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toocutehector:
he should forget abt women and be successful... it makes things a lot easier.

Well that's the issue..


You'll agree with me that so far he's a guy, with a male-instinct, forget about women is just a fake idea.. You know that..

Even females can't forget men and be successful..

But base on your choice of word, approaching a girl doesn't mean a guy has to forget his success goal..

He is moving towards his goal and getting better in every aspect of his life too, with women..

toocutehector:
lol its not ego jor... it's charm.. i'm very sure a lot of ladies are drooling to woo banky w...

Sure, they "are drooling" .. #bankyW..

But a guy who's not with the influence of bankyW yet?

ivyT:
useless thread,

nothing to gain here guys.

I love the part where we wrote on the BIG board - MEN ONLY..

And thanks for your critics.. #appreciated

toocutehector:
Why not graduate to be the guy ladies come to woo..

Lol.. See ego, well it happens.. But the society has always restricted ladies from doing that "wooing"

****
Hello there..

Have you ever be in a situation whereby you feel like approaching a girl, but you just couldn't do it?

Maybe you’ve either, one time or the other been in a situation where you feel you might get disgrace in the crowd before approaching a girl?
OR
Your liver go just cut in the belief that that girl passing by or sitting down alone can’t talk to a guy like you, so you feel the anxiety and you never approached her..


If you’ve never been in any of these situations, do not continue..
.. but if you’ve one time or the other been in these situations, read on cos I’ve got two wonderful solutions I discovered from Alexander The Great and Michael Jordan, for you to use to build your confidence instantly too..


First a quick shout out to these two niggas out here, the likes of Xxxtedyxxx and iLegend.These guys among others (David de’angelo, Adam Lyons etc) prove to be quite active in interacting with girls/women.

Well I’m Josh Diamond and I’m famous for few things, some of which is; I stand for FREEDOM, and I’m that guy that says “FVCK” a lot.
Can’t help it.. Lol

Anyway.. Our Topic : CONFIDENCE WITH APPROACHING.

The word confidence on most parts, has been moving around with a lot of misconceptions..
Some people believe confidence to be something of a vague, nebulous thing.

You might know some guys who claim confidence is something you’re born with.
Maybe, maybe not.
The truth which you already know is; they are wrong.

Definition: Confidence actually means Self-assurance.

And you can only be self-assured if you’ve achieved some past success before.


Let you and I make a study right now;

Research from Yale, has shown that if a guy approached 7 different girls within the period of 7 days, and has successful approach with 5 girls, got 4 phone numbers successfully and bed 2 girls..
..His state following the next approach will be of a confident one.

That’s it.

Was he born with it?
No..
But he removed himself from all self-doubts and make some approaches, little by little, he’s getting positive replies back from the girls and that is reinforcing his ability to approaching different girls more..

Because all he will be remembering will be the previous successful approaches he made, and the ones he got in bed with, and that will aid him to be in that state called CONFIDENCE.

So confidence is a STATE, created as a result of remembering your past successes.

You might be making this mistake of judging your worth by a girl turning you down, which is not a cool idea.

Your Value is Your Value..

Either she says yes or not, the Alpha male (Badboy) know that his value is still his value, because we have more girls out there than just limiting his god-given talent on one girl's response..

Okay?

So for guys who still tend to deal with this Approach Anxiety one time or the other, here are the solutions;


THE FIRST SOLUTION..

The Use Of Remembering Your Past Successes..
(This one is discovered from Michael Jordan and it is quite effective).

MJ once said and I quote, “I became successful with the balls, because anytime I’m inside the basketball court, I only remember the pictures of the balls which I score”.

So you right now as you’re reading this, maybe you’ve randomly approached 100 girls and you were only successful with one or two women..
..You can build your confidence instantly by; forgetting the 98 girls you didn’t have success with, and remembering only the 2 girls you had success with.

As you go out to start your approach, keep replaying the images of those two girls you had success with in your head.

How you felt then, remind yourself of the feeling again as you make another new approach and instantly go into the confidence state..

The more you keep remembering that, the more confident and self-assured you feel inside yourself and with yourself when you’re making the next approach.

Got it?

Get it?

Good..

THE SECOND SOLUTION..
Which is a very effective one discovered from Alexander The Great..

I’ll post that very soon..

Part 2 LOADING..

-JD

iLegend:
Thank you valwezzy. I appreciate.

Lol.. I'm glad you get it..

It's been almost a year now that I read any bullshit news on FP.. Even radio or TV.. I don't do it anymore.

Why? Because they are all *BAD* news.. Only 10% good.

Today, rituals kills so and so..
Tomorrow, a 16-storey building collapsed..
Next tomorrow, 154 workers sacked..
Again, economic meltdown or rain carted away different houses..

And so on like that, they are always surfacing bad feelings to the mind and that's one of the peculiar reason most people are always negatively-minded..

..Because that's what they're feeding on everyday from the media...

