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Connected1:
It's simple.

She's interested in you but don't want anything serious that's why she's letting you know there's a man in her life.

As a player you ride along and do your things else you pass.

Ho-Ha 😉

Divoc19:
You skipped the "quick" part.
Trust me, being remorseful before an apology means you have to think through your actions.
There are guys out there who will apologise 10 times a day and keep repeating the same circle.

Welcome!

Blakjewelry:
That guy is in bondage like if na normal mature lay, it's understandable but old mama? Comon.

Nope, The woman is in Bondage .. the Man is using her to step us his Children !

Odogwubitters78:
Good morning narialander's, please i have this thing, disturbing me for so long now, insults is allowed despite the fact i get a permanent solution here, besides i just had the dream right now, that's why i wake up to write about it..

Guy's there is this particular brothel nearer to my Street, sometimes when I'm less free mostly in the evening, i will go there and take a drink and enjoy there music, then if by any chance I see any fine girl that enter my eyes i will take the person inside then we Knack, but the thing there is this, anytime i finish Bleep*kng any girl from that brothel i see myself dreaming when I was still in secondary school, secondary school that i Left like 8 year's ago now, and when i have to read about that particular dream here on narialand is scaring, the dream means 'backwardness' like i should pray against any spirit of setback in my life... Please guys help me out 🙏🙏 i want to stop, concerning the dream who have had similar dream, and how do you go about with it.

Your Energy is being taken aback anytime you backslide .......

E Mean say, You Chi(Soul) Would not be able to continue Evolutionary Journeys once You go down those lane of fvck aside & You don't have the Maturities to Rise After Your Downcasted ....

It's a warning system for you to take caution because you are an "Evolutionist" & Your Brain is telling you she has devolved without ability to Step Up ...

Fast for restoration & Retrain Your Maturities On Fvck Aside.....

You must Understand Your Energies & Determines what is good for her & What is not good for her ....

2special:
you're always supporting the female, as if they're innocent, rare for you to condemn them.

Na foolish man dey condemn Women .....

Women are Shaped Exactly the Way Their Men Want them to Be ....

So, Men Made Women to Be Whatever The Hell They are .... From Her Father, Uncle, Brother, Boyfriend, Husband, Son Etc ....

If You Failed Her, She will Fail The Society !

Men are to be Blame for the Good and Bad ....

Women are to share the Good & Be Absolved From the Bad !

nedekid:
Which man is not a serial cheat? The only difference is money jare, even the calmest most loyal man, once heavy money enters his pocket, the buried traits with surface. Infact he he is even worse because after tasting Congo once, he will say "na watin I don de miss since be this?"
My area guy back in the late 90s that joined us at work. Humble faithful guy. That afternoon we went on break to eat at a nearby joint. We ordered food, this guy just bought rice with 1 meat. He was yabbing us, say how can we buy and eat this and that just waste of money. By the time we shared money the next week, money he had never seen in his life, what he ate that they at the same restaurant, we were shocked! Eg rice and beans, joined moi moi ontop, 10meat+ ogunfe+fish+2 eggs etc.
Woman level nko, the joints in the area, once he lands olosho will fight over him, say na their turn to follow! Niggar had permanent booking in hotel every Wednesday, Friday, Saturday. Pastor like man went on rampage, infact olosho then named him toto tester. Lol

.... Na those Late Life Chopper Dey Misbehave Pass .... Until Something Break for Dem Body dem no go learn lesson ...

Na Those wey don see Finish as Per earlier stage dey Calm Down Later .... Which Pvssy dem never sample

davillian:
I've seen good men turning to community dick after they get married and I've seen community dicks that were able to change after they got married....

Aswear .... It's all About Commitments & Aspirations!

verybadmouth:
Any woman that has slept with another woman's man too should get ready to share her man. What goes around comes around. Simple

Except Life is not 1 + 1 = 2 ...

Thanks to them !

pansophist:
I salute our parents generations.

For many of them, intimacy died long ago, but they stayed committed to making sure that the atmosphere of raising responsible kids was not jeopardized. Many times, they fight and feel like punching each other, but they still stay.

A lot of them were uneducated, stuck with menial jobs, and had no dream of their own, except provide and to live for the next day. Our generations are too soft for that.

