Anonymous1900:
Hi,

A quick search of your name here on nairaland brings up so many questions about your identity and motive to ignore. To that end, i would not be making the transfer as earlier indicated. I would also not be responding or engaging you any further going forward over any issue

wish you all the best!!!

oh God have mercy alright sir no problem have a nice day

Anonymous1900:
@diza46:

I am sorry but after taking everything you said/did not say into account, i am unable to support your business venture. let me offer some advice if you care to take it as i have a feeling it may resonate with other folks on this platform going forward.

it is you that understands your business and how it can work, avoid pitfalls and be successful, hence it is your job to convince a potential investor how they can make the most returns on their investment. This translates to so many things like where will you setup, who will you sell to, what's the profit on each, what's the sustainability of the biz, what's the turn-around time and so many others etc. so if you can't catch the interest of an investor in 1 page to get them to ask for more details then your proposal is missing vital info.

so, while i am not sharing in your profit or asking for returns, i expect the biz to still be run as such afterall I am being asked to provide the whole seed capital. it is my hope that the business will be successful and stand on its own in the shortest possible time. you have provided nothing to inspire me from a business/humanitarian angle hence leaving me with only 1 option. I will stop here and hope you get my point. I will also not be responding again on this matter going forward

Finally, in the spirit of the season and to help alleviate some of your immediate burdens, kindly share your bank details and name and I'll send you 10K. Have a wonderful xmas to you and yours with all the hopes and aspirations for a better tomorrow

regards

alright sir is fine thank you very much and may God bless you here are my account details 0159798509 union bank husseina Ibrahim

MummyMalik:
Congratulations to our helper

Congratulation sir

Toks2008:
Leviticus 21:14

"A widow, or a divorced woman, or one who is profaned by harlotry, these he may not take; but rather he is to marry a virgin of his own people,"

And according to the Quran... Surah An-Nur - 24:31

"And tell the believing women to lower their gaze and guard their chastity, and not to reveal their adornments1 except what normally appears.2 Let them draw their veils over their chests, and not reveal their ˹hidden˺ adornments3 except to their husbands..."

We all can see how important it is for a woman to maintain sexual chastity and only her husband is allowed to see her unclothedness....

Today we have many ladies who have been married to several men in the name of dating, hook up, runs or whatever name they call it and YES we know there is nothing anybody can do about it and it can be argued that men should not be exonerated even when it is clear from both Bible and Quran that the burden of sexual decency lies more on the lady...

So let's just believe the world has changed and most guys don't care about marrying a virgin anymore not because they don't wish to but because they have lost all hope in finding one.

I believe in my opinion that no woman can make anyman sexually faithful to her except the man chooses to but nevertheless, only a lady who marries as a virgin has every right to demand sexual faithfulness from her husband.

A bride who has slept with another man before marrying should appreciate her husband and should not in anyway demand sexual faithfulness from him.

Infact, a bride who is not a virgin does not deserve a bride price but should be handed over as a gift to any man who decides to marry her.

This is not about mysoginy and I'm not trying to exonerate the men who sleep with the unmarried ladies but this is the undiluted unsavory truth.

Insults are welcomed.

no insult in this, your fact is very clear and well stated

Toks2008:


What is your definition of disloyalty? Wait let me guess...when he sleeps with another lady right!

This is where many naive ladies get it wrong.

A man can be a loyal polygamist and sexual Fathfullness is never a yardstick to measure loyalty in men.

I dont want to argue over this fact. You have the right to your opinion.

okey sir

Anonymous1900:
Please stop quoting me in several messages or trying to send emails. 1 mention is fine and ill respond as soon as i can. Also i am not angry/happy on this matter. i am just being objective and emotions have nothing to do with it at least on my part.

In the past you needed 100k, now its 150K!

Ok, since i am meant to ask, what is 100k or 150k for or how will it be spent?

Sir the money will be spent on getting 10 piece of abaya sir

Anonymous1900:
Please stop quoting me in several messages or trying to send emails. 1 mention is fine and ill respond as soon as i can. Also i am not angry/happy on this matter. i am just being objective and emotions have nothing to do with it at least on my part.

In the past you needed 100k, now its 150K!

Ok, since i am meant to ask, what is 100k or 150k for or how will it be spent?

Yes sir before I can get 10 abaya for 100,000 but now it's 150,000 sir before I get abaya wholesale price at 10500 from the person I supply from but now it's 15,500 now that's why it change sir

Anonymous1900:
I have a few questions for you:
1. what exactly are you asking for? please be as clear as possible (meaning whatever response you give, make sure you read it yourself and are satisfied that whoever is reading won't need further information). Just saying things like i need money/assistance to re-start my business in not only insulting, it reeks of entitlement. neither i nor anyone else owes you anything.
2. Would you do anything different to how you approached your business the last time if given the chance.

