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Gideon360: I begin to wondered while we negnect those working under one man or privite limited companies, are they not Nigerian? Are they not university graduate? are they not intelligent? Most of them receive less than #20,000/ month as total salary, especially those working in private schools.
Pls how can we help these people out? because we have thesame
certificates.
Help somebody today as God will open windows of heaven for your sake.
Your contribution can change somebodies life.
God bless u as u contribute.
Thks

Our law makers can do good by passing a law that will set a bench mark for all levels other than the minimum wage in collaboration with labor union. So if a sole proprietor employs say a B.Sc holder and is expected to pay N80,000/month on the mininmum and goes on to pay a naira short; the contry's labor union being the enforcer of the law is supposed to have a representative(anonymous) in all registered companies across the country who informs labor on the condition of pay. Thereby such employer can be queried and can. either rightly(with severance pay) terminate all the B.Sc holders he's employed and go for lower certifications for his capacity or review their pay to standard. But this is in a country where things work properly, BTW a million miles walk starts with a step. Let's start walking,we never can tell. (I.e My opinion)

#GodBlessNigeria.

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biafranqueen: Toys our getting big in 9ja is it ? Does every one have the video consoles like xbox DS etc or is it more like stuffed animals, dolls etc am sure China is flooding market by now

Yes china is flooding the market, though not like the console market of xbox and sony PS. Kids play more with electronic toys this days, and china has got a gud grip of it.that is d dolls and teddies. So cost of purchase and import from other countries might be on the high side and overbearing.

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Doncolio.........

U have it now guys. Kindly share with others too.

Cheers.

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Thanks, forwarded to others already.

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bukkylois: It just makes me feel weak dt I cldnt discern dis b4 now..guess I was blinded by love

You see the part I quote is what I like about all you are saying.A lady that can't tell what direction her guy is moving in love terms or where her relationship is going will mostlikely be blamed. Coz she suffer the time wasted the more.
But in your case you were caught off guard I'd say.
These are possible reasons why a guy might form the attitude(though not all conclusive)
- its either he's distracted by all the attention he's getting from his new status making him take you for granted.
- Or he never planned marrying you but needed you for that period (which is born out of pure wickedness). Some guys have that in them, like a criminal instict.
- He probably has an impression you are stalk on him and you can go no where(from him cheating on you and now disrespecting you). A feeling that either partner can get in a relationship.

So now that you know better the true status of your relationship without a doctor telling. Make the best decision earlier so you don't regret later.

If you slept together and she claims u r, chances r you r the father. If not then wats all these ranting abt.

dominique: Oga, pls consult your dictionary and look up the meaning of couple and point out where it specifically states they have to be married.
Infact let me help you out

Couple (n)- Two people who are married,living together or having a sexual relationship.
Capish?

Madam, my concept of couple is married folks. Not minding my dictionary's expression of the word. Dnt really like cohabiting persons to refer to themselves as a couple. Bcoz reality is beyond the word. You get my drift? Coz I get urs.

dominique: Couples often find first year of marriage very difficult cos they're cohabiting for the first time and just learning some not too desirable qualities about each other.
I don't agree with those saying you should move out with your baby. Haba! For the child's sake, try and put in some effort and pray everything works out for the best. Most marriages are rocky in the early years (speaking from experience )

Mind u, the OP is not married and as such they are no couple. So deir case is not a case of a couple. But 2 people cohabiting. With probably a lost love.

nbright: You didn't upload yours and here you are asking to see the pix of other people.... Upload your own pix (your own o) before you ask others to uoad theirs...

Mummy's boy, don't forget this is a thread for single ladies.

Hello dolls n gents, been a while.

Respect him and forget about bride price(what's bride price if a happy married life is not guaranteed). If it gets too late, u might never have a marriage of anykind,at least not with him. if a man didn't marry a woman he won't feel he owes her any obligation. Go back to your parent and hope he or some1 else comes to find u. And make sure you take your baby along,do it all with respect. PEACE.

Ladies: what will be,will surely be.

Whether APC is behind this,a corel draw by a partisan or true work of Jonathan it doesn't matter. There is no smoke without fire. Why pardon the man in the first place and even commit error in the process (including already pardoned individuals ). Too bad we saw only that of the NSCDC commander. If its not that somefin is really fishing between the two and in this case one is an oga and the other is a boy being used. Its politics. But one day, bush meat go catch the hunter.

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Nice, a plus for the timely photographer.

Did I just see 33hrs That's a awfuly long trip.

Cool pic

Can see a lot had happened on here lately with so many hidden post. Trust the mature lot on here to handle issues.
Carmydoll, you are a blessing to the ladies on here with your patient and mature way of handling things. Permit me to remix ur ID to CAMRYdoll(toyota), just the way I like to pronunce it.
@missblessIN, since when have you both been in a relationship and how well do you know your guy? So many things makes we guys act that way;
Most especially when we want to break up and don't want our emotion to affect that decision.
When we are going through a difficult time and you are not being sensitive to our plight or situation.
Sometimes when we have offended you (some of us become upset for offending you and we start feeling guilty you might find out) so we front with the attitude.
Other times when we want to see how much you can fight even as a lady to show you love us at that period in time(it might be a test). We TEST you ladies a lot.
However all these is subjected to the kind of guy and doesn't apply totally.
So just like as been emphasized, TALK to him FACE to FACE. Look into his eyes and if you know him to an extent, you will definately get the answer you seek.

