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CrimeRe: Cubana Chief Priest On Rape: Don’t Wait For Rapist To Be Rich Before Reporting by donpata(m): 4:33pm On Jun 07, 2020
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Technology MarketRe: Drone Services(4k Resolution Drones) by donpata(m): 8:03am On May 25, 2020
How far can it go away from its control pad?
Technology MarketRe: Is It Appropriate To Buy From Aliexpress At This Time? by donpata(m): 8:02am On May 25, 2020
The major problem is except you gonna ship through dhl and co, post office shipping is gonna be frustrating in this lockdown. The post office is affected by lockdown so Imagine the backlog they need to clear. I won't ship anything now until in next 4 months. It's frustrating knowing your goods have arrived Nigeria but you can't get it cos of backlog.
FamilyRe: After Serving Him Food, He Said I Didnt Give Him Drinking Water by donpata(m): 5:32pm On May 14, 2020
Hathor5:
I think the story is cooked up but let me give you the benefit of the doubt.

When you serve people food, you serve whatever is needed to enjoy the food along with it, be it water to drink, to wash hands, napkins or spoons. If you need someone (your boyfriend) to lend you a helping hand then you simply say "Babe, can you please get the water already?/ Would you please be so kind and get the water?/Can you help me a little please?"

Now I don't know how he asked why you didn't bring them water because the tone matters but the question is justified. Why not? If you feel that you should not bring water because you came to his place sweating then maybe you should not have come in the first place. Doing something for someone you care about should not feel like a sacrifice neither should it stress you. If for some reason his request is inconvenient, you can always say no for whatever reason. You are his girlfriend, not his slave. But please don't do anything and then complain. Give cheerfully or don't give at all. Do what you have to do properly or don't do it at all. If you can only do half, communicate why you want support.

Your choice of words is also revealing. You said that "since morning hes been disturbing" you. If he is such a nuisance, why are you two together?

What I find disturbing about your boyfriend though is that he wants you to cook for his mother at your first visit to his parent's house.
I will go with this. Except if you don't want to marry him, this is how he's going to know a wife material. You don't serve someone food and expect them to go and get water. They could as well just serve themselves. I see no big deal in this cos to me, this is normal. You serve food, you should serve water as well. If you can't, u can simply ask him to do it and not sit expecting it to be so. I think the guy simply expects that as a lady, it should be something u should ordinarily know hence his tone.

Plus let's not pretend not to know that one of a woman's major responsibility to a man is in the kitchen. It's not just an African thing. It's the same even in the Western world we copy. It doesn't make women any less of humans but our roles are different and it has been like this since creation.
To me, but for the tone or manner he spoke, there is nothing special about what he expected of you, girlfriend or wife not withstanding.
AutosRe: N1,200,000 or Less Tokunbo Cars by donpata(m): 7:01pm On May 13, 2020
TotoNaRubber:
See as all the Cars fine for Canadian soil but as soon as the cars touch down Nigeria, the harsh economic hardship can be seen all over the cars, Nigeria is a terrible place.
I have wondered over this too. The cars look real toks in Canada but the Nigerian pix looks more like naija fairly used. Me na observer sha
Technology MarketRe: For Sale: Used 1.5HP Split Unit LG Airconditioner ( Photos) by donpata(m): 7:21am On May 13, 2020
obidevine:
You don ever use AC for your life before ? Mugu.
Rubbish. I won't take it even for 60k. How much be new one?
FamilyRe: I Was Raped Tonight by donpata(m): 7:44am On May 04, 2020
holocron:
@bolded, gives the story away as fake. One man stuffs cloth into mouth without his fingers bitten off. One man tieing hand behind back, and laying the woman on her back. Her hands would surely break, and no mention of that. Sorry. Story is not plausible, even as fiction. It would have been more believable if the woman was drugged.
I tire ohh. Just one man, gagged her and she was begging him, maybe with her hands abi with gestures. Then he went on to tie her hands and like Isaac, she submitted. Then he pulled her trouser, her panties and opened her legs and poured oil and she was still begging. I tire for this girl's story.
FamilyRe: I Was Raped Tonight by donpata(m): 7:27am On May 04, 2020
eyinjuege:
Men are physically stronger than women, and a weapon isn't needed to subdue a victim. The man in question is probably bigger than her.
Many dead victims of domestic violence didnt die from a weapon but from the fists of their assaulters.
Some professional boxers have died on the ring during boxing matches, some have been completely knocked out flat. Blows have removed people's teeth due to the force/power behind such blows
The fist was the weapon used.
You heard that he gagged her before proceeding.
Just pray never to find yourself in such a scenario
Oga, the major reason this guy succeeded was cos she let him. He slapped her and that was it. A part of her was still telling her, "he's your bf after all." I still insist that it ain't easy to rape a woman. Even two men will have to struggle to do that. I have seen a video where 3 guys couldn't succeed cos the lady simply didn't let them. I understand she was naive but the earliest attempt is sufficient to force her to leave the house. Even with gagging, she could still scream. Abi he taped her mouth?
I believe less of the story tough.
CultureRe: My Marriage To Oluwo Built On Falsehood –chanel by donpata(m): 2:45am On May 04, 2020
Hmmm
FamilyRe: I Was Raped Tonight by donpata(m): 2:00am On May 04, 2020
I hope this is true story. If it is, I hope you find healing soon enough. However, I do wonder how one man will rape a woman without her letting him. Except when weapons are involved, it's almost impossible for one man to rape a woman when she is fully conscious. Imagine having that thoughts for the rest of your life. That's emotional torture and you were unfair to yourself. Tried protecting him from shame and now you gonna carry this for as long as..... Hmmm.

