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colossus2:
The bold reminds me of one Patrick Obahiagbon's video on "diaris godu o" where he was blowing thick grammar and PEJ was saying "chai"

colossus2:
The bold reminds me of one Patrick Obahiagbon's video on "diaris godu o" where he was blowing thick grammar and PEJ was saying "chai"

asumo12:
aNDYBLAZE






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naijaboiy:
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Only you seven potential rapist. Are you the only girl in the world?

How come you keep attracting men that want to rape you? You have not asked yourself that question.
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oyizaoyiza:
Hence i need help, I have been married for just 3yrs ,we have fought in our marriage but my husband had reported me to his friends and parents more than 3 times his friends call me to now find out what transpired between us.To me i feel so ridiculed as i sincerely hate people putting there mouth in my home affairs, except COUNSELLORS if need should be.

Response :-

@Bolded... You felt ridiculed because you absolutely want to feel ridiculed yourself...

Why?
Because the society has made an involvement of third party and family a normal thing.. It has been happening before u were born and it won't stop now on you...

So instead of you clinging on a negative emotion of what has been in existence for long, you should accept it, feel it, digest it and finally excrete it out and watch it disappear from ur heart...

Don't let people decide your lifetime emotions for you..

Let's do something right here right now..

Forget making the husband happy for a while and try making yourself happy, have u tried making urself happy? It's what you HAVE that you give... You can't give urself an inch of happiness, then how can u give that weary heart of ur man an happiness..

Positive and happy emotions = Forward
Negative and sad emotions = Backward

Which one do u want? choose



My husband had beaten me before without mentioning it to a single soul. But if its him he wont hesitate to feed his friend and siblings,The first time it happened we talked about it but it happened again 5 days ago,



Response :-

Looks like it's ur husband that is feeding ur mouth.. If yes, that's a big problem..

No one is praying for anything bad to happen, what if the man wakes up one day and say GETOUT OF HERE!!,....

What will u do, where will u go? Back to wots left of ur father's house? Or to ur friends who are busy too?... Lalasticlala's house?.... Or maybe Ishilove's abode? Fvck NO...


No matter how rich a man is, "No man is ready to mingle with a liability"

If no, then u're still on a bit safer mode..

******
Get a job or an investment skill that brings in something, atleast be able to feed ur mouth and get a shelter...

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I love my Husband But i dont TRUST HIM AGAIN.

I felt Betrayed by my husband,i dont want what happened to my dad and mum to happen to me as this was the exact way there issues started way back then before it eventually ......


Response :-

Getting to this part, I'm inevidently made to believe there is more to the behavior of your husband than just beating you up...

There is signs of cheating, insecurity and the likes going on...

There is more to "I love him, but I DON'T trust him" than what is written up here in this write up of yours...

You privately and personally know what I'm referring to here...


*Note that i have been praying too*.

That's good habit to praying too.. But don't forget what a wise man as old as a Russians library once said

"You're the architect of your own destiny"


The vision you before you get married, pursue it.. Get it done.. Find the happiness from within.. U have complete hands and legs, even bodyparts..

Go out there get better things to do that keeps u in good emotional state...

Then that good emotion rubs off on everything. Ur marriage, job, hobbies ..etc..

U're an amazing woman with great potential, don't ever let it get buried in ur marital mud... Or else I'll spank you real hard!

Just kidding **smiles **

So if u don't want me to spank ur lazy bum, go out there, put ur goal to review, get an income and be that awesome woman her hubby is dieing to see..

#positiveEmotions
#VisionPursue
#FamilyStability


See yah around
Peace**

Demigods:
Ladies are you paying attention because I shall say this only once and I believe once is enough for you. I mean, a word is enough for the wise and this is why wise people only speak once. Yes, a wise man once said this.

Most of you women just believe that because we are men, we are automatically some form of robot that can do anything and should in fact do everything. I’m sorry o but that’s far from the realididn’t



. 3.Nigerian men are not Investigators: So it’s 2am and we slept off after some hot-like-egusi sex and somehow you don’t sleep deep so you heard a sound originating from outside or downstairs. Two questions:

– Why did you wake me?

– Did the sound call my or your name?

– Do I look like I major in handling sounds?

– Why the fdidn’tdn’t you just go check for yourself since you’re so attached to sounds?

I know that’s four questions, sorry this issue pains me. I mean, let sounds be. If you’re scared, just squeeze closer to me, hold me tighter. It helps if you’re sleeping naked as this gesture will arouse me and before you know it, we begin to make sounds of our own. Let us use sounds to eradicate the fear of sounds. Please, haven’t you seen that those who go to investigate sounds end up dead? Please biko, I still want to live this life.

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Cutehector:
such large amount of money I must say... In my opinion, I guess they just ddint do well by exposin d names of debtors..

tr3y:
1 week pass, 2 weeks, 3 weeks, ha bros why na?
Start to show bf/lover potential but do it on and off then,
You can try to make her jealous by bringing another babe home, note that this will only work if your guys rapport wella
The best I can advise based on the limited info make baba OP take over or DJboosting/VJaykilling.

iamfbanj:
okay...help solve dis den...

dis babe i met in my skul, i checkd her...for d first week she ignored me...den after 1week..she started talking to me.....she told me shejst broke with her bf which is out of the country...to me...i tot e make sense...bt she said she have zero interest in dating ...i took d chick out oo..buy things ...we became frnds..thinking frm there...she will fall...later she started talking to d ex bf in my presence ova d phone....i was like u broke up...she said we are bak..infact she used d guy name for all her acct passwrd...inshort we are together like 7mnths till nw...bt she spent more time wit me..nd still kip telling i cant date u...she told me recently i broke up wit him...i was like...make sense...still she do sumhw...if call her bae..all those sweet name she will change it for me..nd told me m nt ur gal...dis particular babe use to bhave like my gal..cus everyone arnd find it hard to bliv we re nt dating.....so Oga teddy...any method to own dis HARD chick.........funniest part..dis babe use to allow other guys flirt wit her...one even go down low wit her by force..nd d guy she dy claim is out of country..

jonaifame22:
Hey babes how u dey na,I just dey feel ur signal 4 where I dey, omo mehn u make brain die,ino fit jst near d tin again na him make I disco come meet u so,my name na john, e go sweet pieces if me and u fit just go take peppersoup tins later for evening dat kind 7pm tins,I believe sey u na soji gal because u be uptown babe,ias I dey look dis I self, I no sey u dey reason me sef , no fear o, me no get wahala make I get ur control so I go fit call u lerra,u 2mch babe,okay na lerra tins,u're blessed.

sadly:
I understand... on to the babe we talked about last time. I was beginning to feel irritated by her monosyllabic replies and had to ask why she does that as if she is unhappy for some undisclosed reasons. I told her she is more bigger than that and more intelligent or am I bugging her.

The reply I got was rather shocking. She said I am more mannerless than she thought and is that how I talk to people whats my business with how she responds.

Blocked my number on whatsapp and calls. I don't know how to hide when something isn't right. so I guess I lost this one already.

sadly:
You mean you shouldn't define the relationship but just act like her boyfriend? how is that done and wouldn't it lead to being friendzoned?

sadly:
You mean you shouldn't define the relationship but just act like her boyfriend? how is that done and wouldn't it lead to being friendzoned?

sadly:
Djboosting please help me here.

xxxtedyxxx:
its sth u shud av done wen she was over reacting, its a bit late now, just give her time, and continue normal chatting with her.