Family › Re: Is His Strange Behavior A Sign Of Love Or Danger? by dingbang(m): 5:48am On Jun 30, 2018 |
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Romance › Re: Nigerian Man States The Difference Between A Feminist And A Bitter Person by dingbang(m): 5:43am On Jun 30, 2018 |
Gbam |
Romance › Re: Somali Man Weds Two Women At Once In Kenya, Encourages Other Men To Do Same by dingbang(m): 5:41am On Jun 30, 2018 |
So someone will snap picture with two fine girls , stupid bloggers will now write he married them and the worst part of the whole thing is the sheeple Nigerians who will believe the story |
Christianity Etc › Re: Freeze Blasts Clergyman In Trending Audio That Predicted Tragedy In Lagos by dingbang(m): 5:24am On Jun 30, 2018 |
This man never stops speaking the truth.  |
Politics › Re: Osinbajo Calls For Establishment Of State Police To End Killings.. by dingbang(m): 5:21am On Jun 30, 2018 |
We are still not yet Democratic enough to form a state police. |
Romance › Re: "After Being Side Chic For 6 Years, 33 Abortions, He Proposed & I Said.." - Lady by dingbang(m): 5:19am On Jun 30, 2018 |
The lie and the breast are overstretched.... |
Romance › Re: Advice Pls!! She Said She Likes Me! by dingbang(m): 5:17am On Jun 30, 2018 |
AxceX: See as I use speed go look too n I must say I salute aswell na serious Scripture union babe she be |
Romance › Re: Advice Pls!! She Said She Likes Me! by dingbang(m): 10:14pm On Jun 29, 2018 |
[quote author=oshe11 post=68943368][/quote]even as she wear trouser finish, she still cross leg.. Imagine  |
Romance › Re: Advice Pls!! She Said She Likes Me! by dingbang(m): 9:00pm On Jun 29, 2018 |
Idonki: All i can say is... Be careful... I salute your pose  |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: With M.sc., I Desperately Need A Job. SOS!!! by dingbang(m): 8:40pm On Jun 29, 2018 |
Education in Nigeria is just worthless.. If someone can't get a job with a masters degree then I don't know when the person will get a job again... |
Romance › Re: She Said She Need TIME And SPACE. by dingbang(m): 4:43pm On Jun 29, 2018 |
 begin to derive the formula for time and space against distance  |
Romance › Re: Lady Cries Out After Been Dumped By a Man She Just Had Sex With by dingbang(m): 1:57pm On Jun 29, 2018 |
The other nigga wants to also chop and clean mouth  |
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Travel › Re: Evacuation Almost Done On Otedola Bridge After Fuel Tanker Explosion. Photos by dingbang(m): 11:08am On Jun 29, 2018 |
Buhari please also evacuate petrol tankers from roads during day time. Thank you. |
Politics › Re: Tragedies In Nigeria Are Tied To A Culture Of Silence! by dingbang(m): 7:57am On Jun 29, 2018 |
True... We don't want to fight for freedom
Fela kuti |
Travel › Re: It Is Mental Sickness To Take Pictures And Videos From Accident Scenes by dingbang(m): 7:08am On Jun 29, 2018 |
joey150: So your 'solution" is for us to cry?
Tears now work wonders?
We should weep while other saner countries would enforce stricter guidelines to prevent lives from perishing like this in the future?
Nigerians should demand good governance, Nigerians should take to the streets if that is what it takes to recalibrate this country. I don't mind shutting it down for weeks if chaos is what would bring lasting peace, we might as well get on with it.
