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mariovito:
1. You're NOT her priority. She has a deeper bond with that kid than she can have with you especially if the kid is still young like below 18. She'll cheat on you to take care of that kid if it comes to that

2. The kid you have with her may be your first ki,but it's not her first. Your kid automatically has an elder sib, do with that information whatever you wish.

3. The father of her kid will/may be in her life for life.

4. At some point, you may have to play father to that kid, knowingly or unknowingly.

You Missed The Topic .. Check Again!
She is the first daughter Not a Babymama!

badboyTee:
learning....

Welcome Jhare ... Don't Follow that Luminouz He will Wrecked You ....

As for the Girl ... Just smile & let her be .. She will come begging telling you you just bown her side .. Now establish your Manhood from there ... Don't ever complain to a woman neither Must You Lament Nor Be Harsh ....

Your heart will race, Your Brain will feel hot .. You will feel some changes within You ... Never be Afraid .. The Hormones of Simping is packing off while Hormone of Manhood is Taking Over ...

Like Change of Guards in Military... Simping will Destroy You ... Manhood will Help You, Your Family & Our Society !

Redpill will make You See Women as "Competitions" ... You Don't Compete with What You are Meant & Charged by Nature to Protect & Guard .... You Don't Compete With What You are Charged to Manned!

She is the Custodian of Your Future Generations, The Vessels through which Your Soul Shall Be Birthed & Manifest Further Souls Upon Earth .. She is a Woman & The Pvssy Through which Your Dick shall be Oiled .. You don't Want to Messed Her Up Nor Overpamper Her ... You Just Want to Manned-Up & Step Up Your Duties!

Sermwell:
I didn't want to go violent!! I just wanted those who brought him to know the fakeness they've been dealing with. Yet they still didn't see it

The Power of Brainwashing is Big !

luminouz:
You have a point but I thought the man sponsored the wife to the UK with his money?

The Day You Realised We "Men" are The Problem of The Society That's the Day You Will Re Evolve Yourself From Redpilling B.S !

Women are The one That Needed the Redpills to Awakened Men into Their Responsibilities Cuz I wonder Why A full Grown Male Would be Behaving Like Toutish-Thug Fvcking around Without Maturities to Manning Up His Duties & Responsibilities !

Even Male Lions, Tigers & Female Animals has started Hunting Preteen with Different Maturities to Manage Hunts but Human Especially Male are Just Devolving Since Sex & Beer is Cheap

Fearyourcreator:
Women are wicked pass anything... them Sabi lie pass anything... if you see Wetin one small girl do me recently sef... I was just telling her colleagues that are males say naso their life be... women no send you ...

That's Whey God Equipped Men with Bigger Brains Than Women's Own ...

AnyMan wey failed to Used His Brain Shall Fall Victim of Women Lesser Thinking Faculty ...

Nonetheless, God still Equipped Women with More Smartness Than Men Once She Focused On Outsmarting You ... By Fraud By Normal, She Will Do You Bad

Kobojunkie:
If you are not careful, the "high-degree madness" go catch you and all those around you if you no take care, particularly depending on what drug you use for it.

Normally, You are Mad But On This One, You are Very Correct!

Musauzor:
If I were the man, I would not complain about it but will surely go my village way by hitting her with a high degree madness or an incurable sickness. The children will later be handed over to me and her whole life will end up in misery. I don't take nonsense.

Don't Be an Ignorant ... No be Every Head Things dey Catch .... If Her God is Awake Na Inside that Village Your own Madness go Reach The Universe ....

Dey Play .... If You No shadow before you cast Spells You will burn your fingers !

Nazgul:
Something was definitely wrong in that marriage. That's very obvious. There was an unsettled grudge the woman was holding against him.

I'm not supporting her in anyway for her actions cos 2 wrongs don't make a right. I just pray they resolve it cos of the kids.

Oga Two Wrongs Makes a Right ... Strike Negative against Negative You have Positive ....

Add Negative to Negative You have Negative !

Two Wrongs don't make a right na ihm dey make people dey develop depression & untimely death !

