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UselessBuharist:
The level of intolerance in marriages today is just too much.

Should we blame civilisation?

Nah, Women are now Also Bread Winners Unlike Before .....

The economic Realities is that Men Can't Fulfil the Obligations of the Family Alone Without Wife Assistance if not the Man will die in no time ....

Women now have a "say" in the bigger societies or say "City" Unlike the ancient village life While Women are also Better Informed about their Rights & Expectations Unlike olden Days......

Men has been fvcking up since year 0 but Women of Internet age has had enough ... She Can Divorce & still hold herself high in the society without any stigma ....

Divorce doesn't mean the end of the world unlike before where everyone in the village will cast You for Abandoning Your Matrimonial Home....

Western Civilisations could be thought off to be at odd With African Values But African Ancient Civilisations is very wicked to Women & their Children without any form of accountability from Men Laslas ... The world is getting fusion into one Culture alot shall change across all Civilisations....

Nowadays, Na Divorce & Blow ooo .... Dem go come turn marriage counsellor ...

If not for stigma, an Average Woman has a million craze running in her head beyond what an average man can handle so developed a Masculine Sense & Hold Your God very well if not, The Present Realities is Anti-Marriage

DonBenny77:
Sorry.
I've observed this with most comedians.
The wife of their youth always leaves them at some point.
Initially they fall head over heels "his funny he make me laugh and I love him" yen yen yen!"
They mostly get tired of the clowning on the long run.

Most is Bothered on Infidelity... Marriage Management is different from Showbiz Management.... Laslas The Facade & Pancakes would wear off & Reality would roll its head .....

It takes a well Pysched Man to Cheat on Well Psyched Women & Still have its Way in This dispensation if Not, That Marriage is as good as Gone once your woman is Out ....

Immediately a woman is also Tatata Outside, That Marriage yaff also Gone ... Most Women Don't have the Mental Spheres to Manage Emotions from Multiple Sources, She will Settle for where She Feels Good ... Otilor!

EreluRoz:
When he couldn't keep his penis in one place

This men will use their penis to scatter marriage and cry fowl when the woman moves on.
Very randy and unrepentant cheat. His wife is rich and beautiful yet he cheats on her and even beat her.

Na you cheat na you still Dy beat. No man in this life can hit me, I'll never forgive him.
Beating wey I no receive for my papa house na wan somebody's son go kom Dy beat me. Neverrrrrrr

e Fit Happen to Anyone ...
Anyway, Men are to Be Blamed for losing the Ship ..... It's Not Easy But a Commander Must Never Lost His Ship Unfortunately This Is Information age ... Women ain't what they used to Be Which was Sub-Human Nowadays Women are too Sophisticated for Men to Manage Thus Men needed to Up Their Psyche Games or Lose his Home ....

But I hope Government will respond to Raising Kids that find themselves in the street if not Urchins would litter everywhere leading to Security Issues ....

Marriage has definitely Failed Because Women are The Pillars of Marriage since Year 0 due to endurance of Olden Days Shits of Men but No-More ....

Gen Z Baddies & Gen Alpha Would Divorce Anything Anyhow ... Future of Marriage no go Plum ....

Kobojunkie:
Stop lying! Come on now!! Stop deluding yourselves abeg! He never asked for any of man's idea of goodness so why bother offering that to him when he said even that is an abomination to him?

... Early Monday Morning .... Kobo-Junkie ...
I skipped all Your Posts On Nairaland, Don't Use Your Madness to Make Me Mad 😜🏃

Mo ya run-Away 🏃

MrBrownJay1:
mine is the story of all these highly respected men of the bible (King David/Solomon, Abraham, Jacob etc) that were obviously fornicators with countless concubines, babymamas and mistresses yet were not seen as sinners...

the only one that was remotely punished for such act, was simply because he had sex with a MARRIED woman. but if the women were single, there was never any problem with being a fornicator.

its the hypocrisy of the bible as it is obvious the bible sees nothing wrong with a man having multiple wives, as below verse shows:
Deuteronomy 21:15
15 If a man has two wives, and he loves one but not the other, and both bear him sons but the firstborn is the son of the wife he does not love,

Exodus 21:10
10 If he marries another woman, he must not deprive the first one of her food, clothing and marital rights.

Judges 8:30
30 He had seventy sons of his own, for he had many wives.

2 Chronicles 11:21
21 Rehoboam loved Maakah daughter of Absalom more than any of his other wives and concubines. In all, he had eighteen wives and sixty concubines, twenty-eight sons and sixty daughters.
... and the list goes on.

