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You see, once an attractive woman discovers that there are hundreds, if not thousands of Hot men out in ready to flatter her ego, spend money on her , and pretty
much do whatever she asks just for at least one opportunity to get between her legs, it is at the moment that a woman discovers the power of the pussy.

That power is very addicting for women.

Never allow yourself to be in a position where you feel as though you need a woman’s romantic and/or sexual companionship.
Only allow yourself to want their companionship. When you allow yourself to need women's companionship, you open the door for them to treat you in an undesirable and/or disrespectful manner.

Research on men and domestic violence focuses on men as both perpetrators and victims of violence, as well as on how to involve men and boys in anti-violence work.


However, women are not throught to be antiviolent.
It is uncalled for, for a man to Beat up a woman but nothing goes for a woman hitting and beating a man.


It is appropriate that both men and women not hit each other. Not that one gender will hit the other and go scot

Men face additional gender related barriers in reporting, due to social stigmas regarding male victimization, and an increased likelihood of being overlooked by healthcare providers.
Whether physical violence or sexual abuse. A man is not seen as a victim.

STUDIES
One study investigated whether women who assaulted their male partners were more likely to avoid arrest even when the male contacts police, and found that, "police are particularly unlikely to arrest women who assault their male partners."
The reason being that they "assume that the man can protect himself from his female partner and that a woman's violence is not dangerous unless she assaults someone other than her partner".
Another study concluded there is "some support for qualitative research suggesting that court personnel are responsive to the gendered asymmetry of intimate partner violence, and may view female intimate violence perpetrators more as victims than offenders."

Can male be victims?
Till date people still don't believe that men can be victims. The media made it in such a way that men cannot be viewed as victims.
A man's life is such that he does not conjure up pity unlike women.
Domestic violence against men includes physical , emotional and sexual forms of abuse, including mutual violence.
Male domestic violence victims may be reluctant to get help for various reasons.

CHILDREN
I consider children as another major victims of Domestic Violence. In this part of the world , Violence against children is not really recognized.
I have observed that male children are beaten more than female children. They are more stubborn lol
While i agree that spare a rod and spoil the child. Some adult use anger and frustrations to torture their children in the guise of discipline.
Men have done it and so do women, women even tend to do worst in most instances.
The way children are tortured is alarming. If you are current on NL, you will see a thread on Nairaland where a woman was torturing her little child for years. See the boy's head.
There are countless stories where a woman use hot iron on her child in anger, another woman used hot water to torture her child for not going on errands. A woman put knife on fire and press it on her Daughter in law because she taught the girl stole her money only to later discovered the girl was innocent.
I notice women tend to hate children that are not their be they their sisters children, cousin, niece etc.
The question now is that, is it the evil patriarchy that is to be blamed for making this women to torture their children and others.

If you start naughty with her with the intend of an FWB from a lady and got rejected it is better than when you pretend to be her platonic friend so she can one day give you sex but she later refuses after you have invested a high amount of time and/or money.

Regret is worse than rejection.

COLLECTION OF MOVIES WITH RED PILL MESSAGES

Hollywood has alot of simp movies however they also have movies that open your eyes to red pill truths.

