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RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 6:22pm On Apr 04, 2021
We have never lived solely in a patriarchy or a matriarchy but in a combined patriarchy and matriarchy within each society.

There was not male dominance but male and female dominance—a division of dominance that reflected the division of roles—each sex “dominant” in the area in which they had responsibilities and risked death—dominant where they were also subservient.

# Myth of male power
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 6:21pm On Apr 04, 2021
Conversely, if marriage were as awful for women as many
feminists claim, why is it the centerpiece of female fantasies in myths and legends of the past, or romance novels and soap operas of the present?
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 6:21pm On Apr 04, 2021
Feminism error

If taking on a wife for life in an institution called marriage were a sign of male privilege, why was “husband” derived from the Germanic word for “house” and the Old
Norse for “bound” or “bondage”

Why did it also come from words meaning
“a male kept for breeding,” “one who tills the soil,” and “the male of the pair of lower animals.”
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op):
Polygyny not polygamy.

Polygamy is often inaccurately used to mean a man having more than one wife, but it actually means
either sex having more than one spouse; only polygyny means a man having more than one wife.

It is wrong to say men are polygamous but polygynous .
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 6:17pm On Apr 04, 2021
When you are looking at feminism on the surface it looks genuine but when you go deeper. You will release it in not what you think it is
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 6:17pm On Apr 04, 2021
Had feminism emphasized on women’s responsibilities to
Approach men and risk rejection, or paying for men’s dinners on dates, or choosing careers they
like less to support the family more, or marrying down, its impact would have been more egalitarian but less politically successful.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 6:16pm On Apr 04, 2021
Birth control created the right of women to choose and the expectation of men to trust women.

Today, every man who puts a penis in a woman’s body also puts his life in a woman’s hands.

I remember when a guy shared a story to me how he was on his knees begging a girl not to keep the pregnancy because he is not ready to be a father before she agreed to.

Remember to use a condom.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 6:13pm On Apr 04, 2021
Birth control is power - Dpsychologist

Every woman knows that if there was only male birth control, she would not feel in control, she would feel out of control.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 6:11pm On Apr 04, 2021
Male technology did not create for men the equivalent right to choose. Thus, each time a man had sex with a woman who said she was using birth control, he had to trust that she was, in fact, using it.

If she wasn’t, he could be responsible for supporting the child.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 6:10pm On Apr 04, 2021
Feminist are ingrates.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 6:10pm On Apr 04, 2021
Feminists felt patriarchy a conspired to restrict women’s
reproductive freedom—women’s “right to choose.”

But it created women’s “right to choose”—it created birth control. And it created safe abortions.

This technology of birth control did more than any other single thing to reduce women’s work load; to move women from a one-option sex to the only multi-option sex.

Overall, technology led to the male role saving women more than the female role saved men.

Ironically, some of the feminists who complained of male technology would have died in childbirth. (They literally owed their lives to what they complained
controlled their lives.)
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op):
Feminism is just covert misandrism.

It is done to punish men for past sins they didn't commit.

— Dpsychologist
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 6:08pm On Apr 04, 2021
Men were similarly used as guinea pigs in the development of emergency procedures, microwave ovens (a man was
inadvertently “cooked” during the testing process7), and other advances that served both sexes.

Later it was labeled sexism that physicians studied men more than women. No one labeled it sexism because men were used as guinea pigs more than women.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 6:06pm On Apr 04, 2021
DISPOSABILITY OF MEN

During wartime, experimental drugs were often tried on men. If a drug failed,
the man died.

But if a drug succeeded, it was used to save both women and men, but without women dying to develop it.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 6:05pm On Apr 04, 2021
Let's get ready for red sunday
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 6:05pm On Apr 04, 2021
Happy Easter Sunday
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 9:26am On Apr 03, 2021
Flamemignon1:
I beg of you, don't include pedophiles to the queer community, that's just part of what homophobes use to justify their hate telling the world the P will be added to put them on false alert
Dude I am not removing anything.

I carefully researched before putting this here.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 2:40pm On Apr 02, 2021
Red pill
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 2:34pm On Apr 02, 2021
The expectation on men to spend more on women creates an obligation on men to get high paying jobs.

However , feminist then turn back and say is because of patriarchy that men pay have high paying jobs.

When seeking for admission I have seen a lot of women applying easy to read course that will result in low pay.

