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Hello Nairalanders, Is this scenario betrayal of trust?

While I dating my ex, I went over to his place to send some time with him during the holidays. Whenever he was not

around I went through his things (actually I am a very nosy person) so along the line I find out some things through

a friend about this guy which really hurt me. When I asked him, he confirmed that it was true. After the whole issue,

we became friends and we were gisting one day when he asked me if I went through his documents. I admitted it

that I went through his stuff. He said that I betrayed him by going through his things but what about me whom he

betrayed by not telling me about the serious issue he should have in the first place. He said he wanted time before

he told me. I knew deep down he was never going to tell me if my friend had not. So my question is who betrayed

who? Cause I admit that he trusted me enough to have left me in his place all alone in the first place but what of me

that he refused to discuss the issue with.

Big girls don't cry - Fergie

Trust, Fallin out, Please don't cry - Keyshia cole

Respect - Aretha Franklin

Change gonna come - Sam Cooke

A long walk - Jill Scott

Younger brothers and sisters can be a pain at times but you need to check yourself before you wreck yourself. When you get married and your wife annoys you, are you telling me you are going to beat her?

I know I just posted a topic on "is it rude" but here is the thing, the employer that interviewed me asked me to write out a business plan for his organization before deciding whether or not he wants to hire me. The funniest thing is that I am not his only candidate there are other.

Is it rude for a potential employer not call back an applicant informing them that they did not get the job? I mean he/she called to inform you about an interview and during the interview she promised to give you a feedback but most times they don't call you give any feed back . I feel its just plain rude, every applicant have the right to know whether they got the job or not. At least this puts a stop to the anxiety.

If the husband wants her to take care of the family, he should pay her "salary" every month or open a business for her.
Because guys at the end of the day will be the ones complaining that the amount they spending is too much and that she is not helping out in anyway. I have witnessed this type of situation, where the woman agreed to be a housewife some years later the guy starting complaining about the amount of money he was spending on the home front and that the woman is not assisting in anyway. When she told him that he was the one that wanted her to be a housewife, the husband said so does that mean out of the money I give you, you could not start up a business.

For a woman who is used to having her own money it will be difficult. Whatever she wants to buy, she needs to collect the money from the husband? No

Since you have realize that your PMS is the reason you have clashes with your bf, be conscious of yourself when relating with him. To him it is just an excuse.

Really, maybe is the ones you have seen.

The Good Lord will be your strength

Why don't you wake up from illusion.

Had a similar experience, my bf and I were travelling back to Lagos from Ibadan when his car stopped on the highway.

It was around 6pm and we had not even gotten to shagamu. I was so scare cause my parent did not know that I

traveled to Ibadan. He got down to check what was wrong with the car, it was obvious he did not know so he told me

to wait behind that he wants to look for a mech a round. What! wait behind for where? I told him we were going

together while we were both arguing about waiting or not, it became dark and I got very scared. As luck will have it,

we saw a toll vehicle had to persuade him to toll his car. He did not want to, said it was to expensive had to argue

my way through. When we got to Ojota, I took a taxi straight to my father's house. Never again in my life did I travel

with bf or friends without telling my parents.

@ sophy

Did he leave you or you left him? If you left him, he means he still loves you and he wants you back.

I love extreme pleasure

I still don't get it, why do people dislike mama gee?

@Delta007

@last I saw you online. Thanks for all the info

How many loads will this wash?

@ poster

Before you get married, consider you and your wife's accommodation and feeding before you think of anything else. If you can take care of these then ok Go ahead!

Why is it always about guys? There are things ladies HATE about men too, I don't think I have seen the thread anywhere

I'm with you on that H202

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@Poster
One question, if you told your parent you were getting married to a white guy, will they object?

Talk to you, who you be? This is a serious matter o!

Lol, you don't want to know. I have a feeling my ex is on nairalander. sorry!

They take their acting to reality.

Hello haley, this may sound funny but i think i know the kola you are talking about and he served in Gombe. I think we need to talk.

Hell knows no fury like a black woman scorn. Wreck him without his knowing. Did that to ex never knew it was from me. We still friends though and he still thinks it's one of his male friends.

Lol, look within yourself and ask yourself that question again.