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Sunday2021:
at 30 years you are hanging around your parents? That shows you are a dumb ass that cannot make life for yourself. A married man depending on his father is a foool.

Dey there dey Cap ....
They all have their Companies & Jobs ....!

Enugurangers:
Nigeria is a big crime scene.

The World not Just Nigeria ... Na Who God Exposed Be Thief!

Skoonheid:
No society wants you to become wise: it is against the investment of all societies. If people are wise they cannot be exploited. If they are intelligent they cannot be subjugated, they cannot be forced into a mechanical life, to live like robots. They will assert themselves – they will assert their individuality. They will have the fragrance of rebellion around them; they will want to live in freedom.

Freedom comes with wisdom, intrinsically. They are inseparable, and no society wants people to be free. The communist society, the fascist society, the capitalist society, the Hindu, the Mohammedan, the Christian – no society likes people to use their own intelligence because the moment they start using their intelligence they become dangerous – dangerous to the establishment, dangerous to the people who are in power, dangerous to the “haves”; dangerous to all kinds of oppression, exploitation, suppression; dangerous to the churches, dangerous to the states, dangerous to the nations.

In fact, a wise man is afire, alive, aflame. He would like rather to die than to be enslaved. Death will not matter much to him, but he cannot sell his life to all kinds of stupidities, to all kinds of stupid people. He cannot serve them.

This Really Hit Me to The Marrow !

Unfortunately Only The Leader Can be Wise But Here in Nigeria ... The Leaders are Half eyed Men Leading Blind Men ....

If Your eyes too Opened for Here, You will be in mess !

ESANMEA:
Ok

Hello Dear, Hope You Good...

Elohorp:
Nigeria is indeed lawless and the citizens even encourage it

Welcome to Reality!
It's Called "Capitalism" Not "Emotionalism" !

Chicagograduate:
How can 3 cement brands be selling their products to 300 million Nigerians?They are taking undue advantage of Nigerians.

You can't be Complaining Bro, Start Your Own & Drop Your Price to N2k Per Bag...

You will automatically become the Market Leader Right Now !

YinkaOlusesi16:
Wetin be hin own?

wonder oo ... They should stop hanging where their Parents Lives & Works ....

femi4:
Maybe 18 century women....Kilo kan baddy pelu love, she just wanna get laid n move on

Ajeh ... Gen Z girls makes the world an easier Place ...

Eyes don Break Everywhere.... ....

Better Days Ahead

ESANMEA:
I no go anywhere jare, I still dey active here sef but with another moniker. I was searching for that your mail to drop a message for you but I couldn't get it anymore. I've got gist for you o

No Wahala ... gmail.com...
Don't Quote so I can Edit !

ESANMEA:
I've got something to share now

Omoh, Where did u dissappeared to ...

Welcome back anyway

officialwdhtvv:
Jaws drop as a lady stood up during Sunday service to accuse a Pastor of getting her pregnant

Take a listen!!!

#wetindeyhappentv


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f_C6op63oxA

Social Media Don Create Much Wahala Dan Solutions ooo ... ... Pastor Don Lapiopio ..

U just have to choose your world in this world & Stay Glue to Ya world ....

Fvck from your world .... no claim Holy dey do madness .... dem go cast you ...

chatinent:

It is all About Mindsets & Emotions.

Don't attached yourself to a "Belief-System" That will Limit Your Realities & Civilisations Only For You to Become Wounded & Toxic ... If You Misbehave Towards Nature, She will Treat Your Fvcked Ups with Much Fvcks as Nature Doesn't Give a Ratazz about You or Your Emotions Just Serve Your Good Great Purposes Do Your Fvcked Ups, Cleanse Your Messed Up & Die ....

I Hold God in Higher Esteem Then I Face the Harshness of Realities With Nothing Than to Emerged a Conqueror, Nothing-Else!

Neither Saudi Arabia Nor Isreal Shall Determine My "God" For Me .... Neither My Yoruba Heritage Too.... I can Determine My God Myself Just Look into Realities Without Emotions, You will See God via Trial & Errrors Then Use the Religion Books as a Guide & Guard.