Nazgul:
I don't know what is it you're defending. But the pictures of her bruised skin is there on the front page for you to see.

My point for the post I made which you choose not to see isn't the sacrifice the man made, but that he failed to settle things with her.

If you beat your wife, and after a while you begin to feel bad, hold her hands and apologize to her, it won't cost you anything.

Don't go out there and buy her an expensive material item; and expect that your gift should serve as an apology. It doesn't work that way. In most cases, she would still be holding that grudge against you because you never officially told her you were sorry for what you did to her.

That's exactly what the man did. He sold all he had to send her to the UK without apologizing for what he did. Unfortunately, she was still holding it against him and acted when the opportunity presented itself.

Olohun !

All Nigerian Male Must Passed Through "Womanhood 101 to 509" ....

It must be added to all Courses from 100L till 500L .... if you carry am, You no Graduate be that

Fiscus105:
This wife is deadler than husband, infact she is a serpent, the level of blame I gave the husband reduced wen I read the extent the wife dealt with her man, who is also father of her children. In future, how will she stand and face him if occasions call for it.

Did she even think, if she can still need his assistant in future?


Woman will take decisions without thinking twice.


A wise person would have given him last chance in UK to try nonsense before doing that, at least to able to justify her actions .

Dude, Women are Delicate thus Must Be Handle with Care ....

Hold her too tight ... She breaks in your palms.

Hold her with levity(Carelessly) ... she drops From Your Hand ...

Just Hold her like normal Man(Humanbeing) Holds & You will be Okay as She Balances Herself in your arms greasing you with Oyels.

But When You Pummelled & Pounded a Woman Enough for her to Secrets Toxicity & Molten Magma .... You No Fit Wait When She is Erupting Hot Lavas .... She will Kill Everything along Her Path ....

A Sane Man('Man'ager) Would Never Lead a Woman to Such Levels of Horribleness!

Women can't do Wrong To Me, She has been Micromanaged & Mismanaged By Her Male Handlers From Daddy, Bro, Uncle, husband, In-laws or Street !

TruthsFM:
Hmm Nawaoooo. I don’t understand this generation again seriously 😐

Gen Z ... Women Liberating Generation!

Bad Men go Hear Am ...

Nazgul:
The man is very foolish. How can you be brutalizing your wife and not expect any kind of reaction from her? Like you beat her every now and then, and you're planning to relocate to a country where the rights of women are seriously protected by the law, and your relocation doesn't give you goosebumps?

Even Joseph in the Bible whom his brother's sold into slavery, when they discovered that he was now a powerful ruler and invited them to Egypt, they still met him secretly and pleaded with him that their father's dying wish was for him to forgive them. They knew what they did to him, and quickly apologized so that if he nursed any plans to deal with them, he'll abort immediately.

This is what this man should have done man if he was wise, he should have called his wife privately and beg her for forgiveness before she travelled, if possible kneel down sef. Let her use her mouth and tell him that she has forgiven him. Cos when you treat people badly, and the tables change, don't expect them to overlook what you did to them.

Besides, I don't even know how some men feel beating up a woman who can't fight back. Like you'd just keep punching and punching her, until you're tired or she collapses? That's horrible.

Anyways he has until January to find something doing, if he has skills, he might get something. Once he's back on his feet, he and his wife can iron things out.

If Wickedness Allows Sensibleness .... Everyone will be Wicked .... The way to meet their loo is for Wicked people to be short-sighted Until Nakamura happened ....

An eye for an eye !

Jeon:
Men are very stupid. They think the bad seeds which they planted can never be harvested.

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But why are they so quick to cry and playing the victim if the Woman is no longer interested ?. And all the other fools will be blaming /insulting the woman without knowing the past events in the Marriage.


Modified : Shout the fuvk to all Men who mentioned me ,If I made this statement in reverse as a man all those comments below won't and will never pump out














Don't try to school me about anything, school yourself first and learn how to live with a woman.Also don't forget to pass some senses on to ur gender.

