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Pets / Re: Cat Reading At OAU Ife, Awo Hall (Photos) by donjobill: 12:51am On Jul 18, 2018
kestolove95:
A student decided to appear in her real form

Really? A human cat? grin






Amen!! @ your sigi.
You've lost someone so dear ?

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Romance / Re: Here's Croatia Beautiful President (pic) by donjobill: 11:49pm On Jul 17, 2018
The other side of the President.

Romance / Re: Here's Croatia Beautiful President (pic) by donjobill: 11:47pm On Jul 17, 2018
A true President indeed

Romance / Re: Here's Croatia Beautiful President (pic) by donjobill: 6:58am On Jul 16, 2018
MISEDUCATIONS:
who said anything about women and sex?

I did! Look up! That's the mentality of most guys here.
Romance / Re: Here's Croatia Beautiful President (pic) by donjobill: 6:56am On Jul 16, 2018
Hisduchess:

God Bless You for this ur plain truth.


May you equally be blessed!

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Romance / Re: Here's Croatia Beautiful President (pic) by donjobill: 6:55am On Jul 16, 2018
MISEDUCATIONS:
you think if blacks in america thought like you they would be free today?

And you think they harboured that foolish mentality that women have nothing to offer society other than sex?
Romance / Re: Here's Croatia Beautiful President (pic) by donjobill: 6:23am On Jul 16, 2018
MISEDUCATIONS:
freedom is not given. [b]its taken. by force[/]. if your women are waiting for men to put them on top then they'll wait a long time.

Brute force, savage violence! I am not surprised.
This is what our men resort to, using it to bully and suppress women because they(the men) are at advantage here.
What a barbaric society! Killings here and there. Women to contest in your dirty and gruesome politics?

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Romance / Re: Here's Croatia Beautiful President (pic) by donjobill: 6:02am On Jul 16, 2018
MISEDUCATIONS:
no woman is banned from contesting the presidency or starting her own business or becoming a billionaire. women are free to be anything they want.
but no one is entitled to encouragement. if a woman needs to be encouraged to achieve her best then her mother and father didnt do their jobs. society owes no one encouragement.

Of course, a male-dominated society, according to you, owes no one encouragement and support. This is because it's already programmed in favour of men

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Romance / Re: Here's Croatia Beautiful President (pic) by donjobill: 5:56am On Jul 16, 2018
MISEDUCATIONS:
no woman is banned from contesting the presidency or starting her own business or becoming a billionaire. women are free to be anything they want.
but no one is entitled to encouragement. if a woman needs to be encouraged to achieve her best then her mother and father didnt do their jobs. society owes no one encouragement.

In such a barbaric society where even some men are not spared from being assassinated by their fellow men, much less women ?

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Romance / Re: Here's Croatia Beautiful President (pic) by donjobill: 5:32am On Jul 16, 2018
countryfive:
How dis woman come take easily become
Presidio for her country way tinubu saraki
And others dey dream of for niaja

Because she's in a more civilized environment (Country) where women are allowed and encouraged to develop their potentials. Unlike here, where men oppress and suppress the potentials of women and frustrate their efforts to develop themselves while these same men will be entertaining the foolish mentality that women have nothing to offer man other than sex.

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Romance / Re: She Asked Me "If Am Good" And I Dnt Understand Her. by donjobill: 5:06am On Jul 16, 2018
Macoylarry:


Every gal has a pvssy..we all knw wat it is...u people are all oloshos its always been blatantly obvious

Romance / Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by donjobill: 12:50am On Jul 16, 2018
Funkybabee:


Yes but you know some things does not require experience before you know the real fact about it!! E.g telling a person not should touch a fire because it might hurt, 2 death

I have been following how Iamgrey5 and babyfaceafrica are trying to let you understand what you read, with objective mind. However, you seem to be bent on allowing the viewpoints expressed here to affect you so much as to affect your attitude towards men.
As we go about our daily living, our brain is constantly bombarded with so many inputs from TV, from the papers, from videos, from friends, family, online and in real life. These inputs could affect us positively or negatively. It is our responsibility to choose to accept and allow into our brains only the inputs that will generate within us, positive attitude towards life and ignore those that will generate negative attitude within us. And our attitude towards life, in turn, determines the experiences we would be having.
If you have a positive attitude towards life, even if a negatively minded, self-centered individual enters into your life, the person cannot stay for long. Because the two of you will not sync. That is, if you maintain a positive attitude.

That's why it's important not to accept and allow any trash you are reading here enter into your brain and let it affect your attitude towards life.

