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 Romance › Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Djboosting: 1:08pm On Jan 29, 2016*. Modified: 2:00pm On Feb 13, 2016 |
ayoola648:I really love the reply given to you by teddy to "free" the babe. She ain't worth it. But I have another different view and approach to that... Well, I like one thing about the girl in question, she's BLUNT (at least for her to block and stop the conversation with you, shows that either she's not enjoying the conversation or "chats" with her, OR your rapport with her is also like every other 43 guys texting her everyday), unlike most girls who gives guys false hope, that won't block you, read your text, but will never reply, and even if they do, might be just once or twice a month. I just don't like her "rude" attitude of approaching the blocking. You see, the thing is, it is not their fault. Most guys caused all this. Relax let me give you this illustration: Imagine you are a girl..... In a day, 4 guys approached you, you exchanged numbers with two. Just in a day. Good. Now you are logging in your Facebook account, another 5 - 7 guys least, are chyking you, trying to get in your pants. Are you feeling me? Again, you logged on your BBM, you have about 4 - 8 guys texting, chatting and trying their "manifesto" skill on you so they can get you in bed with them. Are you following? (Let's just forget the Nairaland, twitter, baddo, Instagram guys following you parole, etc) Finally you opened your WhatsApp and you have different kinds of guys about 8 - 12, texting and showing their skills just to get you in bed, DOING the same sh¡t, over and over and over again every.....fvcking.....day. Won't you be comparing those messages together? Who you want to reply and who you don't want. Figuratively, haven't you turned into a queen to be worshiped by those guys?  Now you meet another guy(which is you Ayoola) "thinking" he's going to be different from every....other...guys you've been talking to, you guys exchanged numbers, BUT he (Ayoola) again move to WhatsApp to join the remaining 32 "texting and chatting" guys following thesame line of chyking you. Bro, do you see where I'm going now? Now tell me, How will you feel if you are the girl? Guess you have seen the reason why she blocked you now. Even if she did not block you, she might not even reply your messages anymore. Why? Because your "execution" is not different from that of the guys she's ignoring on the phone and social accounts. That might be a couple of reason why she blocked you. Now I'm not saying you should go and confront her or beg her now on why she blocked you. Because if you do that, what kind of guy are you? A slave? Good since you're not a slave that shows that there are some part of you that needed working on. Martoz, hope you reading this? Ayoola, forget any rejection feeling you are having right now. You don't need it. You are a man. And right from creation you are created completely to be full on your own without needing a woman. A woman is just there for that sexual company. So you are not going to beg any girl or feel down because of any girl. And also you might want to remove this line of "I'm good looking and have a high charisma in school." Being good looking is not what attract females. It is just a tip BONUS. And if you have "High Charisma", you won't have any problem attracting any female. (It depends on your own definition of "Charisma" anyway.) Forget any self-ego so for you to learn fully, and to allow what you're learning penetrate deeply into you. The truth about you right now is: You need to work on yourself. Meaning work on your attraction skills first. Learn it. Don't fall into the "if I have money, girls would do so so with me" category. Find someone who knows game to coach you, it is a skills not a gift. You learn it, and you start using it. Then it becomes a part of you. I'm sure with this few description, you learnt another new lesson.. You might want to PM me, if you have any issue on your dating part... Like I always tell my clients, "Life is all about learning and experiences." Try to visit www.joshuniverse.com I'm out. Peace.. JD. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
| Romance › Re: For Men Only : How To Approach A Group Of Girls. by Djboosting(op): 3:47pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
joshsmarty:Now that I've heard you, can we move on now?  |
| Romance › Re: For Men Only : How To Approach A Group Of Girls. by Djboosting(op): 1:18am On Jan 25, 2016 |
sundoj08:Definitely.. Enjoy yourself. 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Djboosting: 1:12am On Jan 25, 2016*. Modified: 2:01pm On Feb 13, 2016 |
