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 Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 7:25pm On Sep 20, 2020*. Modified: 10:44am On Sep 21, 2020 |
"It does not profit a man to marry. For what is a woman but an enemy of friendship, an inescapable punishment, a necessary evil, a natural temptation, a domestic danger, delectable mischief, a fault in nature, painted with beautiful colors?" "God maintained the order of each sex by dividing the business of life into two parts, and assigned the more necessary and beneficial aspects to the man and the less important, inferior matter to the woman." — Homily 9 on First Timothy "I don’t see what sort of help woman was created to provide man with, if one excludes procreation. If woman is not given to man for help in bearing children, for what help could she be? To till the earth together? If help were needed for that, man would have been a better help for man. The same goes for comfort in solitude. How much more pleasure is it for life and conversation when two friends live together than when a man and a woman cohabitate?" — De Genesi ad literam (The Literal Meaning of Genesis) 9.5.9 10 Likes 4 Shares |
| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 7:18pm On Sep 20, 2020*. Modified: 10:46am On Sep 21, 2020 |
Call to mind all the regulations respecting women by which our ancestors curbed their licence and made them obedient to their husbands, and yet in spite of all those restrictions you can scarcely hold them in ... From the moment that they become your fellows (equals) they will become your masters. —Livy, The Early History of Rome 9 Likes 5 Shares |
| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 7:14pm On Sep 20, 2020*. Modified: 10:43am On Sep 21, 2020 |
More from the bible (to me the bible contains Redpill truths) "But I want you to realize that the head of every man is Christ, and the head of the woman is man, and the head of Christ is God." —1 Corinthians 11:3 "A woman should learn in quietness and full submission. —1 Timothy 2:11 "I do not permit a woman to teach or to assume authority over a man; she must be quiet. —1 Timothy 2:12 "And Adam was not the one deceived; it was the woman who was deceived and became a sinner. —1 Timothy 2:14 "I also want the women to dress modestly, with decency and propriety, adorning themselves, not with elaborate hairstyles or gold or pearls or expensive clothes". —1 Timothy 2:9 "Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good." —Titus 2:3 11 Likes 4 Shares |
| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 7:01pm On Sep 20, 2020*. Modified: 10:12pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
Women are accustomed to creep into dark places, and when dragged out into the light they will exert their utmost powers of resistance ... therefore, as I said before, in most places they will not endure to have the truth spoken without raising a tremendous outcry. —Plato, Laws VI There's no such thing as picking out the best woman: it's only a question of comparative badness. (Nam optuma nulla potest eligi; Alia alia pejor est.) —Plautus, Aulularia 8 Likes 3 Shares |
| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 6:59pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
"By all means, marry. If you get a good wife, you will be happy. If you get a bad one, you will be a philosopher." [Choir of] Men: There is no beast, no rush of fire, like woman so untamed. She calmly goes her way where even panthers would be shamed. —Aristophanes, Lysistrata, Jack Lindsay translation, 1926 Woman is adept at getting money for herself and will not easily let herself be deceived; she understands deceit too well herself. —Aristophanes, Ecclesiazusae 11 Likes 4 Shares |
| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 6:57pm On Sep 20, 2020*. Modified: 10:09pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
"And another thing will I tell thee, and do thou lay it to heart: in secret and not openly do thou bring thy ship to the shore of thy dear native land; for no longer is there faith in women." — Homer. The Odyssey with an English Translation by A.T. Murray, PH.D. in two volumes, Book XI. A firm bosom; sparkling eyes; a small mouth [...] are characteristics of a woman which are always praised. But when we neglect the surface we find that the internal characteristics corresponding to these are hardness of heart, shifty eyes, a deceitful face, insecurity and cunning. When we bear in mind both the superficial and inward characteristics of a woman, we must declare that the one who should possess them can be dear only to the beasts of the field. —The Vairagya Sataka 9 Likes 4 Shares |
| Romance › Re: Help A Girl When She Is In Trouble (meme) by Dpsychologist: 6:46pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
This made my day |
| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 5:55pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
Happy sunday redpillers Since its sunday Lemme post this quotes on women from the bible: While I was still searching but not finding—I found one upright man among a thousand, but not one upright woman among them all. —Ecclesiastes 7:28 For the lips of the adulterous woman drip honey,and her speech is smoother than oil;but in the end she is bitter as gall,sharp as a double-edged sword. Her feet go down to death;her steps lead straight to the grave. —Proverbs 5:3-5 For a prostitute can be had for a loaf of bread, but another man’s wife preys on your very life. —Proverbs 6:21 Better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging wife. —Proverbs 21:19 Youths oppress my people, women rule over them. My people, your guides lead you astray; they turn you from the path. —Isaiah 3:12 In that day seven women will take hold of one man and say, “We will eat our own food and provide our own clothes;only let us be called by your name. Take away our disgrace! —Isaiah 4:1 21 Likes 4 Shares |
| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 5:48pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
For the wages of a simp is self-destruction, but the gift of Redpill is emancipation —Dpsychologist 14 Likes 2 Shares |
| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 5:46pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