Our generation didn't experience the great famine, the 1st or 2nd World War, freed their countries from colonialism, or the industrial revolution. Strong generations in the past gave way to soft generations of the present. That's a perfect recipe for weak-ass mofos who see marriage as one hell of a scary institution.

But again, time has also changed. Men and women have legitimate reasons why they aren't jumping into marriage easily like before.

Normal Life Runz ....

Most Strong People Usually Birthed Weak Ass Mofos Who doesn't have any reason For Hustles cuz The Silver Spoons are always There to be Milked Anytime, Anywhere & Everywhere!

Meanwhile, Weak Men Usually Birthed Strong Men Especially When You are Hell Bent to Change Your Stories & Break Away From Pains of Poverty & Wretchedness.....

Life is all Mountains & Valley of Good-Sins-Evils .... It's Normal Phenomenon Since Time Immemorial But This is The Generation of Globalisation Powered By Technologies Not Battles-Wars... Of Course, Humanities Will Find it Difficult to Handles But a Time Permits, We Shall Adjust But It will Still Take Generations!

Future Generations Would Respect Marriage Once The Odds of Divorce, Separations, Urchins Hits so deep to The Bone & Blood Marrows .... Even if its going to be By "Legislation" .... They will do Marriage & Raise Responsible Societies......

When they enjoyed that for some time ... They will still go soft again & Lose it all ...

Life is a cycle of Boom & Doom ...

We Human can be Funny ... !

Natbrowny:
Isn't that whats been trending since 2010.

U F*ck another person partner, somebody somewhere is also f*cking ur partner.

E simple na..

Except Life is not 1 + 1 = 2 ....

It's not a Simple as You Dictate

1Sharon:
We do. We just talk about sex with each other.

You also discuss it with Crazy Matured Dude!

Antwan99:
Empirically, men discuss sex explicitly among themselves, and within ladies circles. However, ladies tend to be less expressive about explicit sexual subjects. Not far fetched scenario is our dear forum, NL. Day in day out, topics, comments, posts and quotes of men and how they get down with ladies abound. On the other hand, it's rare for a lady to say a guy got down with her. NL Scholars, why is it so? Lets engage...

Lol, ladies Talk sex Raw Than Men But Societal Prejudice has made every women to Lock Up 🔐 for fear of being judged, condemned, Roasted !

Verily, By the time year 2010s Children Grew Up Because They are 13yo Now ... Just Add 5years from now ...

They won't be shy to talk anything & Everything! ...

You judge her, She sued You, You go to Jail

GUNITGuy:
Whose chasing here ....No one is chasing any woman it's rather the other way round .......

The world is beginning to figure out a way without them ....Since they're turning out to be something else ....
Projections are already stating that by the end of 2030 90percent of women Below the age of 45 will be single guess who sort of after marriage most women who are single from 30 and above......

Keep sexualing yourself to destruction of your own men it's already taking a toll on men in the west .. The East Asians are already taking over gradually while the pro women western society are worried about low testosterone levels ever in History ...
They're not ready for a war they can't stand they're looking out for technology to do that a technology now being replicated by the Chinese ..
Germany have pushed for a law not to give any divorce benefits to women if you don't want to stay in marriage don't get married the rest of Europe would likely follow suit as soon as they see the results of Restoration of Family order ......

Look at how Putin is Taking it's stand against 40nato pro women countries they're going to give up the fight soon... that's what happens to when men give up their strength to women...
He has signed a bill to the restoration of family order there's nothing like Female equality debate in Russia it's all bullshit that came when There was peace


I doubt if you're ready what's to come ......

We can't Reprogrammed Nature..
She has already been programmed By Her Programmer...

Either we comply & Enjoined Ourselves ..

We Disobey & See Anyhow ....

The Girl at the Op is an Emotional Blackmailer ....

You are who you attract ... She is Immature vis-a-vis Contemporary Realities.

Tayorshd87:
Aw ife that doesn't see ur success as happiness whenever u tell her about travelling abroad and what can be of more fruitful tomorrow she will feel bad and change d topic to something else or irrelevant things ..

A woman that see ur success as a bad belle to her etc infact I can't continue

I just Experienced Same Toxicity from One I wanna consider My Significant Patner .... But Me, I can be laughing with You But Gathering Evidence(Redflags) .... Once You are a Badbelle thinking The Successes of Your Man would take him away from You or You want me to be granting You Support You Can't Grant Me .. I will Comot Your Handle Sharpally !