The essence is for You to know God is not expecting Perfectionism from Any Human ... Just Give You Better Best in The Project of "Good" Which is Advancements of Humanities & Don't Be a Satan(Destroyer of Humanities) ...

If You Advanced Humanities, You will be Rewarded for your contribution!

If You think You can be Hitler or Pharaoh, Allied Forces or Your Moses shall be created to Downed You ....

Life noh go too far na all this fanatic religionist make everything be one kain making themselves More Godly Than God Itself!

Divoc19:
Bed. We order food or learn on YouTube. Teaching a matured woman how to be good in bed is almost impossible in this part of the world especially when she is too religious.

Never say Never .... Every Human has this Animalistic Instincts in Us Sanity keeps us from Unveiling But Once You see Someone That Can Spark Some Madness In You Even Mummy G.O would Go Gaga on The Bed ...

Women are The Most Indecent Gender They Just Need Someone to Help them Connect the Sparkling Plugs 🔌 Both Mental(Psychological). & Physical Na you go Run When The Fire Pops!

KillIgbohoN0W:
Exactly.

3mins is too short to read all 15 and come back to start solving #1 so 99% will read #1, solve, move to #2, solve and so forth...


Dumb examiner.
I wouldn't want to work for them anyway.

I read my All My Questions first before attempting them ... This give me the opportunities to find the cheap Questions & weigh my options on the difficult questions!

Temiii69:
This man talks too much, i dont trust him

olohun!

Eriokanmi:
...there was no emergency medical care on the train....hmmm! Nigeria my kontiri

The Saddest Part !

We are just wicked people disguising under religion!

Balablue64:
A real definition of a good girl, this is the kind of girl i can't empty my bank account for bride price.
Jennyclay and ahnie would be very jealous right now.

Until You get Closer to Her & Her Personality, World View is Light Years Apart from Yours ....

Don't judge a person from long distance... Get Closer First !

Gift96:
Of course, those circles exist.
Those are evil cycles you should pray against. Most are spiritual and it works like a chain-effect.

You can't just be sleeping, waking up and , going to work without considering prayers against negative patterns. You don't have to wait till it happens before you start praying.

Some are Spiritual due to some dieties some characters are already pledged/Convenanted Upon ... But Normal human Algorithms, You are derived from your parental Materials... You Inherited them Already!

Darlingme:
So, we got arguing about some things today and someone said, family patterns does really exist. Making references to certain family where divorce, late marriage, hot anger, barrenness and other ugly situations occured in cyclic form.
What's your understanding of all these?

Does it really exist?
Like what happened to a great grandfather, happened to a grandfather, then to the son.

Or like some family, the first born usually have a particular attribute from generation to generation.
If truly it does, how can it be change?

It's Hereditary.. Like You are a By-product of Your Parent ... The Materials That Your Soul Evolved from Was From Their Materials Thus You are Bound to Basically Behaved Same as They Do But ... Education, Civilisations Most times Shall Reshaped Your Orientations!

Nevertheless, Some people even with PhD or This Free Information World, They Won't Change from Their Ancestral Ways .... !

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Yoruba
"Omoluabi"- Well-Behaved & Humanitarian People ....

We are also "Badbois-Daemons" On Women Matters With Ace Bedmatics !...

Gadafii:
You shouldn't have asked her out, real bad guys don't ask girls out in this age and time, as una don dey vibe well before you asked her out, you could have suggested a hangout to her, your house being one of the options, but you won't make it look like she was just coming to your house for coming sake

Tell her you are going to make a nice jollof rice and you would like her to have a taste and give a review as no lady has tasted your jollof before
Or ask her to hang out anywhere nice, secluded and cool.

You literature start being part of her life by asking to know important things about her life like career, passion, fun, bring sexual ineundos to your conversations, complimenting her dress and occasionally her beauty.

This is what you should have done, but as he don cast like this, slowly withdraw attention and energy from her, don't be desperate to text or call her, go get busy with your life, if she asks what's up why the change, tell her you don't know what she meant by being just a friend, you want to explore and experience a lot with her, being just friends sounds limiting

Baddo!

Benwallt:
Allen is the kind of Igbo that should have his name on the ballot not one satanic crook soaked in bigotry from Agulu fouling the air here and there in palpable confusion.

Kai, Ur mouth 👄 be like kettle

questioner:
If you are raised in a big city, preferably Lagos,
You are a educated Yoruba boy (or maybe Igbo).
You have a good, white collar Job
You have a house (flat),
you are clean, speak good english and not thugish.
You now have a good ride.