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Romance / Re: I Need A Dominant Woman That’ll Use Me As Her Slave – Nigerian Man by donjobill: 9:07pm On Jul 15, 2018
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Romance / Re: Im In Lust With A Married Woman by donjobill: 6:38am On Jul 13, 2018
OP is one of those guys who don't have respect for married women yet he'll be accusing a mere girlfriend for cheating on him. You suddenly held tight someone's unsuspecting wife expecting her to slap you?

Suppose another man did this to your dear mother while she's married to your father, how would you honestly feel about it?

"Do unto others what you'll like them to do unto you" is the golden rule in all the major religions in the World.
Romance / Re: Im In Lust With A Married Woman by donjobill: 6:38am On Jul 13, 2018
undecided
Romance / Re: Opinion: It Is Wrong To Reward A Lady Who Stuck With You When You Were Poor by donjobill: 6:07am On Jul 13, 2018
I pity those ladies who waste and spend their lives around selfish and cold-hearted guys who cannot express appreciation and gratitude!

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Family / Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by donjobill: 7:02am On Jul 12, 2018
shaybebaby:

Yup, but realistically how many people can honestly put aside their ego and social conditioning to accept a different form of love?
Not many I'm guessing.

Not many! I concur. Only the open-minded & bold who are few.
Family / Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by donjobill: 6:56am On Jul 12, 2018
shaybebaby:

It's not mainstream in most places but yes, we are in agreement.
It depends on the mindset of the people involved but as with everything else, comes with its own pitfalls.

The pitfalls could be considerably narrowed down if both partners are broadminded, honest and truly love each other.
Family / Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by donjobill: 6:33am On Jul 12, 2018
Neddyogu:


And u didn't test the waters before taking a plunge? *If u know, u know* grin

How do you expect them to test the waters before plunging in, when they were practising "no sex before marriage"? grin
People create their own cells around themselves!
Family / Re: Advice Needed! Is Unhappiness A Good Reason For Divorce? by donjobill: 5:10am On Jul 12, 2018
shaybebaby:

Did you ever chemistry at any point in time? If you did, you need to search yourself and determine what changed.

Is he content with a passionless marriage I. E unbothered about the lack of intimacy?

How open are you with each other regarding your sexual needs? Do you even know what pleases you sexually? Do you know your body? Do you guys have the same attitudes towards sex?

If you are no longer attracted him, what are the things that you find unattractive?

It seems you have a lot going for you in this marriage, might be time to think outside the box on the passion thing.
You could discuss an open marriage with him.
Or find a way to enact your sexual fantasies with him (party, dogging etc, whichever one rocks your boat)

My point is if you are the naughty sort of girl, unleash her but include him. And also find out his fantasies.

You got your man girl, now go on and be as bad you both want to be TOGETHER.

Obviously, if you still can't find a way to be on the same wavelength sexually, then you may have to go your separate ways.

Sha don't have kids till things are resolved between you two.



Open marriage is not popular here. Discussing it with a partner might even trigger negative reaction. Yet, its the solution to some of the relationships that are devoid of fulfillment.

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Romance / Re: Stop Killing Your Husbands...our Man by donjobill: 6:20am On Jul 09, 2018
Mariinee:
Oh, I just noticed your signature. grin
But, women can hardly be friends with each other when it comes to sharing a man. I, for one. Well, unless the man learns to be really equal in his dealings with all his wives. grin

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Romance / Re: Stop Killing Your Husbands...our Man by donjobill: 6:09am On Jul 09, 2018
Amazonboss:
ASSOCIATION OF MISTRESSES AND SIDE CHICKS (A.M.S.C)

Dear wives at home, we write to you in dismay of what has now become a trend pushed mainly by heartless Feminists to stab "our" husbands to death once you find out he is seeing us.

We are ashamed of you women who think the only way to deal with us is to kill "our husband". He doesn't deserve to die for seeing us, we love him just like you do, we feel jealous too when we call him and he tells us, " John, I can't talk now, I will call you back". Yea! We feel bad when he calls us John just so you don't kill him. We are not "Johns" or "Mechanic" or "Uncle". We are Mary, Blessing, Folake, Gloria, Amaka, Amina, etc. And we love him too not because he gives us money or buys us gifts. We even give him gifts too, we assist him pay your children school fees too, we cook for him in our homes too, we " Bleep" him good or even better than you do but still we are sharing him with you not with the intention to make him dump you or Stop caring for you. Not all of us are gold diggers. Some of us are business executives, some of us are richer than you and him combined, some of us are well off. He will never tell you how he bought that car you love to seat in the front, we assisted him. We borrow him money when he goes broke. That house you think he built within months, I wish you can ask him how much of our support went in too.

