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Depends on the kind of smart you're talking about..majority of Nigerian girls are street smart,sharp tongued and rich in thoughts of how to play guys like pawns in a chess set but they don't know basic algebra or capitals of more than 10 countries ..i avoid those lot,my kind of smart has to do with book smart..which is why I can successfully picture myself with a female nerd because as we know intelligence can be genetically acquired,i don't want to give birth to children that are as dumb as soup..i chat with girls alot but the discussions are usually confined to fashion,fashion,gossips,stories,gists and nonsense..i try to bring up science,technologies,history,arts,music,interesting facts and occurrences but all I get as reply is "lol,seriously,wow,you're very smart, you're very intelligent"..etc..so please show me the Nigerian men that are scared of smart women

Well said! But let us ask ourselves,how many Nigerian females are self dependant? O.P has said the truth but it goes two ways..i can see some females are already turning the reasonable write-up to be an avenue to bash men as expected..

Lol...very funny! Although the hymen of a virgin isn't completely covered,there are little holes on it to allow for passage of blood during ovulation

Take her to the hospital asap...don't try any traditional or herbal concoction please! Just give her enough water to drink,maybe you slapped her and she fell and hit her chest against something thus leading to the internal bleeding...you're not giving complete details I guess

Lol... Are they asleep? The Nigerian branch of Nairaland bashers!.maybe they ran out of data subscription..Thumbs up Jupxter,to the matter at hand..i don't really know any female nairalander but I saw two amazing ladies today so I'm nominating ladymarionette and Mariinee

LadyMarionette:
. I don't wanna ruin the image you have in your mind, but why do you think that?

Nothing really,just something I've noticed ..i am deeply sorry for insisting..just a big fan of ladies who are logical.I've heard of your psychoanalytical prowess though ..care to shrink me?

Mariinee:
I don't think so.

lol,alright if you say so!

Jupxter:
Everything will be subject to test. Go and have fights first, after your first five to seven fights you'll know if your relationship can stand the test of time. Relationships aren't best measure in good times, there's need for quarrels, differences, examine how you manage your differences, compatibility isn't enough, your incompatibility matters and should be factored in..

..In fact, i recommend you examine your incompatibility thoroughly than your compatibility.

Yeah,Disagreements are sometimes pointers to who your friend are... but seriously bro! you a therapist?..

LadyMarionette:
No, we aren't related.

lol..but you friends? There has to be a connection somewhere

Mariinee:
LOL. How?

Her choice of words,routes of reasoning,logical and detailed explanations,high chance of being found in threads like this..lol! It has Mariinee all over them

Jupxter:
I spoke at an event last month and i said something that troubled people. People paused to think before they could answer. I said if two people with just 40% compatibility married, it could work out. Marriage spans beyond those issues, if the resolve to work it out and fix issues is there, couples with 20% compatibility would marry and do better than another couple with higher rating.

of course,you're right again!..i'd like to know if relationships with best friends have very high success rating?

LadyMarionette:
Can't is such a negative word. Wherever I see a can't I like to change it to a can . It's the power of positive thinking. And I won't judge you. . But it's good you're making the effort for us, it's greatly appreciated: take a seat and get miseducated.

..I have taken my seat already! But seriously,are you related to Mariinee?

Lol...majority of the ladies forming solidarity don't even know the person in question,girls that are their own worst enemies

Lol, everybody is sapiosexual..my 6 months old cousin is sapiosexual too

Jupxter:
It's above compatibility self. We all should be careful. One may find someone that shares more or less 90% compatibility with, but you see our 10% incompatibility could almost swallow the 90% compatibility...We need to seek the counsel of God before making such commitment.


