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XhosaNostra:
What is your criteria for picking the girls you have chosen to ask out?

Personally, I don't think there's anything wrong with you. Perhaps you're going after the wrong girls, who just won't admit that they can't keep up with you. You come across cerebral, very eloquent & verbose. I'm not sure how many girls in your dating pool can match up to that. Their rejection may stem from their own insecurities about not being good enough to be with someone like you, so don't take it personal. Try finding someone who's similar to you in nature or one who shares your interests in reading & other things you're passionate about.

I agree completely with you on this one. I remember the last person that started coming close to me, I had to pull away for similar reasons. Sometimes it better to pull out than to regret everything. TRUE TALK

obembet:
The French club are desperate to get rid of Neymar but have now accepted he will only leave on loan and not for €180m.

PSG are trying to find a solution to their Neymar problem this week. Despite the Brazilian's wish to rejoin FC Barcelona, it appears they are determined to talk with everyone else before calling Josep Maria Bartomeu. Neymar knows he is being offered around and one of those sides was Manchester United - but they turned him down.

Before Ligue 1 begins this weekend, PSG want the situation resolved. The issues between the management and Neymar is beyond repair and know they must get him out before the season kicks off to avoid any further embarrassment. They spoke to United about taking Neymar on loan and Real Madrid have also asked about the Brazilian's availability.

Neymar only has eyes for Barça after making the decision to leave at the end of last season. He wants PSG to discuss a move so he can start planning for his second stint at the Camp Nou.

Source: https://amp.sport-english.com/en/news/barca/psg-offered-neymar-to-manchester-united-but-they-turned-him-down-7583273

immediately I saw this particular post on the general section, I clicked on it. But before clicking on it I already knew it was u that posted it. You, you, you and nobody else. All your posts are hits back to back

Goalnaldo:
yeah my name is a fusion of goal and Ronaldo.

it think it is better I follow you now and get it over with. You know why? Because it takes a cool guy to notice another cool guy.

frozen70:
You have not been patience enough with women and their delay tactics, besides you are already used to hockers and their quick service

Falling in love might not really come easy for you because those hookers are an alternative for you

Everything still boils down on you, restrict yourself and calm down to start a different life style from the hockers

A man without patience can't fall in love or get loved

Miss, if you indeed paid any attention to this post you would see clearly where the Op stated that he has never had sex. So what's all this talk about hookers? Clean up your mindset, please

Haderonke20:
op drop your WhatsApp line,I think I like you,who knows,I might fall in love with you,I'm beautiful and light skinned

ah hanty Ronke, why are you doing advertisement nah ko da ooo

Goalnaldo:
I followed him immediately the first day I saw his post. He's super intelligent and I think he's a writer. I hope to meet him personally one day.

hmmm, Cool. From ur username Goalnaldo, does it mean that you are a RONALDO fan? I am his biggest fan actually.

pansophist:
OP, what you are passing through is exactly what most men will surely pass through, its encoded in the sand of time that what makes a man attractive and desired by the opposite sex is about being valuable. Being a man is not valuable, loving her is not valuable, but being a valuable man yourself.

Your value as a man is resource based (social status, wealth, intellects etc), it is the transformation for a boy to a man, that will make men respect you, and women attracted to you. other posters have said it all, and even though it is hard for me to believe that true love doesnt exist, as in, being loved just for being a man, all evidence points towards that direction. The mistake I see men generally do is expecting a woman to love him for who he is. No woman will love you for who you are (just being a man), because unlike men, women's value to men is physical (beauty, youthfulness, femininity), something she is born with and doesnt have to work for, yours as a man is the opposite.

When women say "real men", "man up", "be a man", it is a testament to this fact that being they separate the boy from a man, but have you ever heard men say "woman up", "real woman", ba a woman"?. Look at it this way, when you tell your friends that you met a new girl, their question will be something like, "is she beautiful", "she get yansh", "how does she look"? What all these implies is that women are valued for just being women. I remember when my sister told my parents about her boyfriend and that they wanna get married, what my parents wanna know was, "what does he do", "where does he work", how old is he", questions that reveal if he is not a boy, but a man, with a sense of responsibility, financial capability and able to lead a family.

Another example, most men usually move out from their fathers house to their own apartment, but women move from their father house to their husband house, our culture is deeply buried in this thoughts. Or male musicians showing cars and houses, to signify success (resource base), but female almost getting naked, displaying their curves (beauty/physical base value). Examples abound to prove this dynamics, but you should get the point now. Women are born, men are made. You should "made" yourself, and women will come.

So my young bro, I tell you from a place of experience, that you should focus on building yourself, and the women will come. Forget about all those nollywood true love shit, only women usually fall for it, because they operate in their own frame of being rewarded for being women, and project it on men, thinking they fell in love with you because you are you, not knowing their primal base and evolutionary hardwiring that made them skip others to be with a real man.