Life is all about Good-Sins-Evils ... Choose Your Thresholds Wisely ... You can't Escape the Three Parameters!

E dey happen wellwell!

Ogamysamo:
i was on this thread few months back(if not a year) with the op favorolasupo the madam learning multiple languages. maybe if you'll scroll up you'll remember.
remember now?

Make I Check first ..
So whatsup ?

Ogamysamo:
hello! remember me?

Nope ?

Victimoftribali:
if you do someone a favor, allow them reciprocate on their own terms. 'doing a favor ' is not same thing as paying for a service, even if it were, there are limits a service provider can decide go. If she wanted that extra meet that bad, she should have not bought the food for him, she should have instead, used the money to get extra meat. Atleast I didn't read her say she was forced to buy the food.

They already built personalisation so if the aboki is free to request for personal favour she is also free to request for personal favour .... The Aboki is an Ingrate ...

If I'm giving you as Per paddy ... & You No reciprocate doing my own times of needs ... I will withdraw myself & my gift from You .... Which kain parasitic friend be that ... I'm always on Symbiotic Relationships! ...

Do for Me, Make I do For You .... I do for You, You Do Me For me .. (My Sanity Must Be Protected) Except I do "Charities" & You Must Never-Ever Reciprocated Me with "Evils" .. I might Be Your Wreck !

placeofallure:
You're mistaken. Mi o buru rara o. Far from it. The thing is there are a lot of unreasonable people here on this forum and generally in the world. If any of those crosses my path, I should set them straight that's all. This generation needs to be salvaged whatever is left. I'm just doing my little part in changing the world.

I understand You as Per Civil to Civil ...

I'm just making an Allusions to what your In-laws conceived about your Personality going by the Civility of Average In-laws Families & Your kinda Personality on Nairaland(How you defend Yoruba-Race & Tinubu & Your Patriotism for Nigeria, Women & African Race) as well as Your Intense Passion for Teaching(Madam-Disciplines)

You Might not be blocking them with Words of Mouth, But You are Counteracting their Actions with Your Actions ... ... You don show them Shege without words ...

Our People Would Fight You for Resisting their Enslavements & Controlling Miens That's what You Did ... You Didn't fall in line ... You Also dey form woke so na dem come be Pako if You are Licking their Nyansh .... They won't give you problem but They Will wrecked your mental state with Stupidities Demands..

IDK, Where those oloribus derived their entitlement mentality from ... It Breaks the families Apart... They will do worst to Your Children if You ain't There ....

Uchesis:
So if i decide that I don't want wife and children wahala i'm not matured abi?

If i wozz you slap eh

Ya Papa Left Nyansh There ... Olori Pelebe ... Go Marry .. Answer Nature Call ... U dey fear to carry Responsibilities of Women & Children ... U like ya life as e single... Tufia.. U immature 😒

Go & Mally ... See ihm black Dirty Nyansh ..

A Guy Without Purposes or Understanding of
Why He Needs to Be a Man hasn't Matured !

A Guy Without Due Understanding of "Life & Livelihoods" Hasn't Matured ....

A Guy Yet to Know "God" or Stand Against "God" or Denied "God" Can Never-Ever Be Matured even if he has Sense ... He ain't Matured.... The Day You meet people with Sense & God, You are Done !

A Guy Competing With Ladies/Women/Girls in the name of Redpillers hasn't Matured

A Guy not Managing a Woman/Women Appropriately has not Matured ....

A Guy not Raising Kids Hasn't Matured ....

A Guy Without Real Sources of Income hasn't Matured ...

A Guy That's not Facing Realities Hasn't Matured

A Guy That Can't Look at His Demons in The Eyes & Look at His Families Demons in The Eyes Including The Societal Demons & Fvcked all of Them Together Hasn't Matured ... Na Inside Bondage You Go Wrecked ...

A Guy Without Understanding of Politics, Economics & Governments Hasn't Matured ....

A Guy Staying with Folks Can Never-Ever Be Matured ....

A Guy That's Never-Ever Enter Street Hasn't Matured ....

A Guy That's not having Sexual Intercourse hasn't Matured

A Guy Who Never Give Woman Belle Hasn't Matured ....

A Guy Who give woman belle and Run Away Hasn't Mature ....

