Politics / Re: Buhari Daughter Repeated Class, Graduated With Only A Pass At Law School by DLioness(f): 12:02am On Jul 23, 2016 |
psucc: Pass in university degree better pass no WAEC At least she don pass her papa.
I dey wait to see the uni where go admit her for second degree. Na me with them. nt university bt Nigerian Law School. |
Politics / Re: IPOB Are Bringing Embarrasment To The Igbo Race. by DLioness(f): 11:50pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
Adaure4ever: I saw a thread about Igbos calling Victor Attah "Clueless", I was raged with disappointment on how these "nnamdi kanu faithful" are busy embarrasing the Igbo Race with their Undiplomatic and Insultive "take it or leave it" dictatorial strategy. -Victor Attah a respect figure is what these Touts call "clueless" because Of his opinion, Is it by Force to join Biafra? Why are these ipob people embarrasing many hardworking Igbos who don't support Igbos? Even Ojukwu would never have supported Nnamdi Kanu. The insultive nature of these Igbos is nauseating, they lack diplomacy and are just jokers. Now Let me make it clear to them that. Urhobos, Ogoni, Kalabari, Isokos, Benin, Ijaws, Itsekiri, Efiks, Ibibios etc, ARE NOT INTERESTED IN BIAFRA. If Nigeria divides, each tribe will be on their own Igbo Leaders are not in support of these suicidal agitation, They want a Restructured Nigeria. Igbos do not speak for IGBOS. I APOLOGIZE to Dr.Victor Obong Attah for any insult he may have received from this undisciplined elements called Igbos. - South South minorities have said NO to Biafra, what are you Igbos going to do now? Insulting and Harrasing them. This is Africa! There MUST be a War In Every Seccesion, No One is going to grant you any damn refrendum. Are the Igbos ready for any Progrom or war? Whats wrong with you Igbos? - A Restructured Nigeria is what Igbos Want. NDEWO NU- Adaure4ever dnt turn urslf from adaure to adaara. Keep ur chicknpox opinion to urslf. 9 Likes |
Politics / Re: IPOB Are Bringing Embarrasment To The Igbo Race. by DLioness(f): 11:44pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
onepluone:
Is Ohanaeze interested in Biafra? U dont know who is interested until u hold a referendum.
Referendum is conducted by UN to create a new state. Buhari should call a referendum.
Is it not war wen 100, 000 peaceful protesters are masscred by the Army in their village?
Is it not war wen all the SS/SE Army officers are sacked 4 no reason in their country?
Is it not war wen people call u third class citizen and tell u to forget about presidency in your said country?
Ask urself the right question and be truthful to urself.
Nigeria is a place for Shell, Chevron Texaco and Northern Oligarchy via NNPC to corner South South Oil by force.
More Army and military personnel are in SS than Borno as we speak. Is their war in SS?
