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kapai:
Advice needed

I have this girl,we have dated for almost 3years n we are looking at getting married barely 5mnths frm now.We enjoyed chatting eachother up on facebook cos its her favorite social ntwrk. Early last yr,she visited me at my new place of work,i observed she wasn't comfortable i tried findin out she later said she needed to know how to block one from facebook. I asisted by telling her how to do that,never knew it ws for me .Jst yestday i checked on facebk to share some pix of concept i tot wud b ok on our weddn preparation.

To my greatest shock she has blocked me frm her frnd.i could bliv masef,had to use ma little one phone to check her wat i saw never worth holdin bak.She has bn busy confessin her love to a guy,sharing pic postcard to dz guy wch later found to be her Ex.
Pls could it be that im not gud for her or she's not ready for the marriage.?
What do u pple think i shud do? Matured advice needed cos i av invested alot in ths.

tr3y:
djbooster Nice site you got there, and awesome marketing spirit.

Good luck.

diggy4real:
Pls gurus.....being on dis Gurl for long now...done d rapport thing.....Buh she just surprisingly started calling....buh just once and behold d second one was a demand for money..... I don't want to be anybody's maga....buh don't wanna lose her....she said d money is for her upkeep in sch....DT she just misused her money. I don't intend to give her ....though.... How do I play myself outa dis without losing her.

Jerryolumide:
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Donabydeco:
*Remove hat*
Bruh you too much,goona give yhu feedback about this..thanks in bunch!

Hello there...

How are you?

We have a question to discuss about today.

NOTE: If think this is not for you, do us a favor and leave, just stop reading.

And hey, did you miss a post of mine about power, how women feel about you? [email]http://joshuniverse.com/2016/03/02/how-women-feel-about-you/[/email]

If you haven’t, read it right here and come back to join us for today’s discussion because that will make today’s value more clearly for you.



The question is basically along the lines of;



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Badoo of life, JD, I finally see where I have been missing it with my dealings with women, your Power post actually clear that issue up for me, and your illustration of a strong building. LOL.

Please answer my question. How can I communicate to a woman, that I’m a man of power? (At least she won’t treat me like just some guy who’s approaching her).

-t****y

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Sup T****y, God know I’m attracted to a charming guy like you especially in your bifocals spectacle.

I love your kind words. Thanks for believing in me. Thanks for believing in yourself. And thanks for getting better every single day and representing team diamond out there.



Nice question you’ve got there, but first, let’s clear something up right here.

What is that?

This line, “....How can I communicate to a woman that I’m a man of power.....”

Yes, that’s it; do NOT try to communicate something to someone. That’s is a low status behavior. Because simply communicating something to someone means that you’re trying to get something from them. You’re trying to get their approval. You are trying to get them to compliment you. You are trying to make them see. (See the word there “trying to”).

When you start working from the mindset of “trying to get”, everything gets fvcked up. You won’t be able to free flow; you start worry about what to say so that you can get a good response from people or girls etc...

You simply should start coming from the mindset of giving. Either what you’re doing is good or just fair, you’re not doing it for reaction, you’re simply giving and wanting nothing in return. You are doing it to have fun with yourself and be happy with yourself.



You are detached from outcomes...



That’s when what you actually want comes back to you in folds. The sex, the money, the women, the respect, the power, the wealth, etc...

Are we cool?

Yes?

Yes.

Good.

Right now, how do you communicate you are a man of power?



How to communicate power....


Let’s talk about 2 very important ways to communicate that.



1. With Your Words.

Yes.

One of the best way to communicate you are a man of power is to verbalize it in your conversation.

But you’re NOT doing it in a reaction seeking way, like “yes, I’ve said it now that I’m a man of power, so she can hear that”.

Lol, no.

You will have to do it in a different way, like in a very subtle manner whereby you’re having a conversation and you just verbalize it subtly.



Let me give you an example:

Let’s say you’re having a conversation with a girl, maybe within the first few minutes of meeting her, you ask her,

“What attributes do you want in a guy if you want to hangout with him?”

Then she’ll reply, with whatever her choices are.

Then you’d ask her,

“You know what I look for when I want to make friend with someone?”

100% of the time, she’ll ask you what?