A Guy Who is Irresponsible Hasn't Mature ...

A Guy That Derives Strength/Powers from Alcohol, Weed or Jazz Hasn't Mature... Your Body Go tell You Later .. U no fit Wine Jesus, Mohammed & God at the same time ....

A Guy That Relies On Daddy G. O. can Never-Ever Be Matured ....

A Guy Being Controlled By Women Whether in His Families or Street Can Never-Ever Be Matured ...

A Guy who is a Goto for Girls to have sex is Never-Ever Matured ....

A Guy Being Manipulated By Fellow Men Hasn't Matured ....

Jewessgratitud3:
He can not waylay me because I paid him his money for meat complete and I choose who I give my food to.

I thought the guy has sense but na yesterday I know he's numskull.

Never say Never ... Some people has nothing to lose when their Mental Spheres is Disconnected .. e dey spark wetin no Good ... As that guy behave so, His Brain 🧠 🙄 no good ... so act ahead of him not behind .... Waka front jeje ... if he misbehave to you ... arrest am !

Gbadugbakun:
Has it become an offence to seek advise on Nairaland again?

It's not necessary she bear your surname that's the new school ...

She is correct That your mental shores hasn't migrated to the new Civilisations.. you need to Upgrade bro & She has given you the Updates ... Otilor Niyen .... Men are Supposed to be Faster than their wife interms of Civilisations if not You already lose the home if she is more mentally Updated than You ....

She will controlled the home with Feminine Instincts trust me ... Your home will run down on Emotions instead of Realities !

As for your Children, They will bear Your surname because Their Soul is Drawn from Your Ancestral Soul while Your wife only contributes parts of the Bodies !

Jewessgratitud3:
Some people don't know how to show appreciation and me na, because I come From a home where we were raised with good manners and taught to be grateful and show appreciation for the littlest things, I always assume and expect everyone to possess such moral values. But it seems majority lack this virtue, reason I acted the way I did today.

There's this butcher i like buying meat from because his is always very tasty and sweet you don't need much seasoning to make your soups and stews any time you use his cow meat but he's always shouting whenever you price his meat. So sometimes I just avoid him but when he sees me in the market he'll be hyping me like..." oyinbo", how far and stuff but when I go to his stand again he'll start shouting if I price.

So, today, as I was approaching the meat section, he started hyping me again saying fine girl, bla bla.. he now said I should tell the woman selling noodles to give him a plate now . I now asked him what size he can finish, he said any size. I now went and placed order for a plate of noodles for him and told the lady to give him when she's done

I got to his stand to buy meat and he cut one tiny piece for me. I told him ah.. customer, it's too small now, please add jara for me, this man started shouting that he's not going to add anything. I said you're shouting, he said he'll shout that he can't add anything to the meat and continued talking so loud that everyone started starring at me.

I picked the meat, paid for it and went to meet the Noodles seller, asked them to package it, paid for it and took it away. I got to a busy road and saw a Mallam that usually supplies us water anytime theres no light to pump and gave it to him. He was so appreciative of it and I felt fulfilled blessing that Aboki than giving it to a rude and saucy butcher.

Did I do wrong?

I think Our Parents Failed in Teaching Us Street Virtues.... I wouldn't make that Mistake .... I would train My Children God manners & Weyrey Virtues so nobody can run them Madness .... We Must Face Realities ... You Did Nothing Wrong but becareful not to too Pepper him next time in that market ...

You can be waylaid & Maltreated ..... Next time just waka go other meat shop & if he hype you , Hype am Back ..... Na so dem dey call am Diplomacy .... If he querried you no buy meat from am ... tell am na send dem send you & na that customer dem send you go meet .... ....

Yoruba wey no get Abosi(Hypocrisy) No be Yoruba house dem raise am ....

