Dpsychologist's Posts

Nairaland Forum › Dpsychologist's Profile › Dpsychologist's Posts

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 ... 75 76 77 78 79 80 81 82 83 (of 112 pages)

Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 3:02pm On Sep 21, 2020

“ It’s hardly a surprise that connections with witchcraft have been associated with the feminine for so long.

“ Whatever you cannot say ‘No’ to is your master and makes you it’s slave.

“ A woman implying another woman had “hit the wall” was marginally more polite than calling her an old slut, but the latent purpose is still the same

12 Likes 3 Shares

Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 3:00pm On Sep 21, 2020

“ For a positively masculine Man there is no better opportunity to set yourself apart and start to plant the seeds of critical thought into AFCs than when you’re presented with these social situation. I think most men lack the balls to be a fire-starter at the risk of being perceived as some caveman, but it’s a good opportunity to truly set yourself apart from ‘other guys’ when you do."

5 Likes 2 Shares

Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 2:59pm On Sep 21, 2020

“ Just because he didn’t read a book doesn’t mean he didn’t learn through trial and error like you did, practicing his game on a large number of women. It doesn’t mean that he wasn’t conscious and deliberate with his behavior, incrementally improving his moves and tactics over a long period of time. He has experimented like you have experimented, and he has also connected his attempts with results to figure out what works and what doesn’t.

“ He may not be obsessive about it enough to log his data into a spreadsheet, but he’s mindful and aware of what he’s doing. He understands the mechanism behind charm and can often turn it on or off depending on what he wants. He has learned the type of humor and story-telling that gets a positive response in women. The last thing you can say about him was that he was born into the world with the “automatic” ability to fvck a lot of girls.

9 Likes 3 Shares

Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 2:57pm On Sep 21, 2020

“ Denial is unconscious, or it wouldn’t work: if you know you’re closing your eyes to the truth, some part of you knows what the truth is and denial can’t perform its protective function. One thing we all struggle to protect is a positive self-image. The more important the aspect of your self-image that’s challenged by the truth, the more likely you are to go into denial. If you have a strong sense of self-worth and competence, your self-image can take hits but remain largely intact; if you’re beset by self-doubt (a hallmark of self-righteous AFC thinking), however, any acknowledgment of failure can be devastating and any admission of error painful to the point of being unthinkable. Self-justification and denial arise from the dissonance between believing you’re competent, and making a mistake, which clashes with that image.

5 Likes 2 Shares

Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 2:57pm On Sep 21, 2020

“ Statistically, men have far greater difficulty in coping with psychological trauma (think PTSD) than women.

Thus women move over a break up faster than men

17 Likes 3 Shares

Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 2:49pm On Sep 21, 2020*

“ Porn gives a guy his reward for free; a reward that should be her single best agency is rendered valueless when a man can get off to an infinite variety of sexual experience at the click of a mouse. It’s unlimited access to unlimited sexual availability without the stress of learning methods to earn it from women as a reward.

5 Likes 2 Shares

Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 2:48pm On Sep 21, 2020

“ Let’s be honest, women don’t want to hear that they can’t have it all,” she says. “We can have a great job, we can have a master’s degree, we don’t need to worry about child-bearing because that’s something that will come. And when it doesn’t happen, women are really angry.

“ So yes, you should be seeking to reassure an LTR of your love and devotion, but know that due to women’s intrinsic fear of security loss and the competition anxiety that comes from a declining capacity to compete with her sisters’ attentions, you will never achieve an ideal state of contentment of it, and certainly not by relying solely on comfort and familiarity.

9 Likes 2 Shares

Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 2:45pm On Sep 21, 2020

Booty is so strong that there are dudes willing to blow themselves up for the highly unlikely possibility of booty in an other dimension. There are no chicks willing to blow themselves up for a penis.” –Joe Rogan

“ Most women believe that their pussies are sufficient to hold their men in thrall for a lifetime, but as a woman’s SMV declines and a Man’s appreciates their confidence in this form of leverage falls off, thus forcing them to adopt new schema for controlling the fear of loss.

17 Likes 3 Shares

Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 2:20pm On Sep 21, 2020

THE IRON RULES OF TOMASSI

¶ Iron Rule of Tomassi #1
Frame is everything. Always be aware of the subconscious balance of who’s frame in which you are operating. Always control the Frame, but resist giving the impression that you are.

¶ Iron Rule of Tomassi # 2
NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover.

¶ Iron Rule of Tomassi #3
Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait.

¶ Iron Rule of Tomassi #4
NEVER under any circumstance live with a woman you aren’t married to or are not planning to marry in within 6 months.

¶ Iron Rule of Tomassi #5
NEVER allow a woman to be in control of the birth.

¶ Iron Rule of Tomassi #6
Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved.