American Beauty (1999) – Kevin Spacey, Annette Bening

Bad Teacher (2011) – Cameron Diaz, Justin Timberlake, Jason Segal

Blue Valentine (2010) – Ryan Gosling, Michelle Williams

Body Heat (1981) – William Hurt, Kathleen Turner

Chasing Amy (1997) – Ben Affleck, Jason Lee, Joey Lauren Adams

Closer (2004) – Clive Owen, Julia Roberts, Jude Law, Natalie Portman

Coming to America (1988) – Eddie Murphy, Arsenio Hall

Fatal At traction (1987) – Michael Douglass, Glenn Close

Havoc (2005) – Anne Hathaway, Bijou Phillips, Joseph Gordon-Levitt

I Think I Love My Wife (2007) – Chris Rock, Kerry Washington, Gina Torres

Love, Sex, and Eating the Bones (2003) – Hill Harper, Marlyne Barrett

Play Misty for Me (1971) – Clint Eastwood, Jessica Walter

Pretty Persuasion (2005) – Evan Rachel Wood, Ron Livingston

Shame (2011) – Michael Fassbender, Carey Mulligan

She Hat e Me (2004) – Anthony Mackie, Kerry Washington

She’s Gotta Have it (1986) – Tracy Camilla Johns, Spike Lee

Spread (2009) – Ashton Kutcher, Anne Heche

The Last American Virgin (1982) – Lawrence Monoson, Diane Franklin

Unfaithful (2002) – Richard Gere, Diane Lane


Vicky Cristina Barcelona (2008) – Javier Bardem, Scarlett Johansson.

Daddy's Home —Mark Wharlbert, Will Farrell

Wedding Crashers —Owen Wilson, Vince Vaungh

toscolee:
I have been in this situation before.
I did the exact things you mentioned above.
Presently, I know a person that has placed a lady on a pedestal.
The day he caught her red handed cheating, he blamed himself.
We're tired already.
We want them to marry so that his eyes will see clearly.

It never ends well when a a man puts a woman on pedestal. Hypergamy always kicks in and she clings to another.

I have an upcoming post on The Blue Pill conspiracy.

softguy1:
I girl once told me your are good but too religious, I can't date someone like that. sometimes you just need to be naughty with them. Naughty conversation initially convey the information that you are not there for brother and sisters relationship...

Talk dirty

Women know what they want. Too religious is another way of saying too uptight, boring and judgemental.

The only way that a woman can treat you in an undesirable, disrespectful manner is if you’re exhibiting behaviors that ALLOWS THEM TO treat you in an undesirable, disrespectful manner. That is weakness.

#DominanceMonday

It is ironical to excessively flatter women, pedestalize them or skyrocket their egos, and then expect to have long-term
success with them.

#DominanceMonday

If treat a woman’s time, attention, and/or companionship as if it is more valuable and significant to yours, I can
guarantee you that at some point in the future, that woman is going to either get bored and lose interest in you, or manipulate and bully you around when she wants to.

NO WOMAN’S TIME, ATTENTION, OR COMPANIONSHIP IS MORE VALUABLE THAN YOUR OWN.

ANYTIME YOU PLACE MORE VALUE AND SIGNIFICANCE
ON THE ATTENTION and COMPANIONSHIP OF A WOMAN, THAN YOU DO YOUR OWN, YOUR BEHAVIOR IS GOING TO
BE WEAK.

VIOLENCE IN SAME SEX R/SHIP
A 2013 study showed that 40.4% of self-identified lesbians and 56.9% of bisexual women have reported being victims of partner violence.
If lesbians can undergo domestic violence it shows women are as violent as men only that when they are in a relationship with men they are intimidated by men size, strength and stature and resort more to using emotional abuse.
If not that men are stronger than women eh, alot of women will beat us lol . Women know they can won't win fighting men physically so they use other means like cutting his penis(penetectomy) , burning him(cremation) , pouring hot water, pouring acid(vitriolage) etc.
There was a time on fb when some one asked women in a group that what will they do if they were to be men for a day. I was expecting to see them say they will develop the world, make inventions etc but i was shocked. The same women that criticize men as dogs and cheats were the same gender saying they will do all the things men have done.

Part 3
A 2013 review examined studies from five continents and the correlation between a country's level of gender inequality and rates of domestic violence.
The authors found that when partner abuse is defined broadly to include emotional abuse, any kind of hitting, and who hits first, partner abuse is relatively even(gender symmetry)

Part 2
In 2014, a study involving 1,104 male and female students in their late teens and early twenties found that women are more likely than men to be controlling and aggressive towards their partners, more likely to demonstrate a desire to control their partners, and more likely to use physical aggression in ensuring that control.

