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Fall your hand ,no be say we dey the search together? follow me make we continue dey search jooorrr . as for you not marrying a tokunbo... Obatala go help you, there are still some innocent ones amidst them sha

broxymall:
Alas this is a thread o have been lookin for
As a virgin niqqa, Lord knows i cant marry a second hand or third hand or tokunbo woman

back to read
modified you fall my hand, i thought you listed the solution only for you to still walk in my shoes, make i read comment

well... take it or leave it, the world will never outgrow the issue of virginity.
if you av anything to gain from, simply cmment... otherwise hold your peace and let reasonable people do. #ImeannoInsultPlease

Favolly:
The bolded shows how you tried to downplay the fact that you're still interested in knowing if your girl is a virgin or not

Apparently, you created a topic for this purpose, so you're still interested

Are you a virgin yourself?

Don't you have like actual real life worries other than virginity matters?

Please grow up

Reading through an article on the subject, I was expecting a list to eventually show if my present gal is a virgin or not. At the long run, after reading and waiting for some list, the writer ended listing nothing and ending on this note which I quote < .

just pray for a woman that you will be able to accept for who she is and who will give you joy...

It was then it dawned on me that there might not be a specific way to know a womans virginity. And like seriously, I asked is virginity more scarce than 1st class degree?

But stiil, am throwing this out...is there any way to really determine a womans virginity

the bird wins...

if taking a chill pill, the frog will get tired of clinging onto its throat, with time, then it can lauch its attack....

al in name of getting popular and notuced ... well,my eyes wont stop looking anyways

ok..following closely

Can you slap your mum at a busy market for the sum of $60Million?

jennylove7575: I am one of them o. Godforbid I even marry Christian fanatic men. I go cheat on him taya. Boring, boring, and more boring people. Dem no get flavour..just to dey quote big big bible weh forefathers of terrorist middle east people write. Abeg..make I hear word.

lets c how long u can cope with nigeria system of marriage then. Even d celebs dat av evrytyn still divorce

Ceasar1: [color=#000030] What do you mean by ‘SU’ type?[/color]

are u seeing SU for d 1st tym Datz wah dey call suegbe union... U knw,the no makeup,hearing,lip gloss,only scarf with skirt and louse from satin cloth material

theplanmaker: misleading title

apologies!

rozzay: Nawa o. Y people go luk oda threads b4 foring topic. Diarisgod

actually checkd a trend speking on y shud couples sleep together... Then i wrote on the advantage. So there is a big difference

6 years after dating,she now craves on braking up with the guy. This lady happens to b my close pal's girlfriednd. Now asked her a question 'why did u want to breakup?' replied that she needs some space. Well,fine...uv gotten the space u need but she has changed completely(i mean the dressing). She is a SU type (bt uses makeup and earings o)...

The funniest tin now is that after she broke up,she congfessed to missing the guy. I adviced her to go back to him nd she replied 'if your friend is ready to accept me' (wering makeup,earings,trousers,e.t.c) of wich my friend wont eva succumb to her putting on trouser. Thething that baffled me most is dat,asking her d question 'who are u?'...she replied 'this is the real me'. Then i askd,av u bin pretending all this while inn your relatuionship?'... 'yes' she replied.

Now my question is... Can a lady pretend for 6years in a relationship and what advice can you give to her to return to d relationship?

The main article is all about co sleeping... Are u confused?

Have you prayerfully considered these charctesistics when choosing a pertner? So many single men and women are seriously asking for guidelines on finding a compatible mate,these are the women you should try and abstain from...

1 the unbeliever: 2nd cor. 6:14...'do not be bound together with unbelievers for what partnership have righteousness and lawlessness or what fellowship has light and darkness?' Apart from your decision to follow christ,marriage is the single most important decision you will ever make.

2. The material girl: a friend of mine was engaged to a girl from a rich family. My friend saved for months to get her a real diamond ring as a proposal but when he propose,the girl told my friend to go back to the jewelry store to get abetter ring that befits her. She actually wants him to go into debt for her sake. I warned my friend he was stepn into trouble if he should marry such a girl because if he does,he will stay in debt for the rest of his life.

3. The Diva: some guys like to throw their weight around and pretend they are superior to women. The female version of this nightmare are the Divas. They think the world revolves round them and they dont think twice about hurting someone else to prove their point. Some of these women might end up in a leadership position,but real leaders are humble. If you dont see Christlike humility in the woman you are dating,backout!

4. The Delilah: remember Samson? He was an annointed with a superhuman strength but lost his strength when a seductive woman figured out his secret and gave her man the world best hair cut. Like Delilah,a woman who hasnt yielded her sexuality to God will blind you with her charms,break your heart and snip your annointing off. If your woman is ok with sex bfore marriage,back out!