Ya Papa Left Nyansh for Saying "Men are Very stupid" .... God bless You for the rest of the Post though !

luminouz:
Classic manipulation tactic. It's called the rope-a-dope plus reverse psychology technique.
Infact, I can predict what will happen in the next coming days for you.

But should I? I am tired of advising men who are ignorant of female nature because they don't want to learn. But I will do you one small favour.

1. Don't call or text her EVER AGAIN until she calls you first and then you do something(which is number 2)
2. To know the reason for 1, join the redpill thread and put your story there and I(and the OGs) there will have your back. We will teach you what to do.

The Op Na Boy na ..

All these Under 18s wey wan do what their uncles did ....That girl just want to help him Mould Manhood .... Girls are badass in training boys into Men ...

Laslas, You Shaa Fvck Up .... Redpill Would turn the Innocent Op into Adult Boy 👦 not a Man ....

Why can't you adult Boys just groom someone from SIMPing into Man .....

Build Manhood ... Real Masculinity Energies With Testosterone Flowing like Pacific Oceans Inside of You .... Build Manliness & Command Your World into Orderliness!

Redpill is simply a Crazy Dude for Boys Maturing into Adult Boy 🤪 😜.... Only Adult Boys Follow Women into Playing Stewpid Games & Cards .... !

Be a Man By Putting her in her place if she misbehaves ... Reward her loyalty if she abides ... Let her go if she wanna leave.... Lobatan!

AfroKnight:
You made a very big mistake and I hope it wouldn’t come back to bite you in the butt.

You apologised in a text message even after you stopped just like she wanted.

You got involved with someone who can ruin your life and you gave her the tools to do it.

She weaponised her body.

If you’re unfortunate to meet another woman like her, don’t apologise for pre-intimacy. If you got carried away and feel the need to say sorry, do it in person and make sure she is not recording you. Your “sorry” can be taken out of context and used as a confession to ruin you. Don’t let a woman weaponise her consent.

Leave her alone and forget her. Avoid her.

Protect yourself from women who ensnare men with sexual advances only to stop midway. Once that happens, cut off all communication with her. She is dangerous.

She ain't Dangerous ... no Scare the Kid ...

She is just playing on His Stupidities(Naivety) ... If She Meet OG, She will collect money from Op & Give Am.

Dem dey call am "Collect Money from Opay, Use am Pay Palmpay" !

badboyTee:
Hello Matured Nairalanders,
Advice needed on this.....


Me and my bae been dating for awhile though we met online so when we resumed to school we don't really get to meet.
She is always claiming the serious student using lessons, tutorials and all as excuses .Each time I push us to get to meet up it one excuse to the other.

Boom finally we met accidentally last month, one thing led to another she came to my lodge 30 minutes into our conversation she initiated the kiss we started kissing and I was pressing her boobs , I couldn't take the romance longer then I went down to finger her then she got really annoyed, she stood up that she was leaving I tried telling her not to see me as a playboy (cause am cute though many people perceive me to be a womanizer for that) and in my life she's the second girl have ever loved. She didn't even heed my plea she vexed off wear her cloths back I tried following her to persuade her off the impression she might have of me, she just shouted at me to go back, I followed her she was hesitant that she will trek home i told her to take a bike after several begging she heeded
She took a bike which I paid for I texted her after that to be sure she's gotten home. She didn't reply I called she didn't pick

I texted her on Whatsapp all my texts were all ([I]am sorry for what happened[/I] )after that she read my texts and didn't reply my texts later on she replied with "next time ask for my permission first".

Then about a week later, she asked me for 2k which at that time have exhausted all funds with me which I declined that I don't have anything on me,
We kept talking then all of a sudden she stops picking my call, replying my text, she posts on status each time I text her to show me she's online that she isn't replying intentionally,

Please was my move about her showing all I wanted was sex and what can I do to get her back cause I really love her or is it all lust?

Teenage age is not meant for Dating because You are still a Boy not yet dusted & Dirtied-Moulded into a Man ... Simply face your studies & Leave woman matter till your Matured Age ......

Imagine Your Age Grade Pessing Your Mumu Button Anyhow 😳.....

