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Take care of your hair. Keep it neat. Get a good haircut like two step and have a clean shaved beard. If your beard grow poorly remove it entirely.

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Make sure you are physically fitted.
Do regular exercise. You must not go to the gym .
You can exercise at home with workouts like plank, press up, push up, jogging etc.

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There was a guy I know who has gynecomastia ( a condition in which a man's chest protrudes like breast).

The guy has been asking ladies out n most kept rejecting him, the lady that agree to date him told him no kissing or romance . Only hug .I felt bad for him sha but this is somtin under his control.

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If you are overweight it will reduce your chances of getting the kinda ladies you want.

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Your body is a major element of attraction #FitFriday

You need to look presentable guys.
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The first lesson to learn is you are addressed the way you appear.
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I don’t know whether you are young or old, rich or poor, creative or traditional, so, to get a great look, you need a personal choice. Look at guys who have the identity you want to convey and copy what they are doing until you develop your own sense of personal style.

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You need to spend some time to fix what is going wrong with your clothes and find a dressing style that is great for you.

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Dress like a guy who gets laid and you will get start getting laid.
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For example, if you’re a musician, dress like one, but make it look nice, so you don’t look like a starving musician. If you want to communicate success, wear a nice suit, but if you don’t want her to think you’re too boring, try a couple of pieces of jewelry.

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• Dress to fit a stereotype. She is going to make judgments about you based on how you dress, so dress in a way that helps her make the judgments you want.

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Do not wear clothes that are too tight, it makes you look girlish.
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If you have a nice body, show it off with your clothes, but not too much. You can unbutton your shirt a little to show your ripped chest.

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• If you’re overweight, black clothes make you look thinner. If you’re short, vertical stripes make you look taller (and horizontal stripes make you look shorter).

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• Don’t be too boring. If you dress boring she will assume you are boring. Don’t overdo your outfit.

If you have a couple of pieces that stand out (for example, cool boots and a great jacket, jewelleries ) rock them.

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•Make sure you clothes are clean, always. Ripped clothes can be fashionable, if done right, but dirty clothes never are. This is especially important for your shoes. Women notice shoes. If yours can be polished, polish them.

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So, how you dress is unbelievably important. Some things are up to individual taste, but here are some rules which will always help you:

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That is why some ladies reject you without even getting to know you.
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• She is going to draw on stereotypes from the media, especially movies and television, and assume that you live like, or are trying to live like, movie or TV characters who dress in a similar way.

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• She is going to assume that you behave and live a lifestyle similar to those of other men she has met who dress in a similar way.

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• She will make implicit assumptions about you without even realizing it. Before she even really notices you, she may already think you are “boring” or “sexy” or “creative”.

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A woman thinks this through in her mind on how you dress:
• She knows that your clothes didn’t fall on you by accident. You made a choice to wear these clothes and she will use that information to make assumptions about you.

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The purpose of the above was to put you inside a woman’s head. This helps us understand part of her thought process when she looks at how you dress.

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The third man probably scared you too, for a different reason. He might be crazy or otherwise mentally unbalanced.

The informal rules of our society say not to wear outfits like that. Logically, if it’s warm enough for sandals and short, it’s too warm for a sweater and there’s no reason to be wearing goggles at night.

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The second man probably scared you. He’s dressed like we expect someone who was violent might dress if he were going to be rub you.

Even if we don’t know any rubbers personally, we have an idea of what we think they look like from the media.

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You might be wrong, because individual people do defy patterns, but you’d be right most of the time. This is because you’ve met men who dress like this in the past or seen them on TV and in the movies, and you’ve learned about things they have in common.

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Let’s dig deeper. The first man probably didn’t scare you, because he so obviously belonged in a corporate environment. You can guess what kind of job he might have, what kind of place he works in, what kinds of things he does on his free time, and so on.

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Remember, I didn’t tell you anything about these men – I just said “a man” each time.

Any differences in these three men apart from their clothes comes directly and only from you – and shows how natural and normal it is to make judgments about people based on how they choose to dress.

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If you are walking alone in the middle of the night with all of your money in your pocket, who would you be most worried about:

• A man in pressed and well-fitted suit with clean shoes, a briefcase, and a fashionable tie.

• A man in ripped jeans, big boots with metal spikes and a leather jacket

• A man dressed in shorts, sandals a big sweater and swimming pool goggles.

You will definitely judge each one of them differently.

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Judging people by their outward appearance is a fact of life, and you probably do it too.

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LOOKING GOOD
People notice how you dress, and they will judge you base on these choices. #FitFriday