martoz:@Bolded... That's only a fallacy.. It is not true. Let me describe it this way.. When a student has just been given admission into a University, imagine how your first day for receiving lecture is going to feel like... You will so want to feel like your heart is gonna burst any moment, your heartbeat will be very fast that you'll feel like every eyes are on you alone. BUT as time goes on, you make friends, you laugh freely, you can even sit on the table and let everyone feel your swag, you finally become de-sensitized. You will reach that freedom stage that you can enter ANY lecture theatre to receive lecture and talk to anyone like you own the whole campus. That description up there is exactly what approach anxiety looks like.. As you keep up with your approaching women, forgetting the "outcome" you desire. You are just there having a conversation for you, just for your own fun. You won't even give a fvck what the environment is doing. Because approaching has become what I call your DEFAULT SETTING at that point, you can approach anyone and you become UNSTOPPABLE. All you have to do is to keep practicing your approach every time with anybody, either the girl you like or not, or the girl who is selling goods to you or that elder woman in that shop. Joke with them, laugh with them, ask them questions. You don't have to wait till you see a girl you are interested in before making approach. Because you have been doing it everyday.. Hope that helps, martoz? Try to visit www.joshuniverse.com I'm out. Peace beast. JD 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: For Men Only : How To Approach A Group Of Girls. by Djboosting(op): 12:49am On Jan 25, 2016 |
Estharfabian:Really? Well, who says being lazy once a while is a bad thing?  |
| Romance › Re: For Men Only : How To Approach A Group Of Girls. by Djboosting(op): 12:47am On Jan 25, 2016 |
joshsmarty:Bruv, you will do well as a clown you know..  |
| Romance › Re: For Men Only : How To Approach A Group Of Girls. by Djboosting(op): 12:46am On Jan 25, 2016 |
sundoj08:Waiting for who can read the epistle and gain something from it. |
| Romance › Re: For Men Only : How To Approach A Group Of Girls. by Djboosting(op): 12:45am On Jan 25, 2016 |
martoz:No, martoz, you shouldn't be looking around for wingman. But when you have one around you, why not use, it lessen your work and makes getting your desired result easier.. But having one is the easiest, so why go the lil hard way when you can go the easy way? |
| Romance › Re: For Men Only : How To Approach A Group Of Girls. by Djboosting(op): 12:40am On Jan 25, 2016 |
SSpeter:Actually I love you air your view.. SSpeter, if that is your perfect way, and it gives you the results you really wanted deep down you in this 2016... Bro why not? |
| Romance › Re: For Men Only : How To Approach A Group Of Girls. by Djboosting(op): 12:36am On Jan 25, 2016 |
kuuljay:Ok, the "if you are rich" mentality again... The if...and if...and if.. My question is.. Is it working for you? |
| Romance › Re: For Men Only : How To Approach A Group Of Girls. by Djboosting(op): 7:53pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
Omotayor123:Then you shouldn't comment. |
| Romance › Re: For Men Only : How To Approach A Group Of Girls. by Djboosting(op): 7:16pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
saintloveren:Borrow... Hmm.. Really? If that works for you all the time, then your choice. |
| Romance › Re: For Men Only : How To Approach A Group Of Girls. by Djboosting(op): 7:14pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
Estharfabian:Bae, you call this long? Then being a medical student is a curse, don't you think? |
| Romance › Re: For Men Only : How To Approach A Group Of Girls. by Djboosting(op): 7:11pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
cruzita:Really? |
| Romance › Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Djboosting: 3:26pm On Jan 23, 2016*. Modified: 7:27pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
tr3y:  Who knows? you can't really know what they want until you start seeing things in their perspective.  |
| Romance › For Men Only : How To Approach A Group Of Girls. by Djboosting(op): 3:18pm On Jan 23, 2016*. Modified: 1:45pm On Feb 13, 2016 |
Yo, what's going on? Bruv, I mean staring at you from here, you look fantastic and more charming than before. I don't know maybe it's because you've change your style, dressing, hairstyle or something else, I don't know. I'm a little bit attracted to you now, and it's kind of freaking me out. So, I have something to share with you today. I get this question of "I feel like approaching this kinda girl, but she always with her friends or group" from most of my clients. So I want to take a moment here to talk about it. Let's ride... You see, approaching a group of girl is one of the easiest game, and also one of the hardest game... Why? Easiest in a part that, if you create the attraction momentum with them right from the start, especially the one who seem to be the leader, you have literally won the game over the whole group. Hardest in part that, if you make a little mistake and you get a negative response from one of them inside that group, you have collectively ruined the huge chances of hooking up with them. A lot of "PUA" as to what you refer to them as, most of them literally don't approach group. Why? Not