dnt mind her wt her nonesense talk. 10 Likes |
Romance / Re: 8 Categories Of Ladies That May End Up Becoming The Second Wife Of A Man by DLioness(f): 11:28pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
Raphafire101: This OP and girls matter sef!!!!!! Dnt mind him. Iskanci kawai. |
Romance / Re: 8 Categories Of Ladies That May End Up Becoming The Second Wife Of A Man by DLioness(f): 11:22pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
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Crime / Re: 2 Enugu Monarchs Were In Cell Over Slain Cows by DLioness(f): 11:11pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
Sard:
LMAO!! Calm down your t!ts, nincompoops. Why did y'all sound so pained? Na so e pain una reach!? Hang yourself if you like, we won't miss you. You ar the one living in PAINS. Wats ur business wt Enugu? U ar the one dt cn mst likly commit suicide bcs of igbos and igbotic affairs. Bloody-fool lik u. |
Crime / Re: 2 Enugu Monarchs Were In Cell Over Slain Cows by DLioness(f): 5:53pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
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Politics / Re: Dino Melaye: Lagos Lawmakers Besiege APC Secretariat by DLioness(f): 11:27pm On Jul 20, 2016 |
aressssa:
Nna, you are boring no be small.. Boring is ur middle name. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Dino Melaye: Lagos Lawmakers Besiege APC Secretariat by DLioness(f): 11:19pm On Jul 20, 2016 |
aressssa:
I was expecting you to reveal my stupidity, not this silly mushy mushy rubbish... You just mess up my fun sha.. one of ur major stupidity is this teeth u open wn commenting unknown to u dt ppl viewing this topic close their noses bcs of smell from ur teeth. |
Politics / Re: Dino Melaye: Lagos Lawmakers Besiege APC Secretariat by DLioness(f): 11:18pm On Jul 20, 2016 |
aressssa:
I was expecting you to reveal my stupidity, not this silly mushy mushy rubbish... You just mess up my fun sha.. one of ur major stupidity is this teeth u open wn commenting unknown to u dt ppl viewing this topic close their noses bcs of smell from ur teeth. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Dino Melaye: Lagos Lawmakers Besiege APC Secretariat by DLioness(f): 11:14pm On Jul 20, 2016 |
aressssa: [s][/s]
Typical meager ipob vocabulary.. shameless boy. Do u evn knw wat part of speech the term IPOB is? 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Dino Melaye: Lagos Lawmakers Besiege APC Secretariat by DLioness(f): 11:10pm On Jul 20, 2016 |
aressssa:
I'm here waiting. Definitely in the mood for some ipob comedy..
You ar the subjct mata for the comedy for odas to laugh and make riddle of u nt for u to partake in our laughter. 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: Dino Melaye: Lagos Lawmakers Besiege APC Secretariat by DLioness(f): 11:00pm On Jul 20, 2016 |
TheFreeOne:
It's better to ignore that dude. Him brain don dey leak.
Opolo bobo yen ti joro. I wl nt ignore him. I wl reveal his stupidity to him and to the entire world. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Dino Melaye: Lagos Lawmakers Besiege APC Secretariat by DLioness(f): 10:55pm On Jul 20, 2016 |
aressssa:
Must you Igbos always try your best not to make sense? shut the fuckoff u lirrle boy! 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Dino Melaye: Lagos Lawmakers Besiege APC Secretariat by DLioness(f): 9:37pm On Jul 20, 2016 |
aressssa:
Must you Igbos always try your best not to make sense? shut the fuckoff u lirrle boy. 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: Dino Melaye: Lagos Lawmakers Besiege APC Secretariat by DLioness(f): 9:18pm On Jul 20, 2016 |
aressssa:
How is that possible when you are the ipobic ipob?
Must you people always try your best not to make sense? sense is already far from u. U tink wt ur ass thats y u ar aressssa aka ass-master 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: Dino Melaye: Lagos Lawmakers Besiege APC Secretariat by DLioness(f): 9:00pm On Jul 20, 2016 |
aressssa:
Saying you act like a thug or even calling you a DOG is not a crime, but threatening to beat and rape a woman is a crime because it's terrorist threat and criminal threat.
The fact that Igbos condone barbaric acts against their women doesn't mean such barbarity is allowed in other parts of the country an definitely not in Nigerian Senate. Your brain is ipobbic. |
TV/Movies / Re: Rita Dominic And Ramsey Nouah Star In New Movie About 1976 Coup D'etat [PICS] by DLioness(f): 1:49pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
Nasri100:
Receive sense please. Receive conscience! |
TV/Movies / Re: Rita Dominic And Ramsey Nouah Star In New Movie About 1976 Coup D'etat [PICS] by DLioness(f): 1:46pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
Fedayeen02: Thank God Murtala suffered the same fate Asaba indigenes got during the Asaba massacre
My question to that Murtala Muhammed. How hot was the lead when it was pumped into your stomach? haha hotter than ji mmiri oku. |
Family / Re: Reasons You Should Not Divorce Your Man Because He Can't Satisfy You Sexually by DLioness(f): 1:33pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
Atmmachine: Not only sexually. That's not an excuse for divorce, she can buy the artificial dick, and 2 batteries and satisfy herself
You can't satisfy any woman in any possible way.
