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Since some (not all) the females in these discussions tend to go off on one about how men are cheaters, selfish, useless or lazy I thought I'd put the question across to find out why the nice guys willing to be devoted and caring are overlooked for because of either their assets, financial status or physical appearance,

I have no problem with men, I'm a decent looking girl or so I've been told so please don't think this a desperate plea for sympathy. However over the weekend I met a woman who told me she prefers pretty boys with money and a nice car even though the strain is etched on her face!!!

So answer me this whats the first thing you look for in a guy is it status, finance, looks or is it personality and honesty!!! (understandably there needs to be a degree of physical attraction, what about the rest!!!)

also love to eat my cake and have it all over.

Hello Ms Shaun Asewo, where do you suggest we move the post to, if that is your choice(s) of amusement?

does anyone else think bad spellings oftwen makes women look uglier OR boyish??

For me, it is spending time with my family, reading, dog training, beekeeping, like to chat and try to put the world to act right, up-setting people and so on_____

stillwater:
Pardon my ignorance. I thought hotpants were very short shorts . I've only seen skirts on leggings.

i 'thought rightly' you have only just seen skirts on leggings so i will leave it to you to find the hot pants from these pics or perhaps as you rightly wrote, they are not hot, you don't have to ask for forgiveness due to the pressure of ignorance, that’s your prerogative.

chichi81 girl, yours suggestions are examples of meaningless, abnormal thinking and perceptions and technobabbles like the inventor of this and that, first to achieve this or that, father of this and that. its not even smart, just a catalogue of errors itemizing ludicrous claims

sometimes the hard way is the only way.

Absolutely nothing! status quo is the situation, safe for sending some fools to the holy lands, my kins getting some fat project management bargain deals , many more mistakes like the artilleries shelling and wipe-out some villages (Zaki Bam- Benue State) under Obansanjo, kok-ups like opening fire on unarmed citizens and dogging with beautiful young girls by beer-bellied-politicians! and so on.

you are more likely to die getting out of your underwear! than taking off flying aeroplanes. In other words more people die globally from removing their undies than from aviation disasters and we all think that's not a bad experience .

stillwater and zigbo its easy to know hot-pants and leggings when you see one because they are piping hot! and at the same time very cool on the feminine skin. suze & D-reloaded, fanks what you wrote was top notch, personally i won't take offense to your suggestions.

rotimy this might not be very clear but i will try my utmost so that you can at least understand. so you have seen some abiku and agbanjes now, I'm sure you must have heard and seen 'youngins' with Haemoglobinopathies and other inherited diseases that runs in family and predisposes to dying young resulting in that dreaded repeated cycle of death and tragedy code named agbanje and abiku. trust me God can't safe them because God has not wiped out my sickle red cells even if my faith is as small as a mustard seed. And I'm sure you must have heard and perhaps seen an agbanje or an abiku that finally stayed 'igbonigis' that is deformed with slurred speech on the street too? well that is just due to intolerance of some amino acids in his diet(Inborn Errors Of Metabolism) especially when they were still young and growing leading to a spectrum of behavioural, physical and brain anomalies. Forget about praying to heal a possessed kid and look into the family history and if anyone has had that kind of problem in the past then it is a familiar anomaly (genetic because it runs in the family), the type our fake azz G.O and pastors call familiar spirits.

plz don't think its your prerogative to put on the Armour of faith and fight the fight of salvation even on a public forum that is free for all as long as it sings an all for all anthem. Stop preaching here i willingingly yielded myself to God and not you, nor any pastor did that for me, don't pull any wool on God's eye. You will not be preferentially bless in heaven because you think you had converted 10,000 souls that's pipe dream. When you know the truth and daddy sets you free you are free in deed, excerpt from John' 8:32 & :36

what are you trying to drive out in a little kid when the problem is nutrient imbalance! or other forms of child abuse.No wonder God wrote his words that she/he's so so sad that she created human being! there is nothing to cast out here, feed the kid balanced diet, less Gaari and kulikuli and see the wonders of good food! the kid will become rational overnight, vibrant, full of energy and developing well. With respect, i beg to differ- there is no way a young kid with little or no sin at all suddenly becoming possessed by the wise serpent, think a little deeper and you realize its all futile effort trying to drive-in or -out what's not there in the first instance. Rather than making it out that the kid is possessed, agree he is different perhaps gifted, pool his natural talents and gifts to productive things, football, gymnastics, athletics, track and fields activities, website development like seun, music, reading, electronics and so on.

Seun your suggestion is very good but it has that touch of poshness, i really don't think she will appreciate it, she might considere it a little patronising or maybe i'm being a little too critical

One of my friend is size 20.when discussing what she was wearing to a party, she described a long, tight top with hot pants and leggings. How do I tell her nicely she is far too fat for tight clothes, or do I not?

almondjoy u making me laugh too much

i don't know where the frown comes from? WOMEN do have male friends especially if you work in a mixed establishment, from churches,younger males that need your help or expertise, disabled males, gay males, males in stable relationships,males in prison that you might visit to encourage, males that will not jeopardize your own relationship at your expense and so on. but those men will never become your best buddies because you won't just tell you sweety that you want to go and say hi to your still single male mate in his house, if you decided to visit a verile fella in his own house which is an invitation to go to the next level of familiarity, any consequences will be your doing like getting yourself into a very tight situation or getting tipsy. keep your husband as best friend. men mostly align with men and women likewise, it starts from kindergarten to women and men section at the point of death in developed hospitals and its universal. I won't even go into the mistakes that might happen, girls have common sense not to have male friend that will be a direct threat to their husband especially the pretty, young, rich and single type.Men chasing after single women are frown up in civilized society too its a two way process

almondjoy how right! your words are genius!! Ng to the core!!!

just! eat!! less!!!

I can't stand fake azz Christians like that. And this type of abuse are encouraged by pretentious pastors in ng. Claiming fire and brime stone when there is none, witch-hunting 'youngings' when what is really wrong with the little kid might be something as small as vitamin deficiency resulting in meltdown of behaviour

I support you without a shadow of a doubt- they should all die by public execution through frying in hot palm oil

No more China?

Elephant

pigs do that and dogs, low lifes

Merry Christmas! and Happy new year to every well meaning Nigerian at home and abroad. God will shepard us in all our ways, Ali-ham du lilai o, Ogun a gbe gbogbo wa o,

i know more than two eminent authority without earned higher degree (PhD)

men that dare to be different great views totally different!

he should rot in hell with his ill gotten wealth