I've complained alot here on nairaland about my ex boyfriend who broke my heart for no good reason.
I need answers, so i created another fb account ( i know, thats immature, but i wouldnt get over him if i dont know the truth). I sent him a friend request and we started chatting ( i used a guys profile.) i complained that i had a gf who broke up with me with no cause and my ex came out too. According to him, i did the same thing too. Wtf! He sent me a message stating that he had a new gf and that i was stupid. But he didnt let that all out. Yes, i did ask him if he wanted us to split and he was like, "if thats what you want" i wanted him to say no. But he didnt. He told me (my other account), that he broke up with me because he didnt want to be a source of unhappiness in my life.
He is naturally sweet and he likes pleasing me. If i tease him that im angry, he would take it seriously and apologize. Then i would have to explain that im joking. Typing...

Ivy

Following.

He's babyish and thats why i loved him. I could be myself with him. So when i asked him to break up, heartbroken hoping he would say no, he wanted to please my by granting my wish! He agreed.
He still loves me. Im a wicked girl who broke his heart. I misunderstood him, bla bla bla. Im shocked, so now he's the victim? Wow. Guys are the most complex creatures to walk the earth.

Blackivy29:
I've complained alot here on nairaland about my ex boyfriend who broke my heart for no good reason.
I need answers, so i created another fb account ( i know, thats immature, but i wouldnt get over him if i dont know the truth). I sent him a friend request and we started chatting ( i used a guys profile.) i complained that i had a gf who broke up with me with no cause and my ex came out too. According to him, i did the same thing too. Wtf! He sent me a message stating that he had a new gf and that i was stupid. But he didnt let that all out. Yes, i did ask him if he wanted us to split and he was like, "if thats what you want" i wanted him to say no. But he didnt. He told me (my other account), that he broke up with me because he didnt want to be a source of unhappiness in my life.
He is naturally sweet and he likes pleasing me. If i tease him that im angry, he would take it seriously and apologize. Then i would have to explain that im joking. Typing...

Babes forget that loser, your probably not over him cos your lonely, with time a better guy will come your way. Move on

Blackivy29:
He's babyish and thats why i loved him. I could be myself with him. So when i asked him to break up, heartbroken hoping he would say no, he wanted to please my by granting my wish! He agreed.
He still loves me. Im a wicked girl who broke his heart. I misunderstood him, bla bla bla. Im shocked, so now he's the victim? Wow. Guys are the most complex creatures to walk the earth.

You're really heart broken. Pele

healthserve:
Ivy

Im so angry. He called my wicked. I cried for him. I dont get guys, simple. Im straight forward. As im typing im also chatting with him.

Blackivy29:
Im so angry. He called my wicked. I cried for him. I dont get guys, simple. Im straight forward. As im typing im also chatting with him.

Tell him you're cool with the breakup but can't move on if he doesn't explain the motive for the breakup. Tell him its the least he can do, some of us are this way. You need reasons. Tell him to give you reasons. Simple

dottozil:


Babes forget that loser, your probably not over him cos your lonely, with time a better guy will come your way. Move on

Im trying to. I really loved him. I dont get him at all. If he were cheating, fine. If he was tired of dating, ok. But him blaming me! I wanted answers to move on. But his excuse is mindblowing. Like im this bitch who hates him. Before we broke up, 5 hours ago, i sent him a message telling him to be safe health wise and all. When i logged back in, he sent me a message that im stupid.

Blackivy29:
Im so angry. He called my wicked. I cried for him. I dont get guys, simple. Im straight forward. As im typing im also chatting with him.

At this rate, you will probably go crawling back to his hands, if he wanted to pls you he should have done that by telling you how much he loves you, well I forsee your next thread being 'had I known'.

why are you generalizing it the fact ur bf is stupid doesn't make others stupid

All these babies going into relationships sef

I dey wait make u finish the Tori before I drop my observation

Chai.After all the whole female miseducation.

Abfinest007:
why are you generalizing it the fact ur bf is stupid doesn't make others stupid

I didnt say guys are stupid. But as the opposite sex, confusing.

dottozil:


At this rate, you will probably go crawling back to his hands, if he wanted to pls you he should have done that by telling you how much he loves you, well I forsee your next thread being 'had I known'.

I just wanted answers. When we broke up, he gave me none. Rather he was dribbling me like a ball. I was confused. If he had a good reason, i would have left him. But now that i got a chance as to why the love of my like broke my heart, i wish i hadnt. Hes blaming me in that innocent way. And he believes it. Because he doesnt know its me.

I think Mrs.education is not working. Na only theory you sabi you no fit do practical.

Typical Nigerian student.