If you buy her a private jet, she sees her friend with bicycle, she will want to have the bicycle.
Women are just so confused. We're sick and tired of their drama.
If they wan divorce, make them kukuma divorce, no more ass kissing. It seems u ar an impotent man. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Guy Proposes To His Woman With Beach Sand Made Sculpture (photos) by DLioness(f): 12:55pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
Jorussia: who na too like comfort, esp naija women.see as she pose like the queen of England. It's not a bad thing. Thats y I love being a female. I love the way I am beautiful wt my big nyash. Its sweet being a woman... men professin love for u and treating u lik goddess. My only challnge in being a female is dt issue of menses. |
Romance / Re: Guy Proposes To His Woman With Beach Sand Made Sculpture (photos) by DLioness(f): 12:56am On Jul 17, 2016 |
Jorussia: Na this kind thing women dey like. b4 nko |
Politics / Re: Ffk's First Post On Facebook, Claiming Innocence by DLioness(f): 2:32pm On Jul 16, 2016 |
ikaboy: I know my brothers across the Niger bridge will support him. Probably to continue from where he stopped with our warlord's widow. ONU OJO! |
Politics / Re: How Ndigbo Can Break Free From Their Victim Mentality Syndrome by DLioness(f): 11:38pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Abagworo: How Ndigbo Can Break Free From Their Victim Mentality Syndrome By Churchill Okonkwo.
I don’t know about you, but it looks bizarre to me anytime I come across phrases like these on social media: “Igbo man achieves…”; “Igbo student ….”; “Igbo woman became…”; “Igbo man this, Igbo man that”. Suddenly, accomplishments by Nigerians across the globe are being zeroed down to tribe by a section of the country. What could be the reason behind this? To feel superior? To feel good? To show “them” that you are excelling?
Whatever you think it is, reducing the nationality of an individual’s achievement to the lowest decimal possible - one's tribe - to me does not elevate nor strengthen such honors. Rather than strength, it all points to something strange, a feeling of inferiority and fear. I thus see such actions as unconscious acts of perpetuating a self-imposed and unwarranted sense of marginalization – a victim mentality syndrome that only reinforces negative attitudes and isolation.
Negative attitude is poisonous and can negatively impact the way we feel and act. It is therefore extremely important that Ndigbo should switch to a positive frequency in order to reshape our realities and thoughts. That’s why I am here to let you know that it’s time to let go and start with a new thinking.
But first, here’s how to know that you have this victim mentality syndrome as Onye Igbo. You feel like every other tribe has it so easy in Nigeria except you; you always feel like it’s not my fault, they did it to me. You want to be a martyr, so you confront the security forces to be killed; you are addicted to imaginary misery and drama; blaming Buhari for everything improves your state of mind; you never feel responsible for your negative behavior; you only focus on negative events and disappointments, so even when Boko Haram are being decimated and massive corruption exposed, you keep focusing on real and imaginary marginalization; you display self-defeating, almost masochistic behavior – I am miserable therefore, I am. You know yourself now.
For Ohaneze Ndigbo that is meeting tomorrow at Owerri, here is the deal; you should make it clear to Ndigbo that the traits listed above are not an excuse to embrace a victim mentality. Tell Ndigbo that they should not be steering the pirate ship into the same iceberg that sank their father’s ship. After accepting that something shitty happened to them (whatever it is), tell Ndigbo that they need to embrace a new and fearless chapter. So, here are the bold steps to release ourselves from our victim mentality syndrome.
Stop asking why. You will only end up torturing yourself more with that painful loop of questions without answers. It should have been that simple from day one. There will never be a satisfactory answer or gratifying analysis as to why Nigerian government will not “let you go”. So, stop playing the “poor me” card. Take responsibility. Wise up your life, there is really no way around it. Stop committing acts that will make you a martyr. The world is not paying attention.
