₦airaland Forum

Oliviaarims:
Lol. That's just ur concern, abi? Go away!

Oliviaarims:
Of course. It' s up to the person being invited to know when to clearly say No.

Oliviaarims:
I think I was simply asking a rhetorical question. Didn't know how the question landed on Nairaland rather than remain in my head.

It's just surprising how too many random dudes just want to try their luck when there's no greenlight anywhere.

Oliviaarims:
Lol. U don't get it. The girl hasn't professed love or the sort. They talk on very neutral grounds. Sometimes, the conversation doesn't get past exchange of pleasantries..So, he should know that there isn't any real attraction. And the dude will still think it okay to be inviting her over. Whatever for?

If she does ask him to come over, then yea. That could be regarded as a greenlight.

Let's however not lose sight of the point. Some guys just make unnecessary invitations!

vizkiz:
sometimes you need it to get her attention bro. If you do it right it works out fine

20bc:
[color=teal] Lol, thanks man [/color]

20bc:
[color=teal] Am not lying, ask my brother chinedu he plays for arsenal...... [/color]

vizkiz:
woah!!! Great points. Do you mind sharing the story behind them?

Eghosa1:
Nice one my man.

dearpreye:
We are the architect of our own destiny; the captain of our vehicle. God always blesses the diligent.

The feeling of learning is very mutual; we learn from each other. I'll holler at your mail......

dearpreye:
Thanks for yet another vital lesson: not leaving anything to chance. Many of us can't really say anything truly convincing and compelling about our undergraduate project, especially where it's being quite a number of years since we graduated. Indeed getting a job entails much more than intelligence; it also involves adequate preparation, being able to explain our life's dreams to our employers, sincerity, and some necessary interview techniques.

In a world where there are an unending number of candidates adequately certificated and qualified for very limited job spaces, it's obvious some other hidden skills must be brought to bear.

I had a similar experience where I narrated my entire life dreams. I got the job......


Anyway, rationalmind, this is YOUR thread. We're following....keenly too.

NegusNagast:
@ The guy in the background - how the friendzoned males in a girl's life lurk in the background waiting for her to change her mind.

NegusNagast:
@ The guy in the background - how the friendzoned males in a girl's life lurk in the background waiting for her to change her mind.

VampireeM:
Different Strokes for Different Folks.. A man wey wan marry a particular lady regardless of your listed qualities would

Estharfabian:
Uh...excuse me??

20bc:
[color=teal] Facebook runs..lol.. The two are twisting the story, is either he didn't pay after sex or he raped her and also didn't pay....[/color]

YorubaWoman:


[color=#8000]Won pade lori itagun ayelujara.

Oponu larabirin yen sha, oun na reti owo lowo okunrin ti ko mo ri lofe.
Se owo n jabo ni? Owo lowo, eyin nilee ni.
Ko si obo nidanre. Ti o ba fe kori be, wa ti wase kun owo re.
Radarada, o wa n pariwo reepu reepu.

Ofe ni mo ti e ro pe arakunrin eleyi se

O la platii re lofe ]

Estharfabian:
Uh...lemme make A List...

1) Hold the door of A Bus/Car/Motorcycle For Us before entering...
2) Write poems for Us every day
3) Send Sms's every morning n Night...
4)Sing to Us before we sleep at night(With A Guitar)
5)Take us to cinemas every Friday nights8)
6)Be Our Superman...
7)Beat any Guy that talks Bad to Us..
Do 50 sets of SitUps n pressups.(We have to watch U do it)
9)Buy Real Roses for Us..
10)Always be funny...(Make us laugh daily)

PS----Shave your beards...
.....Top 10 Romantic things Nigerian Guys must do...

tosyne2much:
[i]

dearpreye:
Yes. Breaking free from those nonsensical norms holding me back. You've got to be weird to be great.

No. I overcame stage fright since when I was a teenager.

mrsuperswag:
Dj boosting always on point! I take God beg hook me up with ur whatsapp control

wemmi:
@Op ,you really did ur research.

tosyne2much:
Vizkiz, now that you have started it, let aluta continue jawe


21. Ladies detest guys who mount on them and erupt after five minutes. Trust me, I know what I'm saying


22. Girls like to be treated/handled like an egg even though they are treating you like Dangote bag of cement

dearpreye:
Amateur.......seeking means to develop the skills. A couple of friends and I are anchoring a personal development talk this weekend.

ellacute45:
ehyaaaaa but wait oo how can someone still remember the moniker that insulted him/her and still carry am for mind

donholy28:
U for tell am say ur actions online do not define who u are

dearpreye:
Nature must occupy it. The amazing thing is that the negative thoughts don't need any effort or invitation in order to occupy the mind.....but efforts must he made to plant positive ones there.

I'll do well whenever the checks start rolling in. I feel I have a message for people.

dearpreye:
I've got a talk somewhere this Sunday. This should make a good speech. Nature abhors vacuum.

Nnaeb:
Christmas is here again.

I can literally smell the buzz and the fun in d. The idea is to make an impression, that will enable them give you serious attention. I can suggest a good wine, an art work, or a portrait. a bottle of cashew nuts can even do the magic. Trust me. You can’t imagine what this singular act will get you in return. Please don’t visit them with your CV. It was supposed to be a solidarity visit. The question of what you do for a living will surely arise, then you can subtly make your case.

http://www.bellanaija.com/2015/12/16/brown-uzoukwu-my-yuletide-message-to-job-seekers/

Canme4u:
Etisalat shortcode is YES / NO to 1111 to stop and start the pay as u go.