5. The contentious woman: if you have your woman dealing with any past hurts,it will be at your best intrest to let her deal with it before getting engaged to her. Unresolved bitterness can ruin a marriage. Recal proverbs 21:9,' its better to live in a corner of a roof than in house shared with a contentious woman'. If there is till much of anger and unforgivness in her,insist she gets prayer and conselling.

6. The controller: marriage is 50/50 partnership nd it works when both party practice mutual submission according to Ephesians 5:21. Just as guys think they can run marriage,some women think that too. They try to manipulate their decisions to get their way.

7. Mama's girl: its normal for a new wife to call her mom regularly for advice and support. Its not normal for her to talk 5times a day in detail about her marriage including her sex life. That's weird. If your girlfriend hasnt cut the apron strings,proceed with caution.

8. The addict: so many people in church today has not been discipled. Many stil struggle with various kinds of addiction-alcohol,drugs,pornography,e.t.c. Its either we dont control these sins from the pulpit or we dont offer enough support. Am sure you wouldnt like to find out after your marriage that your partner isnt sober. Its beta you advice your partner to get help before you tie the knots.

Your best rule to follow in choosing a wife is found in Proverbs 31:30 ' charm is deceitful and beauty is vain,but a woman who fears the Lord shall be praised'. All you need to look at is the heart.

But i no talk say make u go marry worhworh gal o... #joking

Couples that sleep together gain more than shut eye. Cuddle up with your partner and reap the intimate benefitd of co-sleeping.

Does your partner snores or pull the cover off you at night? Does she have nightmares? Regardless of your partner's sometimes annoying bed time behaviour,the truth is,sleeping with your spouse can actually have powerful and positive effects on your bond.

According to study,couples who sleep together experience good health. They are less likely to awaken during the night and more likely to sleep soundly. Co sleeping also helps to reduce the level of stress hormone.

Co-sleeping also helps to create the feeling of love and intimacy between couples and it plays an important role in relationship and sex life. However,co-sleeping isnt always easy. Many couples want to but finds it so disruptive that they give up and retreat to seperate beds. This has no advantage except to lessen the level of intimacy. It cal also create weakness in emotional connection and the sex life is also going to suffer for it as there is no longer many opportunities for sexual interraction or pillow talk,all of which helps to create feelings of bond and intimacy.

There are some ways to help create sleep for you and your partner.

1. Get on the same sleep schedule: if she sleeps aerlier than you do,u can easily compromise. Move your time backward 1hour and she can also stay awake for an hour before she sleeps to. The compromise wont be easy but when it starts to yield result,you will see its all worth it.

2. See a doctor about snoring: is snoring the main issue about your slee? Resolve to consulting a doctor as there might be many factors behind it. It could be an health problem or likely excess of weight. So be sure to talk to your doctor be it you or your mate,

3. Be considerate: in case of sleeping with the lights on or off,try and talk things out and be considerate. In this manner,the party willing for the lights to be off can easily resolve to using a eye cover at night thereby leaving the lights on. This is part of where understanding and consideration matters most.

luvablesam: Marriage isnt an institution that has a 'one rule fits all' kinda policy...Every family has what works for them...If your family would thrive by everyone having a separate room,so be it.If not,stay in a room...

Do what works for you.

i wonder wat typ of family nd policy such a family z gonna create for d children. Where will d intimacy b wen dey sleep seperately nd to talk of delibrating nd talkn abt issues at dead nyt in their cold bed wrapping dia arms around each oda Wat abt d sex part Abi na tym table u go write for sex Take it or leav it,d intimacy btwn such couples cnt b strong compared to sleepn togeda!

Daddy Sola!!! Mummy Peju!!! I wonder wat d life of d children will turn out to b... Even illitrate parents sef don dey find pet name for demsef. If na Taju,u go hear T.j lof... If na Sade,u go hear S.d sweerie



#teamsweet

Tallesty1: How can you remember what you don't know??
They are heavenly language nah.

heavenly language...u mean lyk speakn in tongues LOL

Hehehehehehehehehe...i gave u a serious #nigerdelta lafta. As if d person postn sef na saint. Seriously,no offence o...if ur dad had d chance,he wil flirt. U knw,my ideology is dat...if u can help a frnd of oda gender to cream his or her body after bath nd notn hapns after wards...trust me u re in d #vipZoneOfFriendship

Thinking of where or how to lodge for your lautech post u.t.m.e. Av got my self up for you. Need accomodation issue just contact me as soon as you can. Limited space available...

glitest: SMH..You'll find a girl..Just make sure you clean your 1960 's spectacles.

forget dah level...dah spec na lyk family treasure o. Am sure she's gonna love it on me.

dmcdad: Hehehehehe. Wahala dey oooooo. Na you find trouble be that ooooooo.

