₦airaland Forum

And you are already talking like 'you know how most women feel'?
I don't care about what they feel. We know how they feel about their son by the roles they play in his life.
And am not afraid to acknowledge such women exist when I hear about them.

Yes they exist. Be open minded on issues like this.
Offs mic.

Hathor5:
If you can't answer the question for your own mother then what makes you think that you know how most women think/feel, you or Acidosis for that matter?

Good you said praying.
They exist but they won't want you and I to know their innate desire.
By their actions and inactions you will know them. It's all about what the man in question wants.
Do you think Davido and Wizkid's parents are interested in their marriage or even Tuface's?

Magnoliaa:
This thing no hard. Show me the single mothers that are praying for their sons' to remain bachelors or be baby daddies.

Abi what exactly did Acid say that is right? Yes, tell us what he meant that you agreed with.

Having a failed marriage is different form being a baby daddy.
Mothers single or not, care more about their sons and grandchildren.

That's another reason why some girls will tell you they want their mother inlaw dead before marrying or meeting their spouse.

It's not new.

Divoc19:
Acidosis got it right on this one. It's good to be open minded on issues at times even when we know that we are different.

It's still good to be open minded even when you know you are different

Magnoliaa:
Acidosis said most mothers wish for their sons' marriages to fail or that they want them to be successful baby daddies. You agreed that he was right. Based on what? If you don't know your mom's mind enough for her to be a good reference point, then who are the mothers you're using as examples? Where is the proof that most mothers wish for their sons' marriages to fail? I would not mind reading an article or such confession from MOST women. Abi it is Iya Gbonkan and the Yoruba witches in home movies?

Mr. Ascorbic Acid never said anything about sons' succeeding as married people or not. He said single mothers/mothers want their sons' to be successful baby daddies.

Acidosis didn't mean what you are insinuating.

Biglittlelois:
You're deviating, I followed the conversation and acidosis said most single mothers prefers their sons to be baby daddies or their marriages to fail, and you said he's right, so where is the proof?

And going by your comment above, are you saying married men from single mothers are not independent, responsible and happy?

Every woman is not a feminist. Know this and have peace.

nairaman66:
Is this not hypocritical? A feminist who depend on a man to pay her bills.. Womenfolks the most confused species on earth today!

I am not in her mind.
So I can't answer that question.
The only thing I know mother's want for their son; is for their son to be independent, responsible and happy. Married or not.

Hathor5:
Why don't you answer my question?

Does your mother want that your brother's marriage fails?

Same can be said for the rest of us truly but Hausa own Is 5 much. Their culture is going extinct already.

Patrioticbreed9:
Same can be said for the rest of us, incredible culture but when we add religion the story changes.

Funny more grease

Mothers are always attached to their sons forever no matter the age of that child/son

Hathor5:
Are you saying that your mother wants your brothers' marriages to fail?

Hausa as a language and tribe is beautiful but, when you add religion it becomes something else

Mind your business but encourage him to learn a skill or sell ice block anything at all to survive in our Nigeria of today

If you do continue, it's nature.
Remember too much of everything is bad

It can never end. No be curse

Hear yourself well. The same men will call her loosed/control freak because she is independent.

nairaman66:
This is the reason men see women as sexual objects! Change your mentality. A woman can be independent too

Dating is marriage rehearsal.
What you see is what you get.

You too dey hear noise
Calm your nerves and hear the message

Suspect1:
are you better than him?? What a noise maker you are!

I personally think as Nigerian adult, it doesn't matter where you are from as far as you are accepted where you currently are especially when it is the same region like your case.

There are other pressing issues you should worry about. This deed has been done for a long time unless you have political ambition. Even at that, like I said in Nigeria all regions are one. My own piece though

Acidosis got it right on this one. It's good to be open minded on issues at times even when we know that we are different.

Hathor5:
In your experience widows wish for their sons' marriages to fail?

I for say make you die there. But suffer no dey kill Nigerians, instead they get more inspired. So, choking fit kill you now I rest my case.
I yafstop

Suspect1:
the noise very choCking, you sef stop, chu chu chuING, stop making noise.

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LWKMD! You self na wa
Which kind surprise

Dpharisee:
I bought frogs and prepared peppersoup with it, we just newly got married then, my wife came back and I showed it to her thinking she will appreciate the surprise, she raised hell and said if not that we had gotten married she won't even kiss me again.

Then she took the pot and plate I used to enjoy my delicacy and placed it outside that she will never use the pot to cook anything again as it was giving her goose pimples, since then I have not eaten frog again

If you are nice, you will attract nice girls.
Don't mind clergymen that will say your sins are forgiven. Na lie.
Karma is a bitch.
So, just do good and good go follow your.

diogo23:
Nigeria woman is the most useless thing GOD create

Reality of life. Women cannot do better.

anonimi:
In the 21st century ow what a man can do a woman can do better?
Or what century are you in

Buying gifts for you if you treat her well

diogo23:
And her money is for What?

Conditional providers you mean

michael1508:
Are women artificial providers ?

Unbroken seal indeed

Those women still exists, but men are encouraging unbroken women to slay...

Very few men go for natural things nowadays. Una too like filters

Elporo:
That was when women came with an unbroken seal.

You can't use makeup and bone straight hair to plug a broken dyke.

_{My money is my money} ..

E choke you

Suspect1:
yen yen yen! Noise maker!

That's an indirect way of telling a man that he should not rely on her money.
Men as head of the family are supposed to be natural providers

Tribalism is the new norm.
Remember, tribalism is practiced world wide in different names.
Nairaland is a mirror of our reality.
Las last person wey no know him history get peace of mind

So Italy no dey pay again., Chai

Leave them alone o.
A word is enough for the wise.

Is it me?

Gireiboy:
Stop misleading people please, Yar'adua started dredging river Niger, Goodluck Jonathan was the one the stopped it, when he took over after Yar'aduas death.

Jimbah:
Umaru musa yaraduwa approved it but Goodluck regime didn't facilitate it...

It's not me