You are On Emotions, She is On Sense .... She get Sense Pass You .... Reverse Her Sense By Showing Less Care & She would be the one craving your Attentions......

Bro, If You keep on Reversing & Playing Counterintuitive Games .... It will affect your mental Prowess for Studying & Na so People dey fail exams ....

Men are meant to Date Girls/Ladies/Women
Not Boys .... It's Obvious You can't handle her Feminine Magma! ....

Anyway, She will help Mould Your Manhood Don't just Hate Women Afterwards ....

Fountainofyouth:
What a trash load of tales by moonlight

How many children do you have now...6 abi....cos all your thread no dey wonu ara won again? Very incoherent gibberish

Na only you woman dey deal with, as per your brain na foam you no fit reason how to solve issues, na to come here dey look for sympathy

I never see dis kain adult males we get for this 21st century, na to dey cry and wail everytime on woman matter dey look for support and public sympathy online, anono whether e dey boost their immune system or make them more manly, very lily liver nomenclatures, go to twitter(X) they are almost the same as these ones here, hopefully nairaland males do not totally reflect the thought process of most young men offline if not.....

Mafor!
Same goes to Male Out There ....

I Think It's caused By Influx of Babymama ... Many Male Child are Raised Solely By their Mother Due to Irresponsibility from Fatherhood thus The Feminine Instincts(Female Maturities) is now so Much
Be Inculcated in Most Males that Lamentations of Wo-Men(Men like Girls) is Far Beyond The Real Women Complaints !

Most Male(Men) Would also Raised Their Children like That .... Most Men around me are "Wo-Men" ... Only Few "Real Men" Abound ...

Also Fast Cash, Unlike the Olden Days where Masculinity Passed Through Maturities Phases
To Test Their Masculine Energies Against Time & Be Shaped With Different Experiences in order to Better serves as Bedrock of their Families & Societies ... Mba, Yahoo Money, Bitcoin, Binance, Fast Business, Colorado & All Those Satchets Shekpe are the Goings for Most Male Children .....

Women are More Hard-working Nowadays Than Men & I think Women shall become the bedrock of the Societies in the future while Men Remain Weaker(Just Contribute Sperm to Fertilise a Hard-working Women While She Tossed Him Away) Possibly due to Economic Reasons While Women are Now Combining Much Bigger Jobs, Techs & The likes in Prepared-Readiness for Irresponsibleness Emanating From The Male-Folks ..... Atleast She is Readied to Cater for Herself if he won't Manned Up !

The Male Children is Endangered By The Irresponsible Elder Male While The Female couldn't Provide necessary testosterone needed to Sire a Boy into Full Maturities (Iron Sharpened Iron) But Papa Wey Give Mama Belle don Run Comot ... The one wey no run no even Care ... Na Mama dey run all Package ... How such Male Child no go remain Boyish at 40s is dependent on Street .... Street will only train You nasty ... E go Far..

It's a cyclical madness ongoing ... Reversible in the future ... na turn by turn !... Everything will normalise in the future Maybe Next Century(100years from Gen Z) Cuz This new era girls won't Take Nonsense from Boys.... She will start her own Hustles pretty bad cuz she knows depending on fellow Boys is a panacea to be used for Yahoo .... Girls are getting wiser(Stronger) than olden worlds & Men are now finding it difficult to manage an Average girl cuz You Needed extra Manliness to Manage the Girls of Nowadays.... she is educated & Economical viable as You so

osmosis101:
We naija are addicted to bad bad things. Bad govt,bad roads,bad electoral,bad electricity,bad boys,bad girls.. Bro. U need to be bad.

Bad Advice...

Op, Be Good But Take Caution ⚠️!

Wallteck:
I don't know whether it is the environment I'm living people just hate me for being nice and humble, have checked myself whether I have something I'm doing wrong, because I don't know why people just dislike me!!!! Why are we gentle and nice people hated?? Messi and kante are humble and nice but they are not hated like the way people.hate me, is it my environment!!!