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| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 5:43pm On Sep 20, 2020*. Modified: 7:18pm On Sep 27, 2020 |
45.) TIMELESS QUOTES ON WOMEN Those who don't learn from history are doomed to repeat them. What man learn from history is that man don't learn from history That is why books are indispensible, they make you learn what happened years ago. I will be dropping timeless quotes on nature of women and the relations between the sexes from various eminent figures throughout history: political figures, sages, philosophers, scientists, artists, and writers. These quotes starts from page 12-19 Feel free to add yours. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
| Romance › Re: The Women Are Wonderful Myth by Dpsychologist(op): 4:24pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
tobechi74:Lemme see what i can do |
| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 4:23pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
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| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 12:51pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
softguy1:Lol i will love to see that  However, what i mean is not for you to lecture me but based on what you have read here. What have you learnt, just say it in short sentence or in form of a quote. The Next, topic we will be discussing is TIMELESS QUOTES ON WOMEN. That is why i will like as many as possible to contribute. |
| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 11:17pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
softguy1:Rather what do you have for us. I can also learn from you |
| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 11:09pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
A teacher can learn from a student also. 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 11:08pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
At this point in time i will like to urge my fellow red pillers, those who are reading this incognito, infact everyone to input and share their redpill knowledge. I believe no man is an island of knowledge as such your contributions are welcomes 11 Likes 2 Shares |
| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 11:05pm On Sep 19, 2020*. Modified: 12:53pm On Sep 20, 2020 |
Kalatium:One of the reasons i use the red ink is so that one will know specifically when i am dishing out the red pill (Noting all my teachings) even if the thread is being derailed. 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dpsychologist: 10:59pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
“In a time of universal deceit – telling the truth is a revolutionary act.” – George Orwell. As i will always say on my thread. The Redpill is a plethora of truths. It may be bitter to taste and hard to swallow but it emancipates. © Dpsychologist Au revoir 27 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 10:40pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
Redpill aftereffects The five stages of grief is an apt model for describing awakening to the red pill. Men do not always go through all the 5 stages, on occasion they will enter directly into the anger stage, often as a result of coming face to face with red pill truths in their lives. Often the result of such manifests either in the form of depression, bargaining or anger, that serves to jolt the person from their social conditioning. There are many different journeys that can be taken to red pill acceptance, ranging from the divorce after 30 years of marriage, to eventful and emotionally frustrating relationship with a selFish lady and an eventual hurtful breakup or being cheated upon. Anger is the force that will drive through the barriers of bargaining, depression and to the goal of acceptance. A point in which most of the work still is a head of him as he starts rebuilding himself and his mind to embrace the new philosophy. Perhaps the greatest red herring in this race will be the belief that without the blue pill utopia his life will be a series of meaningless, but sexually fulfilling experiences with a variety of women. Where he may never become a father, or partner and otherwise his dreams of the house and cars will have to be left behind. This is not the case, in fact the red pill perspective is what facilitates this in reality, rather than purely as an illusion. 6 Likes 5 Shares |
| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 10:26pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
¶ Acceptance The acceptance of the red pill is a constant decision that must be affirmed, it is very easy to slip back into comfortable patterns. As many who have gone on diets or started exercise programs know, it takes much longer to build a habit than to for it to break down. Accepting the red pill means that the man accepts that he will always be expected to be the caretaker and enabler of women, at his own expense. The rejection of this unstated foundation of civilization will often result in social backlash. A man who elects to live for his own betterment, rather than that of women and his social group may suffer large amounts of scorn and derision. One must bear in mind that most people are heavily invested in blue pill conditioning, especially the men who are most invested in it and the women who rely most heavily on it. The Western Romantic narrative is one of fairly recent invention, yet it has gained a remarkable amount of traction in few years. 8 Likes 5 Shares |
| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 10:22pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
¶ Depression Depression hits predictably and comes from the fact that “ unplugging ” requires that all former fantasies must be discarded as just that. Being a red pill man, in no way means that a wife or a long-term relationship must be rejected, however it means in fact an increased performance burden rather than a lesser one. Once locked in a long-term relationship, especially one where the parties are living with each other, means constantly having to be aware of shit tests and maintaining an alpha frame. Furthermore, it means that the man also must accept the performance burden increase caused by now being the sole accountable party for both himself and his partner. For a man who was sold the fantasy of a relationship without the performance burden as the ultimate reward from the world for his good behavior, the reality of the situation is often unexpected. It is not uncommon for the man to regress into the bargaining stages, and intermittent visits to anger. At this point, the awakening appears more like staring into an abyss as one faces down the monster, and reevaluates every aspect of one’s philosophy. 8 Likes 5 Shares |
| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 10:16pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
¶ Bargaining The bargaining stage is perhaps the most interesting, this is the realm of the purple pill, where fully aware of the depths of red pill philosophy, the man refuses to let go of the fantasy offered by the blue pill. Outlining that the woman he has found to be his perfect soul-mate is actually the exception that proves the rule, or for some reason is different from other women. The fact that this is classic idealization and a trait of blue pill thinking appears to escape notice, through various bias. The bargaining stage is a challenge, as the dream of the blue pill is deeply ingrained in most men as is the fantasy that is spoon-fed to most throughout their childhood. 9 Likes 5 Shares |
| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 10:11pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
¶ Anger The second stage of being exposed to red pill philosophy is frequent anger. Some manifest anger at womanhood in general for the dual sexual strategy of “ Alpha Fvcks/Beta Bucks“, others at fathers for not “ raising them right“, or the world for not informing them. When a man is presented with evidence that most of the resources he spent towards getting laid, and much of the associated frustration when she just wanted to be friends after 11 dates with no sex, are because he triggered her provider instinct and thus she put off sex while deciding if she was ready to settle down. He becomes upset. Anger is a natural reaction, both at himself, at women and at the society that told him that he was doing the right thing for his goal, but that misled him. It was a case of the principal and the agent , where he was raised not to be someone’s one night stand, but the man his mother wanted his father to be. His social programming has been one that sets him up to realize the worst possible deal for himself, but the best one possible for the woman and the social group. In this manner, he may find himself experiencing feelings of being deceived, not only by the society without a face, but also by those in which he has the most trust. Perhaps the most sinister is the realization that much like the unknowing population of the Matrix, that were slowly being drained of bio-energy to power other creatures, the man within the blue pill framework is slowly being drained of his energy to enable and power the society to which he belongs. 12 Likes 5 Shares |
| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 9:59pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
softguy1:As far as it is not against what i am saying here. Permission is granted. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 9:57pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
Pstarogood0100:Thanks bro As for permission you were asking. Bro permission granted. In the first page i said questions and contributions are welcomed. You are allowed. |
| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 9:53pm On Sep 19, 2020*. Modified: 7:15pm On Sep 27, 2020 |
The Red Pill Aftereffects: 5 stages of grief An object in a vacuum remains in motion or remains inert unless acted upon by an external force— Isaac Newton The five stages of grief in many ways represent the journey that most men pass through before finally accepting the philosophy and being willing to make the substantial investment required to re-align their life with their desires. One has to put one’s old beliefs in a casket, and move on towards a new philosophy of life. However this 5 stages of grief does not only apply to Redpill philosophy but to every truth we encounter in life: ¶ Denial The first stage of red pill awakening is denial. Some of the cardinal truths of the red pill such as female hypergamy, solipsism, blame shifting, and the female penchant for manipulation and deception, are often what triggers the worst reactions when introducing a man to the red pill. The realization that if the red pill is true, then it follows that he was to blame for many of his issues, it has little to do with women, who are just acting out their social and biological programming in a predictable way. His respect for women will have to take a decline drastically as he has to stop putting them on a pedestal, and starts to view them in a more reality-oriented manner. He becomes unwilling to view the woman as an agent who is engaging in her natural programming, but will instead lambast the male giving him the info for acting in a non-honorable manner. In blue pill conditioning he is not made in a manner where they hold a woman accountable to the same level as a man, to do so would shatter his illusions of the feminine. The denial can be caused by many unconscious perspectives, from accepting that he is from nature worth nothing, and that his entire value to the world is a function of his accomplishments. That he must undertake grand demonstrations of worth, build value and earn what women are granted for merely existing. That no woman will ever love him as he dreams of being loved, and that they are in fact incapable of such love. The fact that his life, will be constant work and performance if he wants to realize his desires, and that everything he was told he could have only comes as a result of hard work. This is too much to take. 15 Likes 5 Shares |
| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 9:08pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