That is why the law of God is written for our safe walk in this world. You went to his house, slept over and was "making out". Now, it's you feeling the pain, and not really God whom you disobeyed. Wish you healing.
FamilyRe: Anyone With An Excellent Sewing Machine? Kaduna Or Abuja by donpata(op): 7:42pm On May 03, 2020
moonberry:
I have one for sale but I am in plateau state, Jos to be precise.
What is the state of the machine? We can work it out if it's clean and excellent enough. Can u post pix plz
FamilyAnyone With An Excellent Sewing Machine? Kaduna Or Abuja by donpata(op): 12:24pm On May 03, 2020
I need to get a sewing machine for a friend. I don't know much about it though. I think I will prefer one from a direct owner and bought brand new. Kaduna is my base. Abuja or Jos is alternative.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Singer Industrial Sewing Machine Call 09065360133 by donpata(m): 7:39am On May 03, 2020
No location, no price angry
Technology MarketRe: Is This An Original LG TV by donpata(m): 8:19pm On May 02, 2020
A 55 Inch LG smart for 130k? I doubt. huh
PoliticsRe: "The Satanic Trinity Of El-Rufai, His Son And His Wife" By Reno Omokri by donpata(m):
This guy properly captured who Elrufai is. Only people who don't understand his craftiness praise him. A sworn ethnoreligious bigot to the core. I am from Kaduna so I know what I am saying. During the 2019 elections, elrufai was clearly not gonna win the election. He decided to play the religious card. Few months to election, He started by saying he will demolish an entire Christan settlement if they respond to any crisis by blocking the road thus earning him accolades from Muslims who initially swore they won't vote him. Then the worst came.... They imported preachers from Gombe and for the first time since 1999 in Kaduna State, we heard over radio that the election was a Jihad against Christians that every Muslim must pursue. Over radio ohh and nothing was done against the radio station that allowed that. If it had been the other way round, the license of that station would have been revoked same day.

Then now, the moment you cross over river Kaduna to the Southern part of the state, you won't see a sign of anything called government presence. You won't see those caterpillars. Not a single one. Road in the northern part that see no traffic are been duallised while in the Southern part of Kaduna, they don't even grade the muddy roads let alone put that on it. He has now approved 4 new satellite campuses of the Kaduna State University in Kubau, Lere, Birnin Gwari and Makarfi and has even started the process of moving the university to its permanent site in Rigachukun all in the northern section of the State. The annoying thing is that he is doing these capital projects with loans he collected on every citizens head. I see Southerners praising him and I say, " una no go know".

