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anonymous7433:
it's not like that sir, I was ready to give in but didn't because I also had my friend's interest at heart. If she truly loved me, why did she choose to hook up with my friend in the first place

Were You not thesame person that says a quite number of ladies ask you out but you Refused?

It is a woman who choose you not the other way round. If a woman sees something she likes about you, she will try to make move on you. Next time when you sense a woman is genuinely interested, you are allowed to do small shakara but stop wasting the opportunity, grab it.

anonymous7433:
Good day guys.
I'm 22 years old, i'm tall and good looking. I have a strong Christian background and it has hindered my rapport with the opposite sex. Ladies have asked me out a few times in the past, but I declined, stating I was not ready to be in a relationship.

There is this girl in my office where I work that was all over me, she's 18 years old and yet to be admitted into the university. To be honest, I liked her, but I suppressed my feelings for her. I occasionally tell her that she's more like a younger sister to me. We got close and I became fond of her, she confided in me with all her secrets and tell me about guys toasting her. I started entertaining thoughts of asking her out, until one day, she was going through my phone and saw a picture my friend who is short, dark and handsome, she asked for his number and requested I sent him her pictures, they exchanged numbers and started chatting. He comes to visit her in the office at times and me being a nice guy usually give them some space to interact. I started losing interest in her as a result, but she kept assuring me that she takes him just as a friend. She later asked me out on WhatsApp, but I declined, owing to the fact that she still retains close friendship with my friend. After that, She started getting more closer to my friend, changed her phone's password cos she told me the previous one. She started making flirty calls and calling other guys and my guy honey, baby, I love you in my presence. She started ignoring my chats and calls. Each time my friend comes visiting, she laughs as loud as possible when they are discussing. Our vibes died off, but I'm the one suffering it as I frequently get jealous and heartbroken each time I see her making calls and communicating with guys on longer hours, especially with my friend.
I have tried to patch things up with her, but she keeps getting me jealous and hurt. This said girl is very beautiful, a virgin who has been in only one relationship and a devoted Christian. I have tried to forget her and move on, but I just can't. I keep feeling depressed and hurt whenever I see her and my friend online simultaneously. Please how can I move on? Do I still stand a chance with her? was I wrong to turn her down? Please I need your advice.

I get pissed off when i read this kinda thing.
Bro what is actually the problem.
Girl likes you but you are rejecting her then you are still complaining. Bro stop this your childish behavior and man up or i bet you that you will be age 30 and will open a thread here complaining that you have not yet dated any girl in your life.

A woman who’s had many dicks and relationships no matter what she rationalises or desires is near incapable of pair bonding.

These women are often bitter, they feel owed something from their chain of suitors as a symptom of their latent narcissism and view men collectively as an arbitrary segment of the population that can be exploited for self-gain as a result.

It is a well-established mantra throughout the manosphere that the more partners a woman has had, the less capable she is of bonding romantically to any future partner. This is great if you want casual sex but it’s bad if you actually want to be in love/start a family.

It encourages women collectively to celebrate and exemplify their worst traits (hypergamy/entitlement and solipsism) in order to make us collectively (as men) responsible for their material betterment, training them to hang us out to dry rather than learn to appreciate us and work with us despite our differences.

Feminism, as institutionalised as it is in society, is responsible for exacerbating female narcissism.

kktbm:
Big Brother Naija ‘lockdown’ housemate, Nengi was left in shock last night in Biggie’s house, when she walked in on lover boy, Neo, washing his love interest, Vee’s panties.

Neo and Vee had issues yesterday September 23, and to pacify her, he joined her while she washed her undies. To make her happy, he took over the washing while she spread them after he had rinsed them.

While they were discussing, Vee called Neo’s attention to the fact that one of her panties was missing.

A surprised Nengi said ”Ahh ahh, Neo, you even wash pant join”. She then turned to Vee, telling her she is a lucky girl.

Responding, Vee said ”My dear, he knows I am a clean b*tch”


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FW7qdgEyQHs

This got me laughing. I think ozo is learning work from this one

olatayo8296:
Like making a decision based on emotions then backing it up with logic

Exactly

Just as a woman will only take responsibility for your victories and not your losses, she will likewise refuse to deign a man she sees as inferior with credit for her victories.

This is precisely why an out of control female ego is so deleterious to a relationship, an egotistical woman believes she is above her man, and it is via this belief that her attraction wanes and ushers in an era of relational failure.

