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and so what?

Iwantpeace:
I Need Advice About My Brother Inlaw Attitude

Hello good morning Nairalanders. I have been a guest and a member of this forum for quite some time now. I have equally seen and learnt from the inputs of many issues brought here especially family one. So I decided to create this new account.

I am a new married woman, my marriage is barely 3 months. Before we got married I and my husband agreed that visitors will not stay longer than 2 weeks in our home. Although he begged me that his immediate younger brother whom has been staying with him will stay for a while or comes to stay with us anytime he is on holidays.

I reluctantly agreed just for peace to reign. He shuttles between our home and my SIL homes for now. To cut the long story short, prior to when we got married that I go visit my then fiancé, anytime I cook this guy is fond of dipping his hands into my pot of soup or food without asking me and this is what I am not comfortable with and I really don't like it. I have sister in law too and I have sisters too anytime I go visiting I don't dip my hands into their pot of food without their consent I see it as something disrespectful.

Again, I couldn't talk then because I feel he may say 'ha dem never marry her she dun de get attitude', now he's continued the same attitude. Yesterday, I made food for the house, dished his own, he ate and slept off when he woke up late in the night he went to my pot again and spoilt my dishing spoon in the process. meanwhile I have not dished out my husband's meal.

Coincidentally, my husband came in from work at that moment and I was going to the kitchen to serve him his meal when I saw him doing what I don't like. When he saw me he said 'this spoon dun spoil '. I kept quiet. I later discussed with my husband, told him that I am not happy with the way his brother is entering my kitchen anyhow n because I am someone that don't like keeping things in my mind I like saying it out to free myself. When I told my husband he said we will talk in the morning.

This morning, the first thing this brother in law of mine was to go straight to the kitchen to look for something to eat. This is someone that will eat and keep the dishes, whenever he is around I don't stay in the living room anymore, my room and my phone is my companion because we stay in a one bedroom flat for now. He's giving me this attitude of it's my brother's house so I can do as I please, when he comes back he expects me to greet him first. I am not saying he cannot stay but my main issue is that he is tempering with my kitchen and trying to flex muscles with me.

Pls how do I handle this issue with my husband amicably because up till now he hasn't said anything and it's bothering me?

Mummiesboy:
The real meaning of the security outfits translated in English language is BARSTARD DON'T DEAR IT. shege means BARSTARD while kafasa means do not dear it point of correction op

dear or dare? Mumu

u11ae1013:
Can they maintain the white shirt

how is this your business?

CAN and FFK are both useless liars. Shame on to you motherfuckers���.

Hope this man will not go and disgrace himself at Manchester United.

what should we now do?

Here to read stories

Its not safe for now.

How is this news?

what im i using the passport for??

where's that mumu pastor boye throwing insults to his members?? come and see one of your followers trying to destroy one of your branches in Kaduna. Nonsense people everywhere

Funny how [quote author=ForbesHomesNG post=86366353][/quote]see another mumu

Tetehjevvels:
Here is the video of the failed suicide Bomber of living church Kaduna being interviewed.

He openly declares his name as NATHANIEL SAMUEL and says he was even supposed to be a Pastor with Living faith.

For those who have been saying that it is possible that this person is a christian, well the floor is yours to defend or deny this.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BtVXBiqiSu4

correct! See all the shameless Christians commenting. From his looks, I know this guy must be a Christian. God will continue to expose You all. Nonsense!

Shibaraba:
If I was given the role of directing this film, it would be more realistic than this. They really did a shoddy job. I'll make sure the car outside detonates then I will tell the actor, in this case Nathaniel, to run inside and shout something. While shouting security officials I've disguised in the church will just hold him and from there we hit the news. People will believe that better. This one is badly directed.

For only a mor0n will see that baton and call it a bomb.
Suicide bombers can't be caught like that. See police Wey catch am remain small Make he kiss the supposed bomber. See as him body calm down. See interview. Shows that he is very confident and he knows how the film will play out. He will be free soon.
Abeg FG Dm me. I can write solid scripts.
Thanks
More films to your archive

see another bomber too�. Mumu

This country is a joke

Space management

This one go smell aswear

End time pig

See this idiot man

How is this a news?

Werey!

space booked

space booked

Buhari why?

I blame buhari

BUHARI WHY?

i don't know why some pastors like Bleep

God dash dis mumu sense abeeeeeeg

End time death. Good for the idiot