that whenever I have issued, he rushes to call the guy and tell him everything, which was a good avenue for the guy to provide emotional consolation in order to get what he wants.
I apologize for this long story, but I just needed to detail this story well, so that I can get insight of what I need to be thinking, what I need to do, and the right steps to take.
Thanks all. I see you really loved your wife. But my Ifa says that she doesn't love you, respect you again. You might still be having sex, living together Lil's couples but she's not respecting you. if not, she won't defy your orders, give chance to other men as if she doesn't know their plan. Last Bulletsum up your courage, make strict rules, let her follow it or end the marriage before she divorce you or poison you or render you useless. she has exhibited the traits of a Delilah |
Family › Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by Dindondin: 12:20am On Jul 12, 2015 |
wagazala: Bros, begin find new wife.
If your wife would go as far as cook and confide in another woman's husband other than you then obviously something is wrong. The usual template answer most people will give you on this forum is have a heart to heart talk about it to your wife, pray about it, etc. Forgerrit, if you don't have kids yet, i'll suggest you start packing your bags. seriously seconded. even if there are kids, its either she chose the man wholeheartedly & stop are games or the marriage ends |
Romance › Re: Am I Taking Advantage Of Her? Please Judge Me! by Dindondin: 12:05am On Jul 12, 2015 |
Samfigo1: No be only cook na fry I fry am... Why not walk by if you have nothing to say My brother, you are taking advantage of her. Fear God. If your blood sister v accommodation problem & she moves in with you & sleep on the same bed with you for several days, months, years. Will konji catch you? Last BulletHowever, the girl doesn't deserve pity for allowing you to touch her. If the girl doesn't want to v anything with you, she d v resisted your touching, kissing, romance etc. She won't cry & tell you that pathetic statement of "[b]it's because she's staying with you.[/be] Next time you sleep together, make sure you romance her so much that she can't resist sex & Fuc k the hell out of her. Do not buy her cheap story because that her silly virgin a has lost respect! And is the accommodation situation of the girl so critical that she had to move in with a guy. I don't think she's even the girlfriend of the Op's friend. She must v moved out of that friend's room cos of sex issue |
Politics › Re: RESIDENCY CARD: Ondo Breaks New Ground by Dindondin: 11:49pm On Jul 11, 2015*. Modified: 10:16am On Jul 13, 2015 |
Residency Card! What about National Identity Card? Last Bullet These South West Govs likes embarking on needless projects whenever they are hungry. How much ll this one cost now? That was how Amosun want to build rail from Abeokuta to Lagos. When a good project is initiated at the wrong time, it's a bad project. Amosun has not finished most projects he started since 2012 due to insufficient funds. So where ll he get the funds he Want to use for railway? APC in Ondo State should frustrate this plan. Mike Adenuga, a world class economist clearly stated it in parables that the Resident Permit Card project is a waste of time. |
Celebrities › Re: Basketmouth Shares Funny Photo For Vegetarians That Can't Wear Leather Slippers by Dindondin: 10:58pm On Jul 11, 2015 |
tochstorm: Dude there is no such thing as vegetarian......
in nigeria!!!"!!!!!!! adonbiliv |
Career › Re: 8 Professions That Makes It Hard For Ladies To Get Husband by Dindondin: 10:46pm On Jul 11, 2015 |
tosyne2much: Are you bereft of logical reasoning or you are just being fool.ish ?
Whether I'm a kid or not, that should be the least of your problems. Kindly work om your so comprehension skills so that you can decipher fact from a comment full of hilarity
Kindly go through my profile, read my private message and fuuuck off my mention, you attention seeking nincompoop Your blood was so boiled that you couldn't decipher the humour in my post only to start ranting. I v gone through your posts & I miss not impressed. After all your rants, you are still a kid. Last BulletI won't back off until you grow up! |
Health › Re: Save This Child Nairalanders, Advice Me On What To Do, Please Doctors And Nurses by Dindondin: 9:43pm On Jul 11, 2015 |
whatttt? |
Career › Re: 8 Professions That Makes It Hard For Ladies To Get Husband by Dindondin: 9:39pm On Jul 11, 2015 |
tosyne2much: 9. Awon Omo Alata
They are seen as being classless and worthless and are discriminated by the educated ones
10. Ladies Who Sell Jedi, Orijin and Schnapps
Ladies who sell these stuffs are total turn off for me. Even if Buhari offers me N10m to marry them, I would still reject the offer
Quote me to say thrash and I will show you why missionary style is the most pleasurable style So you can threaten people who quote you in a way you don't like. Wonderful! Your snail think its Protruding eyes are horn. You dey form macho e-warrior. Last BulletJust know that you are still a small child. Kids don't threaten anyhow. |
Jokes Etc › Re: Introducing: The New MTN Android Data Plan Cheat by Dindondin(op): 5:56pm On Jul 11, 2015 |
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Politics › Re: Suicide Bomber Strikes In Chad Capital, Kils 10 by Dindondin: 5:54pm On Jul 11, 2015 |
Anyone dressed in Ijab ll soon be suspect |
Jokes Etc › Introducing: The New MTN Android Data Plan Cheat by Dindondin(op): 5:01pm On Jul 11, 2015*. Modified: 6:00pm On Jul 11, 2015 |
Introducing: The New MTN Android Data Plan Cheat- You can get up to 5gb of free data. Dial *513*7# then tie a red cloth on your head & black cloth on your legs. Go to a T-Junction by 1am & scream: MTN, MTN, MTN...Give me free 100gb to download a new brain from Google Play.