She sees Successes As Bragging Meanwhile Most Highbrow Girls Before Her are all Joyous whenever we are sharing our Good & Odds of Life .....

Omoh, I Covertly Walked Away & Ghost Her in no time .... Thanks to American CIA/Counter-terrorism Movies I have watched ..... That's how you rolled Clandestine Ops(Black Ops) no time ... In & Out ... No Noise !

She is still wondering what Happened .. Before I entered into a Game with Stories that will damage my heart & Livers ..

On God Now !

Fiscus105:
More than that story happening in real life ooo.



I know a man, wen he was younger, by coincidence 2 of his girlfriends came one night, and it was night that idol worshipers won't allow people to stay outside.


Wen the two girls came, he now told two of them to sleep on bed while him sleep on carpet, (believing no show that night) the two girls forced him to sleep on bed and slept with two before daybreak.

This happened like 20 years ago ooo, wen morality still better than this.

Morality had never been better in the history of Humanities Infact It's now that's It's even Better because Human has Evolved Much More Reasonable Than Before When we were Mere Homo Erectus !

The Only difference now is That Shiit is now being done in the Open due to liberalization & Freedom of Speech Unlike Behind the Curtains & In the Farm in the Olden Days !

Women are now talking Much about Sex in the Open Unlike Before & Women being the more Promiscuous Gender Would Show Men How Promiscuity is Done .....

E don Set for us but as time goes we shall also correct ourselves... Life has always been in Cycles ...

Nothing is New ... We will soon be tired once the Evils of our actions hits the ceilings !

cornelman:
No dey reason am o. Run from anybody who doesn't get angry or complain about anything you do. When you come across people like that, run for your dear life. The most dangerous people are like that. They'll make you comfortable doing your shit and keep quite or even cheer you on such that you think they are no threat. It's called smokescreen. They wait for the prime time (it may take years) when their revenge will be absolute, and strike just once. There's no come back with them.

... So Me !

Biola67:
Na why naija no go fit better irrespective of who enter that Aso rock….. the foundation is rotten. The only solution is for new set of humans to come to this country..me and you can’t make any difference. Na lie all of us dey lie.

no new Human would come because the Society Build us all ....

We must be Matured than Our Demons & We shall Be OK!

Emaprince:
Masturbation is dangerous as well. It has some implications that may seem spiritual. I have wat he'd several peopes testimony to realise that it's sets one back in his business or career. It even causes ED as well.

Once There is Dearth of Fluids in Your Body-Systems, The Brain Experiences Psychological Disorder if Unchecked, You Shall Experience Psychiatry Issues, If Unchecked ... It May Lead to Neurological Issues at Any Points
During Mental Disorders You shall be Suffering Hallucinations, Depressions, Earth in 4D, Demonic 😈 Experiences Which is a Means By Which Brain Tells You She is in Danger ... You Will Also Be Relating with Parallel Humanities Trying to Devour You Peradventure You Become a Carcass!

Either by Prayer, Fasting or Drugs .. She will Be Corrected Back to Normalcy !

Nevertheless, If You Overused or Hyper Utilised any part of Your Body-Systems, At some Point In Your Old Age, They won't be able to serve you better because the Creator has Mileage to all Your Organs With Respect to the Destiny(Work) Set Out For You .....

Any Abuses to Yourself Shall be Duly Paid for When The Time Pops Except You are Matured Enough to Play Your Games Fairly

Inkling:
These guys has seen a lot.

I can't imagine myself in their shoes, especially Nairamarley that was outside the country and was still being accused of murder.

I'm getting scare of being famous because the more the fame the more enemies keep increasing.

I've never seen a famous person that is free from these people especially this era of social media.


Dangote = monopoly
Bill gates = Sterilization vaccine
Biden = Brain dead
Obama = Gay
Buhari = Jubril
Tinubu = Druggie
Jonathan = Drunkard

Bad belle people will just find a way to attack you. They will just manufacture something to stain your reputation.

There is No Power without Problem Because Everypower is seeking Control of Humanities & Resources accrued to The Common Wealths!

Whatisurproblem:
Na them, people who attached everything to spirit. To drink water sef na spiritual. I'm also in your shoe right now, exactly same story, she left 3times, I made efforts to bring her back, this time, I do observe each time she leaves, I have peace, and my financial capabilities increase. Due to her family negative interference? I concluded she's out to destroy me in everything. It's courage. I did forget about her, only issue now she left with my children which I find it difficult to forget. Every other women I met thereafter are just misbehaving. I'm tired of women sef .