Anyway HBD.. No fvcking today.. Stay today the way you were brought into this world, in your birthday suit..

guente02:
So there's this girl that i met lat October and we've been dating (i asked her out and she said a resounding yes). I've been calling and chatting but she's not the interesting type and and she even tells me she's boring but i still try to inject some positive vibes into the relationship and this is the seventh month of my boring ride with her. I wanted to breakup with her but my friends are like just bon her and i did so for like a month and she wasn't bothered or even askedwhat was wrong even though we're course mate. I've come to the conclusion that she's not worth being with. Now she tends to come to my crib from time to time and she wouldn't oblige to my sex moves but tries to suffocate me with kisses while i smooch her with her cloths on as she wouldn't take that off too. Less i forget i do all d calling and she flashes. I'm tired of her and i can't leave her unless i breakup. I know im supposed to game other girls but i dont have time for such dont know if this notion of mine is what is killing me. Just want to know what you think.

From what is going on based on your summary, looks like you're her "side chick"..
You're like the backup to her main boyfriend..

But she's not the issue here.. You are.

How?
You're still thinking and trying to keep up with her so you can have sex with her eventually, which won't work. At the end, she'll get bored of the whole turning-on without sex thing, let go off you and in the end you'll feel used..

When I first started attracting girls, things like this always happen, but it doesn't anymore..

Because I don't even care if I sleep with her or not.. I'm not outcome-sex-based anymore.
If she meets my standard, fine, if she doesn't, fine and let go.. (Which will make her chase you more..)

Here's what you should do next time (because that's one of the best way I teach hundreds of my email clients).. So next time you're doing the romance turning-on thing and you notice she's holding back, do NOT try to persuade her anymore..
..Immediately you notice her pulling back, pull off quickly yourself and tell her you can't continue the act of her giving you blue balls anymore..

Tell her you're feeling used as a guy..

So deep down you, LET GO off her in your mind/heart.. Detach totally, then you ...

Since it's at the HEAT of the moment and her emotions her engaged and you tell her that;

It's either you breakup with her (position of power for you) and stop the whole "giving me blue balls" thing

OR

Tell her that you're not going to keep having romance with a baby/under18 anymore, unless she's mature to have an adult romance with you, she should look for another "nice" guy to play with..

(Which communicates your indifference and power to her..)

Either way.. It's a win win for you..


*****

And based on your act of not meeting and attracting other girls, you're killing your game by attaching yourself to one girl, and that's not what I, Josh Diamond, want for you, guente, and every guy who's reading this.

We're the world's greatest gardener ever since the creation of human being.. We're are created for us to spread our champion seed over the whole garden, not kill ourselves by limiting to just a plot of land..

Fvck that..!

Are you gonna keep wasting your resources on one girl or you're going to go out and join me and become the GREATEST ATTRACTIVE GARDENER you were meant and born to be??


Peace boss..

-JD
(Millionaire Playboy)

fernandoc:
G I just tried this shi7 and it's working. Now everybody is asking who is djboosting cos av been shouting ur name. Djboosting!!!

I'm happy to be an inspiration for a successful guy like you..

Women are fun..

iLegend:
Haha As long as he's a bad she-male.
When are you going to London for your ear infection checkups? I'd really love to follow to check mine too. Lately, I've not been hearing sirens and ambulance alarms. Epp me.

Why won't a gentleman has ear problem, when every girl just treat you like a piece of meat she has to eat..
I mean can't women just love you for your wonderful brain other than your amazing body and huge dick..

#sadAndComplaining

iLegend:
Hahahahahha. (In Falz's voice) I haf already bought a gold ring to propose to you and hif you say no, I'll commit suicidè.

Hey! Be careful. I've never spanked you before and don't let do it. My number is on page 0.
Now I got urs lemme add you. I'll be sending 60 messages a day.

60 messages a day? Wow, you're very needy.. It can't work between us. Come let me introduce you to that nice guy over there, I feel he's perfect for you..

I don't do under18..

iLegend:
Djboosting, let's talk business while they talk sèx. I visited your site Joshuniverse.com jst 'bout now. I like it, and its simplicity and I'd love to lay my hands on that kinda Wordpress template. Message me on Whatsapp, let's iron things. There are lots of money to be made online, no dulling. And, are you using Hostgator(my favorite) or Godaddy? Whatsapp me.

Life is in stages.. Women ==> Money..

"Whatsapp me" with no number?

Smiles.. Tone your indifference/carefree muscle down a little..

Message me right here :- +2348138106197

And hey, you better not propose to me, I'm not sure about you yet..

***

Decker:
I think human consciousness is a tragic misstep in evolution. We became too self aware. Nature, created an aspect of nature, separate from itself. We are creatures who shouldn't exist by natural law. We are beings who labor under the illusion of having a self, that accretion of sensory experience and feelings, programmed with the total assurance that we are each somebody, when in fact, we are every body's nobody

I think the honorable thing for us species to do is to deny our programming. Stop reproducing. Walk hand in hand into extinction. One last midnight, brothers and sisters opting out of a raw deal.

