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As usual Nigerians would go their as per routine then after service they would go back to embrace their individual sins. Going to church for show

Meedon:
A decade and some months no be beans ooo

Bros.

I have no plans of stopping sha,its been helpful to me in many aspects.

Meedon:
Oh you're still new in the game.

I will not talk...

lol meaning you've had 50years of experience,abeg go sit down.

Zzor:
Thats what most of you think, I don't fail at anything I accept to go into, marriage won't be an exception. Just a reminder, I deal with real men

lmao,Real men=Simps

Meedon:
Wait untill you're addicted to the act.

see this one I'm addicted and I know, since 2014. I'm self conscious of what I'm doing and it's been healthy all the way plus I dont have to depend on women to please myself you grab

Yeah,youd get em simps to marry ya. He might later wake up and divorce you sha.

werey dey read God mind. I support using intact gadget to satisfy urges that come naturally, it saves people from committing sins cause self pleasure no be sin for my own face

adeolaSexy:
No matter how much you preach, you guys will still fall on your knees, begging just to put the "tip"

those are the guys around you lol, a person like me wey no get strength for bullshit. No matter the crush I have on you once I try once and she dey do yeye I move sharp who go like me go like me I no need stress

Keketu:
Hello Casalindal , this is an open letter to prove my undie love, since I view your picture something happen in me, please pm me , there are rope around me, please

lefulefu=keketu

I masturbate with pride lmao, I'm able to focus more on my career and I dont spend on women. People go dey say masturbation bad but i dont see the difference between it and sex shey no be same ejaculation? Just do what works for you,I've had sex with women but I still prefer masturbating and I can't be forced to do what the society tag "normal" normal is boring!!

As for me if I gift someone(Male or female) something I would completely forget it cause it's a "Gift". You shouldnt gift someone something you cant forget, I'd rather gift a cheap android that u can forget than gift an iPhone I wont be able to forget.

[/quote][quote author=Godson213 post=74200672]If your fellow man can chop your eye like this I wonder what a ordinary woman will do to manipulate your soul. Too soft for my liking.

You for bust the bubble and tell your recruits say na scam say make every body run. Just say shout day run everywhere for the office shout At the top of your voice

Oh boy 4 years ago I go one gnld at gbagada. The street make sense. That time I day work like slave for my aunty then. I day street . Na so them talk emerald and diamond and director and later divide us to pay 15k. They now started turning it to threats when people weren’t responding. Then I shouted ‘Scam run E sare ‘ ‘Ole’ they stole my money. I just say run enter all the office. I swear na mopol come and I tell mopol them collect my 52k and I thought they want to give me job. They asked for oga no body came out. We no discovered the building Happened to be a rented one. Then I pointed to one guy I saw on stage as Diamond director Motivating youths. They held him and he produced 52k. I gave the mopols 10k.

Their mama!! This is lagos shine your eyes. No day do like mumu

that was so smart of ya you ended up collect their money lmao
My mum did this shit back then and I was telling her it was a scam from start but most african parents dont listen to their children's opinion she ender up wasting her money and time without seeing 1naira, shit was so funny when her eye later open.

Please can I know how he was able to convince yall to invest that amount? I'm guessing he promised 100% ROI monthly which most Nigerians are used to falling for, anything that promises more than 20% ROI sounds bogus to me
I'm an agric student at unilorin too but no in his lvl

Jodha:
Let's all pretend...ladies don't support men financially too..

you dont need to pretend,we all know the reality is that most relationships in this country are seen by the females as an avenue to cashout and not to share love. If you like dey argue but you know the truth within yourself.

Jodha:
Keep forming woke
..love is all about giving
.... yhu can't say yhu love someone without giving...

"God loved the world and GAVE his only begotten son" there's no love without giving...

The giving should be from both parties

and what is she giving? Vagina? Cause that's what most girls say they are giving in Nigerian relationships. Same pleasure I could get jerking off or using a sex doll.

fati2001:
IF I'M HYPOCRITE... I WILL NOT BE BOLDLY ENOUGH TO SAY OUT THE NEGATIVE THINGS DESTROYING OUR SOCIETY E. G PREMARITAL SEX THAT IS TAKING OVER THE UNIVERSE.......


NEGATIVE MINDSETS DON'T WANNA HEAR THE TRUTH....

lmao,Nigeria na headquarter of hypocrites, I've seen people talking against some evil vices in the society in the public but when no one sees them they do the same thing so I dont believe all this bullcrap some of yall on type on here.

fati2001:
that is what the agents of darkness always say....

you know it within yourself that you are an hypocrite so no long cap.

soulstalker:
committing the crime? Ayam not understanding oo. When did sex become a crime?

leave this confused hypocrite.

The said girl go school at all? I'm having headache reading this shit.

People aren't wired same,some people are just unique just leave him to be himself.

So far I'd say its phone repairers and mechanics.

Haba bros,anypart of the body can have an infection not only the genitals �‍♂️�‍♂️

Englov:
28.11.2020 marked it 5yrs marriage anniversary for me and my spouse.

The experiences are as follows:

1. Do not marry because of beauty:

Beauty they say is to the eyes of the beholder. My wife was and is still beautiful in my eyes but that was not only the reason I married her.
I took my time and visited her place one time they had burial ceremony in her village. This was even before I proposed to her for marriage. I wanted to see her Mum and I did. I wanted to see how my wife will look like when she start aging. I equally wanted to know how peaceful her mum lives with the Dad because she won't tell me all this things.