If you move to a smaller state, girls will see you the way a Lagos babe will see an IJGB from the US or UK.

In fact, with a good car, you are almost 90% certain of banging any interested girl within 2 days of meeting her.

Take her out on day 1, invite her to your house day 2.

You self like to Shalaye ooo ... U go like wahala small no be lie .... There shall always be doubting Thomas & They will frustrate you outa ya own thread .....

The deal is to "Ignore Them" ... Shalayeing is giving them more Energies to give you wahala wasting your fingers on Uncivil Elements

Yes of Course .... How do you build trust

Uncle96:
You’re right but bro , trust me you don’t wanna deal with her type of person . You’ll spend the rest of your life with a woman who seems bitter and angry about most things , who hold grudges and could talk to you like crap when she’s angry

I Understand Bro, I'm Tired of Managing Maniacs ..... Once You ain't Peace to Me Nor Peace of Mind ..... if I No see You Bounce, I Shall Bounce Myself !

No time for Chaos & Crisis !

EreluRoz:
God bless you

Wow, Wife Material .. You are so Beautiful! Amen to Your Prayer 🙏 Oshe!

EreluRoz:
Eiya please do us proud and come out in flying colors.

Wawu, Trust Me... This is My Last Diet.. Newest ACA in the Building, Amen 🙏

Uncle96:
Her wide hips and big asss, slim thick.. gives the best head, great cook, very clean , met her a virgin so I enjoyed the rubber alone , great cook and her cooking skills were mad. But she get anger issues

There is Never a Human Without Side-Effect .... Never a Perfect Human Being ..... In fact If I see a Human Without Side Effect(The Negative Traits), I Run because That's gonna be a disaster I may not be able to Fathom Once it Pops ....!

EreluRoz:
Where have you been? Have you started your adventurous journey?

I'm always Here, Just That I Respond to Post Frequently... Not Many Interesting Topic Like that Anymore.

I ain't doing Any Adventure oo ... I'm Writing My Last Diet of ICAN so Just Kinda Busy ...

Tallesty1:
Still I understand

She never date before !

EreluRoz:
If so why did you both eventually go seperate ways, how can you just leave someone you've spent so much time with, I don't know how people leave those they claim to love and that's why I said you guys didn't take your time because you would have found out and see the reasons for not starting a relationship together.

Wareva

U tatafo too Much .... Share U no Share ... u Come dey Hustle person wey Share... Make una dey Calm Down Na

Oche211:
Erisco foods messed up big time.

They had two options at the beginning of the saga and none involved the police.

1. Just keep quiet and allow her review go down quietly without saying anything or doing anything.

2. Reach out to her immediately. Offer to carry out an investigation. Invite her over for a facility or factory tour and even ask her to meet the CEO.
During the joking moments, let the CEO offer to give her some paste and ask if she can cook with it for everyone and let all management team eat the food together with her. She will gladly accept that offer.

Get some camera and capture the whole moment. Make sure it gets to the network news and let everyone watch the moment she does the cooking and the CEO as well as other management staff eating with her on a dinning table. Just a few carton of tomatoes paste as souvenir, an Uber money to take her home and watch her change her review sharp sharp.

Get a good PR team to spin the whole saga as a strong marketing tool.

Like I said, they messed up a good opportunity to scale up on marketing.

1x2 When Your Cup Don Full ... E yaff Full ....

They we trying to turn it into PR but It casted ...

If they adopt your Model, it will still cast Noni...

When God is Ready for You Both Positive & Negative Shall Work Against You

When God Blesses You, Both Positive & Negative Shall Work for You .... No Stress!

Kusheer:
What’s the proof she’s actually a witch they called her lol Igbo people still never civilized

So Akwa Ibom is Igbo for Your Eyes ... African & Uncivilisation ...

Which More help do we need

Fahvvy:
I'm really honoured sir that you would care so much, as to want to play an integral part in my wedding. Sincerely, I am grateful...

We actually do have everything covered for the wedding, so just gracing with your presence will add color to my special day...

This is exactly what I would say to him...
I won't present him with any list...
I won't make any request...
I won't throw any gimmicks to get cash from him...

I'll just want him to come around and make sure to honor him very well if he comes...

If You are OverHumble In Life, You Will Missed Many Opportunities ....