because they are not good. But they don't want a negative reaction, response or feedback that will penetrate and dent their ego. So they'll rather give you ways how to do it.. But they themselves won't. But right now, out of few different techniques I use in approaching a group of girls, I'll share just one with you. Note; this is one of the easiest... Why? Because you are doing two things at a time, which is : You are giving at the same time receiving. Now this is how you do it. You need a wingman, BUT your wingman is not a guy, your wingman is a girl. Because if you use a guy, most time the guy might even spoil the parole because he himself doesn't know game. So he might start saying things to please them. And automatically, both girls will ignore you two. But if your wingman is a girl, we all know she can't go there to toast a girl of same sex, so you are safe. She can't fvck up like a guy. Listen closely.... When I'm approaching a group of girls, I always bring with me a girl, in fact sometimes she use to be more beautiful and more sophisticated than any girl in the group, but she's in MY FRIENDZONE. We might fvck around with each other once a while, maybe, but we're not dating and she knows that... So I'm going to explain what I want to do to her and the girl that I want to approach from the group. So she'll know her job is to be my wingman. So when we approach the group (let's assume a group of two girls), she'll be the one to say 'Hi'. Let's assume the name of the girls are X and Y. Her friend is X and my target is Y and my wingman Z Immediately those girls respond back, I'll project into the introduction mode.. I'll say something along the line of.. "You know what X and Y, my friend Z here has been talking about you, X, with me over there. I don't know, it seems she loves your fashion sense and she's been disturbing me to bring her here." I'll even joke that she is my world best fashion designer. "So Z, whatever you want to talk about with X, you better start now, you know we have ABC party to attend in few minutes" So as if on cue, my wingman Z will start chatting with friend X, while I'm open to my target Y. Immediately too, I'll engage my target Y in conversation, a little compliment about a bracelet she wore will give us the conversation momentum. So guys, I'm sure you get it now. I'm not approaching them as a vampire who wants to suck blood from them. But I am bringing value to the table by introducing a new person to them. Now my own group gets bigger, at the same time their own group become bigger too. Call it a "Win-win" situation. Again, we (my wingman and I) are not talking to them like speedo, but we are having a time frame for the conversation ... "....you know we have ABC party to attend in few minutes". Even mentioning a party we're attending is another +1 on our part, because we have something fun we're doing, and it won't be hard, should we want to invite them over. After the conversations, we might end up exchanging contacts, provided the grouped we approach is filled with girls with fun and interesting personalities... No one wants to meet boring personalities. So I'm sure with this few description, you learnt another new lesson.. You might want to PM me, if you have any issue on your dating part... Life is all about learning and experiences. www.joshuniverse.com I'm out. Peace.. JD. 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Djboosting: 2:45pm On Jan 23, 2016*. Modified: 2:01pm On Feb 13, 2016 |
martoz:Bruv, you look cool in that head warmer by the way... I just had to tell you that. You see, approaching a group of girl is one of the easiest game, and also one of the hardest game... Why? Easiest in a part that, if you create the attraction momentum with them right from the start, especially the one who seem to be the leader, you have literally won the game over the whole group. Hardest in part that, if you make a little mistake and you get a negative response from one of them inside that group, you have collectively ruined the huge chances of hooking up with them. A lot of "PUA" as to what you refer to them as, most of them literally don't approach group. Why? Not because they are not good. But they don't want a negative reaction, response or feedback that will dent their ego. So they'll rather give you ways how to do it.. But they themselves won't. But right now, out of few different techniques I use in approaching a group of girls, I'll share just one with you. Note; this is one of the easiest... Why? Because you are doing two things at a time, which is : You are giving at the same time receiving. Now this is how you do it. You need a wingman, BUT your wingman is not a guy, your wingman is a girl. Because if you use a guy, most time the guy might even spoil the parole because he himself doesn't know game. So he might start saying things to please them. And automatically, both girls will ignore you two. But if your wingman is a girl, we all know she can't go there to toast a girl of same sex, so you are safe. She