Goodluck

i am impressed. Your advise to the young man was full of logic, philosophy and balance. Needless to say, I started following you immediately.

Raalsalghul:
Can her boobs still look sexy like this when she unclothes.
That's the only thing I'm interested in, not this epistle.

guy you wicked

linearity:
Oh boy! How I wish I had read your post before now or you had posted long before now.

Here are mine on my 777 days fast and I still don’t know sh1t about what women want in a man.

Should I give up now? Because the other person that asked me to embank on this fast, said I will get the revelation on the 1000th day of my fast.

lol, SERIOUSLY? Goddam. Understanding women is truly one of the great mysteries of life. I SIMPLY REST MY CASE. INFACT BROS, I GIVE UP. NO BE EVERYTHING PERSIN GO DISCOVER FOR LIFE �

obembet:
Arsenal chiefs are set to meet with Barcelona officials to thrash out a loan deal for ex-Liverpool star Philippe Coutinho, according to reports.

The Gunners take on Barcelona in the Joan Gamper Trophy at the Nou Camp on Sunday, and discussions will take place around the game.

Coutinho joined Barcelona for £142million back in 2018 but has fallen down the pecking order in Spain and is facing an uncertain future.

Barcelona are open to the idea of letting the Brazilian go on loan for the season, and Arsenal have emerged as a surprise contender for his temporary signature, according to Spanish publication Sport.

The Gunners' head of football Raul Sanllehi is set to lead the talks to land Coutinho.

The move for the former Liverpool star comes just day after Arsenal secured the £72million signing of Nicolas Pepe from Lille.

Source: https://www.mirror.co.uk/sport/football/transfer-news/arsenal-chiefs-set-meet-barcelona-18821111.amp

Cc Lalasticlala
MissyB3
Fynestboi
Dominique
mynd44

wawu! Can this transfer window get any crazier than this? Simply Unbelievable.

Rubbiish:
Come don't go acting like a jew man by disgracing him in front of d girl. This is something u should have done before now. After d girl must have left, pour out everything u wrote here. Stop living like a slave because u intend buying a business from him. Tell him the truth and let him know things u can't tolerate.

Is she still moaning?

NIGERIANS!!!!!

bookyp19:
I used to be a very muscular guy and I just realized that most of the ladies I got down with were kind of attracted to my physique. There was a particular lady I approached in native and she snubbed me only for her to see me coming from the gym in singlets and since then she's been tripping big time. After getting a job I stopped going to the gym and I just realize I don't command attention again. I always feel its girls that need good physique and guys need the money but what do I know.

guy, you can quote me on this one. Understanding women and what they want in a man would require you to engage in a dry fast that would last at least 677 days. After u manage to survive, I believe that all the answers u seek would be revealed to you....infact, some writers wanted to write a book about understanding women, they are still gathering research materials 54years later. Women simply can not be understood, PERIOD! good luck though, in your quest

obembet:
Cristiano Ronaldo has shown the lengths he will go to for close friends after he 'took a £1.25million hit' selling his Portuguese mansion to team-mate Pepe.

The Juventus superstar has a wealth of properties to his name but, according to the Sun, has decided to sell his hill-side retreat in his homeland to his international team-mate.

Hidden away by vast woodland and situated in Geres, the mansion - which includes a landing pad for a helicopter - was purchased for close to £3.5m seven years ago by the five-time Ballon d'Or winner.

The stunning property in Geres is hidden away from mainland by the picturesque woodland

The Geres property boasts an area of around 800 square meters and includes a stunning view of the picturesque Cavado river.

According to Correio da Manha, the deal between Ronaldo and Pepe was said to have been agreed while the national team were closing in on lifting the inaugural UEFA Nations League title.

Pepe, who played alongside Ronaldo at Real Madrid, is now back in his home country having joined FC Porto after leaving Turkish side Besiktas.

Ronaldo helped design the property and is reported to have taken a £1.25m hit on the sale

Source: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/sport/football/article-7309067/amp/All-Cristiano-Ronaldo-sells-2-3M-hill-mansion-Portugal-team-mate-Pepe.html

in one word, RONALDO is life itself. Nobody beats him

obembet:
Leroy Sane has decided to leave Man City to join Bayern Munich, confirms Kicker.

The respected German magazine believes Sane is expected to sign a '4 to 5 year' contract with the Bundesliga giants in a transfer fee of over €100m.

Bayern boss Kovac revealed last week he was 'confident' to sign the German winger from Man City but has later apologized for his 'offensive' comments.

Now, it seems like the deal could be finalized soon with Sane being an important reinforcement of Bayern Munich.