The main author of the study, Elizabeth Bates, wrote "this suggests that intimate partner violence may not be motivated by patriarchal values and needs to be studied within the context of other forms of aggression, which has potential implications for interventions."

Other explanations for both male and female-perpetrated IPV include psychopathology, anger, revenge, skill deficiency, head injuries, biochemical imbalances, feelings of powerlessness, lack of resources, and frustration.

GOING DEEPER INTO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
Part 1
Feminist do not believe that male Violence is a personal problem but a problem of patriarchy and that women committing Violence against men is always out of self defense.
Looking beyond self-defense, studies have found a range of causes for female-perpetrated Violence.
In 2006, Rose A. Medeiros and Murray A. Straus conducted a study using a sample of 854 students (312 men and 542 women) from two American universities.
They identified fourteen specific risk factors common amongst both males and females who had committed IPV; poor anger management, antisocial personality disorders , borderline personality disorders , pattern of dominating relationships, substance abuse, criminal history, posttraumatic stress disorders , depression , communication problems, jealousy , sexual abuse as a child, stress , and a general attitudinal approval of partner violence.
Straus states that most female perpetrated IPV is not motivated by self-defense, but by a desire to control their partners.

If you permit disrespect expect to be emasculated. If your permit respect expect to be adored and appreciated

#DominanceMonday

It is what you permit that persists. No what you permit.

You only have control over how you behave towards women, and how you allow them to behave towards you.

#DominanceMonday

You have absolutely no control over women’s behavior. Only women have the power on their behavior.

When it comes to changes and improvements in behavior, only concentrate on your own behavior.

Weak behavior is any behavior that is too lenient,
too respectful, too accommodating, too nice, too decent, too careful, too soft and/or too flattering.

#DominanceMonday

purpinkx:
They're no longer together.

I saw it coming many months before the girl started giving him issues.

Tried opening his eyes to it, but, my man, you can never convince a person who is in love.

In their mind, they feel so happy.. what are you trying to warn them about?

At a point, it was as if I was jealous. So, I let go!

So far, so good, it seems like he'll learn.

But, from what I'm seeing, I wouldn't hold my breath.

I'm starting to think that, maybe, the red pill find you, because if you try to figure out why you're not getting the results you want, you end up with more blue pills (wikiHow lovey dovey sh!ts)

That's why I am super proud of you for what you are doing.

@ wikihow, a culprit for giving more blue pills lol.

I noticed that the red pill is a great predictor on male-female r/ship, you can predict how a blue pill r/ship will end and when.

What red pill has done in 1 year for men is greater than what gynocentric dating advice and marriage counseling hae done in 10 years.

Take this from me.

Women’s fear of being categorized as “slut,” or a “sex freak” is what usually leads to the duplicitous and manipulative behavior ( Pretending and Hypocrisy).

When dealing with women take note of the above points.

#RedpillSunday

“Most women love sex just as much as men, if not more. Many women are just as sexually uninhibited as a lot of the men out there.

The problem is, men are admired and patted on the back when they successfully seduce a lot of women; Women are usually , criticized, and made to feel like whores if they reveal that they’ve enjoyed sexual pleasure with someone other than their boyfriend, fiancé, or husband.
It’s unfair, but that’s life.”

THE NICE GUY PARADOX

Being a nice guy has alot of ALOT of disadvantage. One is the nice guy Paradox.

A man uses a nice guy approach to converse a woman, however he ends up being criticized, disliked, rejected or ignored … THEN … all of the sudden due to being rejected he get the guts to express his true thoughts, opinions, and objectives in a blunt, straight-to-the-point, unapologetic manner.

Exactly what he is suppose to do from beginning.

But by then, it’s ineffective, done out of anger and more importantly ... it’s too late.

The nice guy approach is mostly ineffective because you typically hide, deny, and/or camouflage your true needs, desires, interests, and intentions from a woman, primarily because you’re afraid that they won’t be
satisfied and reciprocated.