can't fvck up like a guy. Listen closely.... When I'm approaching a group of girls, I always bring with me a girl, in fact sometimes she use to be more beautiful and more sophisticated than any girl in the group, but she's in MY FRIENDZONE. I might fvck her once a while, maybe, but we're not dating and she knows that... So I'm going to explain what I want to do to her and the girl that I want to approach from the group. So she'll know her job is to be my wingman. So when we approach the group (let's assume a group of two girls), she'll be the one to say 'Hi'. Let's assume the name of the girls are X and Y. Her friend is X and my target is Y and my wingman Z Immediately those girls respond back, I'll project into the introduction mode.. I'll say something along the line of.. "You know what X and Y, my friend Z here has been talking about you, X, with me over there. I don't know, it seems she loves your fashion sense and she's been disturbing me to bring her here." I'll even joke that she is my world best fashion designer. "So Z, whatever you want to talk about with X, you better start now, you know we have ABC party to attend in few minutes" So as if on cue, my wingman Z will start chatting with friend X, while I'm open to my target Y. Immediately too, I'll engage my target Y in conversation, a little compliment about a bracelet she wore will give us the conversation momentum. So guys, I'm sure you get it now. I'm not approaching them as a vampire who wants to suck blood from them. But I am bringing value to the table by introducing a new person to them. Now my own group gets bigger, at the same time their own group become bigger too. Call it a "Win-win" situation. Again, we (my wingman and I) are not talking to them like speedo, but we are having a time frame for the conversation ... "....you know we have ABC party to attend in few minutes". Even mentioning a party we're attending is another +1 on our part, because we have something fun we're doing, and it won't be hard, should we want to invite them over. After the conversations, we might end up exchanging contacts, provided the grouped we approach is filled with girls with fun and interesting personalities... No one wants to meet boring personalities. So I'm sure with this few description, you learnt another new lesson.. You might want to PM me, if you have any issue on your dating part... Life is all about learning and experiences. Try to visit www.joshuniverse.com I'm out. Peace.. JD. 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Djboosting: 1:21pm On Jan 23, 2016*. Modified: 2:02pm On Feb 13, 2016 |
ibukun3:Lol .. The girl you are dating is a masquerade.. It is not her fault tho', why? Because you guys met in church, she doesn't want to have sex with you easily so that you won't see her as cheap. Again, the story she told you about one "man of god" who raped her... Lol.... That story was epic! Damn! I don't care if the story was true or not. Which I believed not to be true. All she was trying to do is this, she's the kind of girl who think most guys place value on virginity. So she painted that picture for you, so that if you eventually found out she's not a virgin, you won't refer to her as a slut. At least in her mind, she told you how she lost her virginity. Lol, crazy biatch... She's cool tho'. When she told you the "prayer meeting stop sex" story again.. As a gentleman, you bought into it.. Okay, not bad, but unfair.. Now she want to know and want you to agree into a no-intimacy relationship. Another crazy move to put you under her control while she enjoy with another guy. Lovely idea young lady... But wrong move b¡tch... Here is the key Ibukun, you're investing too much in this relationship in the frame of "you know I love her", "I really love her".. Love her, love her....love her... Bad move from you, that's why she's able to get you to play along her game easily. From what I'm looking at here, it seems the relationship has turned into a distant-relationship. Best is to dump the girl. If you ask me why... I'll answer you with two things.. 1. If you tell her that you can't have a relationship without sex on the phone, she'll be the one dumping you immediately before you drop the call. Which brings me to second thing. 2. I don't know how huge the investment you've given her is, but I think it is huge.. So the girl has started viewing you as a "long term relationship guy" and not a "sexual type guy".. So overall of what she's doing now is : She want to keep you as relationship guy, no sex..... While she keep another guy out there for sex, no relationship... Bruv wake up... Decide now, what do you want?? I'm out. Peace JD Try to visit www.joshuniverse.com 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Djboosting: 12:54pm On Jan 23, 2016*. Modified: 2:04pm On Feb 13, 2016 |