@bolded... It's a good and wonderful perspective..

It's tiring and surprising how people seem to keep themselves under the objective of doing what others are doing or the ways others are doing it..

They do not want to stand out, so they choose to follow rules... Whereas the rules were made by 'someone' who was once in that position..

What differentiate rulers from followers is that "they make the rules.."

Then why the fvck do people conform to some imaginary society or media standard?

Why can't they just stand out from the whirlpool of mediocrity and make their OWN life rule..?

#FreedomFromIgnoranceAndFear..

iLegend:
[Boys Only] Why You Should be Single and Choosy.

Now I don land, I know wetin I do. I eff'd up big time by being TOO NEEDY, TOO PROTECTIVE, TOO NICE, TOO DESPERATE AND ALWAYS AVAILABLE.

Boys, don't let these love songs you hear on radio deceive you. The guys that sing those songs are all bad boys and heart breakers!

Lol.. Couldn't agree more..

@bolded, I hate those songs .. Fvcking stupid lyrics..

Imagine a lyrics saying "you're the key to my life, I'm incomplete without you, will you love me?"..

What??!

Is this what most guys listen to everyday? All the nonsense
"My woman, my Everything.."

Even 2face who sang "African queen", you don't need any census to show you he has been with different hot girls..and yet most guys are wasting their time on the music.

Every smart and intelligent guy knows this that; "If your woman is your everything, then bruv, you have nothing.."

You OWN amazing world should be your everything, which you'll bring the woman into.

Even the book called Bible, does not say Adam was created for Eve. Adam was created and put inside the garden first. He was the world's gardener to take care of it. That was his mission.

Then Eve was created to join and help him, not to be his life or mission..

#shittyLoveLyrics

iLegend:
Yeah! Why I reply the people who see it from the left (a little harshly) is to help the people who see it from the right never to change their minds and try it first, before they discard it.

Cool input.

I totally understand you.. It's penetratingly sick how you see some people bring an interesting and working piece of information down simply because they themselves couldn't do it..

Just because because a person couldn't go inside the Moon, doesn't mean another person can't.. #sadForMediocre

Why they disagree with good information is because they don't want to change their level and move higher, and now they never want another person to move above them..

God, I feel sad for people with failure personalities..

A mentor of mine, Napoleon Hill, always say to me that;

“Most people are never successful today because they already fail before even starting.. ”

Instead of saying this information isn't reasonable..

A successfully personality will say "how can I try this out and make it reasonable.."

I love the post tho'.. It got me cracking and thumbs up!

iLegend:
Haha I dey laugh u. You regained your strength cuz someone came to your rescue. Kpele.

To be successful, you have to accept and understand the Law of Polarization, which states in a simple sentence;

“Everything in life has two sides to it..”

People have two sides to how they see things.

A group will see it from the left, while others will see it from the right.

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iLegend:
I'll rent the hotel room for you guys!

As much as I enjoyed the story, there's ONE important thing I think every guy here should take note of: it is actually not the whole technique you used on her that created the chase-me attraction..

But the powerful indifference and carefree-ness behind it..

The "I-don't-care-if-I-sleep-with-you-or-not"..

All the girl sees contextually is the fact that you DON'T need anything from her.
You're just interacting with her to have fun and not to sleep with her..

Every dude in the house should note this and start Self-entertaining..

iLegend:
Fiction? It doesn't exist in my dictionary. I have a lot of stories to write about. Right now there's a story going on.

A girl in my room (now) has been here for 4 hours showing all the green-lights, but I'm acting as if I didn't notice. She ain't my girlfriend and I have no girlfriend. She's cute as usual.

***.

Leave 'em alone, they'll claim it's not working on them simply because they're reading.. But eventually when it's being acted out with them during the interaction, they are lost in the playful feeling..

Lol..

No need proving anything, bruv..

What women say they want and what they actually want are two entirely different things..

iLegend:
Fiction? It doesn't exist in my dictionary. I have a lot of stories to write about. Right now there's a story going on.

A girl in my room (now) has been here for 4 hours showing all the green-lights, but I'm acting as if I didn't notice. She ain't my girlfriend and I have no girlfriend. She's cute as usual.

From bed she asked me if my floor is clean and I said yes. She lied on the floor. Now she's complaining on cold. I gave her something to cover herself. She asked me what the time is and I said 8:30PM. When she's tired na only she go waka go.

I have pressed three of her ESCOF mumu buttons. So she's my little puppet, but I ain't gonna harm her.

If you're a lesb!an and you want her come and collect her.

Lol.. That feeling of flipping the whole game around and make her do the chasing..

A trick from Julio Caesar..

You're good. .. I love it when I see guys live this sh¡t and be the one acting rather than re-acting to her.

What do you think is holding you back from getting that girl you really wanted?

Why are you not fully attracting that girl whom you truly desire?

These and few more are what we’re going to be clearing the shït up on together tonight.