Ask courageous questions. I completely agree that space must be given for the “marginalized” to express themselves. But by clinging to the victim mentality, you get lost in the funk of sadness and self-pity. You fail to take action and exempt yourselves from the risks of failure. You carry an extra baggage. The fact is that surviving and thriving in multiethnic and religions society like Nigeria is not easy, but one need not assume a victim mentality in relation to it. So, ask courageous questions. How can we as a people move forward from here? Can you grab some power at state level of government and start setting example of what live will be like in the land of the rising sun?
Name your prize. If what it will take to rid yourself of victim mentality is to have an Igbo sounding name as Nigerian President in 2019, start planning for it now by forging alliances with other political forces. If, on the other hand, ‘restructuring’ Nigeria will make you feel ‘rich’, take responsibility by strategizing on how to elect public office holders that will champion that cause from the local to the federal level. That’s how to take responsibility. Not this present display of victim mentality syndrome.
Unfortunately, your pro-Biafran movement is full of unhappy and confused people who keep telling you that the only way to achieve ‘sovereignty’ is by airlifting all your kinsmen to Mars. But what if you start with what you can grab immediately while you wait for the airlifting? You can shoot for political power base in the entire Southeastern Nigeria starting with the “Biggest Price” – The Anambra State Government House come 2017. The election is more than one year away, so you have more than enough time to start planning.
Forgive. The most important thing you need to do is to forgive. Forgive the Hausas for the atrocities leading to the civil war. Forgive the Yorubas for betraying you during the Biafran civil war. Forgive the Niger Deltans for conniving with the Nigerian government to effectively block the Biafran enclave. After all, we are all over Southwest, North, and South-south working as professionals, doing business and prospering. By not forgiving them, you are bound to them by an emotional link that is stronger than uncooked ponmo (‘kanda’). Do you know the best thing about forgiveness? It does not only release the other person, it also sets you free from agony and unnecessary pain.
Finally, give yourself a break. Take a break from social media and all the junk websites that have kept you on the edge with fake stories of how the whole world (except Mugabe, Putin and Trump) has turned against you.
I know it’s hard getting out of the victim mentality syndrome but, you should be nice to yourself. All it will take to free yourself from the victim mentality syndrome is to remain an Okonkwo. Yes, Okonkwo! That’s who we are as Ndigbo - outgoing fearless, hardworking with reasonable sense of integrity. And that is freedom!
http://saharareporters.com/2016/07/13/how-ndigbo-can-break-free-their-victim-mentality-syndrome-churchill-okonkwo You can email Churchill at Churchill.okonkwo@gmail.comor follow him on Twitter @churchillnnobi. Toh! Mun ji ka. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: APC To Ekweremadu: Retract Your Letter To UN, EU by DLioness(f): 6:39pm On Jul 11, 2016 |
Onyi4live: It's now unconstitutional to call on your neighbors to separate fight amongst you and your wife...
Well lawyers[color=#990000][/color] knows better Nigeria is a sovereign state and he is a leadr in the legislatv arm for God 's sake! As for ur analogy yes it is bad to invite third parties to ur marital affairs. |
Politics / Re: Nigeria One Of The Most Fragile Countries In The World - Fund For Peace (washin by DLioness(f): 9:44pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
What is that suppose to mean? Is the country akin to an egg that can break? |
Health / Re: Bio Claire Cream, Good Or Evil? by DLioness(f): 12:49am On Jul 10, 2016 |
I dnt knw |
Politics / Re: The Politics Of Ika And Ndigbo : Unearthing Facts by DLioness(f): 3:25am On Jul 07, 2016 |
rexbuton:
This is similar to saying China should redraw her map to include all the Chinatowns all over the world.. Does that even make sense? so y did u opine that ojukwu did nt add anioma /ika in his map? |