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u11ae1013:
apart from fufu and cocoyam soup, what resources can you people boast of

Human resources

Kaduna state seals off Kaduna to Kano road

This set of SE Governors have done so well on infrastructure and human capital development except that fat Kerosene distributor in Abia state called Okezie Ikpeazu. He is an embarrassment to the good people of Abia state and Igbos
I learnt his family migrated to Abia state from Ogbomosho

YoungPerson:
They say too many cooks spoil the broth but I'll give you my two cents.

Don't tell anybody. Not even your sister. Make your life as private as possible. If you try it, you will know the true meaning of stigmatization. Even if your family eventually warms up to you (some will never), the truth will out everywhere to your extended family. You won't be able to attend family functions, etc. Don't start an interfamily village people standoff.

Even if you have to, start your family first. Let the child come into the world. If they can reject your child along with you, then f**k them. Simple as ABC.

I.like this suggestion too, keep your matter private and build your family, consult experts about healthy living and how to handle the pregnancy and childbirth. Build trust in her.
God bless you bro, it takes courage to do this.

Guy hustle, improve yourself and pray, her father's reaction doesn't have much to do with your HND, I have been in a similar situation with my my good University degree but without money, I forgot about her when she didn't resist her family and moved on.
Got married to another lady.
Today my level don high and we still speak, but with my level of exposure, international travel and trainings I have received I realised she doesn't measure up with me anymore intellectually. Our discussion is no longer very interesting.

This Coro has shown that SW after voting Buhari and castigating Igbos are not having the best of time under this Govt

SkinnyDude:
hahaha.. I don't know why they act that way.. very any how people.if na white, she won't mind sending you the money.. so far she don love up

You have continued talking about them sending you money, you must be from Edo state, they love being dashed money from abroad so much without enquiring what their women do to get the money abroad

tiptoe1:
I believe some of them are cool headed but majority are insane bro. The ratchetness in them is disgusting, always trying to be hardcore. They're always complaining about people being fake but they themselves aren't any different.

I can see people attacking you here thinking you're just typing nonsense. I just pray none of them gets into their mess

I see on Paternity Court where they display their true self in a fit of anger such as a mother of Six not sure who is responsible for her seventh baby. You quickly notice the damage done to their psyche by being brought up by single mums.
Only very few are reserved, my friend in US is in court with former wife over child support because he is not sure if their child is his

SkinnyDude:
one very old akata woman from Atlanta wey I meet for FB.. she is 62. I shock say me and this woman dey sex chat and share nude.. but whenever I ask her for money. she go vex. na em I tear race oo

International beggar, the account numbers wey una dey post for Nairaland upandan never do you

Ejusni:
And I was drooling over black American women LOL seems it's just to have sex with them and move on, I can't deal with any LaQueshia or whatever freakish name they give themselves and the accompanying drama, I can take a lot of shit but gays and transgender freaks in my house never!... White chicks here I come!

Watch this to get an insight into the OP, there are several episodes to open your eyes


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fV-15yg2rHc

drips8:
I've watched the show a couple of times and most of the people on it are negative but still they don't represent the black community in America. Many might lead questionable lifestyles though.

From that show I could see how a lot of black men wasted good part of their lives paying Child Support and even going to jail for not paying for children that sometimes turned out not to be their own biologically

khiaa:
He's lying and you are a fool if you thinks he's not. He said we were all the same, how on earth would he know that about millions of women? I am nothing like what that bigot described.

There are good AA women, my uncle has been married to one for years and she is religious, she has a child from a previous relationship but decided to learn how to live with a Nigerian man.
But I do watch Paternity Court on YouTube and can relate with most of what he described here

drips8:
Your tips are beginning to sound like crude stereotypes. There are both good and bad people in the African American community.

Please watch Paternity Court on YouTube by Judge Lauren and you will realise that OP is on point

Ussycool:
How did he manage to earn this title Dr. Ganduje?

Academia or Proffessional?

He is a fool.

He is a PhD holder from OAU Ileife

FG should take over the management of Coro from Ganduje and declare a state of emergency in Kano but Buhari and NCDC are still playing politics with the disaster happening in Kano which may hit the whole country if precaution is not taken

dingbang:
Preshieben


If she wants to start a new life afresh, send me a pm.