¶ Iron Rule of Tomassi #7
It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship.

¶ Iron Rule of Tomassi #8
Always let a woman figure out why she wont ƒuck you, never do it for her.

¶ Iron Rule of Tomassi #9
Never Self-Deprecate under any circumstance. This is a Kiss of Death that you self-initiate and is the antithesis of the Prize Mentality.

17 Likes 3 Shares

Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 2:09pm On Sep 21, 2020

It’s much easier for a man not to give a shit if he truly doesn’t give a shit.

Communicate with your behavior. Never overtly tell a woman anything. Allow her to come to the conclusions you intend. Her imagination is the best tool in your Game toolbox.

13 Likes 4 Shares

Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 2:08pm On Sep 21, 2020

“ No amount of proselytizing or social conditioning will erase what God and evolution hard-coded into our collective bio-psychological desires and behaviors

Feminization in this respect is the ultimate form of penis envy.

9 Likes 3 Shares

Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 2:07pm On Sep 21, 2020

“ Everything a man experiences, every social conditioning he receives from the earliest age, every accepted social norm and every expectation of him to qualify as the definition of a mature adult Man in contemporary society is designed to serve a female imperative.

“ The world is filled with guys forever trying to catch up, control the frame and be the Man they should’ve been long before they entered an LTR.

11 Likes 3 Shares

Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 2:04pm On Sep 21, 2020*

“ Gentlemen, as I’m fond of saying, women will fvck. They may not fvck you, they may not fvck me, but they will fvck someone.

“ Overtly relating this to a guy entirely defeats his credibility as a genuinely dominant male. The guy she wants to Bleep is dominant because that’s ‘the way he is’ instead of who she had to tell him to be. Observing the process will change it. This is the root function of every shit test ever devised by a woman. If masculinity has to be explained to a man, he’s not the man for her.

10 Likes 4 Shares

Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 2:00pm On Sep 21, 2020

Never, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover.

“ Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait."

22 Likes 5 Shares

Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 1:59pm On Sep 21, 2020

“ A truly powerful Man jealously guards his most precious resources; his independence and his ability to maneuver. In other words his options and his ability to exercise them."

“ If you’re at all familiar with Charles Bukowski, you’ll know he was one of the last true son’s of b1tches – the unapologetic epitome of gloriously arrogant self-concern and masculine independence. For what he lacked in polish he made up for in talent and a brutal honesty that could never be acknowledged in the feminine centric social order of today. In the mid 60’s he was a feral, instinctually Red Pill
"

9 Likes 3 Shares

Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 1:57pm On Sep 21, 2020*

Nothing is more threatening yet simultaneously attractive to a woman than a man who is aware of his own value to women.

16 Likes 3 Shares

Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 1:40pm On Sep 21, 2020

“ Great politicians, military leaders, businessmen, salesmen to be sure, and of course master PUAs all use covert communications to achieve their goals.

“ People resort to denial when recognizing that the truth would destroy something they hold dear.

16 Likes 3 Shares

Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 1:33pm On Sep 21, 2020

This is the single greatest failing of average frustrated chumps: they vomit out everything about themselves, divulging the full truth of themselves to women in the mistaken belief that women desire that truth as a basis for qualifying for their intimacy or enduring commitment. Learn this now: Women NEVER want full disclosure.

@after4, read the above well.

17 Likes 3 Shares

Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 1:28pm On Sep 21, 2020

“ Women are human beings with the same basic motivations that men are subject to with some greater or lesser variation in their reasoning and methodologies.

“ woman is crazy, she’s crazy like a fox; she’s crazy with a reason. Women are every bit as calculating as men, in fact more so I’d argue because they have the mystique to hide a multitude of sins behind.

9 Likes 4 Shares

Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 1:25pm On Sep 21, 2020

Nothing is more self-satisfying for a woman than to think she’s figured a Man out based solely on her mythical feminine intuition (i.e. imagination).

Everything a woman does on a daily basis is colored by competition anxiety.

10 Likes 4 Shares

Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 1:21pm On Sep 21, 2020

“ Game driven emancipation from the control that fem-centrism has maintained for so long. Make no mistake, the Feminine Imperative needs men to be necessitous of it, and it will always be hostile to the Men attempting to free other men from that necessity. In this respect, any Game, even the co-opted Game the imperative will use itself, is by definition sexist. Anything that may benefit Men, even when it associatively benefits women, is sexist. Freeing men from the Matrix, breaking their conditioning and encouraging them to re-imagine themselves and their personalities for their own betterment is, by feminine definition, sexist. In girl-world, encouraging men to be better Men is sexist.