shey na crime mak person pour out him mynd ni Dos gals cn b sumtn else @tyms... #SMH

me.; errrrm, u knw i wanna tel u sumtn

gal: go ahead now. afterall you re my frnd

me; seriously.... i love u

...come see response o...














gal: henhen! shey me?

hunhun! na person wey dey ya bak... as if 3rd party dey dia.

felt lyk gvn her beatn dat day!!!

carry my singlet wear ontop wrapper...put my p.man 1960 gobule for eye...con put chewing stick for mouth dey observe. dunno if me too fit c gal sha #justmythought

Nigeria never gave science a priority like d country of dos billionaire did.. Until d heiracy changes to science bin d 1st nd politics bin a d rare end,its den dis can be achievable. Else...person go bite finger last ni o!!! O sure baje :PNigeria never gave science a priority like d country of dos billionaire did.. Until d heiracy changes to science bin d 1st nd politics bin a d rare end,its den dis can be achievable. Else...person go bite finger last ni o!!! O sure baje

Kegel exercise helps to strengthen the pelvic muscle which controls the flow of urine and hold the pelvic organ in place.
weakness in pelvic floor can cause bladder control problems or sagging of some pelvic organ. this exercise is often prescribed for ;

- stress incontinence in both men and women
- urge incontinence in men,a need to urinate that is so strong that you cant reach the toilet in time.
- pelvic floor weakness due to child birth. if you are pregnant,start doing kegel exercise and continue after having your baby.

HOW TO DO KEGEL EXERCISE.

It is easy to do and can be done anywhere without anyone knowing.

1. first while sitting or lying down,try contracting the muscles you will use to stop urinating. you should feel your pelvic muscle squeezing your urethra and anus. if your stomach or buttocks muscle tightens,you are not exercising the right muscle.

2. after you've gotten that,squeeze the pelvic muscle for 3secs while urinating(stop d urine) then relax for 3secs.

3. repeat the exercise 10-15times each session. try doing this atleast 3times daily.

they are most effective when done regularly.

bushdoc9919: Google treacher-collins syndrome....and learn !

seriously,google dey try o!.this is y i hate biology,cell,mutation nd odas. u just bump into some indescribe words u dnt knw(even if gvn d definitio ,u cnt object). @least got wah am look for #proudlyphyscisist

Finekunlex: Hahaha..lol..u don't have to be scared jare...read the article jor and try to believe to undestand it....
http://sayoaluko..com/2014/07/v-behaviorurldefaultvmlo.html?m=1

seriously d article is really educative. d funniest tin is dat most of these qualities re in me and am tryn to learn d rest. bt wat if d oda party doesnt know as much as i do

To be serious,each and every man and woman actually does have an 'owner's manual'. Nothing is written down anywhere but the direction for operation of an individual in a relationship are detailed and specific nonetheless. So,when you start out with someone,its like driving a strange car for the first time and none of the controls are labelled(bro,na brain b dat o). So the wipers can come on strange at times,sometimes you get stall. We even meet people with bad steering,no brakes,headlights too dim,prone to backfiring and all that. Which is why when people gets ready to get married,they choose basic transportation

For me,the best part of the relationship is when you are sick. And the best time to be sick is when you are in a relationship. You know all those vows in marriage 'for richer,for poorer,for better for worse...'. All i need is the sickness part. To me,it should be like,'do you take this man in sickness?'

Don't get me wrong,wedding is a beutiful one. The vows,costumes and all that. The actual fact is just that wedding is like joining togrther of a beutiful,glowing bride and some guy.

To me,the difference between being single and married is the form of government. When you are single,you are the dictator of your own life. You have complete power. I give the order to fall asleep on the sofa with the t.v on and a bowl of pop corn by my side in the middle of the day and no one can overrule me.
When you are married,you become part of a vast decision making body. Before anything is accomplished,there's got to be meetings,committees have to study the situation. And this is if the marriage works out. Think this is why divorce is so painful. You've been impeached,yet you weren't even the president!

Brazil named Dunga as their new manager for the second time on tuesday,two weeks after Luis Felipe Scolari resigned following their 7-1 defeat by Germany in the world cup semi final.

The 50 year old Dunga who captained brazil to their 4th world cup title in 1994 was last in charge of the national team in 2010 when he was sacked due to his inability to proceed past the quarter finals in Soth Africa.

''I am immensely happy'' he said. Dunga who played for a host of clubs in Brazil,Japan,Germany and Italy was known for his combative midfield style as a player and led Brazil to their 4th world cup in United states in 1994. He became the manager for the first time for the Brazil national team in 2006,but,although he won both 2007 and 2009 copa america and confederations cup respectively,his team crumbled when they went behind Holland in the 2010 world cup quarter finals and lost 2-1.