₦airaland Forum

mannobi:
This new generation and obsession to quickly make it is the bane of their generation. At twenty five they want to be able to buy a phone of three million so they can display it online without something tangible as work. What a terrible generation

thesicilian:
Ignorance+ immaturity = failure

Christistruth00:
But why do they have a Problem relating with their real Nupe Yoruba and Igala relatives

Unclebayo:
Pls I need a convincing answer to this before I dive fully in into tech.

zona376:
You dey find big preek for women wey dey find vagina tightening cream. , bros where you wan socket am. The world no balance sha

Vicloteck:
OP , you don't have sense . With all the things happening in the country , na penis enlargement you dey think.

grandstar:
I was born in the 70s and I have been called a "kid" and other senseless things. Some here are just very rude.

nosa2ekundayo:
Urge to knack other punna disappear ...Abi Na Wetin I de read so?

1. Tell us about your job and recent events threatening you there ....this one dey reduce libido.

2. Tell us about your financial income when you were womanizing and now....if now is lower....this one dey depreciate libido, make you dey fear skin to skin, marriage, club, womanizing ,etc

3. Let us know if this babe pass you for status,income, background etc well well....make we get clarification say you no de talk from a position of fear, or on Ur kneels...if Na your case be this, e fit streamline your libido

4. If you suspect say babe infect you too, please let us know....this can also frustrate a man's libido in like manner.

Just share your overall state of being so that we can know exactly how to approach the situation

stevups:
First and foremost, thank God for your life. That woman seems to be your bus/stop. Before I got married, each time I saw a woman the first thing on my mind was to get down under her pant, but when I met my wife there was no that urge at all. Although we stayed away from each other to avoid fornication. When I eventually got married to her, it was a lovely experience. To be honest many challenges came but God made us to triumph over them. A quick one, I don't use ring, my wife has lost her ring too, but I discovered that I do not have urge for any lady again. Sometimes work takes me away from home more than three months at a go, but I always find joy in the bossom of my wife alone. What I notice is that my wife and my baby take a larger percentage of me.. There's something I cherish most in my life which is loyalty. My wife is a paragon of loyalty. If she does any other bad attitude I used to overlook it because of her loyalty. When suffering comes I make sure that I enjoy 85% of it. Just to protect them. Hence marriage is for the rugged. If you are not dogged don't enter marriage because you will soon run out it. If you are ready, please grap your copy and sentence yourself.

Hassanmaye:
I don't like this statement but its true, I once asked my married friend to borrow me 30k he said he doesn't have only for me to check his inbox and saw he transferred 45k to a lady living in Lagos.

Karlifate:
@ bolded:

I knew "God" must be a Computer Scientist

LMAO! 😂 😂

Myer:
If woman love and trust you, she can go to heaven or hell for you to succeed.
But if woman hate you, start to dey fast and pray.

OyinO:
Leave the women alone. Did they force you? The kind of women you find in any society are a direct result of how the men in that society want them to be. And then you turn around to start crying fowl. You Nigerian men love to show off wealth and status to win a woman's love or attention. At the end, you created money loving golddigging women whom you then turn around to condemn. Yeye Nigerian men

Newborn27:
Reading through all the comments baffled me as to who the person breaking sincere women hearts are.....


Every commenter above kept painting women badly....how about we women that were used...jilted and dumped despite the sincere love ..sacrifices and commitment....na same women too?


This campaign about women being useless is becoming harsh on Nairaland that the few innocent ones are getting tangled up in the whole mess.... truly some women are bad but this generalization isn't worth it...have you dated or married all the women in the universe to create a yardstick for generalization?


Eniyan lon ko esin loro....esin o ni ika ninu..

Love56743:
The more you try to understand a woman the more confused you become, just accept them the way they are just for peace to reign, only thing i noticed about them is they are vry emotional, easily to brain wash, mood whine,

otipoju:
A. Say less, do more. Keep an air of mystery about you to avoid "see finish".

B. Don't depend on them for your happiness . You must learn to generate happiness from deep within you.

C. Stay focused on actualizing your vision and don't let her whims make you deviate your from your purpose here on earth.

D. Make sure to ***k her mercilessly that when she remembers you, a huge smile comes up her lips for making her feel good.
It is better to hear her tell you..."please let me rest small", than for her to say "are you already done? "

E. To hold her for long, hold on lightly.For If you hold on too tight, she will slip away from your grip like fish.

burp18:
Plenty of bad experiences. Not a lot of good ones

Stephen2324:
What lesson have you learnt from women?

Skyview01:
You are not doing something right my friend. You should spend a lot of time with pre-intimacy to release the natural fluid of your wife. Focus on pleasing your wife. I could go almost 40 minutes on pre-intimacy alone and now my wife wakes me up in the middle of the night for sex.
She used to complain about pain in the past but not anymore. After 18 years of Marriage, I am even trying to run away from sex as my wife is constantly demanding now. 5 times in the past 4 days and I am sapped out. lol.

Skyview01:
As a student of Stoic philosophy, don't depend on anyone for your happiness.

Firefly2017:
Hello everyone, I am back here since 2017, (don't ask me where I was, long story) just welcome me back plz. I have missed Y'all like I didn't think possible. Nairalanders are a rare bred, the realist bunch😁

luminouz:
And this is what you call mature?😳😃😳...

I blame myself for replying you. So you never even mature into a man and yet, I, a man, is advising you and you are behaving like a dōnkey?

I rest my case. When you mature finish, your eye go clear. YOU WILL LEAARRNNNN!!!

Stephen2324:
What lesson have you learnt from women?

Edusouls:
Humans have failed their creator, their environment, their world, themselves, God has left us to our faith

Proudpolygamist:
Unless you mean book smartness i don't see any other way Nigerian girls are smart. They cram textbooks to pass exams and after that return back to being dumb

There's Never been anything they've successfully pushed to the world especially those ones born from 1990s to date, they've all abandoned the values passed on to them by our mothers

Sucre6:
Bro u messed up big time, first of all you are too available for her and you are crowding her and invading her space, give her space and now that the said she needed space, give her space, don't call, text, chat or even reply to her chat.

Move on , she's fvcking another d!ck, and that d!ck is giving her money, now u can't give her money and if you are not good with your bed game, u loose both side, she won't think twice before dumping your sorry ass

Finally, if u love anything, let it go and if it comes back done treat her any special, treat her the way u treat your regular female friends, and watch her crack

Baba just go hustle, leave her alone.

God1000:
Terrible news.

The kind of awful stories we read everyday in this country eh



I am seriously mystified

michlins:
After changing your identity, you went to a club to enjoy instead of you to lie really low. Like go to a place without Internet connection.

Some people are damn too stupid to be criminals

99thEnemy:

When your time has come, sense is always far from you.

SoNature:
The truth is that this life is more complicated than most of us think. Blessings and curses are of the Lord. The Maker of the universe will decide whether to honour those words or not.

fernandez1:
IDF were once declared terrorist organizations by the United Kingdom in the 30s and 40s…..

Geopolitics depends on interests.

We all pray for peace in that region but United States won’t allow that cos they want to sell weapons to their allies!

God1000:
Too many appointments that benefit only the few, Nigerians are suffering