Then (communicate your status) you say something along the lines of

“I really like authenticity, when she’s really authentic. Like I really like someone who is brave, genuine, strong and truly courageous enough. Who knows what she want, stop worrying and go for it and stop caring about what people think.

When I meet someone who’s not truly authentic, like that’s not someone I want to hangout with. You know what i mean?”



BOOM!

Attraction skyrocket.

Power status skyrocket.

Value skyrocket...



That power status is already verbally communicated in the question you’ve asked. Now she places you that 'power' category.





2. With Your Sub-communications.

Yes, sub-communications.

This by far is the most important of it all, and it is a pity this is where most guys fail.

Sometimes whenever you see a guy who gets the girl most of the time, forget about his sweet talks for the moment. Check just one thing – His Sub-communications.



Sub-communications means; what you are saying, but not with the mouth, but saying with the body. (Your body language, your vocal tonality, your eye contact, your dressing, your grooming, etc...)



Everything I’m not saying with my mouth, I broadcast it with my Sub-communications. Nothing about Josh Fvcking Diamond says mediocre. I challenge the ambitious men who want to make it to the top 1%.



Before you even get to open your mouth and say anything to a hot girl, she has sized everything about you up already and placed you inside the “Man, talk to me” category or “Man, sorry, I’m busy don’t talk to me” category.



All that switches have gone up inside her brain within the few seconds before any interaction with her, consciously or unconsciously, so she can get to OR not to listen to what you’ve got to say, only because your sub-communication has given her all she need to know about you.



The Self-made Billionaire, Brian Tracy once said and I quote;

"What we say with our mouth might be wrong, but sub-communications do not lie. They show exactly who you are."



Now that does not mean you have to put on a $1000 suits or Rolex watch or designer shirt or extra expensive materials just because you want to approach someone. But make sure what you wear befits you, increases your status, and make you look good and happy with yourself.

Also, get yourself well-groomed, nails to be clean-cut, nice haircut, etc...



Ever wondered why women (exclude gold diggers) get attracted to men of high-status?

Just one sentence: - How those types of men carry themselves.



Tony Stark, Dan Kennedy, Donald Trump....


You don’t see Donald Trump fidgeting when talking.

“urhhm...excuse me...can I see...you...urhm...for a few...”

Fvck no, alright?

He talks with confidence.

He walks into anywhere like he owns the goddamn room.

He sits down anywhere, interviews, business meeting, name it.. Very relaxed and comfortable as if always in charge.

Tell me why would any sane woman or girl not attracted to men of such Sub-communications without even saying anything?



Now imagine you are Donald Trump or your favorite movie artist for a day, how will you feel like, how would your sub-communications look like?

How would you walk?

How would you talk?

How would you feel?

That girl you’re trying to approach, how would sit when talking to her?

Good, now start acting like that.

You’re the BOSS. So nothing should stop you from acting like one.



Got a entrepreneurship seminar to prepare for.

I’m out.

Peace.

Josh Diamond.

http://joshuniverse.com/2016/03/04/donald-trump-art-of-power-for-attraction/

Cc. martoz Aarewa

Pharmumar:
Help ooooo...Am 22 but have neva had a gf...I believe no girl will fall for me because of my luks. Am not bad nor very good looking but I always have dat believe.

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]All reasons listed above are valid and true. However they could be subjected to changes depending on the guy involved.

In my opinion,the only reason why a girl will not initiate a chat with a guy or even contribute wholeheartedly in a conversation is[b] simply because she does not dig him. [/b]If a girl digs/likes you she won't bother to want to start a conversation with you.

It's a very normal thing and even some of them who form will find themselves doing it unconsciously.[/color]

Junathy1:
There is a girl in my school, she and i have been friends but i liked her and i asked her out. She told me its not possible because she loves me as friend. Though since then i stopped calling her because i dont want to look desperate but she sometime calls me. Please should i bring up the topic before her again or i should free her and continue been friend with her??

100Cents:
My babe saw my whatsapp where i addressed another girl as baby. The girl vex no be small, block me on all social media. I cant even call her.

What do i do ?