It’s very late in the night that I’m writing this to you and this makes me feel very excited..

I actually prefer to do this in the night, simply because some solutions always pops up in the head when you veer away from the noise of music, parties, people or at worst environmental pollutions of one’s thoughts.

So imagine this newsletter is something you’re reading at night, in a cool calm solitude environment, and open that mind of yours up fully to really get this part of your life handled.

67% of the time, you might not fully grab the whole psychology behind this newsletter once, but as you keep opening your mind to this more and more and re-reading, you begin to pick the idea up.



[size=14pt]Value Giving..[/size]

First most important thing for you to note here is this;

Attraction begins from YOU.

Yes, you heard that right.

Most guys think it’s until they started talking to the girl and start getting positive response back is when they are attracting the girl.

No, no, no..

It’s actually not so.



[size=14pt]Attraction begins right from YOU.[/size]

Anything that you want to make happen for yourself, you have to compose yourself like the thing already happen, before it can actually happen.

If you’re going over to meet a girl with the goal of attracting her, you must see her already attracted to you first in your head (mind), then you compose yourself according to that, then the techniques and ‘moves’ you know which you’ll be using, will be perfect and aligning with what you want.

Re-read that again if you don’t get it the first time.



Most guys go into approaching a girl with the mind-picture of; “she’ll ignore me”.

Some go into approaching with the mind-picture of; “she won’t like a guy like me”.

Again others go into the mind-picture of; “she’s too hot and beautiful to be attracted a guy like me”.

And BOOM!
Like that, their mind will start dictating what they would say and how they will behave around her, simply because that’s the information given to it.

A guy can know the best techniques (which is good BTW), but his body language will seem ‘off’ to attract a girl.

A guy might have the “handsome” look but will never attract that girl. Not because he’s not handsome, but because the information he’s playing to his brain is that of a “friendzone”



The friend zone mindsets never attract hot girls.



[size=14pt]Friend Zone Mind-picture = She’s Too Beautiful For A Guy Like Me..[/size]

Immediately a guy creates friendzone mind picture for himself, the whole approaching and interaction exercise is doomed.

No fvcking way, it ain’t gonna happen.

Everything is done for.

He starts worrying about what to say.

He starts playing it safe.

He starts becoming an Easy-To-Get guy.

He starts investing more into the interaction too much more than she’s supposed to.

Instead of him relaxing and sitting comfortably in front of this girl as he talks to her; he starts fidgeting, he starts stammering, he starts becoming the little fvcking b¡tch.



Not because he wants to, but indirectly that’s the information he fed to his mind that he’s is not qualified for the girl, or the girl is ‘too good’ or ‘too beautiful’ for him.

Girls are not vampire to be wary of and start creating fear in your mind for, they are by far the easiest people to interact with.. (Depending on her emotional state..)

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But you, my friend, I’m very excited for you, because on the other hand, you already know this that; to make something happen for you, you have to first assume that thing as already been put in place, and you start acting from that frame.

You don’t just attract girls, without first seeing yourself as the kind of guy who for some reasons attracts women at will.



You can’t become charming with girls, without first seeing yourself as a charmer first.

Same as, you can’t become the man who fvcks different women, without you first seeing yourself as the kind of guy who just for some reasons women just love to sleep with.



This mindset or mindframe of “I’m the kind of guy who for some reasons just easily attracts women at will without thinking about it..”
is what is going to dictate your action and how the techniques and moves to use will be put in place and you just free flow attraction.

You can’t be a winner, without you first seeing yourself as one.



[size=14pt]You are what you say you are..[/size]

What you say to yourself sticks inside of your brain and determines your action.

If you see yourself as a shy introverted guy, bruv, that’s what you will eventually become.

If you see yourself as a guy who needs to use tons of money as instrument to get girls, by all means please, that's who you're going to be.

If you see yourself as an outgoing personality that loves to have fun, that’s exactly what is going to be effecting and overwhelming your actions.

You are what you say you are..



[size=14pt]What Are You..?[/size]

So bruv, I’m gonna ask you. So think deeply.

What are you?

Are you a guy who fails with hot girls, OR you are the guy who succeeds with hot girls?

Are you the kind of guy who hot girls hate spending time with OR you’re the kind of guy who hot girls just loves talking to and spending time with?

Are you the kind of guy that repels women OR you’re the kind of guy who just easily attracts women?



If you are for the latter kind of guy that easily attracts women.

Now..

..You are out there, one sunny day at a bar..

..And you saw a girl sitting by a coffee table, all by herself sipping her drink, and already you’re this kind of guy who hot girls just loves talking to and spending time with, how will you NOT behave around this girl?

Of course you will not be overly eager to please her.

You will not be worried about working for her, since you’re just there to catch your fun and every girl always love talking to you.

You will not worry about her liking you or not, since almost every other girl always love spending time with you.

You will not be worried if she exchanges contact with you or not (which will inevitably happen BTW), simply because you’re just talking to her, not because you want to fvck her, but because every other girl loves you and want to spend quality time with you, and you’re trying to find out if this girl right here is on that level or not yet there.

