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If a man in a relationship or marriage fails, or persistently fails, she will gradually lose respect for him and possibly even begin to resent him. The worst case scenario is she will seek out a different male if she so has the opportunity to do so based on her sexual market value and age. Dealing with shit tests is part of improving a man’s social skills and what the manosphere calls “Game”. |
A woman will shit test a guy she sees as short term friends with benefits, a one night stand (ONS) or potential boyfriend material. It’s hard wired into their hypergamous, opportunistic sexual strategy to find the male with the best genes for breeding. A man will never stop being shit tested, even into a long term relationship or marriage. It is part of her subconscious “is he the best I can do” persistent questioning of her hypergamous opportunism. |
A woman will gather a wealth of information about a guy just by him passing or failing one of her shit tests. It is usually to determine how emotionally vulnerable a man is. A woman does not want to be with an emotional man; she is the emotional being so needs an indifferent, stoic alpha she can rely on for both offspring and security. Betas are generally the emotional men; alphas are the headstrong dominant men. With that said, it is usually the beta males that fail shit tests whilst the alphas pass, although red herrings can and do happen. |
The sole propriety reason a man will get shit tested is to determine his character as a man. It can either be a covert or overt method to determine whether he is an alpha or a beta and either “just gets it” or not. It is to determine how a man will cope under pressure in a situation. A big part of unplugging is going to come with understanding when one is getting shit tested so they can deal with them efficiently and effectively. |
To get ripped, you actually have to gym. To earn more money, you actually have to work . To get girls, you actually have to approach. But you get my point. Knowledge is pointless without application, if you have to repeat one phrase from the entire thread to yourself, it should be this. If you are too scared to do new things, you’re a prisoner of your comfort zone. |
On action: The red pill will not fix your life, it is just a tool. How you use it will determine if you manage to refashion your life into something you can be proud of. “A good workman never blames his tools.” The red pill is only a tool. Knowing isn’t enough, you must do. And where you fail, you must take responsibility for your failures. If the red pill isn’t working for you because you haven’t changed your approach to life, that’s your fault, nobody else’s. |
It’s great that you’ve found the red pill, but if you’re stuck in your head and you lack discipline, you’ll never go beyond reading. And when your life doesn’t improve, if you’re not self-aware of why it hasn’t, you’ll blame the red pill for your lack of success rather than take responsibility for your own (lack of) success. |
Antithetically, what man views as immature behaviour, woman perceives as mature. To a woman there is nothing more interesting and mature than “understanding herself.” Whilst man desires to understand the world, a woman desires to understand herself. |
A woman is in her own world within her head with her emotions abounding her. What she experiences and feels is exactly what she believes everyone else feels, including men. She finds it very difficult to believe that men can be viewing and perceiving things differently to herself. Solipsism is an “inward” focused “on me” view of perceiving things. It is why they are so attention craving. Men have an “outward” focused “on that” viewpoint. Part of this is why men and women love very differently. |
Women are naturally solipsistic. The term solipsism is defined as “the view that the self is all that can be known to exist”. It can take quite a while for a man unplugging to come into an understanding of the concept and put himself into a woman’s shoes of how she views the world around her. |
– If you treat a woman too well, she will reward you with enough pain and betrayal to make suicide seem like a viable option – do not love too much. |
purpinkx:Once again thanks for that. I will advice you to remove the screenshot of the Transfer by now.. Thanks once again |
We ride |
IntersexSherry:Most ladies are lesbian at heart, they don't just know it yet. By the way, your moniker says it all |
Rather than rushing to try arrest the guy, get your facts right. You just have to make sure the Girl is not trying to justify her actions. There is more to the story. |
– Being a weak and passive man is dangerous, it could cost you everything you hold dear, including your sanity. Next time you feel even a tinge of guilt for being a jerk to a woman, remember how devoid of sympathy hypergamy is when a man is beneath rather than above it. |
– Never elevate a woman beyond your station, should you help a woman to improve herself, ensure it is not to the extent she surpasses you. As the late and great Patrice O’Neal would fondly assert, a king can make a woman queen, but a queen cannot make a king. Even as esteemed as the position of queen is, it’s still beneath that of king, and this dynamic plays out universally in male-female relationships. |
– If you allow a woman’s motherly nature and good looks to conceal the great mental cruelty she is capable of, you will be in for a most revolting awakening the eve she opts to betray you. – You may be unable to trust a woman, but you can trust her hypergamy – act accordingly. |
vislabraye:Don't mind them. The fact is that Dwayne Johnson and the Tyler Perry will never consider them for they are way out of their league. Do you know the first day majid michel met Genevive, he helped her hold her hand bag and was following her around. However , to her he is way below her. She once roll with ATIKU. |
themaestro08:Great OG? Lol don't you think is too much for only me? |
purpinkx:Wow bro, thanks very much. I was busy didn't see it earlier hence the late reply, however i am very greatful. |
– Dedicating your life to making a woman happy is a recipe for disaster. Women may say in their hubris that this is a commendable and advisable thing to do, but this line of thought is folly based on nothing but feminine conceit. As such, I will forever recommend against this. Have a mission, do not base your life on a woman |
It is a man’s responsibility to ensure he maintains dominance in the relationship, he should employ dread to humble his woman and prevent an unchecked ego from encroaching on the stability of the relationship. |
tobechi74:Mehnnnnn your blog is good. I think a blog should be my priority |
The Red pill unlike normal drugs can not be overdosed. Despite there are many men getting awakened by the red pill, there are still many men in the dark. If not for the presence of the internet only a microcosm of the male populace will discover it. I believe as time goes on many men will be unplugged to reality. ongback: |
purpinkx:Thanks for that.. My number is in my profile. |
This is a very good story. Welcome aboard. |
“ women’s utter inability to appreciate the all-risk sacrifices men assume in committing to marriage. “ Beware of making your necessity a virtue in making a Quality woman your substitute for a ONEitis idealization. |
“ A backhanded compliment shouldn’t work; it goes against everything any girl has ever told him will endear him to a woman, but once he musters up the courage to experiment, he finds that they do work. |
“ enforced for men, they must be resolute while accepting that a woman “has the right to change her mind. “ This, and the cart-carrot of a woman’s intimacy reward, is exactly why it is socially acceptable for a man to wait hours for a woman to prepare/show for a date and the kiss of death for a man to be more than 5-10 minutes late. He must be punctual, she is afforded leniency. |
“ but how many men do you know who are what they are today as a result of their own real doing, unfettered by how their choices impact their girlfriend, wife, kids, parents, etc.? “ Power isn’t financial resources, status or influence over others; power is the degree over which you control your own life, and right now, if I’ve just described you, you are powerful. |
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