Why Can't You Sit down & Check Yourself for the Gaps in Your Manliness ....

There must have been an issue with your women's management Skills !

Justkatty:
Pele o
Heal very well and move on.
You can't continue to force yourself into someone that doesn't give a f*ck about you

But I thought men are always strong to bear every pains that comes from the other gender

Boys That are Raised By "Women" or Single Mothers or Their Dads is Mostly Not in The Pictures or Their Dad is Effeminate Himself are Mostly "Emotional" instead of Reasonable ...

Nevertheless Everyone has a Breaking Points in the Long-run Where Your Basket of Emotions & Tears Will Just Be Broken & The Streams of Cry 😢 will flow Like River Amazon !

GVTAsiwaju:
When I was with my wife I never cheated on her, loved her and she knows... I think the only issue was my unstable finance then and her parents ungodly attitude that really irritates me( I should have managed it better though).
We have seperated and her divorce case in court but I don't stop thinking about her against all odds.
I have dated NUMEROUS ladies while she left yet it doesn't help me forget, whereas, she never look back...

Divorced persons, how do you forget! I want to feel love again. I cannot marry or be with anyone if I don't love them, sex is truly overrated. Your suggestions pls.

You are just "Emotional" That's what makes someone not to quickly forget the other ...

The other party is less emotional .....

Emotions is what makes us Good People But You Must Manned Up & Allow Your Body to processed it all while you faced your Realities.....


You must be Realistic & Face Realities Heads On with time Your Body will adjust(Adapted) to Realities!

FalseProphet1:
Any man wey knack pass 2 round no get mind to make money ..you got too much time on your hands and such people dey go broke.

What about those who have made monies & Could go days for Relaxations without an atom of shrinkage on their Financials ....

Men pass Men na !

chatinent:
You know nothing about military and war.

Aswear Down!

Godoverevery:
Note- this not a post to bash ladies.

A pattern I noticed with most working class ladies have dated from 27yrs old upward.
At the earliest stage, they claim to be tired of relationship, they are fine without a man.
They are doing fine without a man and in fact if not for pressure they don't mind not getting married...(mostly lies)

They say am financially ok without a man, i bought my phone, paid house rent etc without any man and i can never depend on any man hence why they can never be liability since they are working..(mostly lies)

Most claim to be doing fine during the wooing stage but immediately we start dating things turn out differently from what they claim.

Am dating a lady currently who works for a fashion house on the island...During the wooing stage we actually spoke alot for about 2 months and she claimed to be financially ok and doesn't need a man money. Infact she told me how much she paid weekly which is very decent with free accommodation and feeding.

We just started dating not up to 3weeks and this lady have been making demands which I find very childish and too disgraceful for an adult working.
She always complaining of money despite earning above minimum wage weekly.

This morning she called and i didn't pick........I chatted her up and she telling me her cream have finished and i replied hmmmm.
This a pattern have noticed with most working class ladies have dated......they tell you am an independent woman during wooing stage but once relationship start it just seems they are working and not earning with the way they demand and still be pressuring you with marriage talks.

(just want to know if am the only experiencing this or is just normal)

Note: this the fourth time this lady is demanding from me in 3 weeks and they are embarrassing to me for someone who earns.

Oga Ade, Safe Yourself Some drama ... If You Don't Have Money abeg No Near Woman or Find Your Level on Low Budget ....

The Job of a Man is to maintain His Woman/Women as the case Might Be ...

Only Boys Complains because They are Doing What Men Should Do .... !

The small money wey u suppose dey maintain yourself na ihm you wan dry use maintain relationships ....

Women go collect from you na normal normal Instincts embedded in all Women ... Except Few whom You Might Never-Ever be Qualified to Meet !

advanceDNA:
My point is what pple call juju is only poor, unrefined science and not some magical stuff

But u are free to call it rubbish...opinion is free

What Gerrard was telling you is that the harmful effects of Juju on Human is too Fatal .....

Imagine the example you gave above could have been part of the materials being used to Invent Bullet Proofs Vest at advanced scientific or Technological Developments But a Foolish Man decided to Eat Up the same substance as Concoctions Or Incisions Now Tell Me how That Person wouldn't develop Cancer(Arun Jejere) at a Tender Age ...