Maybe she’s a Ferrari or a Taurus.

You will not worry about her rejecting you or not, because you’re just too fun and every girl loves you.
That’s it!

That’s all you need!

That’s the information you need to give to your brain every time you want to make an approach.



[size=14pt]“I’m the kind of guy who for some reason
just easily attracts women at will
without thinking about it..”[/size]

What is in your mind-picture is what you will be acting in accordance with.

And what you are acting in accordance with is what determines your result.



You can’t be thinking of rejection and expect acceptance. iLegend

You can’t be playing the shïtty “she’ll reject me..” mind frame and expects the “you’ll accept..” response.

Are you fvcking feeling me?

Seriously I know you’re getting this.

Something is happening in your mind right now that is removing the whole blindfold from your eyes.

The main and absolute fact that you are here, listening to me, reading my tons and awesome shït, you already have the edge that the other guy doesn’t have.



The whole picture is getting clearer to you now that..

..No one can become something without first, consciously or unconsciously, becoming that thing inside first and they’ll act through that frame.



See me?

I won’t fvcking become who I fvcking am today if I didn’t fvcking see my fvcking self this fvcking way first.

Fvck YEAH!

Everything that has happened to Julio Caesar and every successes of twosomes and threêsomes and foursomes and so on with different hot women, won’t have happen to him today if he didn’t see himself as that kind of guy.



No ‘guru’ will tell you this, but I will.

Why?

Because I’m Josh Fvcking Diamond, this shït is my shït, and my shït is the real shït, and the real shït is fvcking awesome, bruv!



Look at me dead in the fvcking eye and tell me, what do you really want to be?

A player or A spectator?

No fvck that..

I’m asking you again.

What are you?

Are you a guy who fails with hot girls, OR you are the guy who succeeds with hot girls?

Are you the kind of guy who hot girls hate spending time with OR you’re the kind of guy who hot girls just loves talking to and spending time with?

Are you the kind of guy that repels women OR you’re the kind of guy who just easily attracts women?



*********

Now, slowly calm down.

Look at your screen, focus on it calmly.

Focus on your breathing, hear yourself breathe.

Control your breathing calmly and comfortably.

See yourself relaxing around every girl you talk to.

See yourself with that little smile on your face as you’re talking to her.

See yourself leaning back as she’s leaning into you.

Feel your whole body becoming perfectly ready to DOMINATE and ATTRACT more success into your life.



********



So if you see yourself as “I’m the kind of guy who for some reasons just easily attracts women at will without thinking about it..” and you’re talking to a girl now;

-How will you talk to this girl?

-How will you act around her?

-What will you be saying to her?

-How will you feel?

-How will you sit?

-How will you look at her?

-How will you smile at her?

Now start ACTING that way, doing and saying what you want..

Saying what you want, irrespective of what people think of you.

And I’ll see you at the TOP.

I love you, but I love me too.

Peace beast.

-JD


http://joshuniverse.com/2016/05/25/psychologically-proven-technique-of-attracting-any-hot-girl/

iLegend:
PART 3



Our bodies were touching each others and I accused her of molesting me and she looked surprise and laughed. ******
. I'm the man here, so I didn't laugh.

She asked me where Am I from and I said ------- State. I asked her she said ------- State.

She asked what I'm coming here to do. I said I came to recruit an armed robbery group and if she wants to join. She laughed and laughed. ***

She asked me which school I'm in and I said, "primary 5", but will soon be in primary 6 by next year. She bursted into laughter again..

...and started beating me. I told her to stop undressing me that everybody is watching. I'm not ready for sex yet and I'm a virgin. Then,

...to be continued.

L...O...fvcking...L

I accused her of molesting me and she looked surprise... My God, why are you doing this attraction gun-blazing on that young girl?

I told her to stop undressing me that everybody is watching. I'm not ready for sex yet and I'm a virgin.
Haha.. And you 'murdered' her..

Lol..

Even if you're not finishing the story, I can perfectly hand it to you the girl is hooked..

The moment you meet a girl, and you can inspire this emotion of “..who does he think he is to say all that to me, he's so bold..”
Psshh.. She hooked.

Blowjôb on the way, or she won't let you leave, else you exchange contact to redo the whole 'traveling'..

Thumbs up bruv. That's the deal.

I really wish guys knew all these and stop their "Use-money-to-get-girls mentality"..
Well, when there is ego, you can't learn from others..

Ride on as you keep bending the world over..

- JD

kingstylo01:
reverse psychology






Cc Djboosting

You get the gist, knowing is not for everyone, except few..

delishpot:
Na your mouth jarey..... use it anyhow you want

A lion will see an antelope in his own perspective, as well as the antelope seeing the lion in his own different perspective..

delishpot:
Most childish post ever. As if women are some dumb people who have time for sure childish jokes. If this works on a girl then no need to even waste this time on her. Just offer her gala and it will do the trick. Any girl that gets caught with this joke would fall for supreme ice cream and meatpie anyway.

