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Family › Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by donjobill: 8:44am On Nov 19, 2019

cococandy:
Emotional detachment from your own husband ke?

How’s that possible?

After spending so many years with someone, they become a part of you and if you lose them, it like losing a part of you. There’s no emotional detachment from that.

@ bolded

a successful businessman would equally say after spending so many years building & developing his business to become a success, it becomes part of him, if he loses it, is like losing part of him.

# undue attachment is a vice that one can learn to outgrow through emotional growth towards emotional maturity.

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Family › Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by donjobill: 6:45am On Nov 19, 2019

cococandy:
Losing my husband to death.

I think that’s one of my greatest fears. Amongst losing my mom or my baby.

#Shivers.

Learn emotional detachment. Not easy though. But we'll worth the effort.

Family › Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by donjobill: 6:40am On Nov 19, 2019

Lindaa97:
Falling out of love or loosing myself.....

Best option is consensual open marriage, if he's open-minded to concede to it.

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Family › Re: Ann Grace Aguti: Ugandan Woman Who Married 3 Husbands by donjobill: 7:54pm On Nov 16, 2019

Joystark:
So long as she can fend for them.

Ba wahala

There's division of labour among the men; each man playing a role that he's competent at, towards her ultimate fulfillment.
For some women, it's rather difficult for only one man to cope and satisfy their cravings and demands.

Family › Re: Ann Grace Aguti: Ugandan Woman Who Married 3 Husbands by donjobill: 7:43pm On Nov 16, 2019

Blinkers:
That's the real alpha female. I tell you.

Her vagina got tough balls!!

Sure! For her to be in full charge and managing a male harem, she must be a Super-woman.

Family › Re: Ann Grace Aguti: Ugandan Woman Who Married 3 Husbands by donjobill: 7:38pm On Nov 16, 2019

Jewessgratitude:
Variety is the spice of life. What more can I say?

True!
Unfortunately, our society doesn't extend that privilege to females. To work around the monotonous lifestyle, some women opt-in for open marriage, these days. This gives them the freedom to enjoy variety, without restrictions imposed by by their hubby.

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Romance › Re: Bdsm Practices 101: Erotic Humiliation by donjobill: 10:17am On Oct 26, 2019

Myzteriouz:
Been a while

I've noticed that those who derive pleasure in humiliating others, appear to have fetish for frustrating their subjects. wink

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Romance › Re: Why Don't Women Like Domesticated Men? by donjobill: 6:54am On Sep 23, 2019

Crazyblue:
When you put it like that, I have to agree with you. Live and let live.

Exactly!
There is a category of females who are, by nature, bossy and domineering. They enjoy taking charge and control over their boyfriends and exercising authority on them. These are the type of women that find it a turn on when they dominate and domesticate their man.

Then there's is the category of females who enjoy being submissive to their men.

Romance › Re: Why Don't Women Like Domesticated Men? by donjobill: 10:44pm On Sep 22, 2019

Crazyblue:
With one of my ex who wasn't domestic enough, I would simply spell out the chores I needed done to him.

I never understand Nigerian women... How can anyone not find domesticated men so sexy.

If you need to turn me off then leave all domestic chores to me alone.

Such is life. What turns you on, may turn another woman off, and vice versa.
Sometimes one has to have deep knowledge of psychology inorder to understand someone. As long as the behaviour of a person is not harmful to us, we should learn to allow them their psychic space.

Romance › Re: How Come Most Nigerians Aren't In To S&M? by donjobill: 12:43am On Jul 22, 2019

MarjieJ98354:
BDSM = Bondage Dominance Sadomasochism. It is practised much in the USA. Personally, I have an interest in D/s. Dominance and submission. I prefer to be submissive since the majority of men in the USA are no longer alpha. Many women have to be both a man and a women in our society. It would be nice just to be the women.

I'm also curious about being a dominant to a black man. It's mostly white men in America that have a fetish of being dominated by black women. I have very little attraction to white men. I do have a fantasy of dominating a young Alpha male.

You prefer to settle down as a submissive wife. You also have an urge to explore your dominant side with a willing black play-partner.
cheesy

Romance › Re: 15 Useful Sex Accessories To Add To The Bedroom- Cnnblog.com by donjobill: 6:07am On Feb 08, 2019

Biglittlelois:
Gurl you're into BDSM, nice

Are you also a fan? cheesy

Romance › Re: Dominant Girls by donjobill: 2:49pm On Dec 22, 2018

bdsm:
Come straight and stop confusing the public. Just say u are looking for an intelligent , confident and naughty girl for friendship?

Alpha female?

Romance › Re: BDSM The Nigerian Way LMFAO (pics) by donjobill: 10:18pm On Dec 16, 2018

Ishilove:
Lmao

Hmmm!

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Female Friend Needed by donjobill: 10:35am On Dec 01, 2018

emilyone:
Females only.

My female friends would love to mingle with dominant lady like you.
In fact, among the submissive ones, are those who could cope with your temperamental and domineering nature. tongue

They're broad-minded and enlightened.

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