Forget rationality, there's a lot of luck in marriage and in the choice of a partner Sir.

true...very true

I can't find my category in the list though

Jupxter:
bra, love is manipulation, basing a long term project on feelings is stvpid,it has to be transactional, there has to be binding forces that keeps both parties together. There has to be something of worth for both to lose if they tag together...This is my own path, i'm gonna marry for transactional basis, not based on love, and i'll love who i marry, not marry whom i love

exactly bro! Couldn't agree better..you find somebody you're compatible with and you stick with them(marriage)..Personally I don't believe in love

LadyMarionette:
This is nice. It's refreshing to see men define themselves with reference to women, and to see them make a conscious effort towards self improvement so that they become more desirable to us.

lol..no offense! But we can't date ourselves nau,thats where you women come in

Mrbolt555:
u b mumu naw

You should have known I was being rhetorical sir. I don't see any connecction between being a mumu and not coming early to a thread so this mention was totally unnecessary

Mrbolt555:
u b mumu naw

lol

Lol..why did I come late to this thread?

The origin of that word might be traced to one obese girl somewhere who felt men are to be blamed for her low self-esteem..lol,womyn!

My crush! ..who has seen any girl that's close to her appearance in any way?..

Nairaland papa and mama iyabos are hating on them! ..most of the guys calling her all sort of derogatory names will later go to patronize the dirty oily hairy sex hawker later in the day..is it not Nigeria? And the girls insulting her,some of y'all might not even achieve chicken shiit in life but y'all are quick to jump on your keypads and judge! Whatever happened to indifference?

Some Nigerians are stupid fa!..the foolish guys insulting her have probably saved the picture for personal reasons known to them and their right hand..and the female dunces that are criticizing her,what has covering their mammary glands done to improve their lives? Or how will their mammary glands help the lives of the people around them even if it were exposed? Bunch of hypocritical fucktards everywhere

mercy0008:
NO YOU ARE THE ONE TO SHUT UP PUSSY ASS NIGGA. IF SOME GALS HAIL YOU BECAUSE OF SOME FREAKING CHANGE YOU SHOW HERE TO GIVE YOU ONE FEELING OF ACCOMPLISHMENT THEN ITS THEIR LOSS.
ATTENTION SEEKING, SELF HYPE MODA FUCKER.

damn!

Jupxter:
It happens to me too. I hardly get attached or even attracted to girls. Some of us are wired that way, you'll find the one in a million you'll be attached to. Sowwie. I can relate with your frustration. Try having female friends, as many as possible and see if something can develop from there

some of us are wired to be attracted to as many as possible

This might be a subtle appeal for a domineering girlfriend,one who share his fetish for female domineering sex..please if you are a female and you have a fetish for BDSM, kindly send the o.p a pm..he needs you

Lol.. Different strokes for different folks!
Why do I feel o.p is a female?..Everybody always has an opinion..whatever o.p typed will not make Hillary Clinton U.S president or make men trade the title "husband" for "wife" or whatever..basically o.p's opinion ends here at nairaland romance

See how her advice is biting some people ...eyaaah! If your conscience is seriously telling you that you're only good for sex in a relationship then you really should work on yourself..Being in a relationship is not by force neither is getting married but if the guy does stuffs for you just so you can help him get off then no offense sis! You should have "booty call" tattooed on your forehead...Preach on Rita Dominic..give these booty calls something to think about

Lol...bro,don't let that get to you..when ladies friend zone you cos they feel you still useful to them..they'll trickle out stuffs like that to keep you in whatever bullshit you're in..Giving you feels like that keeps you happy and you'll never think of leaving them while they low-key using you for their own selfish reasons

That's it!...please nobody should come here and preach about how this guy is normal o or some live and let live bullshit.."he knows I'm a girl"..why would a normal brain reject his gender if something is not wrong with some part of his brain...the sooner they start treating this guy like a lunatic that needs psychiatric evaluation the better for us..his problems would have been solved if he had been referred to a therapist when he started but trust Nigerians with their flawed copy-copy sense of liberalism...Gender dysphoria is a recognized mental problem but y'all treating it like its okay to be delusional..More of bobriskys are coming..Nigeria with its present state now coupled with children who starts rejecting their gender will be a disaster...