Like you?

iLegend:
***

The word 'heard, cook, sweet and dishes make women think about a lot of things.

***
Curiosity/suspense are powerful and it brings so many things to the table.

Don't waste time with her. As long as she has laughed. Take an excuse to leave.

****

GIVE HER YOUR PHONE WITH CONFIDENCE TO TYPE HER WHATSAPP DIGIT AND SHE'LL DO IT WITHOUT HESITATION.

****

Don't ask can I have your number? It shows weakness, so be a man and act dominant.

I can't remember when last I typed a girl's number; they always do it for me and I control them till they save it with their names and I tell them to add the new name I gave them to it - which they always laugh and refuse to add.

***
Every interaction is different. I don't even remember all these steps when I converse with people. Some things I do are just lame and impromptu and they all work because I don't give a f.uck and it always works.

****

Maybe I'll bring it home soon now that've realized Nigerian boys/men need this SH!T, so they can stop wasting money on buying women BB just for a night while their mothers/relatives in the village are eating soured soap, because there's no money to cook another one later in life they blame the govt. for not creating jobs. Don't blame the Economy blame your d!ck.

L.. O..fvcking ..L

Nice one iLgend.. Keeping the shit awesome..

Those parts are where I love most..


Again ..

Bro, let me give you two more interesting things here..

1. When chatting with any girl, and you guys have been seeing each other around for a long time, talk as if you're dancing in your head...

It's a technique I discovered a long time ago, talking to her is going to be easy, since it'll look more as if you're dancing, shaking your head to a music with that naughty smile on your face..

She'll catch the mood of the smile and fun you seem to be having, and everything will come off as easy..

2. Before finishing any interaction with any girl, always give her a nickname..

This one is crazy and extremely awesome. It's like you're giving her a new fun-role to start acting.

And a secret with women is this;

They love acting..

E.g.. Teddybear .
She'll ask you why you picked Teddybear for her of all names, you'll playfully say;

"Actually there's a way you almost always roll your eyes like that that I like and it reminds me of my Teddybear when I was young.."

Lol..

Women act a lot, and by giving her a nickname and giving her the reason for the nickname, she'll start acting that way around you.. Again she'll start rolling her eyes too with you.

God.. I love this sh¡t...

Awesome..

-JD

Hello there, welcome back..

It’s Josh Diamond, Millionaire Playboy Dating Expert here today..

You, as a cute action-taker, and I have a very important discussion to share together today.

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Now, before we continue any further, let’s make sure we draw out our list and call out the people who are not wanted inside here right now;

- So if you know you hated a ‘lengthy’ post, this place isn’t for you right now.
- Again, if you know you’ve got no learning gene, probably blinded by ego, this is not for you.
- Finally, if you know that you’ve got a small dick, this post is not for you, we wouldn’t want to hurt people with 2-inches thingy, right?

Alright, the rest of us inside here now and ready to learn, let’s go..

Now, I have some values to deliver.

Here’s a thing I saw around a lot with most guys, if not every day, whenever a guy is trying to invite a girl out, probably a date, a movie, cinema, even his apartment.

I see it everywhere I look, too..

It is exactly what NOT to do to get a date or hangout. And it’s the biggest waste of time that’s secretly sucking away your precious time like vampire.

What is this #1 stealth, but huge mistake?

Selling Yourself..

Most guys have the habit of selling themselves to a girl, which is very bad.


e.g.
There was a time I was having a flirty conversation with a three-group of girls who won’t stop inviting me over to their modeling photo shoot.

There was a guy few feet away from us, trying to get this hot girl out on to a cinema or probably another thing going on with him in his world, a party or something.

“Like this party, you’ve got to show up, this artist is going to be there, that comedian is going to be there, the venue alone is a badas$, even the celebrant is wow, the whole set up is blah..and blah.. and blah..”

“You’ll come to my apartment tomorrow, I’ll cook a favorite dish, if you have just a taste of my noodle alone you won’t feel like going home, you’re going to enjoy yourself ..and blah..and blah..and blah..”

He’s freaking selling himself to the girl.

The girl was just like “I’m not sure, my schedule is so and so..”

I’m like “Damn! Are kidding me?”

Almost every guy makes this mistake; in fact I can bet it with you 12 different guys are making this same mistake on text messaging with girls again today.
They sell, and sell, and sell..

Even in a business world, every smart and successful salesman who is into a business knows this that; no one, no customer likes to be sold. The moment people see you as a salesman, urgh, it’s a done bullsh¡t deal.

Why?

Because people hate salesman.


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Imagine you’re trying to sell a pen.

What do most people do?

They walk up to anyone they see, trying to sell them on the numerous benefits, describing to them how it would feel to wield such a high-quality pen, trying do different things to make the other person comply, which is a mistake.

It’s not their fault, it because they don’t know.

Check most offices, you’ll see them put up a post saying “No solicitors”.