Crocodile tears isn't t going to bring one of those unfortunate souls back, neither will it prevent the next mishap from happening. Let's stop trying to play God. We need to get our acts together. we should march to abuja to hold rotimi amaechi accountable for the lives that were destroyed... |
Business › Re: 10 Fastest Ways To Find New Customers For Your Business by dingbang(m): 6:37am On Jun 29, 2018 |
Digital marketing is key.... |
Travel › Re: Aftermath Of Lagos-Ibadan Expressway Tanker Explosion (Graphic Photos) by dingbang(m): 6:36am On Jun 29, 2018 |
HotMayo: and they have the guts to say 'only' 9 people burnt beyond recognition. maybe they can recognise those in the bus. I'm tired of this country well its norm for the authorities to hide the actual number of death casualties.with that magnitude of fire, e pass well well. The minister of transportation Rt hon Chibuike rotimi amaechi is so incompetent |
Romance › Re: Have You Ever Given A Girl Mouth Action by dingbang(m): 4:41am On Jun 29, 2018 |
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Crime › Re: Phone Thief Beaten Mericlessly After Being Caught By Unizik Hostel Boys (photos) by dingbang(m): 4:08am On Jun 29, 2018 |
Can you imagine the petty things he stole.. |
Travel › Re: What Are The Requirements For A Foreigner Visiting Nigeria To Marry Her Man? by dingbang(m): 4:06am On Jun 29, 2018 |
Lmao... |
Travel › Re: It Is Mental Sickness To Take Pictures And Videos From Accident Scenes by dingbang(m): 2:21am On Jun 29, 2018 |
The phrase "Pictures or idonbelieveit" na wetin cause am |
Romance › Re: Lady Shares Video Of Her Boyfriend Having Sex With Her Best Friend. by dingbang(m): 10:00pm On Jun 28, 2018 |
Their fvcking business.. |
Travel › Re: Aftermath Of Lagos-Ibadan Expressway Tanker Explosion (Graphic Photos) by dingbang(m): 9:52pm On Jun 28, 2018 |
See that bus filled with charred bodies. Lord have mercy |
Travel › Re: Tanker Explodes On Lagos - Ibadan Expressway, Vehicles Got Burnt(Photos, Video) by dingbang(m): 7:17pm On Jun 28, 2018 |
Very soon Ben bruce will want to make common sense..
It's a pity this Sad event happened in a time like this. |
Business › Re: My Experience: Why Is Ecobank So Classless? by dingbang(m): 6:51pm On Jun 28, 2018 |
ITbomb: Union Bank no follow work for over 100 years? hardwork bro..  union bank been dey play  |
Business › Re: My Experience: Why Is Ecobank So Classless? by dingbang(m): 6:44pm On Jun 28, 2018 |
ITbomb: Confirmed
I still dey wonder how first Bank evolved from old school Bank to a very responsive 21st century financial platform, � just a bank my brother, na over 100years of hardwork |
Business › Re: My Experience: Why Is Ecobank So Classless? by dingbang(m): 6:34pm On Jun 28, 2018 |
Some banks staff don't know that customers" satisfaction is always important and they should try as much as possible not to bring down the brand they are working for.
At first bank, we put you first in all we do, and that is why you just need to open an account by dialling *894*0# without visiting any of our branches. Furthermore, If you have an account with the bank, do well to download the mobile app by clicking on my link for a step by step guideline.. .
You first |
Celebrities › Re: Berger To Ajah Trends As Bowen Student Gets Casted By Her Boyfriend by dingbang(m): 6:29pm On Jun 28, 2018 |
selfwife: I believe the boy does not know what he wants.why invite her in the first place? blind dating something |
Romance › Re: My Fiancée Bedwet, Now She's Avoiding me by dingbang(m): 6:25pm On Jun 28, 2018 |
She must be a nairalander.. Nonsense |
Romance › Re: Women: Stop Saying Is Sex Food? Yes Sex Is Food!!! by dingbang(m): 6:04pm On Jun 28, 2018 |
Its an activity... I wonder why people just attach emotions to it.. |
Romance › Re: I Would Rather Die Than Watch My Wife Leave Me,please Help! by dingbang(m): 5:43pm On Jun 28, 2018 |
Continuation
.....to have the baby. That made me broke up with her and in her anger,she moved her account from my bank.
The bank was not happy they lost the account and I was not bringing any juicy accounts. I was asked to leave the bank eventually. I was sad and pained. I was actually so depressed that I couldn’t bring myself to start looking for a job. I was almost an deputy MD. Most banks I tried to apply with came with ridiculous targets. I eventually stopped looking for a bank job. About seven months later,I got a job in a company as a Banks reconciliation manager. The pay cut was a huge cut but I just wanted my peace of mind.
With all these things that happened,my wife took up the major responsibility in our home. She made sure our children didn’t drop out of the type of school they were used to. She took care of our house rent,daily upkeep,even my family members too. She never complained. That’s how it has been for almost two years.
I am a happy man but I see pictures of my child with that woman as she posts them on Facebook,etc. I am scared that one day,this might come to bite me. I love my wife and family to death,I cannot hurt them with this revelation. I once jokingly asked my wife if she would forgive me if I cheated on her while getting drunk. She responded that she will forgive me,as long as I don’t get another woman pregnant in the process.
So now,do I just keep quiet and let this secret be cos the woman has never bothered me for a day. I think she is just happy having a baby of her own. But my greatest fear is that the child might grow up one day and start looking for me.
What do I do? How do I handle this without loosing my family. If you ask me,I would rather die than see my wife leave me. Please advice me.
From Mr R,
Lagos |