Here in Kaduna, he deals with citizens not indigenes. Make no mistake cos he has some Yorubas and Igbos in his cabinet, that this is great. It's a scheme to allow Fulanis from Mali to take sensitive positions even when many indigenes are qualified. If Elrufai ever becomes a VP, he will render the president irrelevant and scheme to take over. Worst is if he becomes president. Fulanis living longer than 5yrs in Lagos and Enugu will be made ministers representing those states on the guise that he deals with citizens and not indigenes.
Technology MarketRe: A Sincere Review Of Mtn Lumos Solar Electricity by donpata(m): 12:01pm On Apr 06, 2020
SimpleLuxuries:
Hi. I like your detailed info. Please what can a 500W inverter carry?
Basic household electronics have their wattage rating indicated on them and they vary even for same appliance based on differences in technology, size and manufacturer.
I would advice you use Google to look at the basic ratings for common Appliances.
Eg.
A 43 inch modern LED TV could consume abt 80-100watts
A laptop 30-100 watts
Decoder/DVD 20-50watts
Standing fan 50-100watts

The list goes on. Just check the ratings of your alliances and sum them up to get total needs.
Technology MarketRe: A Sincere Review Of Mtn Lumos Solar Electricity by donpata(m): 10:36am On Mar 31, 2020
JayJayGee:
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1. Yes, the wattage of ur laptop is even insignificant when looking at what solar power can handle. There are small solar systems that power AC's. Your wattage is less than 200 so a small 500watt inverter of about N10k will do (though without nepa charging).

2. There is an inverter with charger attached to it. The cheaper one is about 20k but if you get public power over reasonable hours, I will advice you get a pure sine wave inverter like Eastman or Mopower. Goes for about 40k. It works with Nepa and can do Solar as well.

Lastly, I can't give u a good quote now cos it depends on your budget. However, without a panel, all you need is an inverter and battery. 100ah battery is abt N50k. Fairly good pure sine wave inverter is N40k for about 500watts. Cheaper Modified sine wave (which will still serve you) is abt N20k-N30k. 'China' type will be less. These inverters can charge with Nepa and solar.

However, if you decide to add a solar component to the system, add extra N30K for panel, controller and wires.
Technology MarketRe: Longer Lasting Laptop Battery ⚡⚡ For Sale by donpata(m): 6:03am On Feb 29, 2020
ruphytelecom:
We do not have it but will search for it and get back to you
Ok. Pls do. Waiting....
Technology MarketRe: Longer Lasting Laptop Battery ⚡⚡ For Sale by donpata(m): 5:30am On Feb 29, 2020
I need battery for LG S53

Technology MarketRe: A Sincere Review Of Mtn Lumos Solar Electricity by donpata(m): 7:12pm On Feb 18, 2020
ineaghe:
I love this thread. Do I need to add anything to these to set up a system that will mostly be used for powering my laptop? Any recommendations on what to buy and set up a system at minimal cost that can give me about 15 hours usuage for my laptop?
15hrs? Better save and buy a good battery.
AutosRe: Volkswagen Golf 2 by donpata(m): 10:50pm On Jan 21, 2020
I have 10bags of maize. Let's exchange pls. Serious buyer..
Technology MarketRe: A Sincere Review Of Mtn Lumos Solar Electricity by donpata(m): 3:17am On Jan 04, 2020
coolangel54:
Please, I am so done with MTN lumos box. Imagine charging it in this harmattan from morning till night and getting only 50%? I have called customer care twice and they keep saying clean the panel (I o=don tire to clean), do this , do that. Does anyone have an idea of how I can get a cheap solar panel here in Delta?
Just go to the market. 100watts is around 16k. But ur problem may not actually be panel sha
Technology MarketRe: All 120pieces sold out..Dell E6520, intel Core i5 , 4gb Ram , 500gb Hdd by donpata(m): 6:55pm On Dec 22, 2019
How much to waybill to Kaduna?
PhonesRe: Which Phone With Quality Camera Can I Get With #36,000? by donpata(m): 5:57pm On Dec 19, 2019
Priapus69:
Redmi Note 7 for sale 35k
Location, pics?
PhonesRe: Which Phone With Quality Camera Can I Get With #36,000? by donpata(m): 5:34am On Dec 18, 2019
Either u look for Nokia 6 or LG G6 on AliExpress. Note that these ones are refurbished ones but they should be good. U can't get new ones close to that. U can also look for redmi 8. At this budget, don't get lured by phones with 3 cameras like umidigi, blackview and co. They are very bad in camera and can't beat the likes of Nokia even with just one camera. If you care less abt camera like me, then u can go for those ones. I am currently using an ulefone p6000 with dual camera but I tell u the cam is rubbish.
PoliticsRe: Why Akpabio Withdrew From Senatorial Rerun - PDP by donpata(m): 8:07pm On Dec 13, 2019
abbasajao:
Pls which is bigger between a senator and minister?
A Senator and Minister are almost same. Though cos a minister is a member of executive council, he is closer to the president and wields great powers over a whole federal institution. He gives contracts and could easily facilitate employment of his constituents in his ministry and other ministries headed by friends, u also easily travel abroad to meet counterparts. Your name is heard nationally and internationally almost daily. Soooo, On the surface, it seems the minister is better especially in a good ministry. Deiziani comes to mind. This notwithstanding, the President can wake up on the wrong side of the bed and sack you at anytime Even on the others of his wife. Even Maman Daura can facilitate your sack. Also, most ministers have less grip of the local politics back home.

