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Nowaday,is not an old time religion u have to pray and open the other eye for a life-partner in the church.

what do u think?

it is in the morning u get to know a beautiful lady, how true is it?

LADIES: what do you want from me on our first date OR what should i do to be the guy - with sincerity pls!

common guy NOT that but sharing of love btw opposite sex

He must!

someone said:

The word LOVE is draining away from my vein due to what have come across with women, i love them so much that - - -,but now i discovers i lives in a different world where love exist by pretences 2 achieves aims.
and now any lady that smiles at me on my ways i feels like - - - .

(smacking i guess)

pls what do i say to this fellow you psychiatrist out there.

As a lady how do u feels dating a cook / chef, whats the feeling behind u when u finds out ur guy is a cook/chef.

oh Dan Foster,common the man is my hero, i looks after him to be a presenter from my secondary school days,mmh that voice that is like giving u a future in the morning till dawn - oh guys i ma miss that guy.
if his leaving is true! then he most got a plan ahead----

Dan Fos i'm missing u in abuja now common.because i never change that dial in lagos.

The Nigerian movie industry, otherwise known as Nollywood, has continued to mourn the death of one of its popular actors, J.T. Tom West. The death of Tom West in the early hours of last Thursday, has generated a lot of bitter feelings in the make believe industry. The Rivers State-born actor, who many movie stars described as a bunch of talent, died as a result of severe internal injuries he sustained in an auto crash on Lagos-Epe Expressway on Wednesday night.

The accident occurred while he was returning from the location of a movie produced by Sharon, a Nollywood female producer. Sources within the Actors Guild of Nigeria (AGN), told NollywoodReel that Tom West hit his chest on the steering in the course of the accident. The Actor, Tom West: The Rivers State-born actor hugged stardom some years back with the likes of Ramsey Noah and Pat Attah, through the rested soap opera, Fortunes, produced by Charles Owoyemi.

A song writer and musician, Tom West and his group, did the NTA 2 Channel 5 commercial jingle, Your Reach Out Station. His unfulfilled Dreams: Before his sudden death, one of the major plans of the actor was to get married. Since there had been pressures on him from relatives and colleagues, Tom West had decided to take the lady of his heart to the altar. Apart from that, the talented actor also planned take his musical career to the next level, even beyond anybody’s imagination.

He also planned to establish an NGO that will cater for the needy and less-privileged people in the society. This, he once said, was his own way of giving back to the society what he had gained. What His Colleagues Say About Him: Hakeem Rahman, AGN President: I was really touched when the news of Tom’s sudden death was broken to me. Actually, I didn’t believe it until I saw his lifeless body at the Lagos General Hospital mortuary. I shed tears uncontrollably.

Not only because he is dead, but because a great talent is gone. May his gentle soul rest in peace. Ifeanyi Dike: Chairman, Board of Trustees, AGN: Tom West was a very creative and talented actor. His death is a great loss to the industry. As a person, I will miss him very much, but I pray that such calamity will not befall us again. Remmy Ohajianya, Chairman, AGN, Lagos State Chapter: The death of J.T. Tom West is a total loss to Nollywood, his family and particularly, AGN. He was an easy going person, but you can have it rough when you cross his path. He was a good actor. We pray that God gives us the fortitude to bear the loss.

Femi Durojaiye, Chief Whip, AGN, Lagos Chapter: It’s really unfortunate. Tom West’s death is a great shock to me, Nollywood and Nigerians at large. We love him, but God loves him most. So, there’s nothing we can do than to pray for his soul to rest in peace.
Uche Jombo, Actress: I was really touched when I heard of his death. He’s a great actor, one many upcoming ones see as a role model. So, for him to die just like that is quite unfortunate. I sympathise with his family. Cynthia Agholor, Actress: He’s one of the talented actors that I respect in this industry. He was versatile and creative. I pray that Nollywood won’t witness such loss again.

If there's love after a long term relationship and u've studied him, u can fill in the gap for him, he might be adoring u at hand-------

Anyway wat matters is the LOVE u two share from the start.

at kiki,

that is some elementary school shiit well i wasn't trying to make him uncomfortable

Here you come again with "elementary school bla bla bla" has you said, and you know what? You are a tripple capital LOSER because LOSER don't ever want to go through elementary school shit.

