₦airaland Forum

Pukkalolo:
A lot of men grew up starving for real affection. They didn’t grow up with love—they grew up surviving.

No passionate hugs. No real reassurance.
No softness. Just expectations. Just pressure. Just toughness.

So the moment a woman shows you basic care—she calls to check on you, she texts you “have you eaten?”, she cooks for you when you’re stressed—you start thinking, “Ah, this one is different… this one is wife material.”
But that’s dangerous thinking.

Because basic care is not special—it’s the bare minimum. Any decent woman can do that.

That sweet woman, with the innocent smile, can still ruin your entire future.

You’ve been warned.

daneni1:
Please share a link of Gaggii's tread

Fehinlean:
Hey Sapphire, thank you for posting my story, a couple of people sent me the link.

maxinvile:
She was no longer interested in the relationship after I have fixed her in a Federal Government Job in Nigeria penultimate to our introduction. I will pencil down the story one day in this forum for people to learn from the sardonic experience.

Bobbyrobby1:
y some people nor get sense,so if ur pastor share condom in church u will take abi,smh,den wat is he trying to preach by sharing condom,pre marital sex by youth,giving them the will to have sex,after all na my pastor give me condom,e say if I nor fit hold body make I use am.some nairaland people need to check their brain every time una go dey talk rubbish.thank god for ur deliverance beautiful

Zdoh:
Rate? Can you send as gift/friend.

Zdoh:
Which one skrill, btc, paypal etc?

Zdoh:
Cash or e-currency? Be specific.

seangy4konji:
Forget rubbish. The man is right. I entered a nike store in Dubai mall. They hanged new nikes and I asked him for the price of the two best sellers. 750 dirhams and 460 dirhams. It was the best. Just because I was wearing shortk nicker and slippers.he who're directed me to cheap ones. I say you are crazy. I had 5k $ that day to buy my Philip plein and timberland I drop 2 thousand on the table and asked for the manager. Was telling me sorry. Timbs cost 170. I bought both nikes and a timbs from the manager. Gave him 50 us $ for his effort cursed the bitch. Bad customer service. You don't judge people who come I patronize you. You don't know who they are.

sucobaba:
YES if
a) after doing your findings (internal and external), your interviewer(s) are gamers. Many of these coys provide top range game consoles for relaxation DURING break periods.
b) if you can easily relate the games to the job specs as someone rightly said.
Cheers

kaka22:
While I was searching for job, I put "watching educative seasonal films like desperate housewives, apprentice and listening to good music from olamide, oritse femi" on my cv. I was asked in an interview what I learnt in desperate housewives. I structured my answer in a way that highlighted the importance of family while working i.e work-life balance. After my answer, all the ladies on the panel were impressed. In fact, it made my interview to be fun in a kind of way. At the end of the process, I got the job.
Note: I later edited the examples out like desperate housewives, olamide.
Yes, you can put it on your CV but have a well thought out explanation in case they ask you what you benefit from the game apart from fun but you may not include it to play it safe unless you are like me