Realme111:
please everyone i need your advice, I'm facing this right now.
There was a time my mom was complaining about feeding and how dad family are maltreating her in our home town,and I discussed with my wife,we both have 4kids together,so she agreed that My mom should come over,we're living in room and parlour then,and i brought mom home,this happened in 2020.
All of a sudden my woman started issue with mom,to the extent that mom I'll report her to me that she's not greeting her,as in early morning greeting from a well trained woman, but I will beg mom, because sometimes i also notice such character from my wife.
This issue continue like that,until one day.
Mom don't eat Eba,Cuz my mom is from Ekiti,so either pounded yam,semolina or Fufu,and by God grace I manage to get some at home,just to satisfy mom,One very evening like that,i went to watch Chelsea match, immediately i returned home,i see mom outside, and I asked her if she have eaten,but she replied No,and i asked why, she said that My wife make EBA for her and she can't eat it .
Immediately I went to the kitchen and asked my woman,why did you prepare Eba for Mama, Instead of her regular food,my wife replied that,she didn't make EBA for mom,but Semo.
And I asked her to show me the semo,to my surprise,My wife is showing me Eba,and she's claiming that its Semo,I was very angry,cuz as I was asking her,that what's the meaning of this,she keep telling me that is Semo,i get mad at her and slapped her,I never knew that she intentionally planned it, she knows that I'll be mad at her ,she wanted everything to scatter,cuz she knows that I don't joke with my mom,mom started begging me that night,and her brother have to show up and settle it for us,and i later I went ahead to get Fufu for mom.
Two days later,.mom told me she's going ,though she didn't said is because of my woman,but i understand,to my surprise,mom is going back with her load and with what i get for her, almost, 4 bags, altogether,i carried 2, while mom also carried 2,my wife just looking at us as we re going, nothing like her to see mama off,or even said Bye Mama .fast forward to 2021,mom died and we went for the burial.
After some years,maybe 2 years ago,her own mom came to Lagos,after leaving her brother's place,she stayed In our house for 4 to 5 months,which I take good care of her very well,even she keep telling other siblings that I'm the best.
This is the main point now,This same my mother inlaw now had stroke,she's down with stroke, Though we had a meeting together, that her mom I'll stayed in their elders brothers place for a month,and come to live in my house,(mini flat with 4 kids)for a month also, and will from their go to another siblings house, after a month.i once asked my wife that which mattress her mom going to use when she get here,and she said,our own mattress,this hurt me,cuz i can't immagine, sleeping on the same bed, maybe after she leave.
Please who can tell me what to do,as for me,I'm not happy about this,cuz anytime I remembered how she treated my mom,this saddened me,and i also don't want my kids to be affected thru this sickness........ please I need everyone's advice .

Your wife is Your Husband ... Welcome to Reality !

I always Advice Male Not to Marry as Boys ... Be a Man First & Formost ....

Avoid Luminouz & Redpillers Geng ... They will destroy your mental Spheres with Overcarefulness .......

You have failed to Trained Your Wife Life Management which her family has failed to Trained Her .... she will destroy you & Destroy your children with her pepperish .... now your children would go onto the street of Life to operate your wife's Maturities & Behavioural Tendencies since they are used to Locking people & Having their ways ... The Street is going to treat your Children's Fvcked Up cuz The Street is Cruel ... Street ain't You ...

You can see the Future Outlook of Your inability to Manned Your Woman .... Let the Fvck Continue... e no dey yield better fruit when you allowed Women to Rule Your Manhood .... You are Cooked !

Call God & Go to twitter to read about "Warriors" .... Right now ... You are a Boyish Maturities in Men's Age Bracket .... !

Go & Grown to become a Masculinity Maturities... someone Reasonable & Responsible While Also Fvcking Your Wife Vagina to Your Desire Choices ... She will Obliged You Without Questions !

luminouz:
*Sighs*

Not again, mudafucker!!!

He did Nothing Wrong Chairman ... She said No, He Moved On ....

Why u dey craze untop Another Man Matter

Redpilling go wound una brain finish ... Imagine u Feeling Pained & Insultive because a Dude asked for a Girl No & She said No .. Lol! ..

If he asked for sex ... she said No .. Una go still Curse him ....

Life no go Far ooo ... Oyinbo go destroyed una African Brain Finish .... You dey do Yanga to the Gender you are Meant to Cater & Care For While Managing Her Madness 😠

Therock5555:
Sometimes I wonder whether some people get brain or not, cause common sense suppose make you hide your shame small and not post this topic on NL.


