₦airaland Forum

Vyvyanvyvy:
Thank you everybody for the support , good , bad advices and critics. Like I said the other day I will pick him today am already at my brother place my son stuffs are all packed and we will be leaving soon. I’m very excited happy to have my son back today he will sleep peaceful in his mother house without worrying about what to eat because with me he will have his happy life back

Nice one, do let us know how it goes

nezeodunze:
I added food colour into the hot oil before popping and secondly as suggested by a friend, sprayed the colour on already popped corn but they both have same result.

I think it boils down to the kind of colour you used. Either that or you added too much colour. I've bought coloured popcorn that did not stain the hands, I'm sure it was prepared using your first method. Try using reduced quantity of the colour and see how it comes out. If it remains the same, use another brand of colour

dignity33:
That is what Buhari know how to do, using money from south to developed North.

Most of these structures were constructed by the governors of the states using the same allocation granted to all governors nationwide. What is your governor doing with his own allocation?

She didn't fight over food, she was fought with over food. Someone handed her food at a party, was she supposed to reject it? Once she had started eating, the organizer working with the caterer should have just let the matter slide. The woman that wanted to collect someone else's half eaten food to serve to someone else is the cause of the problem here. OP's mistake was replying in kind, she should have just kept her cool considering she's in the midst of her prospective in-laws. A sincere apology and solemn promise to her boyfriend that she will conduct herself better in public when food is involved should salvage the relationship.

The Ghanaian actress wins it for me. Everything on her is 100% on point. The outfit is a perfect fit on her, colour complements her skintone, her shape is wowww. Complete look; breathtaking!!!

Can't believe I missed the red carpet

It appears all the nominees are Nigerians this year

franchasng:
go and check, there must be well documented agreement on how those extra kids will be catered for, and the whereabouts of their biological fathers must be known and his stand legally defined.

The op hasn't for once talked about her sons father, his stand, etc

No western law my sister forces a child on a man when the child is not his biological child, I have lived in western world to know a little about it even though I have not had any child care related issue to know much though, but from the little I know, the man cannot be forced to take in the child if he doesn't want, unless he signed to take in the child when they were getting married and turned around now to say no, which will lead to legal settlement not verbal talks

Most of these "white" men that marry single mums legally adopt the kids, that's why Wikipedia puts Matt Damon's kids as 4 despite his wife birthing 3 for him. Rockstar Chris Daughtry not only legally adopted his wife's kids, the kids now bear his surname as well. I'm using this examples of A-list American celebrities because they married non-celebrity women and still adopted their kids as their own.

Whites (Americans in particular) are more flexible and receptive towards single mums and the children borne by them. A far far cry from our egotistic Nigerian men who think they're doing women favour by marrying them and expect their wives to snap into two to please them even if means rendering her child homeless.

franchasng:
don't mind the small boys.

Which whiteman will even agree to take in 2 kids from a woman he is marrying Many whitemen will request to sign an agreement on how the woman's kids will be catered for; how much extra money the woman will be bringing to cater for the extra kids she is bringing in, they will agree and reach a terms before getting married.

Many young white guys won't even accept it, only the older white men with kids can. I don't know how they think things work abroad

Yeah because Cesc Fabregas, Matt Damon, Chris Daughtry etc are all black African men

Mutemenot:
It shall come to a time our banks will be narrowed to 4, namely UBA, Zenith, FBN and Access banks

Where will you put GTB? The strongest of them all

Which colouring method did you use?

franchasng:
I think it's better she divorce her husband and rent an apartment and go take her child and live with him, that should be the best thing to do

This is one reason guys don't marry single mothers; what if the father of the child have a bad blood trait running through the child; like stealing, etc, that's how you will end up carrying a thief as stepchild, it's not as easy as you ladies think, and reason ladies must be careful with how and who they get pregnant for.

Dear ladies...

Good, it's advisable she leaves the man and focus on her children.

Men DO marry single mothers (example is OP's husband). Nobody bribes or forces them to, they CHOOSE to. That's why it is completely absurd to refuse a single mother to have custody of her child knowing fully well she's a mum before marrying her. OP's husband is even worse, why promising to raise her kids as his when he knew he couldn't?

Labelling the boy a thief is very unfair. His stealing of food was circumstantial, something he probably wouldn't have done is he was not in an hostile environment. This is why he needs his mother now more than ever.

Purifiedsoul:
Be rest assured that bringing that child to your husband house will bring you no good.

So she should abandon her child because of her husband abi what is this one saying?

How would you feel if your mother had dumped you with relatives to suffer because of a man? Her child is her primary responsibility, marriage is secondary.

Nice one. Photos of some of the sacked workers kneeling and begging for their jobs was very sad to behold

Taken

My kids over marriage anytime any day, it's not even a topic open for negotiation.

Oyindidi:
Lol, men hate independent women see as e dey pain you

Don't mind them. The moment a woman posts "I pay bills" or something like that, they start vibrating

Proof?

Dpharisee:
It will decongest Lagos, Calabar is very much closer to the North than Lagos

Calabar closer to the North than Lagos? I don't think so

KingKingKing:
God Save the World!

The World right now needs to turn to God to seek forgiveness!
When a people sin they get plagued just so they can turn from their evil ways!

Surprising to note that every country that supports homosexuality is heavily plagued..

Russia isn't cuz they refuse to bend to the whims and caprices of the world!

SA has over a dozen of cases right now..

God save mankind

Iran supports homosexuality too?

funmisticqueen2:
hope you are doing better now?

Much better, thanks

There's an element of truth in the write up though not all men are like that. I was admitted early this year, the lady I shared a ward with had a miscarriage and appendicitis surgery. It was her elser sister by her side throughout the time I was there. I only got to see her husband on the day I got discharged which was the 3rd day I spent there. That aside, I've seen countless men stay by their wives side when ill but the number is considerably lower than women who put their lives on hold to nurse their husbands to health

And the man she's visiting is a saint?

Undissputed:
No, she is not. While it can be frowned upon in today's religious setting, parents giving both their consent to court with the idea that marriage is in the horizon is as good as they giving consent for marriage. Normally, a man asks a girls parents for consent and takes her home if they agree. But because of today's ceremonial and financially oriented communion, getting married immediately becomes difficult and they have to prepare towards a "formal" marriage.

If I'm to get you right, if she visits a man with her parents' consent, she's not a prostitute even if premarital sex is involved. But if she visits a man without her parents consent and doesn't have sex, she's a prostitute?

Who is bearing all these exile expenses?

These dumbass northern senators and the mumu bills they always propose, are they ok at all?

What a painful way to die

The second and third photos are the the most heartbreaking

You have started sowing seeds of resentment in your wife towards your daughter by placing the girl in a more superior school to your other kid. If the girl was her biological daughter, she would have understood but she's not and there's no way she won't think you're giving your daughter unfair preferential treatment. Sadly it's the little girl that will suffer for this not you

I won't disown my child for getting pregnant and hiding it from me but quitting school and making me spend all that money with nothing to show for it? I fit disown you o