Don't PM anybody here, so that you don't compound her problem

Preshieben:
you see
From what she has been telling me
Her dad was brought up in an abusive home
I think that's where the problem lies

It has nothing to do with how her dad was brought up, did she grow up with her dad?
Let her go to the church elders to look into the matter, they will intervene and have a discussion with the parents, she must be ready to accept the decision of the church council and elders and abide by any code of conduct they may decide.
She must be willing to apologize for any hurt she may have cause them and be ready to change, things she may not tell you but the parents can open up to the elders.
You can accompany her to the church elders as her friend.
Why is her relations not intervening, why is their neighbours not intervening? Why is her siblings not facing similar situation. There are things you don't know about this matter that is hurting her parents even as pastors, stop being overly emotional if you intend to help your friend

Isiguzoro is the impostor Ohameze Youth Leader, he is not recognised by Ohameze Ndigbo.
Yoruba media keeps giving him cheap publicity

yanabasee1:
Well..... I wish to have friends that will allow me to squat with them and be making this kind of savings to be contemplating about building a house....

God give me these type of friends mbok!!

He never told you he is squatting for free, he is contributing to the running of the house, that's how it works, it's even possible he spends more than renting his own apartment, but due to reasons of yet to decide what to do with his life he is squatting

fulaniHERDSman:

Why cause grief for this innocent minors Did they bring themselves into this world Why make it seem they are the originators of COVID19 Why are they treated without concideration of any atom of human rights.

MY LAWYERS WILL BE GETTING THE BRIEF TO PROCEED ON THE STOPPAGE OF THIS HUMAN RIGHT ABUSES OF THIS INNOCENT HELPLESS CHILDREN BY GOVERNMENTS.

ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!!!

Start your campaign by buying Super Glue in large quantities and sending to the North to be used to seal up the Vaginas and Penises of their parents to stop producing more of the Almajiri children for Nigeria, part of problem solved

There are quite a lot you don't know about your friend, she must have hurt her parents in a manner that eats deep into them.
Solution: Let her report the issue to elders of the church and the church council and be willing to apologize for whatever wrong she may have done. The elders still give her a code of conduct in the house and she must be ready to abide by their decisions.
The parents will also inform the church council their expectations from her hence going forward.
Tell her that if truly she sees herself as a child of God endurance is very important even when you are being persecuted and for her to stop speaking about harming herself.

No noise, just post his picture with a reward and you will get him within 48 hrs.
Then you can castrate him and use his blockos to appease the gods of the land

IkpuNnegiEwu44:
God will heal him and his family ooo. AIT is the only station telling it as it is presently, no wonder this evil govt wants to shut them by any means but they won't survive.

Channels TV has become another NTA. APC's propaganda TV

The only thing remaining for Channels TV is to start using that NTA music Tototuu totu totuu, tarrara tara..... for their news at 10pm

BEEFIE:
an Igbo man is in charge of CBN... through his efforts our currency got devalued from 268 now 498

That one na career civil servant bowing for Issa Funtua to keep his job, I mean real business men

You plan to keep it as pet, that thing outlives it's owners, remember the one at Oba of Ibadan Palace called Baba Agba which has seen several king's for 300 years

IMF conditions are not for African economies to achieve growth or they will become irrelevant as no country will need there money anymore.

Allow Igbo, Hausa, Yoruba, Efik,TIV etc business men to negotiate on our behalf with IMF and they won't be able to cheat us and not career civil servants doing it. The average Igbo man will never trust a White man and would ensure that every Kobo counts. Ask GTB and Innoson

kodakat:
Everyone knows this even Northerners except yorubas.

Every Yoruba person knows this except Yoruba Muslims

Susu888:
R.i.p

..He was a great man.... amongst the few honest nd good Nigerian leaders of his time.

If not for his likes OBJ for don turn naija to his father's inheritance.

Thank you for your service sir..
2020 is taking a huge toll on the north nd its leaders... i fear we are loosing too many important states men.

Who's next?

Its fake news, keep your fake tribute to yourself

yyba:
It is high time the management of nairaland should stop all this IPOB online miscreants from posting news.

All these indomie children shouting IPOB and Afonja have become irritants here, they don't add value to discussions because they are bereft of knowledge on issues.

Nairaland MODs should verify information before pushing it to FP, once it hits FP a lot of people believe it to be true.
We wish Hon Ghali Naaba Long life and good health.

Any MOD that sends fake News to FP should be made to bear full responsibility for any distress caused.

Seun should also be sanctioning the MODs not only banning the accounts of Nairalanders for infractions, it's better to have Snakes stories daily than unconfirmed stories in Front Page.

Poor structural engineering and materials.
The contractor should be help liable, this is why engineering students are taught strength of materials to know the load bearing capacity of construction materials and types of foundation for various terrain.