JUST BE CAREFUL, IF YOU DONT KNOW WHAT TO TYPE AS A REPLY - Not necesasary
BE CAREFUL!!!

it doesnt matters to ladies anyway, but to a man it does,
for people not able to know ur limit is what makes a man, talkless of what u earn a whole month.

ur power is what u can do in a second which is from the pocket because money answers everything.

To cino1

MAN IF YOU SAY SO i WANT TO KNOW, How many album or let me say songs can he make that will take his name till this year since his death in 1996,? remember that some of his song here talks about his comeing to take back what ya all Mutherfuker has stoling from me, in album od return of the Solja

it is an arrangement made btw him and his director or producer b4 he died, it's just like a will written down. some of his tapes r cut to form a remix

will u also say after the died of Jesus christ many years ago he came back to wrote the bible: would u say that!!!
it doesn't really matters

to kiki

y don't u put it like this
I'm desperate for a girl i couldn't get one so i decided to come and try my luck on the computer
u are such a LOSER

I dont know how someone feels making a fellow human being uncomfortable with his/her tongue, You dont call a fellow LOSER with a capital letter, what you are saying indirectly is that GOD is a LOSER cause He is the creator.
and anything you talked against something or human, you are refering it to the maker because the subject is His handwork.
So be careful with what you say cause it might turn against you later or sooner


Capital NO harm in admitting that you say something wrong, cause it happens all the time.

thanks to God
we need more of changes,because we deserves it

Hi friend, i'm a guy of the same age with urs, all i have to say is : YOU NEED A JOB, u are old enough to give ur family a break to avoid embarrassment,come out from among them as bible saids.
for me, i left my family when i finished SSEC exam, and now i'm doing fine never depending on them. saving, have a house, job and so on. and pls u have a long way to go and try put that stuff of wanting a lady for now beside.
in a nutshell - come out from among them,fine a job for a living and to further ur education, just make aplan for ur self or life.



NOTHING WILL CHANGE IF YOU DON'T MAKE A CHANGE.


Anyway, Goodluck.

It doesnt really matter

who say so!!!
some are ready to go any lenght to plan budget for you, after every ending of the month while u still have some plans for ur future to save which they don't see now,
be wise to know the pple you're surrounded with b4 disclosing, Not to regret,

hi guys, i can't believe u guys still talking about his dead or alive anyway 2pac is dead and under the grave,and all the albums that is been release are the records he made down b4 he depart.
he had already made records that should be sold when he died which is out today, he is a man of plan, not about the cash but the future.

need a stressless relationship? i'm there for you believe me cos i'm a gentle guy also, you'd see! pls and pls no money conscious lady

na waoo,
i never blame anybody for their comment because if u were bitten by a snake and u sees a worm u'd run
the first time i was beaten and robbed in a vehicle full of robbers- i tries to looks faces in a vehicle for 5 minute b4 ---------

my brother no prob.

The question is:What Do Ladies Want ? and the answer is rated in percentage below:

1)love - 7% early stage of life
2)friendship - 4% 2nd stage of life
3)date - 8% life becoming interesting
4)money - 50% since men starts calling here & there, Hmm-looking for wussy jacks
5)marriage - 20% when beauty fadinging
6)to be chased about - 3%
7)personal selfishness - 8%

, she's like getting money from a begger praying for her, and a begger giving out money for the saked of hearing a sweet voice,
checkout
A religionous prayer: oh give me that old time religion!!!

that reminds me of a gay guy that woo me last year which i'm very chock of for the very 1st time.

u guys r nice out there, anyway i knew all my best friend through the net, i think it's a good medium to start-who can say.