We hate it when people sell something to us. We don’t like to be sold. And when a guy’s trying to invite a girl out and all he doing is pitching the whole come-over-and-enjoy-yourself thingy to her..
..what is he doing? He’s selling her on the idea.

So to avoid this mistake of selling yourself to her next time, here’s one interesting thing to do next time you’re trying to invite a girl out.

You’re ready?
Because I’ll be making this very quick.

It is something really kind of funny, playful, teasing and that I think it’s hilarious that I have the tendency to say to girls very, very often.

Okay? Here’s what you’d do.

Let’s say you’re at the bar with some group of friends and you’re talking a girl, and maybe you haven’t hung out with this girl 1-on-1 yet, like you guys are kind of flirting, and have the fun and good vibe going on.

And it’s something that you want to do eventually, but you know she’s one of those girls that if you ask her out right away, she’s not going to say yes.
Not because she doesn’t want you, but because that’s just like not her style; she’s too in-demand, whatever her ego is..

Anyways, all you’re going to do is;

Start talking about future plans..

“So what do you got coming up on your schedule..”

She’ll answer you about the cool thing she’s doing, if she has one, and as a man, you also should have something interesting going on with you, even cooler going on in future.

And you start talking about that, okay?
Maybe it could be a wedding, a stopper wedding, a gate-crash wedding, (but not too funny related wedding), it could be a concert, a latest movie in town or a show, a delicious favorite or amazing meal you want to cook etc..

So you bring it up and you start talking about it, and make sure you’re really passionate and excited talking about and describing it.

Okay?

And then in the middle, suddenly and spontaneously it pops up in your brain and you say;

“But hey, listen, you can’t come..”

You know, like talking about the thing and painting the picture of how fun it’s going to be like, and you suddenly say;
“Wait you know like, you can’t come, you can’t come..”

Lol..

She’s like; “What..?”

Then you go like;
“Okay listen, stop yelling at me, you can’t come..”

Even if she didn’t yell at you.
It’s just fun and hilarious.

The point is; You are preemptively overcoming any of her chance of saying “No”, by preemptively saying “You can’t come..” .

Okay?

Now, 10 minutes, 20 minutes later, she’s gonna remember it, she’ll be like;
“That fvcking dick, he said I couldn’t come..what da fvck..”

And maybe a day later or even that night, you will hear back from her.
Everytime I do this you’ll hear back from them very randomly, because the whole thing will just pops up in their head again;

“That fvcking dick, what a crazy guy, he said I couldn’t come, I should probably disturb him..”

Then she’ll start texting.
Some will even feel challenged at that particular moment and be like;
“Really I can’t come? What’s going on there? In fact I’m coming, I’ve got to see for myself..”

Lol..

God, I love awesome women.

So that’s something you could do, instead of selling yourself all over her and trying to make her come.
You just describe the whole fun thing and snatch the whole invitation ‘mode’ away from her, she’ll chase after it if she’s a cool girl, and if she doesn’t? Probably not a fun girl.. Let her be.

Start talking of future plans, and you immediately;
“But listen, you can’t come.. No, no..”

She’ll be like “I don’t wanna come in the first place..”

You go; “No, chill! you can’t come..” (Pretend that she’s the one pushing to come over).

Hilarious.

Play with it.

Test it out.

Have fun with it.

And at the very worse, it will give you some fvcking momentum and some understanding to push-pull with girls, and also of how this playful, illogical and self-loving actions sparks more attraction than the “selling yourself” idea.

I’m Josh Diamond.

Peace..

-JD

Onifari:
Please guys i need your help. There is one girl in my class, she is very beautiful and i will love to date her, but we are chatting on whatsapp and i don't know how i can tell her. I'm afraid that she may turn me down. Please what do i do. I realy need this girl.

Start to read up this thread from page 70..

Every answers similar to your question has been perfectly answered right there..

Thanks.

Heryurh, Martoz ..etc.. Kw ontinue..

Adebowhales:
There Is Dis Lady In Ma Area. Living Alone With Her Baby Gal. I Feel Attracted To This Lady, Hw Do I Get On With Her. NB: She's Older Than Me.

A good question you asked there, but I see you still haven't gone up to chat her up, you're only in the box of a secret admirer.

Right now, I bet the woman is a single mother, meaning she has a lot going through her mind, probably her baby, her job, her family etc .. A lot of earth-defined weight is on her.... Your job now as an attraction beast, is to lift those weight of her by making the time she spend round you awesome and amazing.


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Okay, let's focus right now, lets make this quick and short and full of value..

Here's the fvcking deal..


You need to make her forget every past or present pain she's going through.

Here are some tips to give to you:

- Always make your conversation fun.

- Make sure you have total love for her baby, if not at least for her sake.

- Make sure you don't discuss about her past (because the word 'past' will only insinuate "bad memories".

- Boost her ego always, e.g. tell her she's still cute, even after having a baby, even more beautiful.

Are you feeling the vibe?

