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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:11pm On Aug 11, 2021
The less emotions you show, the better.

Always keep something in reserve. Always have a bit of mystery. Always be slightly unpredictable.

#WednesdayNuggets

With experience you'll learn how to be mysterious without being weird, and unpredictable without being unstable or flighty.
#WednesdayNuggets

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:14pm On Aug 11, 2021
You should attract women not pursue them. #WednesdayNuggets
When she (whoever she is) finds you attractive, she will pursue you. #WednesdayNuggets

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:15pm On Aug 11, 2021
A person cannot pursue something unless it is retreating. You must appear to retreat.

Advance very slightly to make her attracted to you, then retreat.

Attract then retreat

#WednesdayNuggets

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:16pm On Aug 11, 2021
When a woman sees you and likes what she sees(due to showing your value or preselection) – very often because you don't seem to notice her – she will find a way to meet you. She will find a way to talk to you.

She will find a way to get into your life.
A woman in today's society will pursue.
#WednesdayNuggets

If a woman sees you, and likes what she sees, she will imagine being in a relationship/sex/marriage soon enough.
#WednesdayNuggets

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:17pm On Aug 11, 2021
If a girl ever disses you, call her on it immediately.
Don't be a wimp #WednesdayNuggets
Remember, once you are a pushover, it's game over. #WednesdayNuggets

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:18pm On Aug 11, 2021
Be tactful but let her know you've just heard or seen something that you dislike and it will not be tolerated. If she continues, dump her.

Its called self respect.
#WednesdayNuggets

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:19pm On Aug 11, 2021
You must be willing to walk away.
The one who cares less, has the most power. Always.
#WednesdayNuggets

At all times, a woman must believe that you can walk away from the relationship and not look back.

She must believe that you care for the relationship less than her.
#WednesdayNuggets

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:21pm On Aug 11, 2021
To master the art of attracting women, you must not only be unpredictable but also uncontrollable.
You are not to be controlled.
#WednesdayNuggets

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:22pm On Aug 11, 2021
You can't pretend to be the prize. You have to be able to look in the mirror and honestly say, "I love this guy!"
It is only when you love yourself that you will be the prize.
#WednesdayNuggets

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:23pm On Aug 11, 2021
Why fake it till you make it when you can make it without faking it? Why pretend to be a great person when you can actually BE one? Work hard to excel in all areas of life - health, wealth, relationships. #WednesdayNuggets

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:24pm On Aug 11, 2021
Make your dreams happen and, most importantly, realize that happiness is a choice!
#WednesdayNuggets


By the same token, don't let self-improvement be an excuse not to handle your biz.
 
Don't fall into this trap, cuz you will just keep procrastinating, looking for reasons not to get your game on.
#WednesdayNuggets

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:25pm On Aug 11, 2021
Only you can make yourself worthy of the best things in life.
#WednesdayNuggets

Improve on what you can (health, fitness, style) and embrace the things you cannot change (height, race, etc).

Insecurity is an ugly thing, so confront the roots of your poor self image and banish this negativity from your mind. 
#WednesdayNuggets

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:26pm On Aug 11, 2021
THE SILENT TREATMENT
Most people view silence as a weakness but it can also be a strength.

#WednesdayNuggets

The basic idea behind the silent treatment is that you give a woman attention (women love attention!) when she is doing something you like.

And you take that attention away when she is doing something you don't like.

#WednesdayNuggets

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:27pm On Aug 11, 2021
While you don't want to overuse the silent treatment, it is an effective weapon to have in your seduction arsenal.

#WednesdayNuggets

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:31pm On Aug 11, 2021
When you turn and walk away, it doesn't necessarily mean that you lose the girl. Sometimes turning and walking away is the only way to actually get the girl.
 
It can be the spark that ignites a powerful attraction inside of her, as she begins to realize that you are different from other guys.

Learn to walk away

#WednesdayNuggets

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:33pm On Aug 11, 2021
Take just a quick minute and think about something...
What makes gold so great? Or diamonds?
Why are they so expensive? Why are they so valuable?
Because it's rare!
People want things that they see as rare. #WednesdayNuggets

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:34pm On Aug 11, 2021
If wood was more difficult to find than diamonds, I guarantee people would be getting on one knee with a wooden engagement ring.

Diamonds are rare and therefore, valuable. 

It's the law of supply and demand.
#WednesdayNuggets

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:35pm On Aug 11, 2021
What does this mean to you?

Be rare. Be a diamond. Be different than the others.

#WednesdayNuggets

Among all the other lumps of coal (other guys) you are the diamond. You stand out, above and beyond all the others.
#WednesdayNuggets

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:45pm On Aug 11, 2021
Do something that will make her say, "Here's something different."
Then Pull Back
Once she sees how interesting you are - pull back.
If she wants you, she's going to have to work for you. #WednesdayNuggets

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:50pm On Aug 11, 2021
This is where most guys make mistake, they give a very good first impression but as time goes on they start suffocating the girl with attention that she has no choice than to push them away.

Creating absence is quintessential.
#WednesdayNuggets

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:54pm On Aug 11, 2021
When a guy who made good first impression doesn't come back for sometime she starts missing him.

That is why you can go after a girl and give her too much attention she will be pushing you off but when u give up on her, she then want you back.
#WednesdayNuggets

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:54pm On Aug 11, 2021
It's cos you are suffocating her with attention and when you cut the attention, she starts missing you.

This is simple human psychology. We want what we can't have and miss what we have lost.

Learn to be a diamond

#WednesdayNuggets

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:56pm On Aug 11, 2021
Remember, to be valuable, you have to be rare. People take for granted the things that are always there.

Don't always be there.

#WednesdayNuggets

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:58pm On Aug 11, 2021
If she has to work to get to you, she'll appreciate you much more once you  let her have you
#WednesdayNuggets

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:59pm On Aug 11, 2021
Make her work to get your attention.

Ever go to higher institution?
If so, you can pick out the ones whose parents are paying for their school versus the kids who are either paying for it themselves or are on scholarships that require good grades.

The ones who have things given to them don't appreciate what they have as much as the ones who have to work for what they want.
#WednesdayNuggets

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 11:01pm On Aug 11, 2021
Be the Prize #WednesdayNuggets

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 11:01pm On Aug 11, 2021
Be the Prize #WednesdayNuggets

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 11:02pm On Aug 11, 2021
Be the Prize #WednesdayNuggets
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 11:03pm On Aug 11, 2021
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Re: The Red Truth by Dbliz(m): 7:46am On Aug 12, 2021
Dpsychologist:
If a girl ever disses you, call her on it immediately.

Don't be a wimp
#WednesdayNuggets

Remember, once you are a pushover, it's game over.
#WednesdayNuggets

Please can you expanciate more on that first paragraph?. Like if the girl that just dissed you is your superior/colleague at work, how do you go about it?
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 3:46pm On Aug 12, 2021
Never be passive aggressive to women e.g you keep tolerating their bullshit till their bucket is full then you react.

That is a very bad move.
If you do not like what a lady does you react.

Either you ghost her (indirectly) or you tell her you don't like what she did.(directly).

Either way, let her know she did upset you.
#Thursday drills

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 3:47pm On Aug 12, 2021
Start putting yourself.

Even the Bible said love your neighbor as u love yourself not more than yourself.
#ThursdayDrills

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