If i need information/verification, trust me i will ask. it is not like all those things can't be faked so its is not my primary focus. Finally, you have problems and i have problems. we all have our problems, but we need to be objective in our approach. if you want help based on sentiments/emotions then that will be giving you a token (probably help you feed for a few days) but if you want help for business then it has to make sense or i would just be wasting my time.

sir look things are very hard for us things are very difficult for us to be sincere with you this night everyone in the house is sleeping with empty stomach but I want something that I know that if I can get my hands back on it we won't sleep with empty stomach again, is really been long that I have been pushing and pushing I don't want to giveup I keep on pushing with the hope that one day God will answer my prayers that's the reason why you see that I keep messaging you up and down sir please I am so sorry if in anyway I annoyed you please do have patient with me

Anonymous1900:
Hello Nigerians/Nairalanders

I have been away in silent mode for a while but something caught my attention deeply enough to draw me back from the group of silent observers to share with you again.

I wont bore you with too much plesantries and go straight into thr crux of the matter.

Sometimes last week i got a call in the office from a "indian" lady who told me they were conducting a market survey for ******* Bank and would like to know if i could spare 5 minutes for the anonymous survey. i was unfortunately very busy at the time so i asked her to call back next week (ie this week) thinking she wold simply move on to other callers and i forgot about the whole issue.

To my suprise i got a call before 8am today and the person repeated the same lines about the survey and again it was an "indian" lady though i cant be sure if its the same person or not.

After the call ended, it got me thinking as to what just happened and i was so pained when it dawned on me few minutes later i had to share the following observations with possible like minds to know if am over thinking it or things are not as bad as they appeared to me.

My observations:
1. An indian called me with a nigerian number (both times) to conduct a market survey in nigeria for a nigeria bank.
2. There was the brief pause of few seconds between my response and her response to tell me it was an international call routed through a nigerian number. I lived abroad long enough to know most of the call center and market survey jobs were been outsourced to India and we often joked about it at work back then about the accent and difficulty in understanding but am suprised nigeria has now degenerated to the point where our peopole are no longer even good for contract staff but now they are taking the jobs completely overseas
3. Has our governemnt completely let us down up to the point where minor jobs which high school leaers or even university students could undertake for stipends been farmed out offshore to countries like india who have the labour ( i read sometime ago about certain companies taking nigerian jobs offshore and remotely operating from overseas with little or skeletal staff left here in nigeria)
4. As a nigerian we understand different types of english however bad or weird it sounds so i could make out what she was trying to say however she could not understand me properly and am not suprised since the indian expartriates in my company also have a hard time understanding phone conversations and often need interpretation .

Finally after the call, i came to the conclusion that we could simply make a statement in support of our brothers/sisters who might need such a job to support or boost themselves preventing this rape of our economy since our goverment wont help us by saying politely "Am sorry I cant understand your english, could you please ask a Nigerian to call Back! " or whatever you think might work but please be polite. Am sure if we repeat this enough times, the company that hired them might rethink the outsourcing of this job to foreigners when there are millions of unemployed persons here at home. And no matter how long the company tries to cover up this fact eventually it will get out. We are only as strong as our collective actions

Now i know this might rob some people wrong (along the racist lines/bigotry etc) but at what point do we simply say enough is enough and start helping ourselves. A foreign colleague told me he does not buy stuff from china cos it damages his home economy and we were talking about common umbrellas . It was a conscious decision he made even though he his not at home, he still thinks to protect his country and economy. why cant we do the same!

Lets be patriotic, lets support our own, lets be Nigerians in whatever way we can!
God bless you all
#foodforthought


N.B: I did not do the market survey

please sir don't be annoyed I am email you to let you know that I have reply you please don't be annoyed thank you and May God bless you

Anonymous1900:
I have a few questions for you:
1. what exactly are you asking for? please be as clear as possible (meaning whatever response you give, make sure you read it yourself and are satisfied that whoever is reading won't need further information). Just saying things like i need money/assistance to re-start my business in not only insulting, it reeks of entitlement. neither i nor anyone else owes you anything.
2. Would you do anything different to how you approached your business the last time if given the chance.

If i need information/verification, trust me i will ask. it is not like all those things can't be faked so its is not my primary focus. Finally, you have problems and i have problems. we all have our problems, but we need to be objective in our approach. if you want help based on sentiments/emotions then that will be giving you a token (probably help you feed for a few days) but if you want help for business then it has to make sense or i would just be wasting my time.

sir I am so sorry for making you not to understand my point please I have learn on how to do this business more well than before I have realized the mistake I made before if I am giving a chance to start up my business again what happens before will never happen again because I have learn Alot of leason from the last business please sir what I am asking for is 150,000 even if it's not up to that as far as i can start from somewhere again I will really be grateful sir please I really don't know how to put the things in my mind inorder for you to understand sir please help me

Toks2008:


When a man loves you, he loves you and as long as you are loyal to him, he remains loyal to you.