It works like magic.
Thank me later... |
Phones › Re: Cool Whatsapp Tips You Need To Know by Dindondin: 4:34pm On Jul 11, 2015 |
kolacoal: INFINIX hot note @ a giveaway price. 22k call or whatsapp 07063089805 Let me pay N2000.  |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Dangote 28,000 Job Creation. My Experience by Dindondin: 4:29pm On Jul 11, 2015 |
400billionman: Story. Story...
By the time Dangote fulfills his 2014 promise of selling cement at N1,000 per bag, then will I start taking him seriously.
For now, every smart businessman i see is a scammer. that was the biggest lie in 2014. |
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Celebrities › Re: Basketmouth Shares Funny Photo For Vegetarians That Can't Wear Leather Slippers by Dindondin: 3:16pm On Jul 11, 2015 |
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Celebrities › Re: Basketmouth Shares Funny Photo For Vegetarians That Can't Wear Leather Slippers by Dindondin: 3:15pm On Jul 11, 2015 |
Only the topic of this thread is funny. lmaoooooo |
Celebrities › Re: Basketmouth Shares Funny Photo For Vegetarians That Can't Wear Leather Slippers by Dindondin: 3:13pm On Jul 11, 2015 |
lmao |
Crime › Re: Lagos Pastor Arrested For Raping 14-year-old Girl by Dindondin: 12:14pm On Jul 11, 2015 |
my 1st bill ll be cutting the p ennis of rapists |
Crime › Re: Man Injures Wife, Whips Daughter With Barbed Wire In Lagos (Photos) by Dindondin: 11:51am On Jul 11, 2015 |
ok |
Crime › Re: Church Member Petitions Police Over Lagos Prophet Who Defrauded Her Of N5million by Dindondin: 1:25am On Jul 11, 2015 |
HungerBAD: Gullible Nigerians.
The most annoying of all is when they start calling them DADDY and MOMMY. i dislike those names. Daddy G.O, Mummy G.O |
Crime › Re: The Latest Swindling Technique by Dindondin: 1:12am On Jul 11, 2015 |
sleekman: Mod I'll like this on fp so that everyone can learn and draw from similar experiences. Thnx N150,000 just like that!a |
Food › Re: How Many by Dindondin: 7:40pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
Orobosadavis: how many wrap, can you eat, just be honest, mine is 5, if better hungry hold me, na like 9.. I swear I ll eat 15. |
Webmasters › Re: 6 Killing Blogging Myths [experttales] by Dindondin: 4:55pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
kkkm |
Phones › Re: 3 Reasons Why Telegram Is Better Than Whatsapp! by Dindondin: 11:27am On Jul 10, 2015 |
koice: Dude! Must you compare?? Simply install and use both, case closed. Telegram is far better. |
Crime › Re: Iyalode Alhaja Sadia Elewuju That Was Murdered In Cold Blood (Photo) by Dindondin: 10:14pm On Jul 09, 2015 |
ahhh, the version I heard was diff. I learnt she was cut with machete on d head & died from the wounds |
Family › Re: Man Who Abandoned His Wife And Twins Speaks Out by Dindondin: 9:31pm On Jul 09, 2015 |
OK. you ll still be jailed anyways |
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Romance › Re: How My Girlfriend Failed My Fidelity Test. by Dindondin: 5:47pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
Cutehector: So r u nw happy? Yes. He ll be happy that he didn't marry a slut |
Family › Re: Some Ways To Make Yourself Happy by Dindondin: 5:27pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
0nyegame: Na wa for u o.....must u reason like cow No. Must you loose your senses to the extent that you ll not recognize comic posts |
Politics › Re: More Graphic Photos From The Scene Of The Bomb Blast In Zaira,kaduna Today by Dindondin: 3:40pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
OREMUSSANCTUS: #speechless When I noticed that it started in Borno, to Jos, To Kano, I knew Boko Haram has plans for Kaduna, Bauchi, Yobe, Yola, Abuja. What are the security operatives doing? Maximum checking should start in the affected areas & other targets |