AarewaMafia:
discuss with her when i eventually meet her 1 on
1...i need something that will get her interested..i am a
shy guy nd i am nt too good with convo, so i am gonna
need all the help i can get... Abeg pros in the room can
help as well.. Teddy i take God beg u, abeg Answer me.

anadozie1:
Thanks boss! I will try the emotional route. I think she still doesn't trust me yet cos I have dem bad boys look as in player looks. She still thinks I see other girls apart from her. Thanks bro.

gsparks01:
see epistle o..

martoz:

tnkx for d reply,no b say I ask if she gt a boyfriend,Aldo we no dey c too much lyk DAT..hv given her nickname ,even move tru d rapport stage,and I tot mk i move fast as u used,and I use some trust techniques...and normal I told ha how feel..I know I misuse d game dier...xo d assuming u talking about z I shud assume I don dey date her?calling her swithat,Huging her and kissn hervwen I c her..I swear dis
tnkx for d reply,i no say ma own too much for here,wnt get tired of learning...cos i must fix dis issue n ma lyf...no b say I ask if she gt a boyfriend,Aldo we no dey c too much lyk DAT..hv given her nickname ,even move tru d rapport stage,and I tot mk i move fast as u used,and I use some trust techniques...and normal I told ha how feel..I know I misuse d game dier...xo d assuming u talking about z I shud assume I don dey date her?calling her swithat,Hug her and kiss her wen I c her,holding ha hand,lolz...Somone wu CNT even go out on a date wit me,lolz...I swear she go tink say I don high...baba expanciate more pls.

fxbot:
hey bro, Assumption didn't work for me o. Na assumption land me for igbobi oooo.

Decapo:
Mention me when the summarized version of dis write up is out

Fkhalifa:
Djboosting to take over xteedy you be been doing this job for like 2_years now..maybe time to sit on bench for DJ, cos of fatigue?

Alright, let me chip this in, Guys work Nd pray hard and get yourself upthere..

Improve your all rounder self, make your all rounder self better,
from your looks, dressing(be neat and classy not trashy) speak good English, get informed on latest hapenings around you, get the degrees, make a good name,improve your humour skills amongst many orther positivities....

This ill make you more attractive to your targets,no lady wants to date a low class unattractive guy,not even your fellow guy ill want to associate himself with you.

All the tips you read here I'll only work faster if you have done your basic assignment.

Kredz:
Please i need ur advice my boss and bosses in the house.. Kudos to u boss xxTeddyxx after reading dz thread somewhat last year, I was able to get à gurl.. Buh after much rapport and being close, I actually though we were already dating.. Then this week, she told me she would want me to be a very close friend dat maybe we should start from there that she has sọ many tinz pestering her.. And av started ignoring her since yesterday... Please what shld i do

InLuvWithChrist:
Help out here.. Deris dis grl.we both are in same dept, DAT I really luv,, which am Tinkin she hs dsame feelin ,she mostly play all dos kind play wit me.. Some tyms she will peck me... Is this grl really av the feelin or not or how wud I go abt it guyss...

bigwind:
Hello guys, nice work you are doing here. You helped lots of guys.
I need your advice on this babe. I know her through an IJMB centre my bro operates. I teach them. We exchanged numbers after like a week but I discovered that the number wasn't on Whatsapp. I was disappointed not until I saw a message from a strange number. I check the dp and it was her.
We started chatting and I follow all the techniques on page one and two. I knew she's into me after like three days.
She even visited me after the second day. Though one of my friends told me he knows her boyfriend, I no send o.
The problem is that the last time she visited, I told her my mind and she told me she has a bf... Chai, my mind fail o
We got talking again yesterday when I saw her around my hood, she told me if I was her bf, would I be happy if she leaves me for another guy, I just manage to manipulate around sha. Brothers in the house what should I do. She's visiting today ó,need advice asap
Cc: xxxtedyxxx, Djboosting, dryyansh

bigwind:
T***, no be say me sef be dull guy. I have tried initiating contact in the last two encounters but she dey do somehow. E just tire me

ayoola648:
OK bro..

I'm finding it difficult to send PMs

ayoola648:
please bro 080******** this is my whatsapp contact

please coach me.

xxxtedyxxx:
dont try approaching in group if ur not confident enuf, or if u cant hold convo. Forget that " excuse me guys, can i talk to ur friend for a minute". Lol

Trying engaging her and locking eye contact with her. Smile @ her, or even blow her a kiss from afar. She will make her self evailable pretty soon. Just dont stalk her.


My 2cents.