Women tend to misconstrue cheating for loss of loyalty. That a man cheats on a lady does not mean he is disloyal.

sorry sir but this is not truth are you serious by saying as long as the lady remain loyal the guy will remain loyal as well no that's not true a man can never remain loyal nomatter how loyal a lady is to him,sir it is been long now that I have been following your post and use to enjoy reading it especially your advice on relationship part but sir for the first time I am disagree with you on this one a man can never be loyal to their wife's or fiancee nomatter how loyal their wife or fiancee is to them

Anonymous1900:
Ok, I Will Indulge so it does not seem I am ignoring you continuously....

How can i help? and before you say you want to restart your business(abaya) and i should support, please note that you have said that before and to several other people on this forum and if nobody has taken the mantle up till now including me, then it won't be a sufficient answer this time either.

Consistently quoting all my posts as succeeded in bringing me out of hibernation (even if it does not work again in future) and i am genuinely here with open ears to see what can be done. so please, help me to help you with your response. Make it make sense how for over a year you have been talking about this "abaya" business. what happened to it the last time? why would it be different this time? what have you been doing since then? is abaya the only way? etc these and many more are reasons why probably most people and myself have been unable to take you up on your request.

I hope it works out this time!!!

Regards

sir please I am begging you with God name please in anyway you can help me please do help me

Anonymous1900:
Ok, I Will Indulge so it does not seem I am ignoring you continuously....

How can i help? and before you say you want to restart your business(abaya) and i should support, please note that you have said that before and to several other people on this forum and if nobody has taken the mantle up till now including me, then it won't be a sufficient answer this time either.

Consistently quoting all my posts as succeeded in bringing me out of hibernation (even if it does not work again in future) and i am genuinely here with open ears to see what can be done. so please, help me to help you with your response. Make it make sense how for over a year you have been talking about this "abaya" business. what happened to it the last time? why would it be different this time? what have you been doing since then? is abaya the only way? etc these and many more are reasons why probably most people and myself have been unable to take you up on your request.

I hope it works out this time!!!

Regards

sir the way I have been leaving after that is really been tough begging online taking of loan i went into different online offer or giveaway inorder to survive I am owning palmpay 10,000 something right now that will be expired today sir the only person that have render me some help from this forum is olasyke whenever our foodstuff finish and I had no where to go to he is the person that use to help me with some money May God bless him nomatter how little it is it was very enough for us to feed that day

Anonymous1900:
Ok, I Will Indulge so it does not seem I am ignoring you continuously....

How can i help? and before you say you want to restart your business(abaya) and i should support, please note that you have said that before and to several other people on this forum and if nobody has taken the mantle up till now including me, then it won't be a sufficient answer this time either.

Consistently quoting all my posts as succeeded in bringing me out of hibernation (even if it does not work again in future) and i am genuinely here with open ears to see what can be done. so please, help me to help you with your response. Make it make sense how for over a year you have been talking about this "abaya" business. what happened to it the last time? why would it be different this time? what have you been doing since then? is abaya the only way? etc these and many more are reasons why probably most people and myself have been unable to take you up on your request.

I hope it works out this time!!!

Regards

sir seriously i myself too don't know why all this while I haven't gotten help but I believe God time is the best sir I was into abaya business before the business went down the business was going well and good till my mum fell sick and other family issues arrived alot come at the same times which I have no choice than to touch my business money to support my family by selling all my abaya in wholesale price for my second at the next store and I went back to the village to take care of my family sir after my mum sickness and Everything was resolved it has become hard for me to continue my business again so in the village I start firewood business taking 5 to 6 pickup of it to make sales but since I am still at the village the money i make from the firewood business go on feeding up till now and I am still looking for a way to start up my abaya business again since it is the business I know of how to do best sir that's why everytime I keep on disturbing you to see if I may get assistance from you please sir I can provide any information you need inorder to help me please sir

Anonymous1900:
To those trying to email me. let me apologise again and state clearly that i dont reply to emails. it is a personal decision.

I created a dummy email to simply communicate with the original Op since it was his topic and i needed to find a way to send him the funds (BTW for those asking, i did not send him any funds as i was going to do my due diligence anyway). I simply used the opportunity of that email to receive "sensitive docs" fbabs wanted to send to me. it was not an avenue to open private communication with him or anyone else and hence my response to him in public.

I have no intentions of checking that email account or monitoring it but it may serve a purpose on Rare case by case basis.

I am explaining this so those emailing me do not feel ignored or disrespected. this is a public forum and as such i would rather all dealings remain public. if you had reached me in my personal capacity/offline then that is a different case

Best regards

sir please assist me please let me start my business again sir please

OfficialDJ:
Gotten four persons so far in here..
Announcing those by 10pm.

