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GLYCOLYSISS:Thanks bro. You are also doing great bro. Have seen your thread |
It is always better to know the truth than remain deceived. Even if learning the truth makes you angry. —Dpsychologist |
At this point he may hunt down a prospect, get married, have a couple of children, and for a moment in time he experiences the realization of his blue pill illusion . However, as with all illusions, once the curtain is pulled away, the smoke vanishes and the mirrors break, there is very little left. |
His is the embodiment of pro-social behavior, and he follows the age-old social contract. Depending on his stage in life, he may have amassed an impressive career, built a nice, comfortable life for himself and is only missing that one checkmark on his list, the wife and kids. |
There is a reason why no 22 year old woman has ever uttered the statement “where have all the good men gone?”, while it is a mainstay among women in the 28 – 35 age bracket looking to settle down. |
At this point in his life, he’s been manufactured as a beta, created as a product to satisfy the need society has for “good boys” to be the safety net of women once the women realize that they cannot compete with the new generation of women for alphas, and thus that they need to settle down. |
A man, having faced a crucible finding the red pill. Whether he be a 45 year old who got divorced or a 21 year old “good boy” who cannot understand why the bad boys are getting all the women, who gets told “Don’t worry you’ll get her in the end when she realizes she wants a “nice guy”, who reacts as “Do I really want her after she’s been pumped and dumped for 15 years?” |
We roll |
Most men are unaware of women’s true nature, and the minority who are aware dare not discuss it publicly, for doing so may come at incredible cost. |
Today, life changing truth is only readily available should a man open a thread such as this. |
This knowledge is paramount for the preservation of man’s sanity. And yet quite sadistically, this wisdom eludes most men no matter how earnestly they seek it. |
Men yearn to understand women, for they wish to attract them, as well as protect themselves from womanly predations. |
It teaches men how to cater to women, rather than how to inspire a woman’s desire to cater to them. It actively suppresses truths related to women, whilst spreading vitriolic untruth about men. It seems the system would prefer men are useful but ignorant, rather than enlightened and sovereign. |
The problem with the mainstream gynocentric viewpoint is it teaches men how to be a good slave, rather than a good master. |
As a clueless man bereft of the knowledge my sanity demanded, I would ask men to explain women, I would ask women to explain women, and I would ask Google to explain women. Nobody really knew what they were talking about especially wikihow. The only answers I would get were gynocentric inanities mixed with general rhetorical platitudes such as “be yourself” and “be confident”. |
As I write this, I cast my mind back to a time I did not understand women. It is surreal to write on “how women work” when one so vividly remembers being a man clueless in such matters. |
Every alpha a woman sleeps with takes a part of her soul with him. She will hit her epiphany phase and pine for all the alphas she slept with who are now wanting to sleep with the new younger generation of women. Once she comes to terms with the fact she has no soul left to give and cannot attract the alphas anymore she will marry the beta – the beta provider. Don’t be beta. |
Riener:✔ |
toptennaija:After surgery she still looks unattractive |
As you can see, women always gain from divorce more than the male. Men are the one doing majority of investments in a relationship/Marriage while she gives just sex and moral support and ends up getting huge chunk of money |
That is a Blue Pill Conditioning. It’s part and parcel of the Myth of the Feminine Mystique which makes women the gatekeepers of the knowledge of love; don’t try to understand it with your silly boy-logic, just leave well enough alone and be eternally grateful to whichever god you worship that a woman has favored you with the love you need to be perfected. Movies are the best tools use to instill the Blue Pill propaganda. |
The reason this formula is so successful and timeless is because it is essentially the fantasy of love and emotionalism trumping logic and reason. Women naturally love this because it puts them into the position of being the ‘cure’ to a man’s illness while making him look like a brooding, sulking, bitter child for clinging so tenaciously to his rationalism, when all he was really pouting about was feeling unloved. All his intense powers of rationality, all of his implicitly provable facts, all of his monuments and achievements of deduction mean nothing without the only irrational thing a woman can uniquely supply – unknowable, fantastical love. |
Major writers from Shakespeare to our modern writers, use some variation of the above outline. The locations, time periods and actors change, but the basic story doesn’t. Aside from writers, movies depict this alot. A contemporary example will be movies : The Ugly Truth, The Bachelors, Ghost of Girlfriend's Past, Play the Game, or Crazy, Stupid, Love. You will spot the trend in movies. |
The story goes like this : An avowed Alpha bachelor for life, questions the existence and nature of love, the sincerity of women, the illogic of not living just for his own self-importance, certainly the institution of marriage and lives, according to his rules, a satisfying life. He rationally observes the “madness” of his friends and fellow men when they fall in love, and out of it. He either mocks their foolishness or is analytical to the core in understanding their madnesses. He is an elemental force of one – a captain controlling the course of his own ship. He’s not wrong in his estimations; they all add up, they all make deductive, provable sense. That is until he meets her. The ONE special woman who miraculously, alone amongst billions, has the unique power to bring the facade of all that he thinks he is into stark, insightful self-realization. He’s smitten by the only woman who could fatefully tame the arrogance of his otherwise cruel rationalism. It’s akin to a religious conversion; he’s seen the light, he’s in love and all of his former concerns are proven to be falsehoods – it’s the triumph of true love! The one thing he was missing (the one thing only a woman can possess of course), the last piece to a puzzle he didn’t know he was putting together, has been added and now he is complete. And they live happily ever after,… |
There is a certain formula most romantic comedies rely on to convey how relations between men and women ought to go. It’s an old formula, as in Shakespeare and Greek antiquity old. It goes something like this: |
Asekhamid:This is the right way men should think. To our dismay people ignore their Fathers but Praise their mothers. I remember vividly when it was mothers day our pastor told all women to stand up and be clapped for but when it was Father's day, it passed like the wind. Quite unfair. |
In the dating arena, whatever you do put yourself first. |
For a start your instincts are most times 95% correct. How is your relationship like with this girls cos it seems like you are weak |
I will keep saying this, Knowing the truth is half the battle, you have to practice what you learn. |
Self-love is not so great a sin as self-neglect—Henry V |
When a woman tells you to " man up" , "be a man for once", "you are not a real man", "you are behaving like a child" or " you are not a gentleman", just know that manipulation is about to take place. |
![]() Happy birthday bobo This knife resembles the one use in Nigerian films for ritual. |
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