Now op what do you stand to gain being dragged around like generator rope?

They Get Brain But Your Brain Could Only Process as Much as Her Civilisations Unfortunately if You ain't On Innovative Brain, You will Suffer cuz Your Civilisations can't have it all !

placeofallure:
God is the overall being who watches over the affairs of men. He will judge us all accordingly. I know I didn't wrong them in any way. Of course they're trying to make up now but I'm like WTF did I do!

Make Me No Lie, U Ma sef Gather for Body ooo .... As per Your Posts ... U carry for Pocket jhare ... O buru... Those Things You ain't Saying By Mouth Must Be Reflective On Your Body languages Which Your Inlaws Would Also Subconsciously Picked The Rhythms & Counter-Fire You Before You Unleashed

You are an Introvert That's what You Did.... You see Yourself as Introvert while They see You as Arrogant That Must Be Tamed & Taught Lessons That Wasn't Taught from Your Famz .... ThanGod, You ain't Competing their Son with Them Trust me .. Dem go Stress You till Death ooo ... !

They will also see Your Husband as a "Simp" Thus They would go On Defensive Trying to Rescue their Son from Your Bondage Because You have snatched his Emotions Away ....

I already sensed My Families are Pepperish & Would Show My Wife Shege So I Suspend Marriage & Foremost Went Mad(Weyrey) on all of Them & Take Over the Overall Management of the Entire Family even as a Grandchild Na Dem dey fear Me Now Cuz They All Know They Would Collect Once They Cross Unto My Lane.. Dem Be Witches But Wizard na ihm be Husband to Witches ... Oso loko awon Aje !

When I marry ... God Helps The One that Would Disturb My Wife & God Helps My Wife Showing Weyrey to Anybody cuz Gen Z no too well Like That while Majority of Those Families Belongs to Old Civilisations where Wife/Wives are Treated Like Slaves ....

No Gen Z go Gree that Kind Sheettt in 2020s

.... Nevertheless, Everything na just in the Hands of the Husband Sha ... I already laid the Foundations for me to be Dreaded by Them All So My Fiancee/Families can Put Their Hands in my Desire States Make dem no kill me with Hypertension(Depressions) ...

I can't be waisting My time & Brain Fluids Settling Quarrels between Adults Over Some Stupidities Anyone wey disturbed my Peace Go see Hell among Them.

Most inlaws Families are "Demonic" .... Fuelled by Immaturities!

Future World is gon be Better ... for Now, Weyrey loko Weyrey(Madness is Husband to Madness) if Not They Will Use Depressions Kill You

Welcome to Yoruba Race In-laws... Dem go dey Do You & Dem go dey Follow You dey Laugh.

CoronaVirusPro:
Poor people love sex too much


Fvcked 50+ but won’t have 50 million Naira in his account!

That's their only means to happiness & At That Moment ... They are as Equal as the Richest man in the world....

Let the poor breathe & don't take away their little joys as small as some Fvcks ... !

SenecaTheYonger:
I prefer one woman for the rest of my life. I just hope she stays faithful too

Amen But It ain't White & Black ...

There are many things that makes a Man & Woman remains faithful... No be play especially this Gen Z ... Faithfulness don Cast Just Prepared-Readied for Anything & Everything!

Quality20:
Many t ppl don't even see adultery n fornication as sins, they think that everybody does it. I don't know who told them. If u don't follow women, they will think u a pretender n start spying on u

Just choose your life & Live it .... Every decisions comes with its Consequences & Rewards whether Good or Bad .... !

Staywithbina:
I have sex plenty of times in a month , it’s good and I heard it helps reduce chances of getting prostrate cancer , but then also I read that excess oxytocin which is the hormone released when you get an orgasm can cause prostrate in a man if it’s in excess in the body , which one we wan believe now ,just live your life and do what makes you happy , nobody will live forever , you existence or the longer you stay on earth has no added value to life , you should know that

E means too much everything is Bad same as Not doing something is bad ....

The body is meant to release fairly commensurate level of Hormones unto the body systems at a particular point in time ....

Otutumumiii:
Every responsible man should have a side chick

10bottles for you ... You Sabi this Game ....

Every Responsible Man must also Settled His Bills !