JONNYSPUTE:
Chai.After all the whole female miseducation.

I didnt listen to sandra, right? I dont get him at all.

Chrisokifo:
I dey wait make u finish the Tori before I drop my observation

I have.

Funmmyastic:
Following.

Evening dear.

Blackivy29:
He's babyish and thats why i loved him. I could be myself with him. So when i asked him to break up, heartbroken hoping he would say no, he wanted to please my by granting my wish! He agreed.
He still loves me. Im a wicked girl who broke his heart. I misunderstood him, bla bla bla. Im shocked, so now he's the victim? Wow. Guys are the most complex creatures to walk the earth.

You knew his kind of person, why then did you bait him with that question?

Korllami007:
I think Mrs.education is not working. Na only theory you sabi you no fit do practical.

Typical Nigerian student.

im angry please. This isnt a laughing matter. I will start reading them now.

In other words Nairalanders should be alert to your singleness..


Unless you stop dating, except many more heartbreaks on the way.


I'm currently planning on breaking up with mine because she said she's not experienced a heartbreak before..

I mean you no that scenario where by a coach who hasn't been sacked before always retire (breakup) before receiving a sack letter.

I don't want that to happen with me.

The record is too great for her; I must do guy's the honor.

Piece of sh!t..

Blackivy29:
I just wanted answers. When we broke up, he gave me none. Rather he was dribbling me like a ball. I was confused. If he had a good reason, i would have left him. But now that i got a chance as to why the love of my like broke my heart, i wish i hadnt. Hes blaming me in that innocent way. And he believes it. Because he doesnt know its me.

Baby.

Have you tried begging him?

Please don't get me wrong but I think u sort of took his babyish nature for granted.
When he told u about the whole g.f stuff, u thought he was bluffing. What if it was a test, what if there is no girl anywhere?


..... It's just my perspective. Not a conclusion.

SenecaTheYonger:


You knew his kind of person, why then did you bait him with that question?

that wasnt my intention. I was crying over the phone because initially i had asked him why he sent those mean messages and he was dodging. He denied then at first. Then he would apologize then complain that im confusing him.

Headlesschicken:
Piece of sh!t..

thanks

You've just been played.

If you've had sex with him them am sorry to say that that's all he wanted and nothing else.

He was sweet to you and then suddenly changed, he don chop finish na wetin again remain?

Now he's trying to push you away without giving you any tangible reason cuz that is how they are.

he has moved on from you to his next victim (His new GF) , I just dey pity the girl.

Tomorrow now guys like this will come to nairaland whine and rant about women and insult them

Stop crying for that he-goat, he is not worth your tears.

Men and their wahala.

lilmonarch:
All these babies going into relationships sef

He was my first bf that i loved like hell.

internationalman:
In other words Nairalanders should be alert to your singleness..


Unless you stop dating, except many more heartbreaks on the way.


I'm currently planning on breaking up with mine because she said she's not experienced a heartbreak before..

I mean you no that scenario where by a coach who hasn't been sacked before always retire (breakup) before receiving a sack letter.

I don't want that to happen with me.

The record is too great for her; I must do guy's the honor.

internationalman:
In other words Nairalanders should be alert to your singleness..


Unless you stop dating, except many more heartbreaks on the way.


I'm currently planning on breaking up with mine because she said she's not experienced a heartbreak before..

I mean you no that scenario where by a coach who hasn't been sacked before always retire (breakup) before receiving a sack letter.

I don't want that to happen with me.

The record is too great for her; I must do guy's the honor.

what? Dont please. Heartbreak is annoying.

Blackivy29:
I've complained alot here on nairaland about my ex boyfriend who broke my heart for no good reason.
I need answers, so i created another fb account ( i know, thats immature, but i wouldnt get over him if i dont know the truth). I sent him a friend request and we started chatting ( i used a guys profile.) i complained that i had a gf who broke up with me with no cause and my ex came out too. According to him, i did the same thing too. Wtf! He sent me a message stating that he had a new gf and that i was stupid. But he didnt let that all out. Yes, i did ask him if he wanted us to split and he was like, "if thats what you want" i wanted him to say no. But he didnt. He told me (my other account), that he broke up with me because he didnt want to be a source of unhappiness in my life.
He is naturally sweet and he likes pleasing me. If i tease him that im angry, he would take it seriously and apologize. Then i would have to explain that im joking. Typing...

The problem is you don't know the reason behind is action that's why you are in a state of confusion. If he doesn't tell you why he's acting weird, you can forget him before you start having migraine because of relationship.
I know that you don't want to lose him because of his good guy behavior and probably your next boyfriend may not be as nice as him but life is a gamble, play responsibily.