- Talk about what she really want to become in life; her goal, her future plans and all.

Your goal is to make her forget her past and present pain... So only insinuating future pleasure will bring that to surface.

- This one is the most important : Always flirt with her (not in a direct manner, but an indirect manner)

E.g. Let's assume you guys are having a fun conversation about her future plans for herself, and she said something interesting, say something along the lines of;

“Hmmm, OMG, I never would have guessed you're very brilliant with ideas, again, even staring at your mouth like this, I have a feeling your mouth is sweet.."

A flirt like that is indirect : she's not sure you meant sugarcoated mouth for words and brilliant ideas, or you mean sweet for kissing..
So she has to choose whatever tone pleases her most.

So always flirt.. Let there be sexual insinuations..


Now finally, before I get out of here, do not seat and talk and talk and talk before you leave..

Here's one of the mistake most guys make, they talk too much with a girl and kill the whole mystery.

You have important ideas and value to share. Good.
You have great stories to share .. Fine.
We all know you have interesting things to talk about.. All fine and good.

But don't talk too much..
With a woman like this, your too-much-crazy time to spend with her should never be above 2hrs, that's if all you do is talk.
But if it's cooking and all those things, well your time is yours..

But don't spend too much time everyday..

Don't forget you're a man and your time is too fvcking valuable to be wasted. Also when you're a man that values your time, what does that communicate to her about your?

You're a man of power.

Let me quickly give you this tip..

Why?

Because you might be wondering how to open her when you see her, well I don't worry about "opening lines", but you can script this;

“Excuse me, I've been around here for a while, and it can be really hard for 'people like us' to make good friends with just anyone, but for some reason, I just feel I should say Hi to you, hope you're cool with that..?"

She'll say "yes".. @least she's mature, and not some teenage girl.

Then you say “Hi, I'm ABC, and you?”

And boom like that, you converse a little, exchange contact and you pick it up from there and start using the earlier tips from here..

I know you, and I know you can do this Adebowale.

So go out there, have fun.
Just do you, naturally.

Enjoy yourself.

Test it out and be on your way to your 'promised land'..


Hope that helps, don't mind the lengthiness.

I just can't help but OVER-deliver..

Hear from you soon.

Gotta hit the gym.

Peace beast.

-JD.

You might want to check out this article;

http://joshuniverse.com/2016/04/20/best-conversation-to-have-when-you-first-approach-her/

This could help in creating the opportunity you wanted..

viickerz:
then what moves should I make bro.. cos_ u haven't answered my que

Bro,
Every smart people knows that seduction is not taught in a thread like THIS..

You might want to pm be.

Seduction is another topic entirely, and it's not for this thread.
It is not a crazy mummy-wip my ass techniques tho', but this is a public forum..

Now every info is divulged.

If you want, you can choose to join us inside www.joshuniverse.com
And subscribe into the tips email letters

Or you might choose to continue your journey with women like this..

Your choice.

I love you, but I love me too.

See yah around .

-JD

viickerz:
hi, boss I have a problem with this girl I started seeing... she is attracted to me , I. can feel it..

she opens up to me, she even invites me out and stuff... she likes me , I can sense it..

but something happened today., I invited her to my place, and I tried initiating sex with her, the chick wasn't even feeling my moves, I just did some stuff for her on her phone, and her mom called her, so she left..

were did I get it all wrong?


or should I ask her out official.. I mean ask her to be my gf?

Bro, what da fvck! I love you.
Especially these parts:

She is attracted to me.., I. can feel it..
And..
She likes me.., I can sense it..

Lol, that ego tho', it's cool.

Anyway, let's put that sh¡¡ to a pause..

As an handsome intuitive and egoistic guy which you are, the girl is clearly attracted to you, no qualms.

She's feeling the boi, and moreso it's opens a lot of ways for 'things' to happen.

But here's where the issue is..

@ bolded : of you saying you initiated sex and she wasn't feeling your moves..

Well, I don't know what moves you make, but something's clearly off with the moves.

I'm not saying it's a bad idea for you making the move, infact, I applaud you for making the move.

But I have a feeling something's not right about whatever mood you make.
Her mom called and she left and all that bullsh¡t excuses are just a mere cøck-block...

If you make a girl want you really much and she really feel like fvcking you, She'll be so thirty for your dong that even if her dad called her, she'll still be back for the 'D'

Yeah.. The D.. (You know what I mean)

In one of my Bestselling Attraction Program, I wrote 3 formulas on how to make any girl want you very hard..

1. Attraction phase.
2. Rapport Creation phase.
3. Escalation phase.

You might want to join us inside, if you want to be on our level yet..

Since you asked what you did wrong, it is that Escalation phase, the phase whereby you should make the move is the issue..
You got something very wrong there..

And also, don't you dare ask a girl out.
Don't do it.

At this rapid and energetic 21st century?

Don't do it.
Slide warmly and deeply into her first, then ask her out after that if you want..

I love you, but I love me too..

-JD
www.joshuniverse.com

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