Imagine someone drinking/Smoking Gun powder as a Means to Getting "High" & You inherently Developed Unnecessary Powerful fields within Your Organs putting much Pressures on Your Cardiovascular Health Then Heart attack is Close .....

There is also the issue with controls of Electromagnetic Forces Embedded in each Human use by Village People to recall their people .... That's also Juju but A Great Czar knows it's just a Manipulation of Your Electromagnetic Fields & If You Fail to Hearken unto their Codes of Instructions, You will Developed Psychological Disorder in no time !

Same with Bearer of Bad devilish news ... You can't just be listening & Investigating Horrors as a Daily Mission without shutting down in no time .....

There is too much evil human mind would be able to Withstand before shutting down(Death):

Human mind could Never-Ever have abundance of "Good" because That's what it's Created for But Only Sane Mind Enjoys Such Abundance!


Human is just a piece of Technologies !

advanceDNA:
Na we no develop our juju .... If u know science well u will know it's a lot similar to juju...

One of the projects is a mouse-model research to investigate the effect of a potential therapeutic agents... Guess what ...we removed the kidneys liver, lungs, etc, crushed it in added chemical...BLA BLA BLA.....does sound like something u have heard from organ harvesters??

See ehn!! Juju nor be magic ooo...juju na crude, inconsistent, unrefined science.....

U said juju doesn't work..na because u never jam person wey do research...Science too does not always work...u will treat some one with this drug today....tomorrow ..it will not cure several other pple....they will even die...

The thing science has that makes it better is reproducibility, optimization, refinement, becos of years of consistent research...

Pple no dey come together to research juju .. but once in a while u will see one juju man wey sabi because he don research....u go know say juju dey work....

You Don't Understand what You are Saying ....

Science is the Interpretation of Phenomenon in Human Logical Reasoning ....

Most Juju are Inexplanable in Normal Human Understanding That's why They are Tagged "Spiritual" .....

But In Science, We Know If You want to Make Anti-Poison, You can harvest all the poisons of all harmful Insects & Use it to developed a Capsule to treat an Infection!

Juju was African archaic "Science" Only Beknown to Initiates(Awo) Because Most Discovery are Secrets & Sacred as far as African is Concerned But Ordinary Visit to YouTube & Google has debunked alot of things.... Thanks to Caucasians that liberalized Knowledges & Informations ...


Now, Once a Phenomenon is occurring within Paranormal Existences We call it Spiritualism.....

Once a Phenomenon is Explainable in a logical Manner, We Call it Science thus Once Spiritualism is Debunked Logically, It become Scientific Discovery & The Scary is Removed !

There are still alot of Knowledges hidden to common masses But Humanities has Tried in the Unravelling Nature !

Gerrard59:
LOL! I usually find their views funny sha. But mt own be say why we never use our juju develop ourselves or solve major problems we have. Other societies don progress so far. Apparently, the juju does not work in entirety or is just pure evil.

Juju is not the evil, We are the one utilizing the Potents of Animals/Leaves & Other Resources for "Evils" ..... While Some Use them for Herbs 🌿 ....

The Mind of an Average Black Man is Very Dark & Whatever "Power" You allowed Him is a tool for Danger & Wrecking Havoc!

nony43:
SS- Akwa ibom , Cross River.

SE : Abia, Enugu, Ebonyi.

SW : Ekiti, Osun

NC : Kwara

NW: Jigawa, Kano

NE : Gombe

My opinion.

Na you remember Kwara

obinna58:

Chop I chop government
Tinubu chopping
Seyi chopping
Em wife chopping
Oti chopping
Adeleke chopping
Sanwo olu chopping
Bello chopping
Gandolar chopping
Inec chairman chopping
Nnpc chairman chopping
Foreigners chopping


Everybody chopping
Even monkey and snake is chopping

How can we fight this calamity

Prayers & Hustle .....

Gallant Men needed to Man up & Take Over from the Current Crops of Politicians!

BOSSkesh:
Big rip off
How comes Nigerians are not making this money but foreigners

FX ?
Nigerians would demand Nigerian Naira but Foreign would be paid in Dollars ....

Now You Know why the Dollars is increasing in our Nation ... It's the medium of Sorting