@ Kayoday and the Curious minded ones,
Thanks for ur comment on this topic, i can say what u've written is true base on those qualification they hook around with guys,because i had heard,seen and come across ladies like that for the few months i've been here - when they meets u they'll ask for "what ur dad and ur mom does for living" and come back to u and ask "what u're up to " they don't care , since the money is coming in.
Anyway, base on the topic - I have nothing to do with the topic, i just fine myself trying to know what poped my mind a couple of weeks ago.
I found myself in an environment whereby the percentage of guys is 99.5 to lady, I'm surprised then i went ahead to a lady and asked she said "because most of the men are from their town in search of job leaving the ladies or wifes behind." i guess she may be right anyway.
Thats why i brought the topic to read what you think about the topic so far.
Moreover,thanks for ur comment - you all.

just talk true . u are looking for a bed pal
To candylips- there is a condition: base on her choice
try and read b4 ,

How to tell if he likes you
(and if he's flirting with you in his special own guy-way).

A lot depends on the type of guy and his individual personality.

Shy Guys
These are tough to crack sometimes,
He'll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he's looking the other way.
You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it
He may do something physical - like grab you in a play way, poke you, play with your hair,
(Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked punched you or tackled you?)
He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but doesn't quite know how,
He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's just for "friend of mine" that wants to know about you.
He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he turns silent, or chokes up.
You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.
He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.
He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.
Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buds or other girls).
DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.
(Bingo - you can pack that puppy up and take him home, )

i'm new in Abuja from Lagos with the company i works and wants to meet any lady from age of 18 above for friendship, base on her choice.any intrested one should mail me domwas2@yahoo.com

Hi friend, i'm Dominic i guess we can make things work - domwas2@yahoo.com

[b][center]BEING A WUSSY, OR TURNING INTO ONE.

For a lot of reasons, a WUSSY just doesn't make
for an interesting, romantic counterpart. Women
will SETTLE for a Wuss, or even SETTLE DOWN with
one (usually after the Wuss has demonstrated his
TOTAL lack of self-respect, and his COMPLETE
willingness to put aside all of his own needs for
a woman). Unfortunately, this often ends with the
woman cheating on the Wuss, leaving him for
someone else, taking everything from him
(including his self esteem) etc,

I digress,

The point is, a WUSSY doesn't trigger
ATTRACTION.

Wussies are BORING. They're needy. They lack
ENERGY, act CLINGY, and make women feel TRAPPED
and repulsed.

Everything about the WUSS spells "DON'T PICK
ME".

Now, the first thing most guys say when they
hear this news is, "But I don't want to be a JERK
to women" or "I like the idea of being NICE" or
"I'm just being MYSELF with women, what's wrong
with that?".

I can identify.

I get it.

I spent many years of my life thinking these
kinds of things.

Well, the good news is that you don't need to
be a "jerk" or treat women badly to attract them.
lol,

You just need to:

1) Abandon your Wussy Ways.

2) Learn how ATTRACTION works.

3) Change how you look at relationships.

4) Learn the specific things that you need to do
in each situation to meet women and make them feel
that wonderful, powerful, magical, elusive emotion
called ATTRACTION.

5) Never "slip", or allow yourself to start
behaving like a WUSSY as you get to know a woman.

Doesn't sound too hard, right?

Good,

I'd like to get you started with some homework.

You have an assignment for the week.

Here it is:

1) Stop being "nice" to attractive women. This
means no asking women out, no giving them lots of
compliments, no putting your needs aside, no
accepting manipulative behavior to please women,
and no giving women special treatment or
privileges just because they're attractive. NOTE:
I did NOT say to treat women BADLY. I'm just
telling you to stop doing all the FAKE things
you're doing just to make women like you.

2) Stop handing women your, um, testosterone
making devices on a silver platter. In other
words, stop giving away your power to women. Do
not communicate in ANY WAY, SHAPE, OR FORM that
you will put aside your own self respect in order
to get a woman's approval.

3) Say the word "NO" to a request from an
attractive woman at least once every single day.
Do NOT do this in an angry, mean, or abusive way.
Just simply say, "no". (By the way, it's OK to say
"no" in a serious tone, then DO the thing she
requested after making her sweat a little. This is
using sarcasm and humor, and if it's done right it
will earn you big points).

4) Pay close attention as you do these things, and
notice how attractive women will seem MORE
comfortable being around you, and want to spend
MORE time with you, all because you're not
acting needy, clingy, and WUSS-LIKE.[/center][/b]

coco29, u must be a hard lady and i like u for one thing - u always say the truth

, there are a million ideas for where to go. It's not important where you go. It's important who you are when you get there.