Why kill him to punish yourself and the kids you bare with him? Ain't you now so foolish to not only be on your way to die but to put your kids in forever status as orphans, all because you don't want to share him with us? Is it not enough for you that you gave him kids before us, is it not enough that all his assets are in your kids names? Is it not enough that we hardly date him publicly because we respect you and your marriage to him? Why still kill him? You are the fool and you deserve to rot in jail or be hanged by your neck until your tongue stretches out of your mouth like a roasted goat in Aduwawa market.

We are women like you, we are sometimes not even more beautiful than you, but then we treat him sometimes better. We don't nag at him, we don't give him hell, we would rather pamper him and pet him to sleep in our homes even if it is just one night in a whole month. But you have him the most, you are still not satisfied. You would rather kill him so you can be Landlady, boss and breadwinner. You are the foolish one I repeat, not us.

You don't understand men, even after marriage of more than 10years, men are like grown babies, they will keep crying loudly when that demand is not met. When that thing they crave is being denied them, they will fume, loathe and bask in anger of defeat. It is in their DNA and we don't like to see them bruised or their ego banged. There is never a time a woman will be enough for one man, societal values and norms pressed down the biological nature of males. We as women are also polygamous, why don't you take the polygamous option and find yourself a man outside too instead of killing him? Why must you take a life you never gave him? He still has his parents and you made him die before his parents. You are wicked and wicked idiots like that fat Amoeba feminist based in Canada glorify such killings.

We are not ghosts, we are human beings, we are your sisters and friends and we ought to love him and respect him and not to stab him. Do you think we don't feel jealous when those cold night stares us in the face and he is rather with you? Do you think that dick is not missed over here most nights? Why kill him when you could just walk away from the marriage and let us come in and be happily married to him? Why kill him you bloody murderer!!!!

We miss him now, you have taken our joy away, his clothes are still here, he told us he would not mind a second wife which we are gladly willing to become, after all, husbands are so scarce to find and we don't need to risk menopause when his seed can easily make all of us mums even in one year alone.

I hope the law deals with you and make you suffer brutally for being a heartless prick. I hope you die in pains and anguish as you put him through. He was your husband, so he was our man too.

Sincerely Yours.

Paulinus Okpere

Attorney to:

ASSOCIATION OF MISTRESSES AND SIDE CHICKS
(A.M.S.C)


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Family / Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by donjobill: 5:12am On Jul 09, 2018
Amazonboss:



While I may agree with you sir about his state of mind towards marriage, Marriage is God's business not a social construct per say.

I also think same,but will have a kid and train my kid. I so love peace and happiness. Except of course I find a weird type like me I may reconsider. But until then........ plans are underway to prepare financially for myself and kid.
Family / Re: Is It Normal That I Don't Want To Get Married Or Have Kids? by donjobill: 12:03am On Jul 09, 2018
Biglittlelois:



I dont want to be religious, but God realised Adam needs Eve cos he figured he will be lonely, so i believe once a male is born a female is born or out there for him and vice versa

From which authority stems this believe system?

Just being curious
Romance / Re: Can You Marry A Man Like Your Father Or A Woman Like Your Mother by donjobill: 10:50pm On Jul 08, 2018
Romance / Re: Why Is Dating Such A Challenge? by donjobill: 10:33am On Jul 07, 2018
MariaLavina:
Quit the generalization, some people still have a clear understanding of what dating means.
To you dating is for fun, to some it isn't. smiley

Different strokes for different folks!
Romance / Re: Do you think this matters in a relationship by donjobill: 7:55am On Jul 07, 2018
DrNueLpureHoney:
Many at times,some of us do ask this question

Does Age really matter in any relationship. ?

Just air your view

Matured minds only

What do you mean by relationship? It has broad meaning. Narrow it down.
Romance / Re: Relationship Honestly Sucks When U Dont Love Back by donjobill: 7:48am On Jul 07, 2018
@op.
I don't know what your definition of love is.
I can't imagine seeing someone who genuinely loves me without me loving that person. However when it comes to commitment, then that's entirely something else. I can love a person without getting committed to that person and also not allowing that person to get committed to me. What you're doing is deliberately leading this girl, through your behaviour, and probably through your utterances, to get more and more committed to you while deep inside you, you know you'll never get committed to her. Thereby giving her false hope that with time you too will be committed to her. You're being viciously selfish, I am afraid.

There is always a polite way of making it consistently clear to her that you don't want the two of you to be committed to each other, without breaking her heart. But from what you stated, (" cos I want to tell her the truth to today" ) it is clear you're looking for ways to break her heart. Like a sadist using the unsuspecting girl as a pawn.

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