Make Specific Requests Not Bogus Requests ...
Either of the following within Reasonable Budgets:

Hall-
Catering/Drinks Services
In-Laws Gifts
Honeymoon Fees ... etc

Agozskey:
So, I have been dating this girl for 2years now... For the first 7 months of the relationship I didn't touch her or have sex with her or anything, I respected her because my intentions were pure towards her, she was even the one asking for it sometimes but in insisted, I am a very busy guy, i am doing well for myself, I am a forex trader and I also sell iron rods in large scale, so l am financially okay.
January 2023 was wen we started having sex and she comes to meet me in my house, she comes once in a week, sometimes we can go two weeks seff, while sometimes she comes twice in a week, and it is not every time we have sex... It was even this last December our sex life improved... And mind u we have sex only once a week sometimes once in two weeks... Now, I noticed something... I am always the one initiating the sex all d time my girlfriend doesn't initiate sex at all, she doesn't tease me, she doesn't try to seduce me or anything like dat, sometimes we will be having sex and this girl will just go dry and she'll tell me she's dry dat it is paining her... This has happened not once, not twice, not thrive but countless times... Since I've been dating her I have only cummed three times... Because, she hardly gets wet for me.
Okay, I traveled to Uyo for a business reasons, I stayed 3 weeks and we have been chatting everyday telling ourselves how much we miss each other, I came back on Saturday... She came to see me yesterday and again, and she didn't touch me or tease me... Well, I was d one doing all d touching and kissing and when I wanted to penetrate she was dey as Bleep we didn't have sex again yesterday, she wasn't moved... And I am sexually fit, but she kills my morale... The funny thing is when she told me the story of her ex, she said her ex bleeps her almost everyday... So, after she left, I decided to bring up the topic and discus it with her, she told me *"I am sex addict "* , she said I only miss her body dat we should reduce the sex... I was surprised... So, having sex once in 2 weeks is now an addict...
I can't continue the relationship because I smell something fishy... Wah do I do guys?

You are too Serious With Life .... You ain't Fun to be with Because Mullah Must be Made & You are Transferring Same Energies into The Situationship .... That's why Women Enjouys Sex With Drivers, Cleaners, Gardeners
Gym-Guys & Lowlifers Than Real Hustlers(Mental-Strugglers) Because Hustlers have very Strong(OverSerious) Head ....

You Must Play With You Girl, Get The Dopamine Flowing In Her Head ..... The Flows Will Get to Her Pvssy & She will fvck You na You Go Run ....

Women are like Little Babies ... You Can't Be Doing Stone Cold Steve Austin to a Baby Expect The Baby to Laugh With You ...

Na Who Play Well With Baby Na Ihm Baby Dey Know .... Your Girl Has Had Fun, so Her Brain Is Gotten Some Orientations You ain't Replicating, She Might End Up With Her Ex !

This is 2024, Gen Z Baddies No Get Joy For Guys Who No Sabi Make dem Wet No Make Dem Cum ... even if say Na Virgin, She is Stimulated & Stimulated by Podcasts & Social Media enough to Know what she is expecting & Not Expecting....

Bro, Divide your brain ... One part for Pleasure-Games & One Part for Money-Games!

Life no too Go Far ooo !

Carry Ya Bible or Qur'an & Cast Out the Demons Yourself .....

Na Red Eye Dem Dey Do Things For This Africa, You Can't Survive Without God or Juju .... Unfortunately, Juju no dey end well So Stick With God & Use Ya Sense ... You will be Alright!

If You Approach African Parolz On Your Own, Na Die You Go Die cuz Dem go Use Juju Knack You Depressions sotey Dem go Kill You !

Mandate1:
I once met a lady who liked me, and in our conversation I deliberately tried to get her view about finances in marriage. "if the man earns 100k and the woman earns 200k, what should happen in the family as regards spending?" she said the man will utilize his 100k to take care of the family, that she will contribute in buying anything needed in the home anytime she feels like.

I enquired further, don't you think the man won't have savings after utilising all his income to cater for the family? She said "he's the man of the house and should take care of the family".

In our present day, men and women earn equally at the work place, yet the man is expected to take care of the family with everything he earns, this is unfair. Little wonder men die before their time.

After the conversation, I distanced myself. She's not a wife material but a time bomb.

You are also a Parasite Trying to Leech... You ain't a Husband Material With Your Entitlement Mentality!

Imagine Whining Over Another Person Monies ... Your Job is to take care of Your Family While The Job Of Your Wife is to Support You .....

You could have Opined to Leverage On Her 200k to Learn Skills or Businesses That Would Turn Your 100k Into N1,000,000.00 But Nope, You are Trying to Make her Coughed Her Monies to Lead Your Home While You Keep Drinking Brukutu & KainKain Up & Down ...

Irresponsible Men are Easily to Decipher .... You Should be Avoided by Sane Ladies