Source: https://m.allfootballapp.com/amp/news/EPL/Sane-decides-join-Bayern-with-a-transfer-fee-of-over-%E2%82%AC100m-(Kicker)/1623004

Cc Lalasticlala
MissyB3
Fynestboi
Dominique
mynd44

this is another deal I am very much interested in. As a Liverpool fan I can't wait for Leroy Sane to leave so that we can win our league jeje. The guy is simply a BIG threat......love u obembet

obembet:
The FIRST team comes to your mind when you see this CAR is ?

Cc Lalasticlala
MissyB3
Fynestboi
Dominique
mynd44

on this one angel, I definitely go for Arsenal

obembet:
Romelu Lukaku would have no problem settling in to Serie A for Juventus or Inter, as he revealed he speaks Italian “because of my brother.”

The Belgium international is in advanced negotiations for a move to Juve, after Inter had approached him earlier in the summer.

An interview with Sky Sport Italia revealed the Manchester United striker speaks seven languages, including Italian.

“My brother plays in Italy and I watched Sky Italia to see his games, so I picked up some Italian,” Lukaku told Sky Sport Italia.

In fact, his brother Jordan has been at Lazio since 2016 and plays as a left-back.

Romelu Lukaku’s move to Juventus depends on Paulo Dybala accepting an exchange for Manchester United.

Source: https://m.allfootballapp.com/amp/news/Headline/I-already-speak-Italian---Lukaku-drops-transfer-hints-amid-Juve--Inter-links/1623215

when the amazing Obembet started running with this news, the idea in some quarters was that it was fake news. But evidently this news is beginning to gather momentum. I just pray that the deal goes through. Keep up the good work girl. Lots of love. From ur biggest fan.

oblaak:
Take down your picture please. You don’t look good at all.

I challenge you to post ur own picture. Untill then no further comment

oblaak:
Take down your picture please. You don’t look good at all.

jealousy go kill you. u better repent

You can quote me on this one:You just have to salute the winning mentality of Critiano RONALDO, everytime you hear him speak he is always talking about winning things. The guy is simply INCREDIBLE. Anyone who wants to win must develop a winning or forget about success. Btw obembet my feelings for you have not changed one bit

obembet:
❤

Good nite

wow! This gudnite from u means the world. I can rest in peace(lol...I mean sleep in peace)

Sammy555:
yes bro pls for her so I can stay alive and enjoy my relationship with her yes bro pls for her so I can stay alive and enjoy my relationship with her

obembet

which kind wahala be dis set. Las Las Obembet will just have to settle this by picking one of us...or what do u think?

Sammy555:
you no see as she fine ni

guy we go fight ooo. I am ready to die for her, the question is are u ready to die. Everybody knows my unending love for her. So brother pack well

Sammy555:
babe wow wow wow, can we talk outside nairaland please

why is every body suddenly after @obembet

osazsky:
the Italian league is overrated, I observed that d higuain that could get a single goal while in Chelsea has started banging goals for Juventus,I heard dat cuadrado, bakoyoko,jovetic,are king in Italy now,,,lukaku will definately be a monarch when he ports to Italy, dybala wont register a single goal if he deres comes to England,,,dybala would only disgrace himself,he should remain in Italy,d weakest league in d world is d Italian league and Juventus will continue to win d league till football ends in 5098

in some ways I agree with u, but saying that the Italian league is the worst I don't agree. It is actually the third best league in Europe asides England and Spain

FuckThaMod:
You like fine girls well shey

guy who doesn't?

Skelewu:


O boy you worwor o!

are u for real

ayourbamie:
you think these newspapers don't make up stories jus
t to sell their papers? I still believe this news from THE SUN UK is fake

well it is still good to keep an open mind. The transfer window is crazy as is it..... anything can happen

obembet:
Let trouble catch u

ah Obembet don't mind that guy asking for ur Whatsapp number ooooo

Xkalaban:
He's just flesh and blood bro. Not a machine.

I thought Barca fans are saying that he is an alien. Well click like if u think Messi is an alien. Click share if u think that alien stuff is bulls--t

toffyz:
Liverpool will retain it...UP LIVERPOOL

You can quote me on this one Liverpool will retain their Champions league title[color=#990000][/color]Hala Liverpool, Forza Liverpool for live

ayourbamie:
give us Dybala and Costa. even though this news is fake

before accusing anybody of posting fake news try to verify its authenticity. This news has been confirmed already. Shouts out to @obembet

obembet:
You would have check the source before u comment

even if Juventus is only swapping Dybala for lukaku, I still believe it would be a good deal. And @obembet I have posted my real picture on my profile as you requested yesterday. More pics are still available, all you need do is ask