obeycian: I have having some thought about this and I would appreciate if you guys could shed more light about it. My elder brother's wife is way younger than I am, and I HV been calling her by her name. Is it appropriate to do so? Or shud I add a title before name whenever I am addressing her?
You are disrespecting your elder brother if you call his wife by name. If she has children call her by her children's name. Or call her a make up name but not her original name.
Officials, members of the Coalition of Northern Group, security experts as well as other participants on Monday, narrowly escaped death as thugs invaded the venue of the security summit in Kaduna State.
The security summit organized by the CNG was starting at the Arewa House Auditorium, Kaduna the state capital when the armed thugs in their hundreds invaded the place.
The Summit aimed to discuss ways to achieve synergy between communities and government security and design a uniform approach to the current security situation in the North.
Participants at the meeting included retired military officers, retired police officers, religious leaders, traditional rulers, various women, youth, and trade associations.
The meeting was coming on the heels of the abduction of students of Government Science Secondary School, Kankara in Katsina State and other communities in the north.
It was gathered that as the meeting kicked off, the thugs armed with dangerous weapons stormed the auditorium and unleashed terror on participants and guests at the meeting.
Scores of people who gathered at the venue immediately took to their heels, some jumping through the windows.
Reacting to the development, the CNG’s Spokesperson, Abdul-Azeez Suleiman, in a statement condemned the action of the armed thugs.
In a statement titled ‘How sponsored thugs invaded CNG meeting,’ the CNG spokesperson wondered how armed thugs would freely move in the state capital without the intervention of security operatives. He said, “We regret to announce that armed thugs numbering hundreds were unleashed on the Arewa House venue of the security summit hosted by the Coalition of Northern Groups on Monday, December 14. Just as the meeting was kicking off, sponsored armed thugs stormed the auditorium after subduing the civil guards at the gate.
“They overturned tables shattered glasses, attacked the guests and officials, wounding several people and smashing vehicles parked in the premises.
“It is disturbing that a battalion of armed thugs can stroll free across the streets of central Kaduna wielding dangerous weapons without the intervention of the security. Security only arrived hours after the thugs had left.
“It is quite obvious now that some powerful forces are benefiting from the current security situation and would do everything for it to continue. “We are now all the more committed to ensuring the safety and security of the North and its people.”
danny34: Madam a whole forum is telling to wise up, you are telling yourself u can win!
Leave the guy, when he is ready and you are sure he has left the babe, u 2 can move on.
Better face reality!
Even if he makes you the main chick, what is the guaranty that he will marry you?
Listen, grow up, we have all been there.
Let the guy man go!
She is too young to understand I guess. That's how it usually is at this age she is. I dont know what this op thinks she wants to win in a man that is clearly playing her. Well she is cruising towards a regret that will rattle her life for a long time to come. Dog wey go lossno dey hear word.
Mcslize: If I were the guy, I will dump the other girl that is still keeping in touch with her ex.
That babe is not good for him but the problem is he is still caged by the other girl. A typical guy that can't take control of his feelings for a so called cheating girlfriend. The girl is definitely cheating on him with her ex. She will definitely cheat on him if he make the mistake of settling down with that lady for life.
A lady that keeps in touch with her ex when still dating a guy is not going to be loyal to such a guy. That he has failed to realize. He seems to be that type of a guy that finds it hard leaving a girl and taking all the bullshits of a girl.
What you need to do: meet him one on one and tell him you have a question you will like to ask him. Stare into his eyes and ask the question: can you tolerate a cheating wife? If he says no, then ask him why then he is working things out with a girl that left him for her ex and then out of the blues she started crawling back to work things out with her? Isn't that foolishness?
He might go mute at first. Tell him that girl is not good for him. Be bold and talk to him exactly what I write here.
Tell him a girl that is still keeping in touch with her ex is definitely a big disaster to any guy.
However, what I see in this your male friend is that he is still very naive to see that the said girl is not good for him. He needs to realise this. That girl will cheat on him with her ex again and again even if she succeed manipulating him into getting back with him.
The guy is not wise at all. But it is left for you to be bold enough and make him understand this. He seems to be so naive with his emotions for that lady he claims as a girlfriend. That he is still trying to get back with a girl that can't let go of her ex is a complete act of foolishness.
Be bold and take the bull by the horn and make him understand just that.
The guy is just playing her bro! It will all end in tears las las.
Gayatri: What are the red flags please??... He loves his girlfriend but he does not want to let me leave him because i help him get focused than his girl aside the feelings he has for me... Please make me understand...
Its like you enjoy being fooled. I can't imagine at 27 you are asking about the red flags. I hope you don't end up single and searching at 55 or worse single mother.
Gayatri: So Sir, are you saying that if he truly loves his girl as he claimed, he would not have had eyes for me??
Yep! He is correct. Except you want to continue to suffer yourself emotionally by remaining in misery please the guy is a real player and a patient one at that. Run!
Indispensable85: Recognized or not, the party is highly factionalized across the country. The Npdp in 2015 wasn't recognized by pdp or the law. It was that faction that started the funeral of the pdp.
hush15: How has saved the day? What's the difference? You remove them as excos and rebrand them as caretaker's committee. It is still the same team and the function is still the same.
Reminds me of when they claim they have disbanded SARs and rebranded them as SWAT... The same inhumane bastards with the same inhumane functions
Sebi you go school now?? Their power has been reduced constitutionally simple.
nettpen: How has this man been able to solve Nigeria's underemployment. Don't talk about N-power that gives youths job for 2 years and throw you back into unemployment. Stop over hyping mediocre. Even Fashola is better than him.
Fash that couldn't solve power problem talk more of housing or transport.
nettpen: Nobody in Nigerian politics is underrated. When a politician is good, he is good. Osibanjo nor join for good leaders. Stop this your stylish political washing
Di you have a better option? please let's hear it.
Indispensable85: How does this solve the problem? He only just complicated the situation. In many states there are two excos,it would've made more sense to dissolve and set up a neutral committee. Although this your speculation has not been reported in any known media.
There is only one exco in every state recognised by the national APC.
Nuttella: If its true, then the man is acting under the influence of a demon. Maybe a succubus at that. How can you sit on a 3 months old woman and beat her if you are not possessed by an evil spirit. He needs hot deliverance.
You have only heard her side! A woman who comes to social media to iron her matrimonial issue can't be trusted.
udoekere: I have heard stories of people getting intimate through social media and even here on nairaland. so have you ever dated someone you met on social media?.
Share your experience?
There is this girl I met on FB we started chatting and gradually fell in love with each other though the relationship didn't last because she was still having an affair with her ex
saaphiere: Regina Daniels die-hard fans have taken to the streets of Port Harcourt in Rivers state to stage a protest against Regina Daniels husband "Ned Nwoko" from marrying another wife. Recall that on an interview days back, Ned Nwoko hinted that he could marry another wife. Fans of Regina Daniels didn't find his statement funny has they taken to the streets to protest.
Family › Re: Is It Appropriate To Call My Elder Brother's Wife By Her Name. by Dong2: 8:48am On Dec 15, 2020