phillipay:Bruv, you need to stop sending "emotional" messages as you call it.. You're only communicating relationship interest. You said it yourself that she just got out of a long term relationship, if you had been the girl, will you rush into another relationship? Of course not. You will want to let go off relationship issues for a while. Same thing as her. She want freedom. She want to be free. She want to have fun without having to look over her shoulder if she's cheating on anyone. Put yourself in her shoes right now, will you want to keep staying with someone who is communicating relationship interest in you again? No.. (Reason why most guys fall in Friendzone, when they keep on persisting like what you are doing now.) From now on, what do you need to do to save yourself from the Friendzone and also communicating your interest in her? Here is it... From now on, see things in her perspective. If you are her right now, what kind of person will you want to be spending time with? Someone who is fun and challenging. Don't communicate your interest with words.. Start teasing her... Start using the "my new girlfriend" word with her more often. Don't call her too much... But when you do, tease her. If she's not replying you well, tell her she's disappointing you with the way she's sounding... Jokingly tell her if she doesn't change, you will break up with her... Never ever talk about proposal. Have fun with her... At this stage of her.. She wants fun. Be her fun supplier. And don't forget, peck her on the cheek sometimes when she laughs around you... Things we grow gradually... Before you know it, she's on your bed.. Try to visit www.joshuniverse.com I'm out. Peace.. JD 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Djboosting: 11:41am On Jan 23, 2016 |
diggy4real: Djboosting: |
| Romance › Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Djboosting: 11:57pm On Jan 22, 2016*. Modified: 11:42am On Jan 23, 2016 |
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| Christianity Etc › Re: Nigerian Churches And The Culture Of Extreme Exploitation by Djboosting: 11:31pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
dearpreye:Remember in a post of mine a while ago... "When you don't and not ready to do your thinking for yourself, people will do it for you." Ignorance and Fear are the only enemies from which men need salvation. #WakeUp call 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Education › Re: #lifeinunn Hashtag Now Trending On Twitter - See Funny Tweets by Djboosting: 11:26pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
MedicalSamwise:If you don't know Alata @ underg ... You're not a student, just don't waste your parents' money |
| Jokes Etc › Re: 10 Signs That God Is Punishing You For Your Sins by Djboosting: 1:51pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
BlazeyJ:Asin ehn, that shii is crazy.. The sweat will overflow your body instanta.. 2 Likes |
| Jokes Etc › Re: 10 Signs That God Is Punishing You For Your Sins by Djboosting: 1:46pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
Tallesty1:That bolded tho'.. There ïs no turning back.. That wonder'full feeling |
| Romance › Re: When She Likes Bringing Friends Along To Dates by Djboosting: 1:38pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
yehmi01:Lmao @ bolded. Any 'girlfriend' that does that, is mainly a sign of insecurity.. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: What's The Reason Some Guys Do This? by Djboosting: 10:13am On Jan 02, 2016 |
Oliviaarims:Wasn't meant to be.. but it doesn't matter anyway, cos a cute girl can be less fun when she's bored. |
| Romance › Re: What's The Reason Some Guys Do This? by Djboosting: 12:01pm On Dec 31, 2015 |
Oliviaarims:Damn.. Don't you dare think about having sex right now... Flogged? I get it now that u're a 'dominatrix'.. U love being in charge during the mating process. Gawd.. U're such a dirty mind. But there is a problem.. I'm a good guy, I'm shy talking about sex in the public *shrugs** Let's talk about something more PG. |
| Romance › Re: What's The Reason Some Guys Do This? by Djboosting: 11:32am On Dec 31, 2015 |
Oliviaarims:Actually it's not for under18.... Maybe when u reach the level, I can tell you... But right now.. Be gone. |
| Romance › Re: Met Her Today And She Is Willing To Visit Me Tomorrow. Is She Worth It? by Djboosting: 10:44pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
TheSonOfMark:Exactly... That's a cool view there.. I concur |
| Romance › Re: Met Her Today And She Is Willing To Visit Me Tomorrow. Is She Worth It? by Djboosting: 10:33pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
ronald4lif:Asin... Some dudes are just confused... Really really backward.. Some are just mediocre. She want to come, so does that mean she'll have sex with you? Even if she does have sex with you, does that mean she wants a relationship? What if she only wants to have a one night-stand fun and dump your sorry d¡ck... Well, who says a 'small boy' can't wish for a good thing? 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: What's The Reason Some Guys Do This? by Djboosting: 9:59pm On Dec 30, 2015 |
Oliviaarims:Actually, before a lady can say that, she must possess 3 things.. |