God bless.

God I pray I was lucky to be among those sir any form of evidence you need to comfirm me inorder to help me I am really ready to provide them sir

Good morning sir happy new month wishe you long life and prosperity May God bless you and reward you for this I really appreciate,
Sir I am a business lady before things got bad and I stop ever since then I have been looking for money to start up my business again I do sell abaya especially now that Christmas is around the corner with 100,000 I can start up this abaya business again take it to my customer and gain more sir please with this help my life can go back to normal please do consider me

OfficialDJ:
my 08 cls was converted at ladipo, and the guy did a perfect job..

My 015 still uses the airmatic, and I only ply the city with it.


Felicity001 can help.

please sir I send you a mail can you please respond to it

OfficialDJ:
my 08 cls was converted at ladipo, and the guy did a perfect job..

My 015 still uses the airmatic, and I only ply the city with it.


Felicity001 can help.

good morning sir how was your night

OfficialDJ:
I'd do a million naira giveaway here on the 1st of December...
10 business ideas will get 100k each....


I'd rather empower men with that amount than hoe around with it ...

Watch this space.

Ya'll are doing a bad job ignoring that rabid dog below....

oh God sir May God Almighty reward you for this please sir you can check all my post I have been looking for money to start up abaya business but I wasn't able to start it because of no fund to get it started please sir consider me in this your giveaway I really need fund to start abaya business I will really appreciate your support in my life thank you so much sir

Javina:
Growing up, by this time my Parents would have bought us the kids Christmas clothes.

It saddens me that with this bad economy, a lot of children won’t get clothes and gifts or even food this Christmas.

If you are a struggling parent, put down your account number (ONLY IF YOU REALLY NEED IT PLEASE!)

Use your real account for verification. NO SCAMMERS. Don’t deprive those who are really in need.

Sir I am so much in need of this money please consider me May God bless you 0159798509 union bank

Tegabadguy:
send me your gmail

alright sir khadizaibrahim46@gmail.com

Tegabadguy:
are you male

no sir

Tegabadguy:
wat type of business

Is abaya business sir

confirm0:


Okay kindly learn Amazon kdp:learn to write & sell books on Amazon and earn atleast $500 within a month.

You can also learn copy writing.

This are quit basic & simple also kindle get a LinkedIn handle if you can or will share your graphic & video projects there connect with people & many more & by the Gods grace you fit get better opp & gigs there

Please do not give up, but you can take breaks & sleep & reflect & bounce back.

Take care.

thanks I will do that

Olasyke:

Sent, ma'am.

thanks alot sir I really appreciate your help may God reward you for this

Olasyke:

Yes, drop your Gmail.

khadizaibrahim46@gmail.com

Olasyke:
okay then. Copywriting is easier than video editing.

kk sir

Olasyke:

Do you know about copywriting? Or have you heard about it before? I have a course on it by "Walter enyinnaya". He's a copywriting guru, you can google search for him. And the course would put you through on how to get paying clients and what niche to choose and the rest.

You could also learn the basics about copywriting from YouTube. Copywriting is easier, you can learn and start doing it from your mobile phone and by God's grace, within a month or two, you supposed don dey see changes. I can send the course to your gmail address if you're interested. The other thing I know is video editing and it's kinda hectic at first, you'll need a laptop and the rest. I'm sure you understand.

about the video editing I don't have a laptop,i think the first option the copywriting is what I should go for first now

Olasyke:

Do you know about copywriting? Or have you heard about it before? I have a course on it by "Walter enyinnaya". He's a copywriting guru, you can google search for him. And the course would put you through on how to get paying clients and what niche to choose and the rest.

You could also learn the basics about copywriting from YouTube. Copywriting is easier, you can learn and start doing it from your mobile phone and by God's grace, within a month or two, you supposed don dey see changes. I can send the course to your gmail address if you're interested. The other thing I know is video editing and it's kinda hectic at first, you'll need a laptop and the rest. I'm sure you understand.

you say you don't have access to your email anymore should I drop my email for you to send the course to me

Olasyke:
You're going to be okay at the end, Inshallah.

Ameen I pray as well thanks

Olasyke:

Do you know about copywriting? Or have you heard about it before? I have a course on it by "Walter enyinnaya". He's a copywriting guru, you can google search for him. And the course would put you through on how to get paying clients and what niche to choose and the rest.

You could also learn the basics about copywriting from YouTube. Copywriting is easier, you can learn and start doing it from your mobile phone and by God's grace, within a month or two, you supposed don dey see changes. I can send the course to your gmail address if you're interested. The other thing I know is video editing and it's kinda hectic at first, you'll need a laptop and the rest. I'm sure you understand.

alright sir thank you very much I am so much interested