44.) RUDE AWAKENING OF THE RED PILL: “Being continuously angry will not help you improve yourself. For the sake of your own mental health, you have to look past the flaws of modern women by being extremely selective with which ones you’ll reward with relational commitment. Ultimately, you must employ RP strategies to hold frame and maintain dominance with women who do manage to make the grade.” Most of us were raised within the blue pill sphere of influence, our mothers raise us to be good husbands, which is a synonym for SIMP. We are raised on “ happily ever after ” from the first fairy-tales such as cinderalla. The blue pill fantasy is an intoxicating one, with assertions that for every man there is a woman who is his perfect mate, and she will find him. This woman will ensure that his life is according to what he has been told is the greatest experience a man can have in this world, a loving, doting wife and children. He will never lack sex again, as his perfect mate will fulfill his fantasies, and he will fulfill hers.(Remember, the soul mate myth) However, problem begins when an individual lives the majority of his life in the bluepill delusion, as such the redpill becomes a rude awakening. The reaction to red pill philosophy depends very much on both the sender and the receiver of information . ¶ Some men see the Red pill philosophy as helping them finally make sense of their troubles, and gives them a framework for fixing the problems they are experiencing. ¶ Others reject the philosophy and rides it off as misogyny, or fables. ¶ Some seek to adopt some principles, but reject others, collectively this group is referred to as “ Purple Pill “. ¶ Others turn MGTOW. MGTOW is Men going their own way and basically are guys who have swear off marriage or relationships with women entirely. ¶ Others rather blame their inability to get laid based on fixed characteristics like their looks, height, race, and the fact that women are increasingly empowered; and thus declare there is nothing that can be done. They don't belief in self-improvement and thereby giving up on getting women . This is the black pill. Many times the reaction to the philosophy is strongly correlated with the situation man is in when first presented with the red pill. Changing your core philosophy is akin to changing your core programming. Once you change a foundation belief, all your other beliefs starts to be examined. 15 Likes 6 Shares |
| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 7:21pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
Uniting the 3 traits A degree of narcissism is necessary for confidence, a degree of machiavellianism is necessary to navigate this transactional world and a degree of psychopathy is necessary to confront fears. It is only when the traits are in high amounts before they are considered dark triad. — Dpsychologist Due to the psychopathic element of the triad, a person cannot become “fully dark triad” as this element in particular appears to be something imbued either genetically or in the development stages of childhood brain formation. Dark triad individuals cannot be “fixed,” a dark triad individual will remain one for the entirety of their lives. Most of them don’t want to be fixed as they’re addicted to their own power and sense of self-importance.( This is the mistakes women make when they want to change him) They can only be emulated, you cannot “become one” but you can “become like one.” With training and study, one can demonstrate borderline dark triad qualities and that is much the purpose of the section of this thread. Summary: Dark triad individuals tend to pull people in with narcissism, control them with machiavellianism and then addict them with the emotional rollercoaster previously described. The final element of the triad complements machiavellianism quite brilliantly in how it aids in forming emotional addictions to the manipulator, that element is psychopathy. 8 Likes 5 Shares |
| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 7:05pm On Sep 19, 2020*. Modified: 7:52pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
How psychopathy is attractive Psychopathy is very closely linked with the Machiavellian component. This lack of ability to feel guilt or fear is a great source of the dark triads power. The sheer unpredictability and audaciousness of the psychopathic element is what addicts women to these individuals, the spontaneity and impulsivity is electric. It’s like crack to them. The constant highs and lows psychopathy generates is the drama that women crave for. Psychopathy is the delivery system of the Machiavellian core, the spontaneity, the audaciousness, the guile; it’s the creme da la creme in executing a tactical manoeuvre. How to emulate the psychopathic trait. Due to the magnetic nature of the psychopathic trait. It is perceived as a skill which can be used to navigate this unfair modern world but is medically defined as a mental disorder. You can mimic a psychopath with high degree of success, but neurologically you will not be one. You can use suppression and self-control to turn down your emotions either after performing an action, or prior to an action. However, you will still have to deal, introspectively, with the emotional consequences of your actions, something an actual dark triad individual does not. Hence your efforts will make you an imitation, not an actualisation of that which you lust to become. 8 Likes 4 Shares |
| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 5:58pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
PSYCHOPATHY : Psychopathy can simply be defined as callousness and low empathy. It refers to not caring about what society thinks of you and only thinking about what will benefit yourself. Psychopathy defined in relation to the dark triad is the inherent ability for the dark triad individual to show no aversion for immoral or harmful behaviour, predominantly because they feel no empathy, guilt or remorse when doing what is considered bad by society . Psychopathy is how your brain connects your behavioural choices to your sense of guilt/remorse. These are essentially the body’s way of morally provoking you to cease immoral activity. As such they are sexually promiscuous, incapable of Love, do what ever they want however they want and whenever they want. 14 Likes 5 Shares |
| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 5:57pm On Sep 19, 2020 |
Degrezhaa:Wow. I am happy you finally found your answer here. As i will always say. The Redpill is an encomium of truths. It is bitter to taste and hard to swallow but it emancipates. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
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