She will forget everything the man did to assist her ascension, attributing all credit for her accomplishments to herself whilst allocating blame for her imperfections to her man.

The naive, romantic man expecting to have his loyalty honoured will extend his hand from below, clasping at the heel of her shoe in expectation she will reward his efforts – but she will not. She will kick him down, and scoff with nothing but disgust for what she views as inferior neediness.

A man who arches his back to enable a woman to step onto it and climb higher, creates a woman who will look down on him once her ascension has been realised.

Man has a mission beyond the scope of the home, it is merely the scale of vision and ability to actualise that differs among men. Indeed, we owe modern civilization to men who kept firm to their life’s work and executed their vision, for it is women who bring us into existence, but men who make said existence glorious.

All men have missions, but it is within the provision for humanity through the development of civilization that the greats illuminate the depth and scale of said ambition.

Civilization is man’s grand project, an expression of his thought form and aspiration, and although from time to time atypical women will make spontaneous contributions, its distinctly masculine texture remains dominant.

– If you place your trust on a woman’s conscience to compel her to do the right thing, then you are a fool by definition.

– Women need their ex’s to be losers to feel like they made the right choice. If even one is a winner, her hypergamy will realise a glitch in its optimisation and thus the afflicted woman becomes awash with regret.

The reason women set up their sons to be failures is because they can only see things from a female point of view. A son left in the sole care of his mother with no external masculine influence is being set up for failure. The most loving mother cannot adequately guide her son, for she lacks the abstraction necessary to understand or empathise with the male existential viewpoint. These are the limitations of her nature, not a choice.

– Women care not for manly emotions, for they are emotionally selfish, self-centred. Women respect man’s ability to make them feel a range of emotion, their penchants being to feel desired and to

– You never get a break with women. If you choose poorly, she will be entitled, arrogant and demanding. She can be put in her place, but she will rebel often. If you choose a quality woman, she will be insecure and needy. Either way she is emotionally erratic, and thus will test you unrelentingly to feel the authoritative security of your dominance.

Women are so invertedly egotistical that no matter how damaged they are, they seek not to be fixed, but “merely” desired and accepted irrespective of their undoings.

Most women are not very self-aware, especially younger women, they live in the moment, they are easily swayed and they jump from one emotional impulse to the next.

Women have a tendency to act first and rationalise later, women thrive fundamentally on spontaneity. Women are the quintessential example of what constitutes irrationalism, poor logic and a propensity to think with feelings rather than material facts.

Why are they called shit tests? Well when somebody “gives you shit” and bleeps with your head to see how you will react, what you are experiencing is typically a (series of) shit test(s).

Testosterone needs challenge, estrogen needs comfort. This is why women are more relationship orientated than men, for it provides the apex of their happiness, their very reason for being; to be desired, and feel integrally vital in a family rich in love and abundance.

Men get purpose from art and business, whereas women get purpose from the family, not all men and not all women, but generally speaking. This doesn’t mean men don’t want family, merely that they need it less, and a longer fertility window permits them to sensibly delay fatherhood.

Men are taught to worship women, whilst women are taught to distrust men. Men are taught to serve women, whilst women are taught to deceive men. Society believes it morally reprehensible for a man to dupe a woman, and yet bares no such disdain when the polarity is reversed, often going to extreme lengths to rationalise aesthetically pleasing justifications for immoral female behaviour.

olatayo8296:
Can you explain this a bit more or give a typical example?

If you remember closely when i was discussing on female Psychology i talked about solipsism and rationalization.

The above sentence means that she uses her rationalizing to support her solipsism.
Solipsism has to do with her intuition, what she feels is ok for her. After she has made that decision she then find reasons to support her behavior which is the rationalizing(her intelligence).

olatayo8296:
How can this be achieved?

This is related to being mysterious and keeping her under suspense. This will intrigue her imagination.

To remain in delusion is [color=#0000FF] Blue Pill[/color]
To undergo emancipation is Red PIll
—Dpsychologist

Women hate to take responsibility, they hate to admit to faults, they’re so allergic to being wrong or being exposed in some negative way that rather commonly they’ll emotionally lash out, either at you or whoever is close by and seems like a suitable scapegoat in order to cover their own asses, even when what is being said is either truthful or reasonable. Women inherently value their own sense of well-being above reality and truth, justice doesn’t factor into the equation unless she personally feels indignant about the dispute at hand.

A woman will never love a man as he expects to be loved idealistically for “just who he is” so a man is going to want to be able to defuse shit tests with ease if he wants to be successful with women.