2. In marriage it might not work always with your plan:

I remember a friend of mine told me that once he gets married, he will relocate from Nigeria to USA with the help of the wife's family staying in USA. I can remember I asked him; what if it didn't work as you have planned it? His answer was: I have never taught of it that way.
My man is marriage now with that lady. They have gotten 2 kids but they have not moved out till now. He no longer talk about moving to USA anymore though he could even afford it.
This doesn't mean you will not plan for yourself and your family. However, as you make your plans always have a plan B in case it didn't work out the same way you had planned it.
I have learned to always have plan B even as I work so had to make plan A possible.

3. When Your wife says Yes, she might mean No most of the times and vice versa:

Most of the times when you are doing the great job on the other room, if she is saying no,stop,etc pls don't stop oh. If you do she will turn back and say to you. Why did you stop? You will answer but you asked me to stop. She will ask you are you not man enough to know that I didn't mean stop? Immerging that someone asked you to stop something and she said she didn't mean it.
You must be man enough to know when she means what she is saying. You as a man must figure somethings out by yourself.


4. Child birth:
This in most cases does not go as planned. You might say you want boys as a man and she said she want girls or boys as the case maybe. It is only God that has ultimate say on this.
It took us 3 years to get our first baby and we are expecting another soon. In that first 3 years, we went to different hospitals me and my spouse was certified ok. She use to take in but after 2-3 months miscarriage will be experienced. In this experience months became years.
We spent a lot of money looking for solution and she was restless because of that until God gave us one.
Child birth during marriage is a different ball game all together to compare when you are in a friendly relationship. When you are in a relationship, you see pregnancy come and stay but after marriage the real business starts.


5. Never marry a lady because of what she told you:
When you finally decide to marry as a man, marry because of your own reasons. Never marry because the lady told you that anyone who married her will be entitled to this or that. Pls never fall for that cheap scam. Any lady above 30yrs wants to marry by all means. You don't know the pressure she is passing through so she will do anything possible to bring you in.
Lady's knows men wick point most of the times than we know their own. Remember they can talk to each other and share their experiences with men in their discussion than men do.


6. Women are strong than men but don't know:

Believe or not women are very strong being. Brother, one weekend try and stay at home and tell her to leave all her work for you. Try and do it, guy I bet you 90% of the men will not do 60% off the work women do at home.
They will do all this things go to work and come back, carry their baby, etc.


7. She Doesn't want competition:

No woman wants to see her man with another woman. She doesn't like competition oh! A woman would do anything possible to protect her home. Women are more spiritually inclined than men. If you really want to know a visit to spiritual homes will convince you. They believe that most of the things happening around us is more spiritual than physical.

8. Shape and Size:
Before our wedding I was 66kg in weight while she was 64kg that was 2015. But now in 2020, 5years after am 64kg and she is 76kg. She has gained 12kg and I have lost 2kg such is life. That slim fight girl you see today once you marry her she will gain weight this is natural to them.
If you must marry bear it in mind that she must gain weight and as she gains weight she might start losing shape.
I have bought so many weight loss medications and even waist trainer belt but it's still there.
I have learned to live with it.


9. Buying things:
Impulse buying is their hubby. Women can buy things that they will never use. Most of the times my wife bought she doesn't even know what they are used for. Most a times they buy because it looks good not even because they want to use it.


10. Gift:
Though everyone likes gift but women cherish gift so much. You want to get something from her buy her a gift more especially that thing she likes.


11. Love life:
Once you have a baby a portion of your love will be taking away from you and given to your babe. As you number of babies increased so as the love life shift hands to the babies. The more babies you have the less attention you get from your wife.


It is really a wonderful experience. I love my wife and we are happy with each other.


Disclaimer:
The experiences learned and knowledge acquired are mostly personal to me and my spouse. This experiences may or may not be applicable to you and your spouse.



I would like you to add your own experience or knowledge acquired in your marriage life to guide those that wants to go into this.

wow,not alot people have learnt to live with some things and that's the cause of many failed marriages today. You dey try bros but personally I fear marriage lol I feel like I'd be personally putting myself in some cage.

Hes probably using a RAT(remote access trojan),I'd say you should wipe your phone cause the ways he might have been able to exploit your device is by him sending a file to your phone. And after you must have cleared your phone be careful when giving your phone to people to send things even on xender he could send the "payload" to you,Another case would be if yall are sharing same LAN(wifi) but I doubt that,there are many loopholes hackers can use sha. I learnt somethings about hacking for awhile before I went into forex so as to get enough funds to fund my hacking career(your neighbor is prolly a rookie)

I love history men,as I read I form mental images in my head and it gives me some wonderful feelings. Thanks sorcerer I always love your threads.

Jashub:
Tomorrow's headlines will read :

"BUHARI CONDEMNS THE BRUTAL KILLING OF 44 FARMERS "


But as usual nothing will be done.

;Ddem don even post am exactly as you said lmao,our leaders are so damn predictable bunch of useless motherfuckaz

Readre:
i have tried this but my emotions always betray me las las

your emotions are your problem my guy so what you need do it to take control of those emotions under check,I also ghost ladies after theyve fallen deeply in love. Most times the cause is that the attention I'm getting from them is becoming too much I begin to lose interest so try to always suck up to em ladies.

I poor sha