9 Likes 4 Shares

Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 1:20pm On Sep 21, 2020

“ When a person internalizes a mental schema so thoroughly, and has become conditioned to it for so long, it becomes an integral part of their personality. So to attack the belief is to, literally, attack the person. This is why we see such a violent reaction to people’s political, religious, inter-social/inter-sexual, inter-gender, etc. expressions of belief – they perceive it as a personal attack, even when presented with irrefutable, empirical evidence that challenges the veracity of those beliefs.

7 Likes 4 Shares

Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 1:19pm On Sep 21, 2020

“ The girl who bangs the hot guy at the foam party in Cancun on Spring Break within 5 minutes of meeting him is the same girl who wants you to believe that they’ll only Bleep one guy at a time and then after commitment.

“ Humility is an admirable quality too, don’t get me wrong, but humility is only genuine when you’re confident of your own abilities.

12 Likes 4 Shares

Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 1:16pm On Sep 21, 2020

How do we know she’s a strong woman? The first cue is she communicates in an overt, information centered, masculine manner. She communicates like a man.

“ Covert communication frustrates us every bit as much as overt communication frustrates women. Our language has no art to it for them, that’s why we seem dumb or simple at best to women.

“ We filter for information to work from, not the subtle details that make communication enjoyable for women.

8 Likes 4 Shares

Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 1:05pm On Sep 21, 2020*

“ Women enjoy the communication more than the information being transferred.

“ Ask a woman to name the most attractive female actress they can think of. Odds are it will be a woman (who as a guy you’d never think of)

4 Likes 2 Shares

Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 12:55pm On Sep 21, 2020*

“ The Cardinal Rule of Relationships In any relationship, the person with the most power is the one who needs the other the least.

“ Women always have the prerogative to change their minds. Men must be resolute. Proactive and Reactive Pseudo-Friendship Rejections: LJBF rejections – “I already have a boyfriend” (boyfriend disclaimers) or “I’m not interested in a relationship right now” rejections.

13 Likes 3 Shares

Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 12:53pm On Sep 21, 2020*

“ women are rewarded and reinforced by society for being elusive and, dare I say, seemingly irrational.

“ Secondly, women’s sexual value decreases as they age, meaning there is no guarantee that your beautiful, vivacious, 27 year old bride will remain so at 37.

15 Likes 3 Shares

Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 12:51pm On Sep 21, 2020*

Guys have a hard time accepting the amorality of women’s inborn capacity to bond with their own captors as a psycho-socially adaptive survival trait, and how this evolved into women’s pronounced facility with which they can ‘get over’ former lovers so much faster than men seem to be capable of. Women don’t like me detailing this phenomenon.

“ of women’s inborn capacity to bond with their own captors as a psycho-socially adaptive survival trait, and how this evolved into women’s pronounced facility with which they can ‘get over’ former lovers so much faster than men seem to be capable of. Women don’t like me detailing this phenomenon for obvious reasons, but I think men dislike the notion of their easy ‘disposability’ because of that same inconsistency in gender concepts of love.

4 Likes 3 Shares

Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 12:47pm On Sep 21, 2020*

“ It’s the man who remains in touch with his masculine side, the guy who, despite all of pop-culture denigrating and ridiculing his gender and the very aspects that make it a necessary, positive strength of human society, will endure and steadfastly resist the influences that want to turn it into something it was never intended; it’s this guy and his confidence that women all over the world find irresistible.

“ He embodies the masculine arousal that their feminine has been seeking and they can’t explain it. This is the ultimate meta-shit test in sexual selection.

7 Likes 3 Shares

Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 12:46pm On Sep 21, 2020*

“ When women employ gossip it comes natural since it is an emotional form of communication (men have a far lower tendency to use gossip), but the purpose of it is meant to disqualify a potential sexual competitor.
"

7 Likes 3 Shares

Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 12:44pm On Sep 21, 2020*

“ Commenter Peregrine John summed it up: We want to relax. We want to be open and honest. We want to have a safe haven in which struggle has no place, where we gain strength and rest instead of having it pulled from us. We want to stop being on guard all the time, and have a chance to simply be with someone who can understand our basic humanity without begrudging it. To stop fighting, to stop playing the game, just for a while. We want to, so badly. If we do, we soon are no longer able to.

“ At that point they come full circle and understand that the conceptual love they’d hoped they could return to (or could be) with their mother doesn’t exist in the woman he’s ‘in love’ with, and ultimately, never really existed between he and his mother from his infancy to adulthood.

5 Likes 4 Shares

Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 12:34pm On Sep 21, 2020

“ The guy with the capacity to call a woman’s bluff with a confidence that implies she is to be worthy of him rather than the other way around is the Man to be competed for.

“ Women despise a man who needs to be told to be dominant, told to be confident, told to be anything they have on their list of prerequisites for their intimacy.

—Rollo Tomassi

14 Likes 4 Shares

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 ... 75 76 77 78 79 80 81 82 83 (of 112 pages)