When they applying for engineering, medicine etc they end up getting withdrawn.
Now is it patriarchy still to be blamed
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 2:27pm On Apr 02, 2021
Women often say, “Well, men earn more.” thats why they need to pay more.
But when two women go to a restaurant, they don’t assume that the woman who earns more will pay the bill.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 2:27pm On Apr 02, 2021
Women tend to be socio-economically better than men .

Post break up and divorce women almost always emerge better than their men .

Despite men being more financially stable they end up spending 80% in the r/ship while women spend less than 20% in the r /ship.

In restaurants, shop rite, malls , cinemas ,relaxation centres and other public place, men pay for women about ten times as frequently as women pay
for men—the more expensive , the more often the man pays.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 2:26pm On Apr 02, 2021
Men have remained the silent sex and increasingly become the suicide sex.

The weakness of men is the portrayed as strength; the strength of women is Portrayed as weakness
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 2:25pm On Apr 02, 2021
This is eye opening

The so-called “patriarchy” and “male dominance” as code words for male disposability.

Feminist definition of patriarchy never existed.

There were kings and queens ,gods and goddesses.

If it was truly patriarchal then we will have only kings and gods

© Dpsychologist
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 2:24pm On Apr 02, 2021
Feminism justified female “victim power” by convincing the world that we lived in a sexist, male-dominated, and patriarchal world.

However, the world was always bi-sexist, both male- and female-dominated, both patriarchal and matriarchal—each in different ways.

#MythOfMalePower
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 2:24pm On Apr 02, 2021
Feminism left women with three sexual options—their female role, the “male” role, and the “victim” role.

Men were left with less than one role—they were still expected to initiate, but now, if they did it badly, they could go to jail.
For an adolescent boy who barely knows what
sex is, this is a scary half-option.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 2:23pm On Apr 02, 2021
When the issue of sexual harassment surfaced, then, we were told “men don’t ‘get it’ ” when, in fact, neither sex “gets” it.

Men don’t get women’s fears of harassment that stem from the passive role; women don’t get men’s fears of
sexual rejection that stem from the initiating role.

Each sex is so preoccupied with its own vulnerability that neither sex “gets” the other’s vulnerability.

The difference? Feminism has taught women to sue men for sexual harassment when men initiate with the wrong person or with the wrong timing(most men are bad at decoding greenlight) ;

No one has taught men to sue women for sexual trauma (acting confused) for saying “yes,” then “no,” then “yes,” then “no.”
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 2:22pm On Apr 02, 2021
Feminism articulated the shadow side of men and the light side of women.
It neglected the shadow side of women and the light side of men.
It refuses to acknowledge that each sex has both sides within each individual.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 2:20pm On Apr 02, 2021
Feminism suggested that God might be a “She” but not that the devil might also be a “she.”
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 2:20pm On Apr 02, 2021
Just because a man feels powerless does not mean a woman feels powerful. And just because a woman—or man—is perceived by others to have power, does not mean she or he feels powerful inside of themselves.

Feminism is the biggest shit test and men failed

# Rep pill friday
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 2:19pm On Apr 02, 2021
The Western world has passed alot of simp and weird laws in 20th century and is going extreme in 21st century passing laws such as prohibition of feminist criticism{called misogynistic},obscured/ broadened definition of rape and sexual assault ;and domestic violence.

Passing of gay laws and the promotion of LGBTI (Lesbian, gay,bi,transgender and inter sex)

Currently pedophiles have come out and are clamouring for their rights.
Pedophiles have changed their name to pedosexuals and want to be included to form LGBTIP( Lesbian, gay,bisexual,transgender, inter sex and pedosexuals).

In the time of Joe biden those laws will soon be passed.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 2:18pm On Apr 02, 2021
Women mislead men.

"A 2001 survey revealed that 42 per cent of women would lie about using contraception in order to get pregnant in spite of their partners’ wishes."

Despite western women having over 40 different contraceptive methods and abortion rights ,there are still high cases of women getting pregnant.

Women love to dive raw and do not care about the after effects
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 2:17pm On Apr 02, 2021
On paternity fraud

"Paternity fraud has always been a risk for cuckolded husbands and
for wealthy or famous men. As reported in one famous paternity
fraud case:

The former wife of billionaire Kirk Kerkorian in USA has
admitted the four-year-old girl for whom he is being asked to pay
more than $320,000 in support is not his child and she faked DNA
tests."

Women can and do fake DNA tests.

However, though the rich have often been subject
to paternity fraud, but
"...the vast bulk of men who are at risk for paternity fraud
victimization are neither rich nor famous."

However, they do not know if they are victims of paternity fraud because most can't afford DNA test.

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