On the other hand, a Senator is elected. No one can remove him. His four years is sure except if he is recalled by his constituents as attempted on Dino Melaye. He also has a better avenue to interact with the people and get a firm grip of the local politics through constituency projects and appointments of useless aides.

That said, take the position of minister to be a bank job paying you 200k monthly and that of a nurse in a Fed govt hospital recieving 120k monthly. The minister works more and his failure is easily seen. The senator does almost nothing but by sharing rice during Christmas and Sallah, he is praised and seen as a god. Also, while the bank can lay off the former over a flimsy excuse, the latter's job is almost always sure.
AutosRe: Buying Car From Cars45.com by donpata(m): 2:58am On Dec 13, 2019
There have been alot of complains about them. If you pay downpayment, it means nothing like I no do again. U must buy from them by force.
BusinessRe: What Legit Business Can One Start With 2million? by donpata(m): 6:08am On Dec 10, 2019
Macsjebs:
Will ask sha, someone rented a family shop for baking bread and I don't think she spent up to 2 million, though she had the equipments before...can't say sha coz now that equipments like that are costly but doubt if he will spend up to 2m, thought shop space alone can gulp up to 500k for two years or more depending on vicinity
Except if na just small chops bakery. But if na commercial bakery, hmmm! Oven alone go chop that 2m
BusinessRe: Fraud Allegation: Allen Onyema's Lawyers React With A Press Release by donpata(m): 7:09pm On Nov 23, 2019
My problem with all this is that the big bully will just collect that money they claim is fraudulent, knowing full well it's from Nigeria. Dem go just chop am clean mouth. That money is big money to us here. Return it back instead of feeding off poor Nigeria
Technology MarketRe: A Sincere Review Of Mtn Lumos Solar Electricity by donpata(m): 10:07am On Nov 17, 2019
ugom123:
No bro. Not me. I am replying now with my second acct since my other acct was banned due to political opinion.

But I wasn't the one who WhatsApp u.
Send me a msg on johndogo86@gmail.com then
Technology MarketRe: A Sincere Review Of Mtn Lumos Solar Electricity by donpata(m): 10:45pm On Nov 16, 2019
Princedapace:
Hi bro, u are just the few here who stated the truth with sincerity. Pls, I will be sending you a message, kindly do accept it so that i can contact you privately for guide. I want to install this and I am ready to spend 150k for this as long as it can carry me well. Your sincere guide will help me. I live where I get up to 7 hours of electricity per day on a normal day, so I need at least 10 hours to completely feel comfortable with electricity. I dont need much to carry, just my tv, laptop and fans.
I believe you are same person I chatted with on WhatsApp?
PoliticsRe: Jonathan’s Kinsmen Celebrate PDP’s Defeat by donpata(m): 8:37pm On Nov 16, 2019
HacheNoire:
It is finished!

When you want to know useless states men, Evaluate their influence in their home state.

Atiku, Obasanjo, Jonathan, Bukola Saraki and the likes
Atiku can't be on your list. He has proven his ability to take control of his state since he left the presidency. Obasanjo is worst I among them when it comes to local politics

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