If You are a kinda Bolo in Your Environment, Nobody Will Like a Slow Dude under the influence of "Nice" ....

Live In Your Environment Bro !

Racoon:
Again? God heal you sir. Why are all these celebrities fallen sick after stardom and often having challenges of taking care of their health needs? Does it mean they don't save or invest part of the proceeds they acquired along the way in life?

Their pay ain't much !

BOSSkesh:
So many controversies
I believe he’s a good ref sha

That Fvcking Cone headed nigga been dealing against Chelsea since year 0.

Thundafireseun:
Hausa still has the highest percentage of divorce in Nigeria and their women don’t know shit about liberation

See You ... ....
Hausa women sabi pass southern women na hijab you dey fall for

Hausa women Na dem Jah Pass ... smoke(Drugs), Drink & Jinjahhh .... Their own craze no be here .....

Na because Southern women own are Open Na why u think Hausa women under veil no Jah!

rentAcock:
Notice how all those countries are close to Europe or hot tourist destinations. Divorce is a western construct. We don't believe in divorce, if a man is tired of his wife or wants a different flavor all he has to do is marry a second wife. Our women don't believe in divorce because there's no certainty the next man she meets will be any better and she stays because of the children.

she stays because of Economic dependency...

See most African homes are already divorced from second year of marriage na because dem no dey loud am ..... husband & wife fit dey same house but they are like cat & dog .... & they can be like that for the next 30years ....

Thundafireseun:
I'm already guessing that marriages in this African countries are quite cheap.....

If you spend your hard earned money like the igbo man does just to get a wife divorce will be the last thing on your mind

The western world still has the highest rates of divorce and one of the contributing factor is that it’s quite easy and cheap to get married

Although divorce is quite expensive buh they don’t care

Any Country where Women are Liberated Would have higher divorce rate because most liberated women Wouldn't take an Inch of Bullshit from their "Men" ....

The only reason women take craps-Bullshits from men is because you are economically dependent on Him & The Alternative is Far Worse .... if Not, Who will take Craps from Men wey no Sabi Whyne Women out of their own crap!

Two immature people can't stay to enjoy one another mba.... Either Both have sense or One has sense to secure the marriage !

Men are Meant to be Matured Gender But Gen Z Men are Using Colorado, Alomo-Bitters, Ogidigba, Kolaq, Arizona to Ginger instead of Facing the economies Heads-On!

Na Men wey Gallant go "Control" Women & She will Abide While Any Sub-Man(SIMP, Redpiller, MGOTW, Immaturities, Among Other Stupidities) Would Continue to Lament without Evidence ...

Price of Immaturities is "Emotional Wreckages"

mariahAngel:
Happy weekend people. ✨✨✨
It's a beautiful ☀️ Saturday morning, so try to give yourself a good breakfast.

So, if you could have any of these for breakfast, which would you prefer?

Picture credit: Instagram

"A" ni jhare !

YourGFsnatcher:
You are underestimating the power of a governor. Nothing can wike do. Do u know what it means to be a sitting governor? Have u ever seen any governor that fought with his godfather while he was on seat and the godfather did somthing to him? U have no idea the power of a governor. Its not minister ooo

as a Governor, Once Your security architecture is removed You are Naked ....

If problem gassed, State of Emergency would be declared & You lose your seat as Armoured Carriers & Fighter Jets would roll in ....

Nigerian Governor without mercy from Abuja is a Naked oo ..... You will just rely on Thugs, Cults & Touts & once Bigger monies changes hands ... Those ones will start singing new songs ....

You don't understand this Street called "Politics" ... Na Very Darkish Black Dirtiest Games!

ezechi242:
The rate at which Nigerian politicians are going with their greed will determine how fast the nation will crumble, and I pray it happens real fast.

If you are praying to God That's a Foul because God has begun to solidified Nigerian & cemented Us a "Nation" Whether You like it or Not ...

If you are praying to Other dieties, You are still Foul because all the deities in the world jammed together doesn't reach a nano Energies from God ....

Enjoy Your Country, Brother .... It's about to get sweeter ... No more hatred !