None of the above. They are both over rated.
Go check a post by ONILA and your joy-stick might start to run and jump at the same time.

Try asking here:
https://www.nairaland.com/1211869/tax-professionals-forum

Simayanki has very good advice especially from a guy's point of view. I totally endorse most of them as they have mostly been in the interest of this thread. But it shuldnt be a do or die advice. And I wasn't expecting some1 with those post to give such a twist, so you are forgiven even before you apologise.
Self confidence comes from the inside not the outside (most ladies don't know),so its about a ladies carriage just like a guy's charisma.
A man is attracted to a lady first by her look(the spark) and then on to her attitude. But he considers her for marriage based on her attitude(that's how we develop the love,after we lust) since this determines if he'll be able to spend the rest of his life with her or not. This marks the boundary between being a gf and a wife.

simayanki4real: @ doncolio: its obvious you live in oblivion of what women really want, am pretty sure it stares you in the face but you cannot get a hold of it! Well i'm sure carmelion who know so well about women will enlighten you.

@carmelion: Its a well chosen name for you, just want to let you know that this is not HOW YOU GET REDEMPTION FOR YOUR MISTAKES! Am sure depression has eaten you up, self confidence has tied you up, arrogance would always be your companion but what you so desperately seek deep down the cherade of a stony heart you claim to have is the so-called LOVE & MARRIAGE you preach against is what you actually crave for in the lonliness of your heart. Is the very thing that eats you up when you lie down & when you wake up... So you wake up & think your frustration is to start a thread that blames all the mistakes you have committed right from your university days uptill now on MEN NO! NO! NO! Your redemption wouldn't come so SWIFTLY.

Ladies in the house, there exists beyond the extremities of the universe and comprehension of the greatest minds, the divinity & solemnity of LOVE & MARRIAGE! The only way to achieve you heart's desire is to be yourself. Listen to peoples experiences but make your decisions prayerfully....Don't let people who are depressed by certain mistakes they have made in life, lure you... BE WISE! Take care pals.

Simayanki signing out 4real!

I'd rather say the person living in oblivion is you. If any1 needed tutoring dat will be you and if any1 knew little or next to nothing about marriage; sorry my friend, finger still points at you.

You don't even know if I'm married before blowing dust from the mouth. I am a man by all standard, and men don't like being interrupted or interrupting either. That's why I said let the ladies be or give them your advice without messing up their thread and stop acting like a sisi.
If any1 wanted marriage the most, you and I know its the ladies and that's why they created this thread. So why overstate the obvious?!

simayanki4real: You are funny...but i understand enough to know a lot about you ladies. I can even tell the kind of lady you are from your comments. But this won't get personal...

@miss blanche: look your best but be moderate about everything but most of all be mindful of places where you would get such unwanted attention. Be confident about yourself, don't be perturbed about people's perception of you & am sure there's a space in someone's heart big enough just for you to fill.

Do u do lady things? If your answer is no. Let the ladies be. Profer advice if you can but don't trivialize their pains by acting like u know it all. Ladies know how best to give a fellow lady advice coz dey all look from the same side of the mirror(I.e they knw where the shoe hurts).
If you really understood what carmelion is saying, you wouldn't have replied with such a comment.
But like I said, if you wanted to counsel the ladies, do so without acting like you know them more than themselves. Or open a new thread for them. No offence intended.

Hello dolls!

Its a crazy world. But I wish u all d dolls best of God in ur quest.

kulyie: shebi its a celebrity that started the idea of marrying other married men,not even secretly in pomp and paegantry and before we knew it other celebrity ladies to started getting married to married men,as if that was not bad enough other ladies that are non celebrities,(that are not in the spotlight)started seeing it as a trend and an action worth emulating,now the society doesnt see any big deal in it.bottomline,celebrities are models hence their actions and inactions greatly influences a larger percentage of the society knowingly or unknowingly,whether you accept it or not.secondly,is it not a celebrity that started the fashion trend of wearing clothes that exposes the back and before we could say jack robinson both ladies and elderly women are wearing such clothes,so dont say its only an idiot that will copy a celebs mistake.grown a,,ss adults to do

Are u sure u are a lady? U sound more like a thoughtful(intelligent) gentle man. No offence to the ladies.
This so called role models or celebs could sometimes be a heap of refuse. Follow what you like at your own peril.

@ thread, tiwa being pregnant is between her and whoever puts it in her. Aside that, all I need from her is to sing kele,kele love for me and disappear. So I can enjoy the love with my lady.

And this will be a new episode of the nollywood movie,right! The part where Jonah is double deared, and he falls for it. Wish him God's guidance.
I love my country.

#GodBlessNigeria

Read ur previous thread. Its obvious he didn't love you even though u seem to get lots of attention. Let him know that you loved him but he didn't and you have choosed to move on.
If he loves you! He will prove it till you know.
My advice on this new guy, tell him for now you still see him as a friend. If ur bf doesn't prove much, then consider finding love with this new guy. All the best.